DrFunmisticGlow:
ATM machine levels of provision? I am talking about Trips to fiji in the summer range rover and benz kinda provision, not the bread and butter with public transportation kind.

I am very wary of golddiggers
But for my future wife, as long as i am very stable financially, why not, she must enjoy life and enjoy my labor and sweat, that's why I married her in the first place, she would now give me enormous joy by giving me sons or daughters, then she we see the resources I'm willing to waste on her

DrFunmisticGlow:
ATM machine levels of provision? I am talking about Trips to fiji in the summer range rover and benz kinda provision, not the bread and butter with public transportation kind.

I can't marry until I attain wealth , if I don't attain wealth then I'm not marrying, why would I make a woman suffer , women are meant to enjoy in marriage and not live an average and mediocre lifestyle

Most of these ladies are bitch, after fucking half of the community, they now want to lure an innocent man into fake marriage, then after three month she will bleep the father in law.
woe unto those that condemn you for speaking up against the truth, probably the first lady to comment must be up to sth.
those curse are nt your own in jesus name..

BeautyO:
Wow . you are really heartless and you deserve those curses .. what if the guy that told he slept with her was lying?... and who are you to judge her .. so sad

Stop bin sentimental on dis case. Must dat man marry her? Is she afraid of not getting another man dat will marry her? If her xters r good , another man will marry her. Who gave her right to lay curses on him? Wat of oda people she has been offending? Has anyone laid curses on her? U don't know d meaning of marriage dats y u r sounding like dis. Tell ur brother to marry such lady .

nitt:

God bless you

amen

Lovethaa:






My life will never be wrecked IJN... yes karma is a bitch and I pray my friend will grow enough balls to tell the same of my wife too .. but I can bet my whole life on it that I will never wife a hoe

But how can you know sir if she is a church girl

Nonsky048:
it seems ur cursed already,for saying such,when you know that he can never escaped the curses even if the girl is not holy,how can he go and talk rubbish in the name of helping a friend,is he a pastor,

why the bad energy,have we met before?

DrFunmisticGlow:
if roles were reversed, i will mind my business if there's evidence that she's changed. If it is about sexual history, maybe that she has an STD, I will tell the friend.

I still feel that op was wrong. After all, men sleep around too. It is not as if she was lacking in character or a bad person, she just had a sexual history like everyone else. He bleeped up.

imagine your junior bro bringing a lady that has slept with about 7 different guys you know and he says he wanna her marry her.Please what would be your reaction?

BLOODYSPERM:




Very wrong
Emotional opinion, flawed reasoning

..... Sure its wrong because it didn't happen to you or your sister.......... What goes around comes around........ That's all I can say

AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

Minister and administrator of curses continue

Dude, although I don't support what you did, but then all those curse na wash. Nothing go happen. She just dey waste her breath.
When she was cursing you, you should have told her that those curses are mere words except she hasn't offended anybody in her life.
Guy go and sin no more.

Nonsky048:
it seems ur cursed already,for saying such,when you know that he can never escaped the curses even if the girl is not holy,how can he go and talk rubbish in the name of helping a friend,is he a pastor,

really! How many times have we cursed politicians that screw us around? So what has happened to them? Nada! Nothing go happen, they will still come back and fvck us harder!

generalwo:
..... Sure its wrong because it didn't happen to you or your sister.......... What goes around comes around........ That's all I can say

Ok Sir

I don't believe in karma

AsherAmari:
All of you cursing the op are wasting your time because he did what was best for his friend.

Would any of you allow your brothers to marry a public property?

Instead of you to learn from her ordeal, and stop now if you're too are messing around, youre busy taking sides with her and attacking the op.

When they say keep yourself as a girl, don't keep yourself o. Be jumping from Peter to Paul. A day of reckoning is coming. Mtchew.

ur comment really made me happy.....if u are really a lady then u are a rare gem in this stupid world we live today

You and Buhari are the same.

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

relax as long as your did it to save the interest of your friend then the curses have no weight coupled with the fact that it is true about her.yes that's it when they tell those girls to have a straight life they won't hear.chill bro

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

A girl who u didn’t disvirgin is causing u and u bothered smh u did the right thing next time she will learn to keep her legs close instead whoring around like a female dog

DrFunmisticGlow:
Men do soapy to save everyone from heartbreak.

I wouldn't blame the guy though, but real men don't rats. They don't destroy rather they build. I remember a similar case like this. Babe was a toast in the hood. I remember inviting her for a private erotic dance but not sex back in the days. I can count guys in my hood who mess with her. We use to called her Dorathy, she was a beauty. Boom one of my manly man, I called him man Friday because he was way so close with me more like a little brother fall in love with this girl. I heard about it, invite both of them to a fancy restaurant, make sure I gave them a treat. The following day, the girl came to my house to inform me that she is leaving my guy. I felt bad and advise her not to but rather she should go ahead and be with my guy, change her environment. I warned her to amend her ways. Like play, they both marry. I became the Godfather to their first son. Her uncle we didn't know about, helped them to Germany. Years later, In one of our conversation, my guy thanks me for not standing in a way between him and the wife.
As a man, you suck up some certain thing. We all mess up in this game of sex and whatnot. Nobody holy pass. As a lady know that every action has a consequence, be careful in this street, because it is a man's world.

What you did was wrong. Does it mean because she had affairs with few guys in your area, that means she should not settle down in her lifetime again? Even prostitutes get married. Sometimes, some of those stories may be lies. Guys lies so much just to feed their ego of being the superhero on "woman matter" when they are together.

You would have told your friend earlier about her past life - your friend can make an inform decision - beside, people can change. Don't USE any one past to judge them. You did the right THING at THE WRONG TIME. ASK FOR FORGIVENESS. MOVE ON.

As in.. u don't need to pile to his misery now.. leave him alone.. he will not just know peace

AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

simplepee:
See them wanting to have op's head. Omo, if men decide to be asking people who live in their gf's neighbourhood about their gfs, 90 percent will remain single all their lives. Reckless and wayward life doesn't pay, you can't eat your cake and have it. I wouldn't pray my brother marry a community pvssy.


Live a good life, man or woman.

u made me really happy for this comment....may u be happy always....u different from ur mate. I hail thee

gfon:
imagine your junior bro bringing a lady that has slept with about 7 different guys you know and he says he wanna her marry her.Please what would be your reaction?

I'll mind my business if he really wants to be with her, especially if she's a good person.

Raph3177:

A girl who u didn’t disvirgin is causing u and u bothered smh u did the right thing next time she will learn to keep her legs close instead whoring around like a female dog

isn't it manwhores and fuckboys she's sleeping with?

The hypocrisy.

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My Man, nothing go do you. You did nothing right, repercussion of her uncontrolled pussy.

Nothing go do you my guy.. You did nothing wrong na the guy mama prayers for him head answer

Most Nigerians are extremely stupid

Imagine trying to spend the rest of your life with a girl that's loosed , a girl that doesn't respect her private part
Now she wants to reap where she didn't show abi

And your own friend whom you had around with knows this girl is a community cake yet he can't tell you just because if what people will say ?
God forbid

If that my friend doesn't tell me and I later find out I'll hate him for life
A girl that sleeps around will surely do the same in her husband's house
If these oloshos have spreaded their smelly kpekus all over the community they'll be looking for where to hang on
You see all these women here bashing you ?

They're all oloshos on nairaland looking for where to hang on and believe me them no go see man marry

You did the right thing , it's better to hurt people with the truth that comfort them with lies and God bless you for not allowing that man add a life problem to his life


Lights up my kpoli in peace

MrIcredible:

To his daughter?
He'll definitely not raise his daughters the way your dad raised you so stfu!

I love you man.....no homo

DrFunmisticGlow:
I'll mind my business if he really wants to be with her, especially if she's a good person.

lol easier said than done

AllenSpencer:
Let me tell you the truth.

Those curses will forever follow and be upon you. Its beyond what any pastor or prophet can get you out of.

Wish I can add more to those curses without being banned.

You wrecked someone`s life cos of her past and think your own life wont get wrecked?

Bro! Karma is a bitch, It will screw you from the anus and cum in your mouth

curses do not follow anybody, unless they tell lies.i also believe that you would not have allowed your brother to marry a woman with that kind of character.

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

Dear OP
Everyone has a past
Chances are you may just apologise to the babe if you knew the sort of things and lifestyle your moms did/lived way back before meeting your dad and birthing you.
The poor babe's own might be child's play compared to what you'd find out.
Point is , you didn't do well especially as the relationship has been called off because of you.

Next time try to avoid being a meddlesome interloper.

gfon:
lol easier said than done

I have been in the situation. They're married now and had twins six months ago.

I missed the naming because of work.