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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by 1F30M4(f): 3:27pm On Apr 09
Hmmm lemme understand you.. Is it that she wears skimpy dresses, clothes that reveal so much skin and the sorts? Orrr she actually moves around the house naked, like stark naked and does so every opportunity she gets except there are "guests" ofcourse? I know some couples love to bare it all whenever & however they deem fit, largely depends on the individuals though..

But stark naked around kids moreso children of this 21st century ahh, you do not even know half of what they know, half of what they hear random people say, before you even talk one dem don talk four, most of them care less about the sign language you communicate with them in public places.. Una dey try justify this thing sey pikin wey wan spoil go spoil afterall una follow dey where una mama & papa dem dey dey naked kinikan kinikan, even if oo I can tell it was an unconscious something lol abi dem dey intentionally call all of una plus una siblings, "oya oo my children comman sit down and watch me remove my clothes" orrr "all of you should comman see me naked oo"?? Shey dem dey talk dah wan ni? Oya lie noww undecided smh I no go talk those ones wey dey peep when dem papa & mama dey do kerewa for night, then for morning/afternoon dem go rush go tell their friends make dem do mummy & daddy style, as per game na Na true sey pikin wey go spoil go spoil but habaa is dat why you should be comfortably naked around (your) kids, o wrong nau..

It is child abuse and in saner climes, it's not easily swept under the carpet.. Even those parents that are like "ees eet nor me dah gave birth to you, what are you covering? You're covering your body from me ke, c'monnn remove dah hand".. As for your friend's wife, I hope she keeps the same energy when people (be it her children school authorities, family acquaintances or whoever) calls her attention to it & the potential damage her actions may cause.. I sure know she won't like to see her ass dragged for child abuse sometime in future.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by ahnie(f): 3:36pm On Apr 09
I am so guilty of this act....I bathe with both my kids,walk around the house naked as in pant and bra, boxers and braless...most times completely naked...lolz

Most times my kids yell at me to cover up and hid their faces...my husband don talk tire.
but sha I am making conscious efforts to clad up lately but it's not easy....but I still dey try Sha to stop it.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by cassidy1996(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09
this is the same issue I have with my wife, am tired of complaining.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by benson81(m): 4:55pm On Apr 09
Richy4:
SO Op, how many room were they occupying?....The Kids, do they have their own rooms? or are they sharing it with their parent?
They occupy a two bedroom apartment.with one room for the kids.but he says it's not only in the room but in the sitting room as well.according to him she could come out from the shower and move straight to the sitting room nude.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by benson81(m): 4:58pm On Apr 09
well I'm learning here. there are many ppl like my friend's wife.he is infact on nairaland.i go jeje tell am to come to this section and read replies for himself.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Ishilove: 5:04pm On Apr 09
benson81:
I told him same thing but he said she did not comply.The worse is her younger bro who is in his late teens also sees her nudity.when he complained she said that's the way they lived in their family.
This is her upbringing and there is nothing you can do about it except accept and live with.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Karleb(m): 5:22pm On Apr 09
frostland:
He should have heart to heart talk with his wife and educate her on the dangers of exposing the kids to such

You people should stop this "heart to heart" talk advice abeg. It's annoying. angry

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:03pm On Apr 09
greenie77:
There are individuals and families who are comfortable with being nude and have become de-sensitized being naked and seeing naked people around them.
The more reason I don't go to people's house is cos I can't feel comfortable where I have to hide and change clothes, where I can't seat naked in the palour or seat naked do my house cleaning in pants. Hiding to change is something we don't know I'm my family.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:06pm On Apr 09
cassidy1996:
this is the same issue I have with my wife, am tired of complaining.
There's no need complaining. Let her enjoy her peace until she has a reason not to. Most times we don't even know such people don't even know they are naked

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:12pm On Apr 09
If you greo up not hiding your unclothedness, in a house where you see alot of naked people, unclothedness won't make you feel uneasy. The more reason I don't go to people's houses is because I don't want where I will go and be hiding to wear Clothes. A place where you have to dress up after bathing and even dress up while inside the room. In my house, nobody even notice that I'm naked anymore.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by frostland(m): 8:36pm On Apr 09
Karleb:


You people should stop this "heart to heart" talk advice abeg. It's annoying. angry
are u saying he should beat her or send her back to her parent
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by charly20(m): 8:47pm On Apr 09
Nudity is not the problem but the mentality attached to it.

The OP's mentality may be the one that sees nudity as a direct expression of sexual interest. The old cultural practices didn't completely involve complete dress up but they were fine infact certain tribes still practice them and they are fine.

Just give your kids proper sex education and the understanding that nudity does not equate to sexual interest and they will be fine (I believe).

Personally, I don't like hiding to dress (when I want to dress though) and the females in my house have complained but e no concern me and they've come to terms with it.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Karleb(m): 8:50pm On Apr 09
frostland:
are u saying he should beat her or send her back to her parent

How in the devil's seven hells did you infer that from my post?

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by thoollz: 9:05pm On Apr 09
It's very comfortable yanking off your clothes, but it should be in your personal space, na why dem call am private parts. Just because of comfort, all your family members have seen everything if possible self they'll see your internal organs. If your kids will still spoil, don't be the one to instigate it.

No wonder the world is now perverse.

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Heathrow44: 9:13pm On Apr 09
MISSCONGENIALITY:
If you greo up not hiding your unclothedness, in a house where you see alot of naked people, unclothedness won't make you feel uneasy. The more reason I don't go to people's houses is because I don't want where I will go and be hiding to wear Clothes. A place where you have to dress up after bathing and even dress up while inside the room. In my house, nobody even notice that I'm naked anymore.


Really u walk about in ur house naked? Is not good I know u re a mother and all that but is not?
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:17pm On Apr 09
Heathrow44:



Really u walk about in ur house naked? Is not good I know u re a mother and all that but is not?
I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Liposure: 9:35pm On Apr 09
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?
According to some schools of thought, its healthy
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Heathrow44: 9:35pm On Apr 09
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?


Shey u dey use me catch cruise? Fine bobo like u, sorry make I ask u, cos Idk if u go talk true give me, how old are u?
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:38pm On Apr 09
Heathrow44:



Shey u dey use me catch cruise? Fine bobo like u, sorry make I ask u, cos Idk if u go talk true give me, how old are u?
I'm 28. So you see I'm no baby either and yet I'm not a nother

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by 1Sharon(f): 9:39pm On Apr 09
greenie77:


No woman? shocked Abi mothers no dey follow their husbands and children go family nudist beaches whey dey abroad? Or some tribes here in Africa whey prefer the "fresh air"! cheesy cheesy cheesy

Nudist beach is only for adults lol
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by 1Sharon(f): 9:40pm On Apr 09
usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

grin grin. What did you expect them to do?
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:40pm On Apr 09
Liposure:
According to some schools of thought, its healthy
According my own school of thought, it healthy+enjoyment cheesy cheesy
I dey use because I no want wear clothes person go come knock for my gate I no go answer I'd I'm the only one at home.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Twelfthman: 9:58pm On Apr 09
Kids performing party? Really? You must be joking!


Draslo:
What's the point? Just yesterday I had to block someone on WhatsApp for sending me a video of three Nigerian kids under 10 performing athreesome. There's almost no way to protect kids these days unless you want them homeschooled.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Heathrow44: 9:59pm On Apr 09
[quote author=MISSCONGENIALITY post=100650519]I'm 28. So you see I'm no baby either and yet I'm not a nother[/quote


Girl ur so fine! Hook me on d neck with that ur tailor measuring tape, carry me dey go, shey e dey enter body oo, Le le lo!(Fireboy) Redpill extremists would soon over run this thread grin grin grin
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Heathrow44: 10:01pm On Apr 09
Hmm, naked people everywhere on this thread!
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:02pm On Apr 09
[quote author=Heathrow44 post=100651165][/quote] LOL.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by Heathrow44: 10:16pm On Apr 09
MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL.


Is it only me that knows u were not laughing? Don't try it with me I'm an elderly person, wat I've experienced even when u children climb ur saclux paint bucket u would never see it!
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:19pm On Apr 09
usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

Okay, you're on a different level, though. cheesy I won't be comfortably naked around unfamiliar people.

I have a female neighbour who always comes knocking on my door for every single thing she wants to say. There was a day I just got tired of dressing up each time she knocked, so I let her come in.

I was lounging naked on the bed. Madam came in and was shocked... I noticed that she was literally looking at the ceiling. She didn't stay as long as she used to. grin cheesy grin grin

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Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:25pm On Apr 09
Heathrow44:



Is it only me that knows u were not laughing? Don't try it with me I'm an elderly person, wat I've experienced even when u children climb ur saclux paint bucket u would never see it!
Okay o.
Elder of all elders I salute you.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by SmellingAnus(m): 12:14am On Apr 10
although I wasn't rased this way but I have come to understand that different families have different ways of raising their kids ... I know a family where even the aunt can walk naked infront of her small nephew and it was normal to them ... even the mother of the small boy doesn't see it as a big deal... I Have also had another ex that bathes with her only son... I was surprised when I saw it myself... I didnt try to discourage her cos her background and motive for doing that may be very pure... while I on the hand don't even feel comfortable being naked infront of my fellow guys... I prefer to be naked infront of any woman I am dating than to be naked infront of my male cousins... Lol...
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by greenie77: 1:30am On Apr 10
1Sharon:


Nudist beach is only for adults lol

There are family nude beaches, feel free to Google.
Re: My Friend's Wife Allows Their Kids See Her Nudity. by benson81(m): 5:38am On Apr 10
Heathrow44:
Hmm, naked people everywhere on this thread!
I dey tell you a

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