Please my fellow nairalanders.... I need advice on what to do
First and famous pls bear with my grammatical errors....

My story goes like dis.... Am a guy of 24yrs old currently in 300level.... I was born into a Christian family... So throughout while I was growing up, I never had any serious relationship with a girl... You might be very surprise that am still a virgin.... When it comes to girls stuff... Am always naive about dem.... am always shy and timid to approach a girl that I love because I don't want to be embarrassed.
So! as at 2018, there is dis girl I had crush on but I was just too shy to approach her..... I just thought she was just too good for me to like..she was that charming princess which every guys would like to date....not someone like me. So recently due to 2 much pressure from my friends...... They were like ( guy! As big as u are...u no get girlfriend, holy holy go kill u dere) am dis kind of guy that boast about having many girlfriends else way..which i knew within me that there is no girl in my life.....I thought about it... Then i took a bold step...
I later made up my mind to go and approach her and tell her the way I feels about her.
First step.. I added her on Facebook and for God so good, she accepted my friendrequest and that was how we started our conversation.
After I got use to her.... I told her that I wanted to see her In person....and also have something important to tell her.... Which she ask me to come to her usual spot were she hangs around... So that night I had to rehearsed the choice of words am to use why communicating with her.... The next day, I went to see her... And she was like
She : dis is me.... What is so important that you want to tell me?
Me : I "stammered" I couldn't make use of the words I rehearsed on...
I then went ahead to tell her that ..... I like her so much and i want us to be friends. She was like
She : is that all?
Me : yes..
She: that won't be possible...
After much begging she told me that she'll think about it and give me feedback as soon as possible.
I waited for few days... And she later accepted our friendship.
To cut the long story short.... I later expresses my feelings to her but she reminded me of her statement when she asked me ""is that all"" and I said "yes" she said, why didn't I come out clearly instand of beating round the bushes.... She told me that I came late.... That she has a boyfriend who loves her so dearly.
Still yet, I didn't give up on her... I kept on persuading her to date me....I Even ask my friends to talk to her on my behalf, but she still didn't agree to date me..... So I manage to collect her contact which I have been calling her frequently..... But what amaze me most is that, she always respond to my invitation.
So recently whenever I am online on Facebook she do text me first.... Hello!dear... How are u doing, dear? Hope u are fine, dear? Hope u slept well?
She has been showing me a caring attitude dis days..which am really confused... So I resided to tell her that if am so important to her in her life.. That she should come to my house, so that we can talk about us and from there get to know each others better.
But to my greatest surprise, i thought she was going to turn my invitation down..but she accepted to come to my house and that is the big issue on ground..
Advice needed pls....from matures mind.
1 What do you think I should say to her?
2 should I still ask her out again?
3 Should I just forget about her?
4 what do u suggest I do?
5 should I ignore my feelings and let her be?

I won't bother reading the story, Oga they won't stop being females... Take your mind off it and mueve

but take note that someone here is in love..... I just can't stop loving her.

Brodaman you suppose be scriptwriter for Bollywood....


Well my advice:

Move on bro.....

Begged her?? alas the simp she's long being looking for is here

You don't need no advice bro ur eyes go clear itself

This your story get as im be ooo.

Aflix:
This your story get as im be ooo.

smiles..... just take am like dat.

heendrix:
Begged her?? alas the simp she's long being looking for is here

You don't need no advice bro ur eyes go clear itself

thanks for the advice

Donspicey:
Brodaman you suppose be scriptwriter for Bollywood....


Well my advice:

Move on bro.....

I should move on just like dat.... but someone here is in love.

Would have advised you to go ahead with your plans, but since this would be your first time of dating, please step back!

Cos you're so much in love you would end up a very bitter soul by the time she breaks your heart.

Find someone who loves you more.

UYEMDO35:

thanks for the advice

No matter what happens you don't beg a girl to come into ur life. now you've begged and she sees you as a weakling trust me you'd keep begging in that relationship cuz when she's at fault you'll have to be the one to beg till she finally breaks ur heart without remorse

Ion know if it me that got Ego but Something I've got to learn over time is if she gives you attitude let her go another would come

PrimeWatermark:
Would have advised you to go ahead with your plans, but since this would be your first time of dating, please step back!

Cos you're so much in love you would end up a very bitter soul by the time she breaks your heart.

Find someone who loves you more.

noted..... I'll see to it.

You romance like na zero,plus you can lie here but can't lie to her,when she come start by reading genesis to revelation.
yeye lazy youth.

heendrix:


No matter what happens you don't beg a girl to come into ur life. now you've begged and she sees you as a weakling trust me you'd keep begging in that relationship cuz when she's at fault you'll have to be the one to beg till she finally breaks ur heart without remorse

Ion know if it me that got Ego but Something I've got to learn over time is if she gives you attitude let her go another would come

hmmmm! well said.

Opak001:
You romance like na zero,plus you can lie here but can't lie to her,when she come start by reading genesis to revelation.
yeye lazy youth.

smiles! your profile has already describe the kind of person u are .
if I am a lazy youth, what then are you?

UYEMDO35:

hmmmm! well said.

The quicker you know 9ja girls are liabilities the better for you. if it were even a foreign girl I'll not have problems with the beg. Hope you got enough cash to take care of a baby tho cuz as per Nigeria's setting she's now ur responsibility and you're now automatically her Father

A future simp in the making... Begging a girl to date you will always end in tears, maybe not now but in the future.

heendrix:


The quicker you know 9ja girls are liabilities the better for you. if it were even a foreign girl I'll not have problems with the beg. Hope you got enough cash to take care of a baby tho cuz as per Nigeria's setting she's now ur responsibility and you're now automatically her Father

noted..... well said.

LOL...If all this isn't one cooked up bullshit, then OP, you're funny.LOL again.

Jack005:
A future simp in the making... Begging a girl to date you will always end in tears, maybe not now but in the future.

thanks bro.

heendrix:
Begged her?? alas the simp she's long being looking for is here

You don't need no advice bro ur eyes go clear itself

o.p said " I added her on Facebook and for 'God so good', she accepted my friendrequest "

Anyway, o.p you calm down, but its normal, okay!
its normal, its your first time, just be normal, reduce your obsession and everything you are doing, you are over doing it but hey, its normal, its your first time, we all did it..okay!

lastly o.p, just use this as an experience and eye opening should in case you guys are fully into it.

but o.p,

It will end in tears

SimeonOTC:



o.p said " I added her on Facebook and for 'God so good', she accepted my friendrequest "

Anyway, o.p you calm down, but its normal, okay!
its normal, its your first time, just be normal, reduce your obsession and everything you are doing, you are over doing it but hey, its normal, its your first time, we all did it..okay!

lastly o.p, just use this as an experience and eye opening should in case you guys are fully into it.

but o.p,

It will end in tears

noted... best advised so far.

UYEMDO35:

smiles! your profile has already describe the kind of person u are .
if I am a lazy youth, what then are you?

my profile is non of your business, and I have been on this country for long before you can get a V.
when you get older in this country u will know Y..
lazy youth!!!

Begging a girl to date u is a falony also the relationship won't last.move on with ur life.Any attempt to beg her to date the relationship will end in premium tears besides u need a redpill...

Prosmobi:
Begging a girl to date u is a falony also the relationship won't last.move on with ur life.Any attempt to beg her to date the relationship will end in premium tears besides u need a redpill...

noted

Opak001:
my profile is non of your business, and I have been on this country for long before you can get a V.
when you get older in this country u will know Y..
lazy youth!!!

well said..... words of an elderly man.

To cut the long story short

Na here I vex. After reading four chapter from the book of Psalms in this article

UYEMDO35:
Please my fellow nairalanders.... I need advice on what to do
First and famous pls bear with my grammatical errors....

My story goes like dis.... Am a guy of 24yrs old currently in 300level.... I was born into a Christian family... So throughout while I was growing up, I never had any serious relationship with a girl... You might be very surprise that am still a virgin.... When it comes to girls stuff... Am always naive about dem.... am always shy and timid to approach a girl that I love because I don't want to be embarrassed.
So! as at 2018, there is dis girl I had crush on but I was just too shy to approach her..... I just thought she was just too good for me to like..she was that charming princess which every guys would like to date....not someone like me. So recently due to 2 much pressure from my friends...... They were like ( guy! As big as u are...u no get girlfriend, holy holy go kill u dere) am dis kind of guy that boast about having many girlfriends else way..which i knew within me that there is no girl in my life.....I thought about it... Then i took a bold step...
I later made up my mind to go and approach her and tell her the way I feels about her.
First step.. I added her on Facebook and for God so good, she accepted my friendrequest and that was how we started our conversation.
After I got use to her.... I told her that I wanted to see her In person....and also have something important to tell her.... Which she ask me to come to her usual spot were she hangs around... So that night I had to rehearsed the choice of words am to use why communicating with her.... The next day, I went to see her... And she was like
She : dis is me.... What is so important that you want to tell me?
Me : I "stammered" I couldn't make use of the words I rehearsed on...
I then went ahead to tell her that ..... I like her so much and i want us to be friends. She was like
She : is that all?
Me : yes..
She: that won't be possible...
After much begging she told me that she'll think about it and give me feedback as soon as possible.
I waited for few days... And she later accepted our friendship.
To cut the long story short.... I later expresses my feelings to her but she reminded me of her statement when she asked me ""is that all"" and I said "yes" she said, why didn't I come out clearly instand of beating round the bushes.... She told me that I came late.... That she has a boyfriend who loves her so dearly.
Still yet, I didn't give up on her... I kept on persuading her to date me....I Even ask my friends to talk to her on my behalf, but she still didn't agree to date me..... So I manage to collect her contact which I have been calling her frequently..... But what amaze me most is that, she always respond to my invitation.
So recently whenever I am online on Facebook she do text me first.... Hello!dear... How are u doing, dear? Hope u are fine, dear? Hope u slept well?
She has been showing me a caring attitude dis days..which am really confused... So I resided to tell her that if am so important to her in her life.. That she should come to my house, so that we can talk about us and from there get to know each others better.
But to my greatest surprise, i thought she was going to turn my invitation down..but she accepted to come to my house and that is the big issue on ground..
Advice needed pls....from matures mind.
1 What do you think I should say to her?
2 should I still ask her out again?
3 Should I just forget about her?
4 what do u suggest I do?
5 should I ignore my feelings and let her be?
Please my fellow nairalanders.... I need advice on what to do
First and famous pls bear with my grammatical errors....

My story goes like dis.... Am a guy of 24yrs old currently in 300level.... I was born into a Christian family... So throughout while I was growing up, I never had any serious relationship with a girl... You might be very surprise that am still a virgin.... When it comes to girls stuff... Am always naive about dem.... am always shy and timid to approach a girl that I love because I don't want to be embarrassed.
So! as at 2018, there is dis girl I had crush on but I was just too shy to approach her..... I just thought she was just too good for me to like..she was that charming princess which every guys would like to date....not someone like me. So recently due to 2 much pressure from my friends...... They were like ( guy! As big as u are...u no get girlfriend, holy holy go kill u dere) am dis kind of guy that boast about having many girlfriends else way..which i knew within me that there is no girl in my life.....I thought about it... Then i took a bold step...
I later made up my mind to go and approach her and tell her the way I feels about her.
First step.. I added her on Facebook and for God so good, she accepted my friendrequest and that was how we started our conversation.
After I got use to her.... I told her that I wanted to see her In person....and also have something important to tell her.... Which she ask me to come to her usual spot were she hangs around... So that night I had to rehearsed the choice of words am to use why communicating with her.... The next day, I went to see her... And she was like
She : dis is me.... What is so important that you want to tell me?
Me : I "stammered" I couldn't make use of the words I rehearsed on...
I then went ahead to tell her that ..... I like her so much and i want us to be friends. She was like
She : is that all?
Me : yes..
She: that won't be possible...
After much begging she told me that she'll think about it and give me feedback as soon as possible.
I waited for few days... And she later accepted our friendship.
To cut the long story short.... I later expresses my feelings to her but she reminded me of her statement when she asked me ""is that all"" and I said "yes" she said, why didn't I come out clearly instand of beating round the bushes.... She told me that I came late.... That she has a boyfriend who loves her so dearly.
Still yet, I didn't give up on her... I kept on persuading her to date me....I Even ask my friends to talk to her on my behalf, but she still didn't agree to date me..... So I manage to collect her contact which I have been calling her frequently..... But what amaze me most is that, she always respond to my invitation.
So recently whenever I am online on Facebook she do text me first.... Hello!dear... How are u doing, dear? Hope u are fine, dear? Hope u slept well?
She has been showing me a caring attitude dis days..which am really confused... So I resided to tell her that if am so important to her in her life.. That she should come to my house, so that we can talk about us and from there get to know each others better.
But to my greatest surprise, i thought she was going to turn my invitation down..but she accepted to come to my house and that is the big issue on ground..
Advice needed pls....from matures mind.
1 What do you think I should say to her?
2 should I still ask her out again?
3 Should I just forget about her?
4 what do u suggest I do?
5 should I ignore my feelings and let her be?
Please my fellow nairalanders.... I need advice on what to do
First and famous pls bear with my grammatical errors....

My story goes like dis.... Am a guy of 24yrs old currently in 300level.... I was born into a Christian family... So throughout while I was growing up, I never had any serious relationship with a girl... You might be very surprise that am still a virgin.... When it comes to girls stuff... Am always naive about dem.... am always shy and timid to approach a girl that I love because I don't want to be embarrassed.
So! as at 2018, there is dis girl I had crush on but I was just too shy to approach her..... I just thought she was just too good for me to like..she was that charming princess which every guys would like to date....not someone like me. So recently due to 2 much pressure from my friends...... They were like ( guy! As big as u are...u no get girlfriend, holy holy go kill u dere) am dis kind of guy that boast about having many girlfriends else way..which i knew within me that there is no girl in my life.....I thought about it... Then i took a bold step...
I later made up my mind to go and approach her and tell her the way I feels about her.
First step.. I added her on Facebook and for God so good, she accepted my friendrequest and that was how we started our conversation.
After I got use to her.... I told her that I wanted to see her In person....and also have something important to tell her.... Which she ask me to come to her usual spot were she hangs around... So that night I had to rehearsed the choice of words am to use why communicating with her.... The next day, I went to see her... And she was like
She : dis is me.... What is so important that you want to tell me?
Me : I "stammered" I couldn't make use of the words I rehearsed on...
I then went ahead to tell her that ..... I like her so much and i want us to be friends. She was like
She : is that all?
Me : yes..
She: that won't be possible...
After much begging she told me that she'll think about it and give me feedback as soon as possible.
I waited for few days... And she later accepted our friendship.
To cut the long story short.... I later expresses my feelings to her but she reminded me of her statement when she asked me ""is that all"" and I said "yes" she said, why didn't I come out clearly instand of beating round the bushes.... She told me that I came late.... That she has a boyfriend who loves her so dearly.
Still yet, I didn't give up on her... I kept on persuading her to date me....I Even ask my friends to talk to her on my behalf, but she still didn't agree to date me..... So I manage to collect her contact which I have been calling her frequently..... But what amaze me most is that, she always respond to my invitation.
So recently whenever I am online on Facebook she do text me first.... Hello!dear... How are u doing, dear? Hope u are fine, dear? Hope u slept well?
She has been showing me a caring attitude dis days..which am really confused... So I resided to tell her that if am so important to her in her life.. That she should come to my house, so that we can talk about us and from there get to know each others better.
But to my greatest surprise, i thought she was going to turn my invitation down..but she accepted to come to my house and that is the big issue on ground..
Advice needed pls....from matures mind.
1 What do you think I should say to her?
2 should I still ask her out again?
3 Should I just forget about her?
4 what do u suggest I do?
5 should I ignore my feelings and let her be?

My guy, the game is in your control right now. All you need to do now is to welcome her with respect. Make sure your house is in good shape, Cooke a delicious food for her and let her know that you made it just because of her, have money for whatever drink she needs. Just make sure you treat her like a queen. And tell your friends and neighbors not to disturb you on that faithful dey because u guys may end up knacking. Na ur hand e dey.

Lol

candygist:


My guy, the game is in your control right now. All you need to do now is to welcome her with respect. Make sure your house is in good shape, Cooke a delicious food for her and let her know that you made it just because of her, have money for whatever drink she needs. Just make sure you treat her like a queen. And tell your friends and neighbors not to disturb you on that faithful dey because u guys may end up knacking. Na ur hand e dey.

Now u talk wetin way thy my mind

You are so confused that you had to remind us 3 times.
This state of confusion cannot be easily restored.

Go to the church, this is spiritual.

heendrix:
Begged her?? alas the simp she's long being looking for is here

You don't need no advice bro ur eyes go clear itself

the babe is probably going to groom you into meeting her needs soon enough. She’s also answering you now because she wants to keep you on a leash, so when she tells you roll on ur stomach, you’ll do so