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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by skywalker240(m): 6:56am On Apr 16, 2021
2buffagain:
Fellas, never fall for it.
If she is in a lower economic class than yourself, she has to sign something.
Ofcourse she is going to turn on the taps. If she does, F*ck her, and do it like this guy. cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VVtImcGTes
Wahala grin
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Mrscarter(f): 6:57am On Apr 16, 2021
2buffagain:
Fellas, never fall for it.
If she is in a lower economic class than yourself, she has to sign something.
Ofcourse she is going to turn on the taps. If she does, F*ck her, and do it like this guy. cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VVtImcGTes

Its just excuses shes feeling this n that. If shes in the relationship for love then shed sign it to make him happy. All those tears n contract talk is bs. Ofcourse the mans gotta be realistic. Marraige isnt all about fairytales n dreams. Reality is in it too n he has assets to protect cos anyone should be able to understand wen a relationship isnt that old then u marry then u gptta protect ur assets in that situation cos for all he knows she could b just after his money or the relationship might not work out and then she might get nasty or greedy against him.
Its not a gemale thing only men do it too.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by TSBO: 6:58am On Apr 16, 2021
I don't like when people get sentimental.. You can't blackmail the guy into stuff mehn..

Sign and move on. People change, things happen. You really do not have no control over another person's will.

And who says she cannot end up richer than the guy.

Interestingly, I think he really likes her and will treat her well. His insistence on being rational is a good sign in my view.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Nobody: 7:01am On Apr 16, 2021
I am not a fan of marriage but if I will ever marry, there must be prenup so that if she fuccks up, I will kick her out of my house with whatever she came with and all she made while in the marriage. These daughters of Jezebel are evil. I can't even love a woman now so I wonder how I can ever get married.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by KvngSO1: 7:03am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:


LMAO grin grin grin I'm not signing nothing, we're getting married, you're going to hand over the cash, then you'll beg me to spend it on my beautiful self, that's how much you will worship all of this sensuality. Now, have several seats and let that marinate. grin

How are you doing old man? smiley

Really? So you plan to bring nothing to the table?
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by TSBO: 7:06am On Apr 16, 2021
ShadowCracker:

wow, I just read about it, guess I was misinformed shocked.
I didn't know it wasn't female bias like there could be a scenario whereby a man would be the one taking half of the woman's fortune in the divorce.
It's fair enough isn't it tongue, but why are they now making it seem as if it only happens to men and never to women.

The key thing is to ensure your partner, has a work, business, or investment anything to fall back on in case things go south wink.

In many cases, men earn higher. That's why there's usually the outcry, but yeah, the higher earning spouse gets to split. E.g., Adele.

Let me ask a question, if she was the one in his position (in the video), do you think she would have gone into the marriage without asking him to sign a prenup? Just a question, I'm not making any conclusions.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by womenareapes1: 7:32am On Apr 16, 2021
2buffagain:
Fellas, never fall for it.
If she is in a lower economic class than yourself, she has to sign something.
Ofcourse she is going to turn on the taps. If she does, F*ck her, and do it like this guy. cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VVtImcGTes

What benefits do a toto has? undecided

You worked for years to establish a business and it takes just only a day for your business to be destroy by this Toto people, undecided

Don't be a simp for a woman!

Those bitches ain't worth it.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Vulcanheph(m): 7:34am On Apr 16, 2021
If you live in a country where divorce mostly favors the woman, then prenup is the best thing... Because most of those women often come with a plan to marry you and divorce you for your wealth.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 7:36am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:
I would assume the lack of trust in her by her man is causing the tears. It would hurt my heart if someone I truly loved did this to me.

He would leave me with the following options.

1. Sign it and move on with our plans.

2. Go home and think about it from a logical not emotional point of view, trying to understand why he feels it's necessary to write this contract before commiting to a lifelong partnership with me.

3. Tearing up the prenup and shoving it down his throat.

4. Write my own prenup relinquishing him from any future earnings of mines.

I'm more than likely to go with number 3. grin grin grin
So many trash you are trying to feed pansophist. Do you think he is a fool? Only fools will have time to argue or take your delibrate sophistry and deception seriously. Keep acting like you women wouldn't sign a prenup or avoid marriage if you happen to earn more. Mthewww. undecided

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by womenareapes1: 7:38am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:


I would assume the lack of trust in her by her man is causing the tears. It would hurt my heart if someone I truly loved did this to me.

He would leave me with the following options.

1. Sign it and move on with our plans.

2. Go home and think about it from a logical not emotional point of view, trying to understand why he feels it's necessary to write this contract before commiting to a lifelong partnership with me.

3. Tearing up the prenup and shoving it down his throat.

4. Write my own prenup relinquishing him from any future earnings of mines.

I'm more than likely to go with number 3. grin grin grin

why do you always keeping providing evidence that women have fish brain? undecided

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by luminouz(m): 7:40am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:


LMAO grin grin grin I'm not signing nothing, we're getting married, you're going to hand over the cash, then you'll beg me to spend it on my beautiful self, that's how much you will worship all of this sensuality. Now, have several seats and let that marinate. grin

How are you doing old man? smiley


Ewwwwwwwww....

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by luminouz(m): 7:42am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:


I would assume the lack of trust in her by her man is causing the tears. It would hurt my heart if someone I truly loved did this to me.

He would leave me with the following options.

1. Sign it and move on with our plans.

2. Go home and think about it from a logical not emotional point of view, trying to understand why he feels it's necessary to write this contract before commiting to a lifelong partnership with me.

3. Tearing up the prenup and shoving it down his throat.

4. Write my own prenup relinquishing him from any future earnings of mines.

I'm more than likely to go with number 3. grin grin grin


*Rolling eyes*
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 7:45am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:

It has nothing to do with gender, the court goes by who earns the most. If I have been an extremely good wife to you for years then you meet Ling Ling and decide you want to play house with her now, you won't kick me out the house pennyless because it will not be good for your health, with or without a prenup.

Would you sign a prenup?
ShadowCracker didn't ask you if divorce is gender thing. He also never said divorce rape happens to only men. He simply asked
"If you were a man how would you feel, if a woman gets to take away half of your hard-earned fortunes with the excuse a marriage that didn't work?"

He was clearly referring to the man in the video who is clearly way richer than his spouse. However, like the deceptive trash that you are, you had to spin the whole and talk vague trash.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 7:48am On Apr 16, 2021
womenareapes1:
why do you always keeping providing evidence that women have fish brain? undecided
She is arguing trash deliberately. She knows that a smart man will get a prenup. The unfortunate thing is that during a divorce the court can nullify a prenup for flimsy reasons.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Dalil8: 7:52am On Apr 16, 2021
Lalasticlala please this has to be on fp

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by womenareapes1: 7:52am On Apr 16, 2021
Martinez39s:
She is arguing trash deliberately. She knows that a smart man will get a prenup. The unfortunate thing is that during a divorce the court can nullify a prenup for flimsy reasons.
is like America system Favours women alot!

No wonder men don't marry these days in that country!
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 7:55am On Apr 16, 2021
The man as a multimillionaire in a western society should do his due diligence on the family laws and know that even a prenup can be nullified for flimsy reasons: for example, she claimed (without evidence) she signed under duress or the courts think the prenup is too "lopsided". grin Prenup is just glorified toilet paper.

Besides, why is a wealthy man like him who can get better, young, fresh options settling for this ugly, expired trash? Why is he even marrying? The facts that a woman doesn't want to sign a prenup and she is emotionally blackmailing you to forget about it are red flags themselves.

She, like all women, want her partner to trust and love her fully with his money, assets and even life, but she will never do the same for a man.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by luminouz(m): 7:56am On Apr 16, 2021
Damn!!!

That's a real nigga!!!

Martinez39s... You don't know khia like I do. She will drag you with arguments. She loves that stuff. Just say your point and move on. Don't engage her in a protracted argument.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 8:03am On Apr 16, 2021
luminouz:
Damn!!!

That's a real nigga!!!

Martinez39s... You don't know khia like I do. She will drag you with arguments. She loves that stuff. Just say your point and move on. Don't engage her in a protracted argument.
I know khia as well and her long game of engaging in fruitless, foolish and exhausting arguments. Had it been she responded, I will not reply or engage her further; I just said all I wanted to say. I once engaged her on child support issue some years back when she was vomiting trash as usual. grin grin

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by OKOATA(m): 8:45am On Apr 16, 2021
See the kind eyes the dog take look am. grin
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Womanizer(m): 8:46am On Apr 16, 2021
Always have a prenup in place especially if you're marrying someone from a weaker financial background!

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by pansophist(m): 8:46am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:

It has nothing to do with gender, the court goes by who earns the most. If I have been an extremely good wife to you for years then you meet Ling Ling and decide you want to play house with her now, you won't kick me out the house pennyless because it will not be good for your health, with or without a prenup.

Would you sign a prenup?

If I've been a good husband to you and you met Yang Chan, is it fair to take half my stuff, dump me and go with him? How would you want a situation in marriage to be favourable to you the woman, but penalizes me the man? Furthermore, don't you trust in your ability to work?

If you're also hustling for your own money, you should be happy that in case of a divorce, your husband will not take half your stuff, it goes both ways. And don't forget that women initiate most divorce, so the chances are high that you're the one dumping him, not otherwise. Isn't it a criminal act to dump a man, break his heart and take half his stuff? Anyway you're a woman, double standards are just like the air you breathe.

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 9:00am On Apr 16, 2021
pansophist:


If I've been a good husband to you and you met Yang Chan, is it fair to take half my stuff, dump me and go with him? How would you want a situation in marriage to be favourable to you the woman, but penalizes me the man? Furthermore, don't you trust in your ability to work?

If you're also hustling for your own money, you should be happy that in case of a divorce, your husband will not take half your stuff, it goes both ways. And don't forget that women initiate most divorce, so the chances are high that you're the one dumping him, not otherwise. Isn't it a criminal act to dump and man, break his heart and take half his stuff? Anyway you're a woman, double standards are just like the air you breathe.

If you are a good husband and I fall in love with.Alezy and cheat on you with him I would be the cause of the marriage failure and the judge will not reward me for it, there will be no spousal support from you, only child support if I am awarded the child.

As long as I am capable of working I will always make money but I couldn't be in a marriage where everything my husband buys is his and everything I buy is mine. There's no unity in a relationship like that and it's quite selfish in my opinion.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by sisisioge: 9:02am On Apr 16, 2021
Hmmmm....what's mine is mine, what's yours is yours, what about what we made while together? Did the prenup make allowance for that?

Also, can they rewrite the terms such that they both continue to explore all the economic potentials available to them while together? That is, they each continue to work or make their personal money and down times like time spent nursing pregnancies and children well compensated.

Also, will there be allowances for probable causes for divorce such as cheating and domestic violence?

If these points are well explored, no problem. Sign the darn thing sis....you arent planning to divorce him, all things being equal.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by khia: 9:13am On Apr 16, 2021
womenareapes1:
why do you always keeping providing evidence that women have fish brain? undecided

Don't blame your inability to comprehend logic on me. State your disagreements and opinions on the topic and STFU with your childish insults.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by 2buffagain(m): 9:19am On Apr 16, 2021
khia:


If you are a good husband and I fall in love with.Alezy and cheat on you with him I would be the cause of the marriage failure and the judge will not reward me for it, there will be no spousal support from you, only child support if I am awarded the child.

As long as I am capable of working I will always make money but I couldn't be in a marriage where everything my husband buys is his and everything I buy is mine. There's no unity in a relationship like that and it's quite selfish in my opinion.

You lie.

You know very well that these courts do not care about whether or not anyone cheated in a divorce case.
There are many men who caught their jobless bum wives cheating who still get cleaned out.
The only way infidelity is penalized in western courts is if there was a prenup signed that specifically has an infidelity clause.
This is even more true in your state of California.

You're being disingenuous again, and you know it. undecided

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by womenareapes1: 9:22am On Apr 16, 2021
pansophist:


If I've been a good husband to you and you met Yang Chan, is it fair to take half my stuff, dump me and go with him? How would you want a situation in marriage to be favourable to you the woman, but penalizes me the man? Furthermore, don't you trust in your ability to work?

If you're also hustling for your own money, you should be happy that in case of a divorce, your husband will not take half your stuff, it goes both ways. And don't forget that women initiate most divorce, so the chances are high that you're the one dumping him, not otherwise. Isn't it a criminal act to dump a man, break his heart and take half his stuff? Anyway you're a woman, double standards are just like the air you breathe.
one thing you should learn how to do is to stop arguing with fish brain undecided

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Martinez39s(m): 9:34am On Apr 16, 2021
Pansophist, I hope you know khià's latest reply to you is a bold and deliberate lie? grin

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Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by pansophist(m): 10:02am On Apr 16, 2021
Martinez39s:
Pansophist, I hope you know khià's latest reply to you is a bold and deliberate lie? grin

I don't know bro, don't think I've had a rapport with her before, so can't tell about her predisposition. I hope not though. Lol
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by Waziri9004(m): 10:08am On Apr 16, 2021
Please someone should give me enlightenment on prenuptial what does it really mean.
Thanks.
Re: Expect Her To Cry When You Bring Up A Prenup by REALretep(m): 10:11am On Apr 16, 2021
Just imagine this girl.
Trying to play the victim.
Very annoying.
The guy shaa understands the game

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