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| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by inumidun2010(m): 5:57am On Apr 16, 2021 |
mountmoriah:. This your ANALOGY no follow.... The boy DAVID was a very HANDSOME 1Samuel 16vs 12, Also Joseph... God Cares about the state of HEART... David was a Herdsman whose only motive was too secure his herds simple... The only problem I face with Not too facially gifted Guys and Girls is that they believe you shouldn't compete with them for anything... They even think they are more spiritual than you.. I laughed INSIDE when one was talking about PRAYER( Me that count hours)... Theres this stereotype that FACIALLY GIFTED people are PROMISCOUS... It's so PAINFUL... Well God created Man in his own IMAGE , to him he's not minding your Face but your HEART.. Being beautiful and Ugly doesn't depend on God , but your Heredity and Environment... STOP THE STEREOTYPE, PEOPLE ARE WICKED IRREGARDLESS OF THEIR BEAUTY... Pastor Chris Oyhakhilome is a HANDSOME PASTOR, he shouldn't look UGLY cos he wants to MASSAGE SOMEONE'S EGO, MANY FEMALE PASTORS are also BEAUTIFUL... |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 6:03am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Mrscarter:Even with a good character you will still experience cruel reactions from people,even fellow women would sometimes take the lead to maltreat you. I was defending a project recently and the only woman in the midst of the supervisors(judges) was hell bent on disorganizing me,she went as far as saying this isnt a beauty peagant to have warranted me to put on such expensive cloth, I wasn't even on makeup, she was just unnecessarily dragging me and I didn't know when I started crying, the men understood what was happening and they became furious at her,I couldn't continue and had to go hide in a corner to cry,she later looked for me to apologize and said she's sorry for having a misconstrued perception of me,took me to her office to make me feel good and rescheduled another day for my project defense, I've been a victim of so many of these things which has really affected my self esteem,I'm only bold online but introverted offline |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by studentofTruth: 6:03am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:While I understand what you're saying, you were able to notice it and make a big issue of it because you're too self-conscious — I may even say, self-absorbed! There's this desire to be admired, complimented, and treated specially. You get disappointed when you don't get that. But you have to understand that everyone has his/her problem and is focused on solving that — beauty, or rather complimenting beautiful people, is not what an average Nigerian is concerned about. The solution is to focus on things that matter — putting the effort to succeed in whatever you are doing — and forget about self. If your business interest lies in how you look, then, I suggest modeling! One more thing though, don't take what people say or do around you too seriously. Be less self-conscious! |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by braunny(m): 6:05am On Apr 16, 2021 |
StacyO:gorgon medusa i doubt u r ugly ohhh |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 6:09am On Apr 16, 2021 |
iLegendd:I know, thanks tho |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by inumidun2010(m): 6:13am On Apr 16, 2021 |
mountmoriah:DAYSTAR's Pastor Sam Adeyemi's Wife, ( Mummy Nike So beautiful) MOUNT ZION's Mike Bamiloye ( Mummy Gloria too fine) COZA's PASTOR BIODUN FATOYINBO ( Mummy D on Point)... No go because a WOMAN too fine lose BETTER THING ooooh...While in School, I know UGLY GIRLS dat are FUCKALHOLIC... BEAUTIFUL AND GODLY GIRLS ARE EVERYWHERE... how many FOREIGN MISSIONARIES have you MET...?... The Examples you gave are NOT GODLY LADIES... Come to LIVING FAITH CHURCH and see BEAUTY, Though not all are GODLY... |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Angelawhite(m): 6:20am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:I met a very beautiful girl and was surprised when she told be she’s single. It was one of the assumptions most people have and also one of the reasons people don’t approach them. She also told me she’s shy and I was like, come on, you’re beautiful, you’re not supposed to be shy ! She said it doesn’t work that way. This shows there are a lot of misconceptions about beautiful women |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by 49cents(m): 6:22am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:Please stop confusing culturally physical attractiveness or sexiness to being beautiful. Beauty is another concept on its own. It something that can be percieved by mature and experienced peeps. The moment I even sense you are feeling fly because you feel you are physically attractive and I must cower to you thats when I see you as ugly |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Mcslize: 6:30am On Apr 16, 2021*. Modified: 6:45am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Beautiful ladies are always dull though not all. But majority are. They can't keep a man and they are fond of being liabilities, constantly depending and feeding off on gullible men to sustain their fake lifestyles. Another observation, a couple of beautiful girls are dirty internally. They only have outward beauty but in terms of cleanliness, they are a big mess. Ever seen a beautiful girl with mouth odour? Haba! Come off it. Why will a girl be more concern about her outward appearance than taking good care of her private places? I don't expect a girl who is beautiful to be having a stinky smell down there. But that's the reality for some. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Hiqhscore(m): 6:31am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:The way you responded ehn... respect abeg! Some people can be stupid at times lol... It's a good way you have outlined your points already thou... This just earned you a follower abeg |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Joetttimua1811(m): 6:35am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Op are you beautiful ![]() |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Mrscarter(f): 6:41am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:Oh yes ur right bout that ppl will assume that pretty ppl are all the same. Vain. Dumb. Etc. But smart ppl know better. Best thing to do is not worry bout wat other ppl think of you. Especially those who dont know u. Ppl need to learn to appreciate beauty n mobe straight past that n not make assumptions based on looks. Those whom do that are the ones with a problem. I think ppl think that way because alot of ppl who are attractive are very prideful/vain and use their looks to get what they want. Ive met plenty like it. But like i said smart ppl know better. They know not to judge a person on looks alone. There are millions of attractive ppl ofcourse theyre not all the same. Ive met some who have the prettiest face but the ugliest character n ive met some who are the prettiest face with matching heart n personality. There are always gonna be ppl who are jelous of other ppl or have misconceptions of others for all kindsa reasons. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Codes151(m): 6:41am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Being beautiful it personal. Show us your pic We will decide |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by MrJavaS: 6:54am On Apr 16, 2021 |
A lot of guys chicken out on beautiful ladies |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by sonofthunder: 6:56am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:Follow me, and I will make you fishers of ............ How are you holding up? |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 6:58am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:There are different variants of beautiful people with difficult personality traits 1) The ones that have been beautiful all their lives. They've been told how beautiful they are all their lives and it often gets to their head. The ones that you'll tell "you are so pretty" and they'll reply "I know". These ones that often come across as arrogant or stuck up. 2) The ones that were just plain, nothing to look at, but then blossomed into beauty somewhere in their teenage years. These ones have been used to not being noticed so are often apparently unaware of the power of their beauty (and the effect it has on people) and take it for granted. Sometimes they have to be reminded how beautiful they are. 3) The ones that were plain and probably Tom boyish, and then developed all the right assets (bobby, yansh, wide hips) in teenage years, but still have a plain face. The face no match the body but may be enhanced with serious make up. These ones tend to use their bodies more to attract or keep men because they are insecure about their face and know that they only started getting attention from boys when their assests developed. They may come across as promiscuous when they aren't. 4) Those who may not necessarily be standard definition of beautiful but are very confident, intelligent, self assured and have a sexy way about them. Very good dressers and good with make up. Always want and go after the best for themselves. May come across as manipulative and cold hearted. 5) The unfortunate group. They were beautiful and cute as kids, and probably teenagers, but went downhill as they fully matured, or life just happened. These ones have gotten used to being seen as cute/beautiful and it probably got to their heads. They are in denial about their current physical appearance and carry on as if they are still beautiful, with an arrogant or stuck up attitude. Some older fading (or faded beauties) fall into this category. They often overestimate the power of their beauty (or seductive effect) to the amusement of people around them WHICH CATEGORY DO YOU BELONG TO?? |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by LINTUNE(m): 6:59am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Karleb:hmmm...I just made an example out of them, but all those actress I mentioned are at least 7/10 when it comes to beauty, ok...that's the point I'm making, no woman can have 10/10 beauty.. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by JeAgro477(m): 7:02am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:what a perfect answer if i were you i would have hit back in a harsh way |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Verysmart101: 7:11am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Chikarata2020:Does it mean the average looking ones aren't good? Do the very beautiful ones make up good partners all the time? Learn to balance ur write up. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Qatar2022: 7:12am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Zorr:Must you talk ? Hungry ugly looking APE |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Verysmart101: 7:12am On Apr 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Chikarata2020 post=100832579]All I know , that their noting ugly about being a beautiful lady, as for being lonely it can be attributed to them being so self conscious of there self which can vary in each individual. As far as I know beautiful ladies are the best creatures to be with bcs there heart can be as beautiful as there face (though is subjective to my opinion)[/quote It's not true wat ur saying.The most wicked women in the bible were so extremely beautiful.Be careful when making a choice. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Verysmart101: 7:14am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:One thing in life is that inner beauty matters most.Most men can date or flirt with extremely beautiful ladies buh when it comes to selecting a partner, believe me they go for the best. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by chinchonglee(m): 7:22am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:Lies.. dnt making excuses for bad attitude. I know a girl called Vivian. Vivian is the goddess of beauty(i wish i can show you her pics) but she is 100% down to earth and discipline. She turn down guys nicely with an atom of rudeness. She married an average looking and average financial young man meanwhile her father is rich.(i know this cos she traveled to the US for her masters) she came back and got married to that guy. Stop making excuses for ur natural attitude |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 7:22am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Zorr:well you are beautiful in God's image and apparently, some people are decieving you, being a bulb doesnt mean beauty |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by dalass(f): 7:22am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Mrscarter:Nicely put ![]() |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by DivineDynamics: 7:23am On Apr 16, 2021 |
For a lady that is beautiful inside and out, there is no ugly side. Stay right with the Lord Jesus.
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| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Greystone: 7:26am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:I was going to reply him till I saw this. Good response. It's a similar scenario good looking guys encounter. Literally every babe that sees me thinks I'm proud and that I'm a player. I'm neither. Over the course of time, I have developed a thick skin to what people think, assume and say. Something you didn't mention about being good looking that applies to both sexes is that one often comes across people that just refuse to take your "No, I'm not interested in being in any relationship with you." Honesty, it's annoying and can be frustrating. If as a guy I have so many blocked ladies on my contact list ( Truecaller always informs me when they attempt to still call me), I wonder what beautiful women are going through. Some of them are married women oh. On a final note, I've grown to embrace my looks and physique. And so should you. Cheers. |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Mypeople2(m): 7:27am On Apr 16, 2021 |
Rozcol:You seem like a calm person but many ladies that are very beautiful are very rude .They talk to people any how and act as if they are better than others .That is why we have the not too beautiful ones getting married every Saturday while the beautiful ones ending up as baby mommies |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Darlingboy4sure(m): 7:31am On Apr 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Rozcol post=100820723]You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks I applaud u a million times for this response. U go marry better husband � |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by PreciousBro: 7:32am On Apr 16, 2021*. Modified: 1:40pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
Such is nature. Your issues are peculiar to the average handsome man. Contrary to what people might think that fine guys get the girls, well it's not as simple as a jog in your own backyard. Girls find it hard to believe you're single and impossible to stay faithful. Especially guys with seemingly high profile and standard. Girls assume you'd be proud and arrogant, like what is he feeling like..... They act defensive and misinterprete your every action and inaction. Some feel insecure and hardly believe they can have you all to themselves. Some play unnecessary hard-to-get just to give off the impression that they aren't 'cheap', some bask in the euphoria of turning you down just because you're perceived as 'all prince-charming-like' so yhey can brag about it to their friends that a handsome high profiled guy like you want them but they don't want you.... The list is endless. But I know one thing though, most girls that have proven difficult to me are usually those that didn't level with me socially, either by background,pedigree etc |
| Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Bekind123: 7:33am On Apr 16, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] mountmoriah:what nonsense? What do you mean by calling facial beauty the worst and yet claiming everything God created is beautiful? Besides king Davide the anointed son of Jesse was a good looking man (handsome) and same with his sons and daughters. |
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