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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by 18wheeler: 12:39am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes
You got it apt. I got involved in one. She wasn't beautiful in the sense of it, but attractive. Tall, dark, curves very right. And I'm not counted in the handsome men clique. She's a mix of Fulani & one of the indigenous tribes in Gombe. When we got into ourselves I discovered some emptiness in her. Feeling of not being loved for who she was but what she got physically. Really took me a long time to disabuse her mind from that thought. Meanwhile she is from a more comfortable background than myself and didn't need any material thing from me. I couldn't afford what her parents did for her. It was then easy for me to do other non material stuff to show her I wasn't like any Joe. Of course she had relapses and fell back to the "let me proof myself" situation. Some of the decisions she took in that state of mind led her towards self destruction. I channelled my groove to anything that involved her that period. I was really just catching fun and tagging along to see her end. Eventually, her brain rewired and refocused. She changed into a reasonable lady before my eyes. I helped her erase her past, "our past". We started on a clean slate. Changed her school from poly to uni with so much friction from her dad(that's another story). She regained her esteem, pulled through.
Today, she's a graduate already undergoing MSc. We're still together. This year November we'll be 10yrs as ONE, married with Three kids.
It's hard to live through that but I have a story of one who I saw, helped and made a companion.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by solasoulmusic(f): 12:40am On Apr 16
I’m gonna be honest I wasn’t quite attractive when I was young I walked like a boy talked like a boy and soccer was the only thing I knew then I went to America and soccer wasn’t as celebrated or even played because of the winter months ... then I met a guy fine guy I started wearing skirts from there makeup then a dress ...then sometimes mini.

I embraced my feminine side and then my face just started changing I was like babe Nawa o no wonder they hate you started to look more like mum and her mum and then dad as well

I still trip for the guy that started the whole journey till this day but I was heart broken badly so it’s hard for me to give all ..again but without makeup I still feel beautiful

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by nomenclature(m): 12:41am On Apr 16
She was a nice person or you were a simp?you overlooked the rudeness
Salt06:

I get.
Met someone like that. Initially tot she was rude cos of her response but later discovered she's a really nice person
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by obstead200(m): 12:46am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.
The ugly side of this ur post is that we all rushed to view your profile picture only to discover you did not upload any

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Rozcol: 12:51am On Apr 16
18wheeler:

You got it apt. I got involved in one. She wasn't beautiful in the sense of it, but attractive. Tall, dark, curves very right. And I'm not counted in the handsome men clique. She's a mix of Fulani & Tangale in Gombe. When we got into ourselves I discovered some emptiness in her. Feeling of not being loved for who she was but what she got physically. Really took me a long time to disabuse her mind from that thought. Meanwhile she is from a more comfortable background than myself and didn't need any material thing from me. I couldn't afford what her parents did for her. It was then easy for me to do other non material stuff to show her I wasn't like any Joe. Of course she had relapses and fell back to the "let me proof myself" situation. Some of the decisions she took in that state of mind led her towards self destruction. I channelled my groove to anything that involved her that period. I was really just catching fun and tagging along to see her end. Eventually, her brain rewired and refocused. She changed into a reasonable lady before my eyes. I helped her erase her past, "our past". We started on a clean slate. Changed her school from poly to uni with so much friction from her dad(that's another story). She regained her esteem, pulled through.
Today, she's a graduate already undergoing MSc. We're still together. This year November we'll be 10yrs as ONE, married with Three kids.
It's hard to live through that but I have a story of one who I saw, helped and made a companion.
She was lucky to come across a matured man like you,most times it's not always so,negative remarks and many awful things is what you will get and hear about you.You are just a real and matured man who truly know what he wants.May God continue to bless your marriage

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Rozcol: 12:53am On Apr 16
obstead200:

The ugly side of this ur post is that we all rushed to view your profile picture only to discover you did not upload any
You guys made Nairaland not to be a right place to upload pictures, I would have started reading olosho,market strategy, evening newspaper and what have you lol

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by mountmoriah(m): 12:59am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
For decades you men keep deceiving yourselves with the inside beauty thingny when in reality you are mostly attracted to what you see
That is not true, a wise man will marry a woman that will be wise to take care of the home and nurture his children in the way of the Lord when he is not around, not the one that will be posting pictures on instagram, whatsapp status, snapchat, we chat, Facebook, and so on, for useless likes that will not add value to the family at end of the day, food will be burning in the kitchen but advance from other men won't let her know or the one the beauty will enter her ahead and she will refuse to give your child breast after 3 months and started buying baby milk for the child so her breast will not fall, them start using breast enlargement and buttock enlargement, their are wise men, and their are stupid men.

Men knows their category each and everyone of them falls.

Check pastor Adeboye wife, inner beauty no outside beauty.

Obama wife, inner beauty not outside beauty

Pastor Oyedepo wife, inner beauty not outside beauty

Priscilla Chan Zuckerberg, Mark wife, inner beauty not outside beauty.


foolish men like Kanye west bring up his children in a dirvoce home, let see what the future hold for the kids train by separate homes, father apart, mother apart

toto dikeh king on my mind

tiwa savage on mind.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Kingcalls: 12:59am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

With what u have typed...it simply shows u have no added value cos u think its by sex and fine face....pretty girls that are willing to give sex at the slightest chance are littered everywhere....so better go improve urself , something that with make u distinctive.... besides, so called fine girls are the ones most likely to have high body counts and are usually very dependent and lazy .... I hv had alot in my life so I'm pretty sure.... and its very difficult to see an intelligent pretty girl , they actually think they are, but are usually dumb...its a global thing, cos I hv also had it with pretty blonde girls as well... the average looks are the smart ones...I guess due to minimal toasters , so they use their free time to improve themselves.... and pretty girls are the ones with entitlement mentality and are usually psychos ....

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by VULCAN(m): 1:00am On Apr 16
I'm so glad you were able to bring out the best in her.

Most men try their best but such girls do things that force the men to walk away.

Some will even cheat for no other reason than to make the guy break up with them so they can return to their unhappy state.

Sadly a lot of women are emotionally damaged either due to things that happened in the home or from past encounters with the opposite sex.

God bless you for hanging in there. May you never regret your decision

18wheeler:

You got it apt. I got involved in one. She wasn't beautiful in the sense of it, but attractive. Tall, dark, curves very right. And I'm not counted in the handsome men clique. She's a mix of Fulani & one of the indigenous tribes in Gombe. When we got into ourselves I discovered some emptiness in her. Feeling of not being loved for who she was but what she got physically. Really took me a long time to disabuse her mind from that thought. Meanwhile she is from a more comfortable background than myself and didn't need any material thing from me. I couldn't afford what her parents did for her. It was then easy for me to do other non material stuff to show her I wasn't like any Joe. Of course she had relapses and fell back to the "let me proof myself" situation. Some of the decisions she took in that state of mind led her towards self destruction. I channelled my groove to anything that involved her that period. I was really just catching fun and tagging along to see her end. Eventually, her brain rewired and refocused. She changed into a reasonable lady before my eyes. I helped her erase her past, "our past". We started on a clean slate. Changed her school from poly to uni with so much friction from her dad(that's another story). She regained her esteem, pulled through.
Today, she's a graduate already undergoing MSc. We're still together. This year November we'll be 10yrs as ONE, married with Three kids.
It's hard to live through that but I have a story of one who I saw, helped and made a companion.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 1:03am On Apr 16
Lmao...The travails of a beautiful woman, reminds me of how rich people complain of taxes grin.

Beautiful, confident and smart women pay no thoughts to the opinions and negative vibes of simpletons.

In a few years you'd be entering menopause, more years down the line you'd be a old hag, your boobs will look like worn out flip-flops, grey hair and your cunt smelling like a dead cat in the middle of Dante's 7th hell, if you're rich enough you can slow down the ageing process but you're probably not rich......more pretty girls will come and go, supply will continue outstrip demand and thanks to the "redpill" movement and worsening economic growth we'd continue to have less philanthropic simps... Beauty is overrated, money isn't. Stop bitching and find a rich man you can marry, if you're smart set up a start-up. Nobody really cares.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iamclime(m): 1:03am On Apr 16
The beautiful thing about this your beautiful post about the ugliness of being beautiful is that you registered an account and created a post which beautifully landed on front page, all within 24 hours! Now, that's beautifully beautiful!

I love your diction though. Next, work on your phrasing and paragraphing.

And keep your inner beauty. It will give you strength of character and help you deal with the vicissitudes that come with outer beauty. Peace.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by 18wheeler: 1:04am On Apr 16
VULCAN:
I'm so glad you were able to bring out the best in her.

Most men try their best but such girls do things that force the men to walk away.

Some will even cheat for no other reason than to make the guy break up with them so they can return to their unhappy state.

Sadly a lot of women are emotionally damaged either due to things that happened in the home or from past encounters with the opposite sex.

God bless you for hanging in there. May you never regret your decision

Amen
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by aadoiza: 1:04am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You still don't get it and you don't have to be insultive
What exactly is your problem? I don't seem to make sense of all this 'beautiful' talk.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Kingcalls: 1:06am On Apr 16
mountmoriah:
That is not true, a wise man will marry a woman that will be wise to take care of the home and nurture his children in the way of the Lord when he is not around, not the one that will be post pictures on instagram, whatsapp status, snapchat, we chat, Facebook, and so on, for useless likes that will not add value to the family at end of the day, food will be burning in the kitchen but advance from other men won't let her know, or the one the beauty will enter her ahead and she will refuse to give your child breast after 3 months and started buying baby milk for the child so her breast will not fall, their are wise men, and their are stupid men.

Men knows the category each and everyone of them falls.

Check pastor Adeboye wife, inner beauty no outside beauty.

Obama wife, inner beauty not outside beauty

Pastor Oyedepo wife, inner beauty not outside beauty

Priscilla Chan Zuckerberg, Mark wife, inner beauty not outside beauty.


foolish men like Kanye west bring up his children in a dirvoce home, let see what the future hold for the kids train by separate homes, father apart, mother apart

toto dikeh king on my mind

tiwa savage on mind.

U have said it all... pretty girls offer less compared to average looking girls... its easier for a man to attain success with an average looking woman than a pretty face elegant beauty...the pretty ones are just for trophy ... when u hv made too much money, u can add them to the list as side chics ... and they are the ones that cheat easily.... every single pretty girl that I hv had cheated on their bf with me ... they can't even tie me down...

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 1:09am On Apr 16
obstead200:

The ugly side of this ur post is that we all rushed to view your profile picture only to discover you did not upload any

The most your physical beauty would get you is being a trophy wife or a baby mama living off your kid's child support money.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by EmmyDJourno: 1:10am On Apr 16
I am a cute guy, tall, six packs and all

And, everyone feels I'm just one dumb boy who only wants to bed chics and be a free willie

But deep down I'm a shy person and the pressure from my peers to walk up to every lady that smiles at me was enormous

But, self development built my confidence and I learnt to live by my own standards this gat me through

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 1:11am On Apr 16
OP is probably even a catfish...monika was registered today...... nairaland is full of bvllshit and corny ass ret@ds.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by mountmoriah(m): 1:14am On Apr 16
Kingcalls:


U have said it all... pretty girls offer less compared to average looking girls... its easier for a man to attain success with an average looking woman than a pretty face elegant beauty...the pretty ones are just for trophy ... when u hv made too much money, u can add them to the list as side chics ... and they are the ones that cheat easily.... every single pretty girl that I hv had cheated on their bf with me ... they can't even tie me down...
you are in the categories of the wise men, beauty ko beautiful ni, marry a beautiful minded and spiritual lady, you have eternal peace of mind and you progress easily, not the one that will be hiding her phone under the bed because of the many men disturbing her, one day she will fall for one of her advance men because of her chicken brain and in her mind she will be justifying how the one she fall for his better than you, either in bed, in fiance or in caring. If go unotice you are done falling

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Frankcallys(m): 1:17am On Apr 16
Zorr:
It's not easy to be a beautiful lady. Sometimes I hide so that I won't be noticed by some hungry men wink

Hahaha.. Wait wait wait ooo, Zorr you? Abeg who tell you say you are beautiful? Come on gerrarahere!!! grin grin

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Karleb(m): 1:19am On Apr 16
LINTUNE:
keepshut madam...are u as fine as the likes of Ibrahim Juliet, etomi adesua, chika ike etc....even those once are not considered to be extremely beautiful...stop giving urself unnecessary hype,post pics let's see...

Etomi Adesua is not fine. She's average at best.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iLegendd: 1:20am On Apr 16
Zorr:
It's not easy to be a beautiful lady. Sometimes I hide so that I won't be noticed by some hungry men wink

Damn! This got me laughing hard. I didn't know you have a sense of humor. Keep it up, my sister.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Shikena(m): 1:29am On Apr 16
iLegendd:


Damn! This got me laughing hard. I didn't know you have a sense of humor. Keep it up, my sister.
She's a special character smiley
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by mountmoriah(m): 1:55am On Apr 16
iamclime:
The beautiful thing about this your beautiful post about the ugliness of being beautiful is that you registered an account and created a post which beautifully landed on front page, all within 24 hours! Now, that's beautifully beautiful!

I love your diction though. Next, work on your phrasing and paragraphing.

And keep your inner beauty. It will give you strength of character and help you deal with the vicissitudes that come with outer beauty. Peace.
words of wisdom (wow)
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Whitewall: 2:05am On Apr 16
You haven't seen some ladies blessed with beauty that's why you're thinking that way.

I have seen a couple of extremely beautiful ladies especially here in America!
Depressed101:
there's no such thing as extremely beautiful lady...
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by iLegendd: 2:07am On Apr 16
Havesomesense:


I didn't read your essay because it was jam-packed.

However, you accepted that you are not a good writer and i llke that.

Next time please use paragraphs when writing.

Your punctuation is cool, but try to use capital letter I, not i, next time.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Toks2008(m): 2:12am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You are right, most beautiful girls are usually lonely,people assume a lot of things about you from far,some keep a cold face towards you and makes you wonder if you did anything wrong, some just want to show to your face how worthless you are to them and lot more but few are nice you, it's complicated and draining.

Outward beauty is very relative...

Many people confuse pretty face for outward beauty but to me, if you don't have those curves, then forget it no matter how pretty your face may be.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Emperorlanky: 2:26am On Apr 16
Rozcol:
You guys made Nairaland not to be a right place to upload pictures, I would have started reading olosho,market strategy, evening newspaper and what have you lol

The fear of NAIRALAND is the beginning of wisdom. I think you're wise.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Emperorlanky: 2:33am On Apr 16
mountmoriah:
you are in the categories of the wise men, beauty ko beautiful ni, marry a beautiful minded and spiritual lady, you have eternal peace of mind and you progress easily, not the one that will be hiding her phone under the bed because of the many men disturbing her, one day she will fall for one of her advance men because of her chicken brain and in her mind she will be justifying how the one she fall for his better than you, either in bed, in fiance or in caring. If go unotice you are done falling

Your accent though, yoruba.
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by movid(m): 2:50am On Apr 16
bigpicture001:
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple and look down on almost every man except they have money
I concur, had a girlfriend then with the exact qualified character
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by tit(f): 2:50am On Apr 16
Even we the ugly ones, it is our body they want.
Shuooo
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by craves(m): 2:54am On Apr 16
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