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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by YorubaLord: 3:14am On Apr 16
OP, you're MADDD! Who cares about 'extreme' beauty? angry There's nothing like 'extreme' beauty.

Beautiful is Beautiful, abeg. Werey dey find attention. Make Thunder strike you!

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Crunchyg3: 3:21am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
This is a plus too,the insecurities from their other half is on the high side
let's not sugargoat it, most beautiful girls are saucy, rude and arrogant. they always feel the world revolves around them . So don't blame anyone when the beautiful ones are treated the way they are treated. they caused it

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by cardoctor(m): 3:30am On Apr 16
As far as I'm concerned, the beautiful ones are not yet born.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by sfinkzslot(m): 3:41am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
as far as am concerned ,every other woman thinks&feel they are more beautiful then another, and have the same sense of insecurity, it is only the matured ones that have come to the understanding that life is more than just beautiful face & body.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by segun18(m): 4:01am On Apr 16
bigpicture001:
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple and look down on almost every man except they have money

What you have written is a wrong stereotypical generalisation that you should throw away. Read the Op's write up all over again.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by 99persait(m): 4:06am On Apr 16

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Eriokanmi: 4:30am On Apr 16
Who physical attraction epp shocked shocked

Okonjo-iweala is beautiful in the mind, likewise madam Oby. The duos are trail-blazers globally. Most of the physically attractive ladies have nothing to offer. They always fall victim of rich men who would always use, dump and mistreat them because they've got nothing 4lse to put at the table than their attractive body. See those celebs for instance, some ended their marriages due to domestic violence. Once the rich men have had a full of them, they're done. Beauty in the mind and brain iza a goal

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by YusufTheGreat: 4:36am On Apr 16
StacyO:


I can be a bit cocky sometimes.

You just learn how to balance up and ignore what people say.

It's hard to practice though but, I keep trying my best.
Are you extremely beautiful?
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Incognito403: 4:45am On Apr 16
bigpicture001:
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple and look down on almost every man except they have money
This is a false and wicked stereotype.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by stanisbaratheon: 4:48am On Apr 16
This thread is beautiful. I like some of the conversations I'm seeing.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Bellotelli: 5:07am On Apr 16
Op.. Are u extremely beautiful. Let me tell u something.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by femi4: 5:10am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes
Women naturally, have this tendency to be rude. The beautiful ones are proud and rude.

About the extremely beautiful ones, most of them are PROUD.....I mean verrrrry proud.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Wattter007: 5:18am On Apr 16
I totally understand the OP’s drift. It’s exactly the same for the male counterparts too. Ppl just naturally assume that a handsome guy has nothing to offer apart from his cute face and stature. You are automatically termed a playboy. Ladies tell you stuff like ‘I can’t be with you cos you can’t be faithful, even if you don’t follow girls, they will follow you’. It hurts most when you are a professional and have to meet ppl from different works of life, sometimes all you just want them to see is your professionalism and how well you can do your job. Not just as some cute face. And yes, the prettiest girls are the lonliest and the least happy bunch. It’s an ironic reality
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Mrscarter(f): 5:20am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.

It doesnt matter how attractive a female or male is. Once ppl get to know ur character and what kind of person you are and the kind of company your best or worst qualities show face and thats wat attracts ppl to u or drives ppl away.
I dated this really attractive guy once n he didn't have much personality. No intelligence. No humour. No romance. He was quite dull. He thought his gud looks would do it all for him but once ppl are mature enough to understand beauty isnt everything they wont stick around if theres nothing more than looks to a person.
U get all kindsa pretty ppl. Is just if ur attractive n u know it then u gotta not let it affect who u are as a person. No get too much vanity/pride.
If youre attractive and intelligent n have a kind heart and your loyal. Faithful. Considerate. Funny and passionate then youll be a perfect package.
I find that no matter a person's looks its their personality and humour that makes me wanna spend time with them. (Not just meaning romantically but as friends) i like people who make me laugh and ppl who are intelligent that u can have discussions about all kindsa things with. So i dont judge anyone on their looks. Ppl come in all kindsa packages. I knew this really fat guy once and he was really funny n i liked spending time with him. Nothing romantic but he was great company. Another guy my bestie he is the clumbsiest man u ever meet but intelligent asf. I think attractiveness being the centre of ur attention is a phase for high schoolers. U grow out of it. Although we all look at a potential partners looks it just isnt the thing that matters.

People who talk bput their own attractiveness i dislike ppl like that. Its an annoying habit.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Eauxclaires(f): 5:22am On Apr 16
On the contrary, Ladies I have seen that people really like (both men and women) weren't extremely beautiful. They were just in between.
I would like to tag them as attractive
The beautiful ones that from after looked very pretty...when you finally have continuous contact with them you discover they were just 'meh'..They are very beautiful but nothing else to keep your attention
The ones I discovered usually had men around them were even average..and these men seem to genuinely like them. Though I discovered these ladies were nice, relatively selfless.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Eauxclaires(f): 5:31am On Apr 16
Then about the "extremely beautiful" ones complaining about people judging them from a distance,misconception....pffft....make we hear word!

I am not "extremely beautiful" but I get misjudged a lot. I believe a number of people get misjudged too.

I have been tagged different things based on hearsay, I no dey bother cos when these people finally come nearer they are shocked..
One even had to tell me that everything they said about me she didn't see one. In my mind I was like shebi it is you that wants to act on hearsay.
All those other things "extremely beautiful" ladies are complaining about happens to other ladies..you guys should find a good coping mechanism and stop paying undue attention to your beauty
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by taiwolomo1: 5:31am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
Still under the misconstrued perception, its written on my post
its the truth bae..

And that's why the beurtifuls usually fall into the wrong hands
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Clintonchiedzie(m): 5:32am On Apr 16
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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Zetty177x: 5:34am On Apr 16
True talk..even plus handsome men

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Clintonchiedzie(m): 5:34am On Apr 16
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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by dalass(f): 5:37am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.

This is a great write-ups

Thumbs up!!

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by womenareapes1: 5:37am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.
I can't see a Naija women as beautiful! undecided

you ugly peace of masquerade shiit with low self-esteem.

infact, black women are ugly, don't put that nonsense misconceptions that you ugly peace of shiit are beautiful undecided
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by mankind9: 5:37am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywyhere necessary.Thanks

You minding that guy... His statement does not warrant any response. You get time sha

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by snoopanddre(m): 5:39am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks
I don't know you but with this response, I like you.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:40am On Apr 16
I always pity those extremely beautiful ladies.

Beauty should come with blessings but unfortunately, it comes with its own beast embarassed ;

Insecurity,
Esteem issues,
Over sensitivity,
Pride,
Fear,
Etc.

I salute dem guys who dey date/marry them. Walahi, God knows I can't cope with none.

That's why if you're too beautiful, I don't get moved to you. Nothing moves me in an overly beautiful lady. It's just natural for me.


May God be with una oooh.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 5:41am On Apr 16
Eauxclaires:
Then about the "extremely beautiful" ones complaining about people judging them from a distance,misconception....pffft....make we hear word!

I am not "extremely beautiful" but I get misjudged a lot. I believe a number of people get misjudged too.

I have been tagged different things based on hearsay, I no dey bother cos when these people finally come nearer they are shocked..
One even had to tell me that everything they said about me she didn't see one. In my mind I was like shebi it is you that wants to act on hearsay.
All those other things "extremely beautiful" ladies are complaining about happens to other ladies..you guys should find a good coping mechanism and stop paying undue attention to your beauty
They are too conscious of their beauty abeg. Even friends I grew up with once they see that they are being drooled over they change their attitude. The once I've dated are next to useless. I won't explain further. I wont touch them with a yard stick. It gets in their brain.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 5:41am On Apr 16
womenareapes1:
I can't see a Naija women as beautiful! undecided

you ugly peace of masquerade shiit with low self-esteem.

infact, black women are ugly, don't put that nonsense misconceptions that you ugly peace of shiit are beautiful undecided
I don't know what prompted this your statement but I guess you haven't come across real and raw beauty. Nigerian women are beautiful

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by mankind9: 5:44am On Apr 16
Eauxclaires:
On the contrary, Ladies I have seen that people really like (both men and women) weren't extremely beautiful. They were just in between.
I would like to tag them as attractive
The beautiful ones that from after looked very pretty...when you finally have continuous contact with them you discover they were just 'meh'..They are very beautiful but nothing else to keep your attention
The ones I discovered usually had men around them were even average..and these men seem to genuinely like them. Though I discovered these ladies were nice, relatively selfless.


Character seeks a lot. Beautiful or ugly, every human being is drawn to each other by the character.
The reason why the not too beautiful ladies are being chosen by men is because of their good character and being cultured.
Character and attitude towards people generally will determine what you attract. Beauty attract attention first but does not determine acceptance.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 5:49am On Apr 16
femi4:
Women naturally, have this tendency to be rude. The beautiful ones are proud and rude.

About the extremely beautiful ones, most of them are PROUD.....I mean verrrrry proud.
This is what I'm talking about, with this comment of yours it shows you already have a fixed unchangeable mindset towards beautiful women, never stay far to judge a particular person and if you do so I wish you goodluck
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by femi4: 5:51am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
This is what I'm talking about, with this comment of yours it shows you already have a fixed unchangeable mindset towards beautiful women, never stay far to judge a particular person and if you do so I wish you goodluck
I m talking from experience.

I have proof, we see them on social media everyday with their posts that's full of pride
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Valur20: 5:54am On Apr 16
[[b]quote author=YorubaLord post=100833373]OP, you're MADDD! Who cares about 'extreme' beauty? angry There's nothing like 'extreme' beauty.

Beautiful is Beautiful, abeg. Werey dey find attention. Make Thunder strike you![/[/b]quote]


You are too harsh on him with this your comment now. Take it easy.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Taiwojon(m): 5:55am On Apr 16
beauty belong to God so live as if you are not beautiful and I tell you, you will have all things


Jesus save

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