DEMZEE:


Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options

As painful as it sounds, you are correct. Most men are as faithful as their options. Close to a decade in marriage I could say that men in my opinion men hardly attach emotions to sex. That's while the most unfaithful men take very good care of their family that you could sware for him being faithful. We ladies should continue to pray for our men, the temptation they over come is not here especially if your husband is a public figure like say a pastor, politician, doctor, MD or just about any high position, ladies will shamelessly flirt with them.

You know a faithful man in the midst of opportunity to cheat with no strings attached and no one will know and he decides to be faithful. Thats a faithful man, and when that happens he may not tell you,because he is doing it for himself not for you.

Faithfulness is marriage goes beyond character determination or principles. You need God to be faithful.

Afokesco:
why is it that when men cheat they are happy with it..but if they are cheated on..they will be extremely furious??

someone just caught his wife in the act. na the matter we set settle since.

(1) they just avoided a fight with their wife
(2) the man has just escaped a life time negative worry of the wife/gf but instead will be thinking of the girl he just strafd and LL be smiling
(3) shud I drop more?

Mrscarter:

Hey how are you. Lol na i didnt go anywhere.
Sometimes i just try not to comment much.
I tend to talk alot sometimes but other times i try mind my own lol.

I'm fine as usual. Lol, that's true. no wonder.

DEMZEE:


Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options

I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help

Franzinni:
Let me give you the answer ... Disclaimer ...this is my opinion.

Now when a man cheats he does it out of the urge to burst a nut... He goes back home to his wife and continues to perform his duty in his family...

But a woman will only cheat out of love ... They don't see sex like men do ... But another reason is the orientation of the masculine human being... Your wife's privates is tied your pride as a man and so if she gives it out ... It degrades the husband and bruise his ego.

But I guess men need to understand that women cheat just as much or even more than men... If dna test was cheap I bet you the country will be on fire by now.

A lot of sensibilities in this post. Wish I can like it a thousand times

culf:



I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help

A high value man can choose to be monogamous, my point is he still has options. His options didn't force him to b monogamous, he made himself monogamous by his decision nd not because of lack of options

Most men are monogamous because they have to because they lack options.

vickydankal:



As painful as it sounds, you are correct. Most men are as faithful as their options. Close to a decade in marriage I could say that men in my opinion men hardly attach emotions to sex. That's while the most unfaithful men take very good care of their family that you could sware for him being faithful. We ladies should continue to pray for our men, the temptation they over come is not here especially if your husband is a public figure like say a pastor, politician, doctor, MD or just about any high position, ladies will shamelessly flirt with them.

You know a faithful man in the midst of opportunity to cheat with no strings attached and no one will know and he decides to be faithful. Thats a faithful man, and when that happens he may not tell you,because he is doing it for himself not for you.

Faithfulness is marriage goes beyond character determination or principles. You need God to be faithful.

God bless you ma

Mrscarter:


Most are but i know some who arent.
Some actually put their values before their lust.
No matter how gud u are at hiding it its impossible not to get caught eventually. Some ppl have cheated once n never donr it again n some will do it as much as they want n can. So im not saying most ppl aint cheated at all just that not all of them cheat

Stop using ur feminine lens to determine how. Men cheat pls.

Men don't cheat,they just have sex
Women cheat

Men cheat by sharing his commitment, resources with other women asides his wife or wives. Men cheat by giving financial security to other women asides his wife or wives.

Men love sacrificially
Women love opportunistically

Men must create their value
Women are born with value

cheat they are happy with it..but if they are cheated on..they will be extremely furious??

someone just caught his wife in the act. na the matter we set settle since.[/quote] na so I dey here dey feel d heat

placeofallure:


Well said but some men when they cheat, they don't just burst a nut, they lose their minds as well. Their wives lose them to the new woman. Pray, what do we call that?

Speaking from experience.

Yes you're right but, mostimes, problematic issues at home from the wife causes the husband to cheat out,

Hogan17:

Yes you're right but, mostimes, problematic issues at home from the wife causes the husband to cheat out,

I agree with you just that it's not all the time that the woman is the cause of the problem.

placeofallure:


Well said but some men when they cheat, they don't just burst a nut, they lose their minds as well. Their wives lose them to the new woman. Pray, what do we call that?

Speaking from experience.

She didn't lose him but rather she didn't want to share him with the other woman. If his value was high enough she wud have stayed in that marriage and shared him with the other woman.

Every woman has a price, if he's high value man she will understand he has to be shared. She will just ensure she's the number one chic and the number one in the team of women the man has.

Me I do feel remorseful when I cheat o cos I go begin regret at the end cos n.a. waste of money and time......

why will the man be pain cos he caught his wife in the act? he has been cheating so drove away the wife's feeling away!

Abeg make them settle there matter..n.a. husband and wife matter!

Afokesco:
yes o. according to the man he said he came back from work at 1:00am. and he forgot his keys. he called his wife but her number was not reachable. then he looked from the window and heard some s*x noise. so he screamed and his neighbors came out from their various apartment.. due to shame the wife came out and the guy...some neighbor said the guy always come around when the husband is at work.. the lady introduced the guy to one of her neighbor as her cousin.. so the man screamed.. "wetin pain me say my wife dey screamed harder my husband never fvck me like this before" na once everybody burst laugh

valentineuwakwe:
Me I do feel remorseful when I cheat o cos I go begin regret at the end cos n.a. waste of money and time......

why will the man be pain cos he caught his wife in the act? he has been cheating so drove away the wife's feeling away!

Abeg make them settle there matter..n.a. husband and wife matter!

Men don't cheat, they just have sex

Afokesco:
why is it that when men cheat they are happy with it..but if they are cheated on..they will be extremely furious??

someone just caught his wife in the act. na the matter we set settle since.

Same goes for women

DEMZEE:


Stop using ur feminine lens to determine how. Men cheat pls.

Men don't cheat,they just have sex
Women cheat

Men cheat by sharing his commitment, resources with other women asides his wife or wives. Men cheat by giving financial security to other women asides his wife or wives.

Men love sacrificially
Women love opportunistically

Men must create their value
Women are born with value

I dont agree. Like i said not every person is the same.
The ways ppl cheat like u said r true but i dont believe all ppl are decietful. Cheating is deciet.
Plus there are people who value their partners
And their morals and their loyalty and relationships. Not everybody views things the same way therefore they dont do the same things.

thatsleepboy1:


I'm fine as usual. Lol, that's true. no wonder.

Yep lol.

Mrscarter:


I dont agree. Like i said not every person is the same.
The ways ppl cheat like u said r true but i dont believe all ppl are decietful. Cheating is deciet.
Plus there are people who value their partners
And their morals and their loyalty and relationships. Not everybody views things the same way therefore they dont do the same things.

If you want a high value man you should be ready to share him with other women. He has the leverage not u

DEMZEE:


If you want a high value man you should be ready to share him with other women. He has the leverage not u

Hahaha u think so?
Relationships arent about leverage.
People who think so will never know the true meaning or value of unconditional love and loyalty.

Mrscarter:


Hahaha u think so?
Relationships arent about leverage.
People who think so will never know the true meaning or value of unconditional love and loyalty.

Lol

Men must create their value
Women are born with value

Women love opportunistically
Men love idealistically

Women can never love unconditionally, they can only love men they respect and that respect comes from Wat the man can give them. Women don't know love but they do know respect.

Women only love their children unconditionally.

And yes relationships are all about leverage. He who needs the other the most is the one who has the least power in the relationship.

Afokesco:
why is it that when men cheat they are happy with it..but if they are cheated on..they will be extremely furious??

someone just caught his wife in the act. na the matter we set settle since.

It's a man's world

culf:



I disagree with the last statement, I know a lot of men that have options but chose to be faithful. Its a personal thing alongside God's help

Don't vouch for anyone, it's better to say you have not caught him!

SavageResponse:

Don't vouch for anyone, it's better to say you have not caught him!

I know these people I'm talking about, we do stuffs together

DEMZEE:


Lol

Men must create their value
Women are born with value

Women love opportunistically
Men love idealistically

Women can never love unconditionally, they can only love men they respect and that respect comes from Wat the man can give them. Women don't know love but they do know respect.

Women only love their children unconditionally.

And yes relationships are all about leverage. He who needs the other the most is the one who has the least power in the relationship.

Your logic is flawed. Ive dated broke men who had nothing but love to give and i know others whove done the same. Maybe in nigeria men value respect more than love but overall if u love someone u respect them anyway.
Not all women are after money. Plenty marry men who have no riches to offer. Plenty marry for love. As for need yes people in relationships need each other but not always for money. They need love they need understanfing they can need all kinds of things. Everyone is different. Everyone views things in their own way. Ppl have different values. Morals. Beliefs. U gotta remember nigeria is just one country in a world of many and relationships and values can vary in from place to place. So if you think this way maybe its all youve seen or known. But i can tell you everyone has different views on love and cheating.
If 2 rich ppl marry who has what leverage by your logic? U may not have loved a woman unconditionally or been loved unconfitionally maybe some day you will. I hope for you that you do. I dont see the need for sex outside of ypur relationship. A good wife/husband should be able to satisfy in every aspect. This is y ppl should be more careful who they marry. Get to know each other very well. Different aspects of relationships are more important to some than others. Some ppl pride themselves on their morals and maybe that includes loyalty and faithfulness even if the sex isnt the best theyve had they stay faithful. In a good relationship you should be able to work on anything thats an issue for one or the other and make it better. Thats what marraige is. Working together to build a happy life with the partner u chose to love so that life is good and happy for both. Bringing in outsiders can only cause stress n pain n drama. But there are some couples who have agreements like open relationships. So like i said everyones different and not all people see relationships and cheating the way you do.

DEMZEE:


If you want a high value man you should be ready to share him with other women. He has the leverage not u

Anyway i have a high value husband and i dont share him. Dont need to dont want to n never will. Unless im there to enjoy the part
Na im joking. But seriously tho he dont wanna be shared anyway hes satified wella

Mrscarter:


Your logic is flawed. Ive dated broke men who had nothing but love to give and i know others whove done the same. Maybe in nigeria men value respect more than love but overall if u love someone u respect them anyway.
Not all women are after money. Plenty marry men who have no riches to offer. Plenty marry for love. As for need yes people in relationships need each other but not always for money. They need love they need understanfing they can need all kinds of things. Everyone is different. Everyone views things in their own way. Ppl have different values. Morals. Beliefs. U gotta remember nigeria is just one country in a world of many and relationships and values can vary in from place to place. So if you think this way maybe its all youve seen or known. But i can tell you everyone has different views on love and cheating.
If 2 rich ppl marry who has what leverage by your logic? U may not have loved a woman unconditionally or been loved unconfitionally maybe some day you will. I hope for you that you do. I dont see the need for sex outside of ypur relationship. A good wife/husband should be able to satisfy in every aspect. This is y ppl should be more careful who they marry. Get to know each other very well. Different aspects of relationships are more important to some than others. Some ppl pride themselves on their morals and maybe that includes loyalty and faithfulness even if the sex isnt the best theyve had they stay faithful. In a good relationship you should be able to work on anything thats an issue for one or the other and make it better. Thats what marraige is. Working together to build a happy life with the partner u chose to love so that life is good and happy for both. Bringing in outsiders can only cause stress n pain n drama. But there are some couples who have agreements like open relationships. So like i said everyones different and not all people see relationships and cheating the way you do.

Marriage is not about love but duty, responsibility and family building. Disney love isn't reality.

I for one don't believe women build, they just move in.

Women love opportunistically and can never love unconditionally. If their man doesn't provide security for them, they monkey branch to another man. That's how women love.

Women cheat
Men only have sex

Women view sex differently from men

Men only cheat if they are not providing financial security to their wife or wives
Women show love through fidelity ie no being a hoe

High value men have options and leverage

Remember everyday a girl is turning 18yrs old

Mrscarter:


Anyway i have a high value husband and i dont share him. Dont need to dont want to n never will. Unless im there to enjoy the part
Na im joking. But seriously tho he dont wanna be shared anyway hes satified wella

So u are telling me ur husband is only fucking ur pussy??

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth

DEMZEE:


I for one don't believe women build, they just move in.

Women love opportunistically and can never love unconditionally. If their man doesn't provide security for them, they monkey branch to another man. That's how women love.

Women cheat
Men only have sex

Women view sex differently from men

Men only cheat if they are not providing financial security to their wife or wives
Women show love through fidelity ie no being a hoe

High value men have options and leverage

Remember everyday a girl is turning 18yrs old

Lol... it's just funny how Nigerian men claim to know everything about both genders. You even go as far as telling women more about themselves. There's no kind of logic you guys will not bring up to make cheating on the men's side seem okay.

But then, do you know why it's called cheating? It's not majorly about the se.x. It's more about the lies. It's called cheating cause you both agreed to be sexually exclusive and you go behind to breach that. The moment you falsely claim she's the only one you're sleeping with, you're cheating and such lies make you not be trust worthy. Tell me, what then is a relationship without trust? This has nothing to do with gender and it definitely has nothing to do with whether you've got emotional connection with the person you're sleeping with or not. Looking into the eyes of someone you claim to love and lying through your teeth is bad enough.

If se.x is appealing to you, it also appealing to other genders. And regardless of how anybody loves you, they'd always see someone they'd fancy sleeping with. It doesn't mean they don't love you anymore, it's just natural. If they're obliged not to give in to that desire, I don't see any logical reason why you should.

Anyway, I was just passing and decided to drop my opinion. Enjoy your day sir.

WoundedLamb:


Lol... it's just funny how Nigerian men claim to know everything about both genders. You even go as far as telling women more about themselves. There's no kind of logic you guys will not bring up to make cheating on the men's side seem okay.

But then, do you know why it's called cheating? It's not majorly about the se.x. It's more about the lies. It's called cheating cause you both agreed to be sexually exclusive and you go behind to breach that. The moment you falsely claim she's the only one you're sleeping with, you're cheating and such lies make you not be trust worthy. Tell me, what then is a relationship without trust? This has nothing to do with gender and it definitely has nothing to do with whether you've got emotional connection with the person you're sleeping with or not. Looking into the eyes of someone you claim to love and lying through your teeth is bad enough.

If se.x is appealing to you, it also appealing to other genders. And regardless of how anybody loves you, they'd always see someone they'd fancy sleeping with. It doesn't mean they don't love you anymore, it's just natural. If they're obliged not to give in to that desire, I don't see any logical reason why you should.

Anyway, I was just passing and decided to drop my opinion. Enjoy your day sir.

I understand u dude

That's why men should not lie to their women and they should stop fighting their promiscuous nature.

A promiscuous man is respected has to bring something of value to the market
A promiscuous woman is a hoe because she is born with value and is expected to retain her value.

Men and women view sex differently

A woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him the same way. But a man can Bleep other women and still love his wife.

In Nigeria men and women are fundamentally not equal

DEMZEE:


So u are telling me ur husband is only fucking ur pussy??

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth

Yes. I dont care if u believe it.
Not every person is decietful or sex crazy.
Its actually real that some people are actually faithful n satisfied with their partner sexually.
Could u imagine the spread of stds if everyone was so careless n loose with their bodies.
U n ur stupid feminism obsession. Not all women are femenist.

Nigerian females should be avoided by all means