Hmmm lemme understand you.. Is it that she wears skimpy dresses, clothes that reveal so much skin and the sorts? Orrr she actually moves around the house naked, like stark naked and does so every opportunity she gets except there are "guests" ofcourse? I know some couples love to bare it all whenever & however they deem fit, largely depends on the individuals though..

But stark naked around kids moreso children of this 21st century ahh, you do not even know half of what they know, half of what they hear random people say, before you even talk one dem don talk four, most of them care less about the sign language you communicate with them in public places.. Una dey try justify this thing sey pikin wey wan spoil go spoil afterall una follow dey where una mama & papa dem dey dey naked kinikan kinikan, even if oo I can tell it was an unconscious something lol abi dem dey intentionally call all of una plus una siblings, "oya oo my children comman sit down and watch me remove my clothes" orrr "all of you should comman see me naked oo"?? Shey dem dey talk dah wan ni? Oya lie noww smh I no go talk those ones wey dey peep when dem papa & mama dey do kerewa for night, then for morning/afternoon dem go rush go tell their friends make dem do mummy & daddy style, as per game na Na true sey pikin wey go spoil go spoil but habaa is dat why you should be comfortably naked around (your) kids, o wrong nau..

It is child abuse and in saner climes, it's not easily swept under the carpet.. Even those parents that are like "ees eet nor me dah gave birth to you, what are you covering? You're covering your body from me ke, c'monnn remove dah hand".. As for your friend's wife, I hope she keeps the same energy when people (be it her children school authorities, family acquaintances or whoever) calls her attention to it & the potential damage her actions may cause.. I sure know she won't like to see her ass dragged for child abuse sometime in future.

I am so guilty of this act....I bathe with both my kids,walk around the house naked as in pant and bra, boxers and braless...most times completely naked...lolz

Most times my kids yell at me to cover up and hid their faces...my husband don talk tire.
but sha I am making conscious efforts to clad up lately but it's not easy....but I still dey try Sha to stop it.

this is the same issue I have with my wife, am tired of complaining.

Richy4:
SO Op, how many room were they occupying?....The Kids, do they have their own rooms? or are they sharing it with their parent?

They occupy a two bedroom apartment.with one room for the kids.but he says it's not only in the room but in the sitting room as well.according to him she could come out from the shower and move straight to the sitting room nude.

well I'm learning here. there are many ppl like my friend's wife.he is infact on nairaland.i go jeje tell am to come to this section and read replies for himself.

benson81:
I told him same thing but he said she did not comply.The worse is her younger bro who is in his late teens also sees her nudity.when he complained she said that's the way they lived in their family.

This is her upbringing and there is nothing you can do about it except accept and live with.

frostland:
He should have heart to heart talk with his wife and educate her on the dangers of exposing the kids to such

You people should stop this "heart to heart" talk advice abeg. It's annoying.

greenie77:
There are individuals and families who are comfortable with being nude and have become de-sensitized being naked and seeing naked people around them.

The more reason I don't go to people's house is cos I can't feel comfortable where I have to hide and change clothes, where I can't seat naked in the palour or seat naked do my house cleaning in pants. Hiding to change is something we don't know I'm my family.

cassidy1996:
this is the same issue I have with my wife, am tired of complaining.

There's no need complaining. Let her enjoy her peace until she has a reason not to. Most times we don't even know such people don't even know they are naked

If you greo up not hiding your unclothedness, in a house where you see alot of naked people, unclothedness won't make you feel uneasy. The more reason I don't go to people's houses is because I don't want where I will go and be hiding to wear Clothes. A place where you have to dress up after bathing and even dress up while inside the room. In my house, nobody even notice that I'm naked anymore.

Karleb:


You people should stop this "heart to heart" talk advice abeg. It's annoying.

are u saying he should beat her or send her back to her parent

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frostland:
are u saying he should beat her or send her back to her parent

How in the devil's seven hells did you infer that from my post?

It's very comfortable yanking off your clothes, but it should be in your personal space, na why dem call am private parts. Just because of comfort, all your family members have seen everything if possible self they'll see your internal organs. If your kids will still spoil, don't be the one to instigate it.

No wonder the world is now perverse.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
If you greo up not hiding your unclothedness, in a house where you see alot of naked people, unclothedness won't make you feel uneasy. The more reason I don't go to people's houses is because I don't want where I will go and be hiding to wear Clothes. A place where you have to dress up after bathing and even dress up while inside the room. In my house, nobody even notice that I'm naked anymore.

Really u walk about in ur house naked? Is not good I know u re a mother and all that but is not?

Heathrow44:



Really u walk about in ur house naked? Is not good I know u re a mother and all that but is not?

I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?

According to some schools of thought, its healthy

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm not a mother. But what's wrong in being free in my house?

Shey u dey use me catch cruise? Fine bobo like u, sorry make I ask u, cos Idk if u go talk true give me, how old are u?

Heathrow44:



Shey u dey use me catch cruise? Fine bobo like u, sorry make I ask u, cos Idk if u go talk true give me, how old are u?

I'm 28. So you see I'm no baby either and yet I'm not a nother

greenie77:


No woman? Abi mothers no dey follow their husbands and children go family nudist beaches whey dey abroad? Or some tribes here in Africa whey prefer the "fresh air"!

Nudist beach is only for adults lol

usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

. What did you expect them to do?

Liposure:
According to some schools of thought, its healthy

According my own school of thought, it healthy+enjoyment
I dey use because I no want wear clothes person go come knock for my gate I no go answer I'd I'm the only one at home.

Kids performing party? Really? You must be joking!

Draslo:
What's the point? Just yesterday I had to block someone on WhatsApp for sending me a video of three Nigerian kids under 10 performing athreesome. There's almost no way to protect kids these days unless you want them homeschooled.

[quote author=MISSCONGENIALITY post=100650519]I'm 28. So you see I'm no baby either and yet I'm not a nother[/quote


Girl ur so fine! Hook me on d neck with that ur tailor measuring tape, carry me dey go, shey e dey enter body oo, Le le lo!(Fireboy) Redpill extremists would soon over run this thread

Hmm, naked people everywhere on this thread!

[quote author=Heathrow44 post=100651165][/quote] LOL.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL.

Is it only me that knows u were not laughing? Don't try it with me I'm an elderly person, wat I've experienced even when u children climb ur saclux paint bucket u would never see it!

usj:
well I don't expect you to understand. But I have seen my parents naked, I have seen my brothers and sisters naked. Once I'm home I take everything off, I live alone now. I only wear clothes in the room when I am cold, when someone is visiting or if I want to quickly dash out to get something. There was this Jehovah's witness people always bothering me, one day while naked i invited the lady and her companions in but to my greatest surprise they took to their heels seeing that I was naked.

The wife is not going about naked to outsiders she only does so when she is about bathing or changing into a new clothe, and sometimes rushing into the store/kitchen to pick one or two things

Okay, you're on a different level, though. I won't be comfortably naked around unfamiliar people.

I have a female neighbour who always comes knocking on my door for every single thing she wants to say. There was a day I just got tired of dressing up each time she knocked, so I let her come in.

I was lounging naked on the bed. Madam came in and was shocked... I noticed that she was literally looking at the ceiling. She didn't stay as long as she used to.

Heathrow44:



Is it only me that knows u were not laughing? Don't try it with me I'm an elderly person, wat I've experienced even when u children climb ur saclux paint bucket u would never see it!

Okay o.
Elder of all elders I salute you.

although I wasn't rased this way but I have come to understand that different families have different ways of raising their kids ... I know a family where even the aunt can walk naked infront of her small nephew and it was normal to them ... even the mother of the small boy doesn't see it as a big deal... I Have also had another ex that bathes with her only son... I was surprised when I saw it myself... I didnt try to discourage her cos her background and motive for doing that may be very pure... while I on the hand don't even feel comfortable being naked infront of my fellow guys... I prefer to be naked infront of any woman I am dating than to be naked infront of my male cousins... Lol...

1Sharon:


Nudist beach is only for adults lol

There are family nude beaches, feel free to Google.

Heathrow44:
Hmm, naked people everywhere on this thread!

I dey tell you a