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I will like to know your age.

doggedfighter:
Can you use paragraphs next time, please.

I am finding this hard to read.

Please can you point out where she cheated in this your childish story.

Or you are just trying to create a usual women bashing thread?


Where do women meet these children that call themselves boys?

SS 2 and SS 3 boys should stop creating threads here.

Gbam

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

First of all I don't see where or how she's cheating on you just because she didn't answer your call, secondly, its very petty and immature of you to intentionally ignore her calls, and when you now decide to answer the call you said she started it first... seriously?? You could have st least answered her call hear her out then meet up and have a proper one on one communication instead of letting your mind play tricks on you...

Geonigga:
The recent one is the fourth times she has repeated the same act and always calling back at wee hour of the night. I think have endured enough

you sound like someone who is obsessed .... Grow up man

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Silver247:
I just wish say nairaland get voice note..... Make I use am tell you say you be mumu

doggedfighter:
Can you use paragraphs next time, please.

I am finding this hard to read.

Please can you point out where she cheated in this your childish story.

Or you are just trying to create a usual women bashing thread?


Where do women meet these children that call themselves boys?

SS 2 and SS 3 boys should stop creating threads here.

Well i understood his construct perfectly well. May be u nid to get urself a school of insight... The only tin i agree with u, is d fact he didn't point out where d babe cheated.. Spot on.

To cut long story short,...

U be small pikin.

SmithRussell:
Which kind sense you get seff?? I don’t see how the girlfriend’s action showed that she wanted a fight, I mean, she called him multiple times. She probably ended the call because his reply sounded pretty childish to her.

And the Op seff.. You tried calling someone twice and the person didn’t take the call, it automatically implies cheating? The OP is uncivilized, hopeless and insecure.

Why did he ignore her calls until the next evening? If it’s just the one later that night, it’s okay, it’s anger, but he’s suppose to take the one in the morning and inquire the reason why she didn’t take the call. And now he’s here asking stupid questions.

Nairaland needs VN, make I take cuss am

Oga from the guy write up he is desperate to have her back and when he do the girl will start billing him

Relationship isn't for a SIMP like you. Always looking for problems where there are none. Grow up, little boy.

Your mates are busy racking in millions of naira every month in China and Singapore and you are here working for 20k a month to feed woman.. tomorrow u will start begging them to cut soap for you... no juju in money making its how u strategies urself makes things happen.. thank God I realizes this earlier in life

shiffynaani:
i swear bro. Even if na just 10s maximum voice note available to upload. E for sweet

This kind guys suppose de carry tag "I be mumu" for back If dem de outside...... Imagine wetin person wey get prick de talk

How did this even get to the front page?

My comment is coming late and I mean no disrespect, but you were immature and you behaved as much. As soon as she confirmed her suspicious that you weren't picking her call as retaliation for her not picking yours, she ghosted you. Do you realize that if you knew the reasons she didn't pick your calls you'd be like, oookaaaay. Because she ate at your house and you gave her naira note you felt entitled and therefore pissed that she didn't pick your calls again.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

Who started it first or who started it last doesn’t matter she called u back same night and early in the morning. For all we know she may have been sleeping, charging or not with her fone.

My own is how dare she cut the call on U!!!

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

OP from what l can deduce from this write up of yours you have behaved like a spoiled girl and your girl is the one that has behaved as the man.

Silver247:
I just wish say nairaland get voice note..... Make I use am tell you say you be mumu

i no go waste am for this can mumu. Na garba shehu I go insult.

AngelicDamsel:
If you react to an offense by repeating what the offender did, then you are at much fault as the offender.

Do me I do you. Man no go vex.



You are at fault. Apologize for your hasty conclusions founded on the foundation of assumptions.

Assumption kills relationship faster than anyone can describe.

My advice:
Be the man, lead every situation, be the bigger one, show strength, conquer her shortcomings with your manly wisdom; what is the wisdom? Boldness and courage to fix the issue and not the blame. This is the evidence of maturity. Addressing the issue and taking responsibility.




Never play a blame game with a person you love.



You get.



If she doesn't take it as an issue, then you two need to discuss. When there communication, you will discover more than what words can express. Communication is key.

Op, don't do any of this. No girl worth your time. You're the price; let her work to get you.
Finally, play games with girls else , they will break you. That girl is cheating on you. Everyone may be wrong but you guts isn't wrong. Ditch the bitch!

PrimadonnaO:
Are you for real though?

Do you realise she's living in somebody's house?

Do you know exactly what goes on in that house?

High chance she puts her phone on silent mode so it doesn't ring out. For reasons best known to her.

Maybe she's not comfortable talking calls where her aunty or aunt's husband is, so they don't turn it into an issue that she has a boyfriend.

But she always returns the calls, doesn't she?

Wouldn't the mature thing to have done been to ask her what her schedule's like so you know convenient times to call?

You don't circumspect, and if this is how you relate with everyone, then you'll always have issues with people.

Forget that thing. The girl is cheap and she's a cheat. No excuse can make up for not picking up. She was with someone else or fvcking another guy after which her conscience tells her to call the spear tyre - Op

Well you need apologize to the lady if you want to go ahead with the relationship because you were at fault. You called someone twice at different intervals and she didn’t pick. Didn’t you think that she may be busy or sleeping for not picking your calls. She returned your call and you refused to pick. You are quick to assume that she’s cheating on you with no proof because she didn’t pick your calls. You displayed immaturity.

SweetCunt97:
So you saying she must answer your calls at the time you called? Do u know if she was sleeping? Omo this guy na fooooooool! What kinda men do we have these days. She called you back and you msking a fuss like a biitch? Niggga gerrouurrahere

Better to be a fool than a spare tyre. Anyone who dates such a girl is a fool.

rawitools:
i no go waste am for this can mumu. Na garba shehu I go insult.

This garba shehu don really make you vex wey make you wan give am dis guy crown of mumu

lolz man you need to grow up.. where did she cheat in your story, you called and she did not pick naw means cheating? someone said both of you need knock but you're the one that deserve the knock.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

If not because I don't want you to feel insulted i would have said you don't have sense. She didn't pick your calls then you concluded she's creating common sense didn't tell you that you shouldn't judge before hearing? You should have picked her call hear the reasons she didn't pick you might be shocked knowing she's innocent. Some guys ehhh.

1beat:
you're not ripe for relationship.
you lack knowledge of handling marital issue.
because you have feed her for a night she must not do mistake. you need to learn how to over look something.

My dear this one is shocking ooooh it could be there's a genuine reason for that ooooh.

Most of u raining insult on this guy does even worse.... Hippocrates everywhere.
Brow call ur babe and sort things out... I understand ur pain but don't jump into conclusion... Meet her face to face in a cool place and ask her few questions while u look straight into her eye.

So let's assume she was charging the phone, or was on some errands since she lives with her auntie, or was asleep since it was night, or she was in church when u called or was with her auntie and didn't want to pick the call?

Guy am still waiting for where u caught her cheating on you!

Relationship is not for kids!!

What kinda insane story is this? Dude are you high? How did you get here?

I think it's high time the mods on here were changed.
Why push this rubbish to the frontpage

You're not ripe for relationship my dear brother, I will advise you let go of your pride and simply apologize to her for she has not wrong you in any way.
Thanks!

You and this your girlfriend again? Una wahala be like Buhari and his boko haram, dem no dey finish..

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

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