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Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by iamyemiakins(op): 11:36am On Mar 27, 2021
I'm an introvert but haven't dated one.

Have you?


Checkout some of the replies from the post I made on Facebook about this topic below.

Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by iamyemiakins(op):
Someone even said the female introverts he has dated hardly asked for money and even if they're hungry they won't tell you.

That's serious! grin

We are always misunderstood, our partners always feel like we are not really in love with them.

Introverts are reserved, they think deeply before taking any action, we are very calculative which some people can see as being boring.

PM me to add you to the Introverts Lounge Whatsapp group wink
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Amotolongbo(f):
Many people are introvert cos they have low self esteem and not comfortable where they are. If they can get hold of the situation to raise their esteem, they exhibit features far more lively than some “so called extrovert”
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by chatinent: 11:53am On Mar 27, 2021
I'm introvert.


Bae’s introvert.


While together, we are extrovert.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by JentuPrinz(m): 11:58am On Mar 27, 2021
Date an introvert and u will av peace.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by JaneYave(f): 12:05pm On Mar 27, 2021
Fun to be with, you have lots of intellectual conversations. Get used to their moody times n give them space. They are very dedicated. Pls try not to bug them cos when the are unhappy, they lock up.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Afamsi:
Provided you dont take them for granted or try to suppress them, they are the most loving, loyal, committed and peaceful fellas.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 27, 2021
please is it true that female introverts don't request for money even if hunger wire them? wink


I'm introvert sha
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Jeon(f): 1:36pm On Mar 27, 2021
but the society see us weak.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by haybhi1(m): 1:42pm On Mar 27, 2021
JaneYave:
Fun to be with, you have lots of intellectual conversations. Get used to their moody times n give them space. They are very dedicated. Pls try not to bug them cos when the are unhappy, they lock up.
Like you study us... Lol
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Oturatetuala(m): 2:37pm On Mar 27, 2021
JaneYave:
Fun to be with, you have lots of intellectual conversations. Get used to their moody times n give them space. They are very dedicated. Pls try not to bug them cos when the are unhappy, they lock up.
So true
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Emu4u2c: 3:04pm On Mar 27, 2021
I have actually had to change base twice cause they thought I was weird but I keep to myself to avoid unnecessary drama
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Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Biyonce(f): 3:15pm On Mar 27, 2021
They're boring asf
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by spice123(m):
Amotolongbo:
Many people are introvert cos they are they low self esteem and not comfortable where they are. If they can get hold of the situation to raise their esteem, they exhibit features far more lively than some “so called extrovert”
I totally disagree with that.
Introverts are critical thinkers, when they speak, they speak words of wisdom. They hardly find themselves in trouble. They are referred to as 'the most fearless people' you can never know their mind. Unlike extroverts that talk too much and most times, out of proportion. They keep late nights that put them in trouble. Do unnecessary grab gra but come out and show it, fear no go gree them
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by spice123(m): 3:48pm On Mar 27, 2021
JaneYave:
Fun to be with, you have lots of intellectual conversations. Get used to their moody times n give them space. They are very dedicated. Pls try not to bug them cos when the are unhappy, they lock up.
God bless you.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by mosdii(m): 4:20pm On Mar 27, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by IlufoyeOlamife(m): 4:23pm On Mar 27, 2021
JentuPrinz:
Date an introvert and u will av peace.
what kind of peace are you talking about?
1). peace of mind
2). peace of the body
3). peace of soul
4.) peace of heart
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by IlufoyeOlamife(m): 4:24pm On Mar 27, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Not all sir
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Mayniaa: 5:19pm On Mar 27, 2021
IlufoyeOlamife:
what kind of peace are you talking about?
1). peace of mind
2). peace of the body
3). peace of soul
4.) peace of heart
Introverts are generally peaceful people, oya use sense answer your question
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 27, 2021
JentuPrinz:
Date an introvert and u will av peace.
E get why o grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 27, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Many people are introvert cos they are they low self esteem and not comfortable where they are. If they can get hold of the situation to raise their esteem, they exhibit features far more lively than some “so called extrovert”
It's a bit inaccurate to assume that introverted adults suffer from low self-esteem. If anything, the opposite could be the case.

I am an introvert and I can tell you it's not because of any esteem-related issue. I just like my space, doing things my way and at my pace and being around many people limits that, not to mention being required to have conversations about stuff I find rather uninteresting.

Secondly, I hate drama and will go to great lengths to avoid it. I am not built for endurance, so protecting my peace of mind is a full-time job for me. If that means becoming an introvert, then so be it.

Introverts may come off as snobbish, aloof, moody, and in some cases people who lack self-esteem, but in reality they are just individuals who yearn for tranquility. We're protective of our boundaries.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by BigDawsNet: 7:59pm On Mar 27, 2021
Absolutely

One of the best relationship experience ever
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 8:18pm On Mar 27, 2021
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Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 27, 2021
Biyonce:
They're boring asf
They open up to people they actually like. And only they get to experience the introvert's fun side (everyone has a wild side by the way).
If you talk too much in their presence and you find them giving you that blank, boring look it's probably because they think;
a) You're shallow, or
b) You're trying too hard, or
c) You're uninteresting (Yeah. Believe it or not, they also detect boring people), or
d) You and him/her have nothing in common so they'd rather keep mum than feign interest.

Take it from this introvert.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by kingvomlotus12: 8:36pm On Mar 27, 2021
Cakhama:
They open up to people they actually like. And only they get to experience the introvert's fun side (everyone has a wild side by the way).
If you talk too much in their presence and you find them giving you that blank, boring look it's probably because they think;
a) You're shallow, or
b) You're trying too hard, or
c) You're uninteresting (Yeah. Believe it or not, they also detect boring people), or
d) You and him/her have nothing in common so they'd rather keep mum than feign interest.

Take it from this introvert.
lol this is me
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by mboii(m): 8:41pm On Mar 27, 2021
kingvomlotus12:
lol this is me
Why's it like that?
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by general111(m): 8:41pm On Mar 27, 2021
Cakhama:
It's a bit inaccurate to assume that introverted adults suffer from low self-esteem. If anything, the opposite could be the case.

I am an introvert and I can tell you it's not because of any esteem-related issue. I just like my space, doing things my way and at my pace and being around many people limits that, not to mention being required to have conversations about stuff I find rather uninteresting.

Secondly, I hate drama and will go to great lengths to avoid it. I am not built for endurance, so protecting my peace of mind is a full-time job for me. If that means becoming an introvert, then so be it.

Introverts may come off as snobbish, aloof, moody, and in some cases people who lack self-esteem, but in reality they are just individuals who yearn for tranquility. We're protective of our boundaries.
this is the purest definition of an introvert.
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by general111(m): 8:42pm On Mar 27, 2021
Cakhama:
They open up to people they actually like. And only they get to experience the introvert's fun side (everyone has a wild side by the way).
If you talk too much in their presence and you find them giving you that blank, boring look it's probably because they think;
a) You're shallow, or
b) You're trying too hard, or
c) You're uninteresting (Yeah. Believe it or not, they also detect boring people), or
d) You and him/her have nothing in common so they'd rather keep mum than feign interest.

Take it from this introvert.
kai..i love this..
And i meet a lot of shallow people eh
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by CsRockefeller(m): 8:42pm On Mar 27, 2021
kiss
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 27, 2021
Cakhama:
They open up to people they actually like. And only they get to experience the introvert's fun side (everyone has a wild side by the way).
If you talk too much in their presence and you find them giving you that blank, boring look it's probably because they think;
a) You're shallow, or
b) You're trying too hard, or
c) You're uninteresting (Yeah. Believe it or not, they also detect boring people), or
d) You and him/her have nothing in common so they'd rather keep mum than feign interest.

Take it from this introvert.
Yeah,... you’re right
Re: Have You Ever Dated An Introvert? Share Your Experience(s) by jelel6: 9:30pm On Mar 27, 2021
Amotolongbo:
Many people are introvert cos they have low self esteem and not comfortable where they are. If they can get hold of the situation to raise their esteem, they exhibit features far more lively than some “so called extrovert”
Nope, more like many introverts have discovered most people are just bland, basic and very ordinary. Instead of having brain hemorrhaging conversations with such people, they prefer to keep their thoughts for themselves.

But when they do see that person who's reflective, self-conscious, and regard every word spoken as a part of their personalities, then they are who they are - which is not any form of extroverts.
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