My pal has been married for 6yrs to this wonderful woman.but the problem is she allows their kids of 5(girl) and 3(boy) see her nudity.she does not cover up when the kids are present and he feels it is not proper,more so for the male child.he doesn't want his kids to grow up with the the mentality that seeing an adult naked is a normal thing.he never allows the kids see him naked.he didnt mind when they were in courtship and before the kids were born.he has complained bitterly to his wife so see can stop but she has refused.what advice can I give to him.

He should have heart to heart talk with his wife and educate her on the dangers of exposing the kids to such

What's the point? Just yesterday I had to block someone on WhatsApp for sending me a video of three Nigerian kids under 10 performing athreesome. There's almost no way to protect kids these days unless you want them homeschooled.

This is serious and not proper for the kids. He should issue her a warning letter followed by a one month suspension in her father's house. If after she returns and doesn't turn a new leaf ... he should then seize all her cloths, including undies, since she loves nudity ... let it be holistic & in totality, both in private & in public.

benson81:
My pal has been married for 6yrs to this wonderful woman.but the problem is she allows their kids of 5(girl) and 3(boy) see her nudity.she does not cover up when the kids are present and he feels it is not proper,more so for the male child.he doesn't want his kids to grow up with the the mentality that seeing an adult naked is a normal thing.he never allows the kids see him naked.he didnt mind when they were in courtship and before the kids were born.he has complained bitterly to his wife so see can stop but she has refused.what advice can I give to him.

I don't know why people see it as wrong.

Your Home for that matter, where you should all be freer than a bird.

Means she is free with both Him and the Kids.

I am sure when the Kids grow older ans she starts to sense thier conciousness, She'll naturally become more concerved.

Some Men are not even comfortable with bathing before an age mate. That's his palava, Abeg make free the madam joor,, He shouldn't force her to be like Him.

Does He think doing that will prevent them from going wayward? NEVER WILL, What he can just do is to educate and fortify them as a form of vacinating thier mind against what they'll eventually meet in the world.

Just like the guy below me said,
even without seeing the mothers nudity those children 'might' still grow up and become a big star in xvideo or pornhub and rake in millions to their mother..
Op dont forget that mia khalifa is worth more than $3million..

Is that bad? it all depends on home training.

Many kids were protected from this but in the aftermath became worse. What I'd Eve didn't eat the apple?

frostland:
He should have heart to heart talk with his wife and educate her on the dangers of exposing the kids to such

I told him same thing but he said she did not comply.The worse is her younger bro who is in his late teens also sees her nudity.when he complained she said that's the way they lived in their family.

The husband's feelings are valid because that is not proper for their children to see and is a form of child abuse. The same way she wouldn't allow their kids to see another adult's nakednes`s (I'm assuming she wouldn't but who knows?!) is the same way she shouldn't allow them to see hers. Some things are just inappropriate for children and she should know better/without being told, or at least take to correction.

What's bad in it. I saw my mother naked several time. My brother have daughters and they have seen him naked times without numbers. I walk naked when I'm home. There is nothing in it. I remember those day when we do travel home during festive seasons. My cousin (a lady) takes me with her to the stream, you know what? the people I bath with were all women ranging from age 1 to about 40. I saw a lot of women with various shapes and sizes bathing naked. Also, in boarding school we bathed in groups. In all of it I never had a girlfriend till I graduated from the university.

benson81:
I told him same thing but he said she did not comply.The worse is her younger bro who is in his late teens also sees her nudity.when he complained she said that's the way they lived in their family.

that's how we live in my family. Nothing evil in it

TempUser:
Is that bad? it all depends on home training.

Many kids were protected from this but in the aftermath became worse. What I'd Eve didn't eat the apple?

some families keep their children from knowing what they ought to know pretending that some day, miraculously the knowledge would just appear in the children heads. Some would tell their children that the name of their penis/vaginal is peepee, tortorlitor etc. Even sex education they would not want to get involved

incogni2o:


I don't know why people see it as wrong.

Your Home for that matter, where you should all be freer than a bird.

Means she is free with both Him and the Kids.

I am sure when the Kids grow older ans she starts to sense thier conciousness, She'll naturally become more concerved.

Some Men are not even comfortable with bathing before an age mate. That's his palava, Abeg make free the madam joor,, He shouldn't force her to be like Him.

Does He think doing that will prevent them from going wayward? NEVER WILL, What he can just do is to educate and fortify them as a form of vacinating thier mind against what they'll eventually meet in the world.

my thought exactly, if you are ashamed of someone seeing you naked, allow who is not. Let him not project his insecurity on her. After all she isn't doing it in public but in her home, which I am sure she wouldn't do when an outsider is around.

There are individuals and families who are comfortable with being nude and have become de-sensitized being naked and seeing naked people around them.

Rent a house for her to stay and walk naked if she likes

Can you be assertive in your home?

There is no right or wrong way of raising a child. As long as the laws of nature and the constitution are followed. Allow the woman be.. All these shielding children from this and that... Pikin wey go spoil go spoil and there is nothing anyone apart from the child and God can do about it.

This is a lie.

No woman would rejoice in letting her kids see her nudity nor would she refused her husband's request to stop such nonsense.

Why on earth do you people gain from such useless stories na?

AishaYesufu:

Your friend you is the cause of his problem. He has no moral right to stop an attitude that he consented to during his courtship days. As it is now, it is too late. Family of nudists

Are you high?

How does walking around nude during courtship prevent her from acting normal in front of her kids for fuqs sakes?

Can't you see how skewed your logic is?

usj:
that's how we live in my family. Nothing evil in it

You guys see one another's nudes?

That's some weird stuff

Draslo:
What's the point? Just yesterday I had to block someone on WhatsApp for sending me a video of three Nigerian kids under 10 performing athreesome. There's almost no way to protect kids these days unless you want them homeschooled.

This is very sick!!! Three kids under 10?

luminouz:
This is a lie.

No woman would rejoice in letting her kids see her nudity nor would she refused her husband's request to stop such nonsense.

Why on earth do you people gain from such useless stories na?

No woman? Abi mothers no dey follow their husbands and children go family nudist beaches whey dey abroad? Or some tribes here in Africa whey prefer the "fresh air"!

luminouz:

This is very sick!!! Three kids under 10?

IV seen that before.deleted it immediately

greenie77:


No woman? Abi mothers no dey follow their husbands and children go family nudist beaches whey dey abroad? Or some tribes here in Africa whey prefer the "fresh air"!

May be he is pretending not to see the responses here.

luminouz:


You guys see one another's nudes?

That's some weird stuff

well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

luminouz:

This is very sick!!! Three kids under 10?

Yes, my brother. They even set up a camera very professionally. Truly, I don't know what the future, say, 50-100 yers from now will look like. Immorality will probably become very normal and we would revert to our crude ways of doing before thinking.

usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

To ur greatest surprise

usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

Well, I can't say it's a family thing on my side because my parents and siblings wear clothes but I'm more like you now, I hadly wear anything since I live alone. It took a while before my gf got used to seeing me walk around the house naked.

I still think the wife should be more careful. Kids these days are so impressionable

greenie77:


No woman? Abi mothers no dey follow their husbands and children go family nudist beaches whey dey abroad? Or some tribes here in Africa whey prefer the "fresh air"!

Well, I grew up in a traditional setting and where I live now too,no one does the nudist stuff

I don't see anything there but if he is not comfortable with it, them he should keep talking to her.

He needs a lot of talk to make her change because some women like my wife and his wife don't wear clothes at home. It will be gradual so he needs patient but the truth is, I don't see anything wrong with it.