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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by chicogentil(m): 7:59pm On Apr 25, 2021
How some men take mumu like this??
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Richsteemit: 8:06pm On Apr 25, 2021
Sense is far away from this guy. Don't worry when she use knife to stab that your sense you go know. Immediately she is using knife to threaten u dem no dey tell person before u run. May be u don buy ABA made bulletproof to withstand the knife when she stab u. Don't worry keep on with the relationship. Even if she point gun at you don't runoo. Relationship kill you there!!

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 25, 2021
This one go soon collect stabing wey him no go live to tell grin
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by peropoliet(m): 8:35pm On Apr 25, 2021
GIDIBANKZ:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday to my Co-Nairalanders, I Need your advise on how to tackle this My relationship issue if to End it or Continue with it

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8months now and the relationship was going smoothly until she started showing me her real colour which I didn't really see to be anything because I think for relationship to move forward you have to tolerate each other, but the one that pains me most is each time I talk to her about issues she will get angry when she knows she is wrong and she will want me to apologize to her for her wrong which I keep complaining about. I will call her privately and she will still want me to apologize to her.
So today after church we decided to do some home cleaning and she brought out some trash to burn outside ...while burning them the fire extended to a near by bush and the fire was allover the place, I quickly came outside to put off the fire and I was angry & I shouted at her that why will she burn trash in the afternoon when she is aware that its not Good. She took I as offense and went inside. so I went into the room to continue with what I was doing, after like 30mins I discover that the food she was cooking was already burning. And I was because I shouted at her dats why she took I as offense?? So I got angry and told her that since she doesn't want to stop this her character that she will go and meet DOS that will tolerate her. She got up and went straight to the room to carry her bag that she was going, I stop her not to go any where and she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go. I thought she was joking and I told her to drop my things before leaving my house bcose I wouldn't look for her again. She den use her bag to hit me and even use the knife on me and blood started coming from that spot. I got angry and took my ATM from her and throw her things out of my House. So she started using words on me that am a woman beater.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

MIND YOU, I AIN'T PERFECT

My fellow frnds please advise me on what to do in this relationship thank you

Lala pls do the need full, pls help me push the Post to front desk/page

Thank you all as you advise me on what to do
young I will leave you with 2 choices one is either you leave her or your family start looking for a graphics designer for your obituary poster
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 25, 2021
SweetCunt97:
So in ur mind she intentionally made d fire to extend into the bushes right? I am sure you shouted at her outside like a kid forgetting that a relationship is all about friendship and partnership. Abi she tells you to say d correction her parents gave her no dey enough? Abegi

So the reason she has to pick a knife like a tout?

OP until you are stab to death then body go tell you. Run from any woman that can't apologize.

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by SweetCunt97(f): 8:52pm On Apr 25, 2021
BiggyB242:


So the reason she has to pick a knife like a tout?

OP until you are stab to death then body go tell you. Run from any woman that can't apologize.
I didnt ask him to stay though.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Chibuzoc(m): 9:00pm On Apr 25, 2021
You are a dead man just one night wey sleep go de sweet then comes the knife or even your D anytime she notice that you are cheating grin

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:02pm On Apr 25, 2021
SweetCunt97:
I didn't ask him to stay though.

But you never mentioned it, which of the actions need more attention, him scolding her or she threatening him with a knife.

I shake my head when I see guys taking advice from a woman on an issue that involves man and woman. The advice is always in favour of the woman.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by SweetCunt97(f): 9:06pm On Apr 25, 2021
BiggyB242:


But you never mentioned it, which of the actions need more attention, him scolding her or she threatening him with a knife.
Well, y stop her from leaving? People do crazy shit when angry. I'm personally scared of d shii i could do when angry so I've mastered d art of keeping calm.

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:09pm On Apr 25, 2021
SweetCunt97:
Well, y stop her from leaving? People do crazy shit when angry. I'm personally scared of d shii i could do when angry so I've mastered d art of keeping calm.

Keep it up..
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by martinsoreoluwa: 9:29pm On Apr 25, 2021
@ Op RIP is loading if u don't dump her ASAP. na So e dey start. if your life get duplicate u can continue with her and see where it will end.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by yetunsbay(m): 9:29pm On Apr 25, 2021
If u reconcile with her, na u fvck up
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by phemy36(m): 9:33pm On Apr 25, 2021
Nigerian females should be avoided by all means
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Xxx123xxx(m): 9:48pm On Apr 25, 2021
Tadeknkeepcalm:
undecided undecided undecided undecided
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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by CheedyJ(m): 11:18pm On Apr 25, 2021
squash47:


And then He should go to Aso Rock and receive a National award of Simpism and Mumuism.

Then he should go to national Assembly, so that Sen. Rochas OKorocha will give him a medal for his unimaginable level of Iberiberism.

And maybe okorocha might also erect a befitting statue for him to celebrate him..

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by CheedyJ(m): 11:19pm On Apr 25, 2021
obinna58:
I see two people with anger issues

You have no right to shout at her over wrong doings cos she's a human being, no one is perfect Just correct her with calmness
Easier said
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by NiklauseFred(m): 11:30pm On Apr 25, 2021
squash47:


And then He should go to Aso Rock and receive a National award of Simpism and Mumuism.

Then he should go to national Assembly, so that Sen. Rochas OKorocha will give him a medal for his unimaginable level of Iberiberism.


And also build a statue for him. undecided

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by royalair(m): 12:50am On Apr 26, 2021
The Child That Dances Surugede Doesn't Know That Surugede Is The Dance Of The Spirit!!!. grin
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by DMCY: 4:17am On Apr 26, 2021
SweetCunt97:
So in ur mind she intentionally made d fire to extend into the bushes ryt? I am sure you shouted at her outside like a kid forgetting that a relationship is all about friendship and partnership. Abi she tell you say d correction her parents gave her no dey enough? Abegi

Lol, and that justifies her attitude for intentionally getting the food burnt? For using using sharp objects on the OP?

A quick question to you jhare, what would you advice your son to do in this situation please?

Your answer will be highly appreciated

Don’t be unfortunate to trash talk me BC I Dey bite o

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Dreyton36: 5:39am On Apr 26, 2021
Chai sad
Local simp

I can bet my balls that babe is a codes runs babe
She alone lacks manners
Lacks good demeanor
Anybody on this planet earth who don't accept their wrongs
Anybody on the planet earth who is unapologetic
Even if they're your family members, avoid them like a bad habit
I can imagine my own girl cutting my skin just bc she get toto chai that day heaven go fall

Relationship kill you there , na until she kill you your eye go clear and it'll be too late , when women plenty pass money nowadays

Lights up my kpoli in peace sad

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:22am On Apr 26, 2021
You people are already living as husband and wife?? Hm.

This is exactly what we've been treating in Sunday for two weeks now. "PREMARITAL COHABITATION". very wrong. And all the issues you're having is a result of that. The devil is having a filled day with both of you.

Now, any one violent enough to draw out a knife or any weapon during a misunderstanding is a no no. He or she can kill. You don't even need anyone to tell you this. You might not be lucky the next time.

Lastly, stop cohabiting with a girl you've not married and this goes to all nairalanders that are still doing that nonsense.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Mrscarter(f): 6:32am On Apr 26, 2021
GIDIBANKZ:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday to my Co-Nairalanders, I Need your advise on how to tackle this My relationship issue if to End it or Continue with it

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8months now and the relationship was going smoothly until she started showing me her real colour which I didn't really see to be anything because I think for relationship to move forward you have to tolerate each other, but the one that pains me most is each time I talk to her about issues she will get angry when she knows she is wrong and she will want me to apologize to her for her wrong which I keep complaining about. I will call her privately and she will still want me to apologize to her.
So today after church we decided to do some home cleaning and she brought out some trash to burn outside ...while burning them the fire extended to a near by bush and the fire was allover the place, I quickly came outside to put off the fire and I was angry & I shouted at her that why will she burn trash in the afternoon when she is aware that its not Good. She took I as offense and went inside. so I went into the room to continue with what I was doing, after like 30mins I discover that the food she was cooking was already burning. And I was because I shouted at her dats why she took I as offense?? So I got angry and told her that since she doesn't want to stop this her character that she will go and meet DOS that will tolerate her. She got up and went straight to the room to carry her bag that she was going, I stop her not to go any where and she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go. I thought she was joking and I told her to drop my things before leaving my house bcose I wouldn't look for her again. She den use her bag to hit me and even use the knife on me and blood started coming from that spot. I got angry and took my ATM from her and throw her things out of my House. So she started using words on me that am a woman beater.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

MIND YOU, I AIN'T PERFECT

My fellow frnds please advise me on what to do in this relationship thank you

Lala pls do the need full, pls help me push the Post to front desk/page

Thank you all as you advise me on what to do

The girl has anger issues.
How can one use a knife on another person even in anger n especially someone u care about. Na i would kick her ass out n cut her off altogether n move on. What if she gets angry one day n stabs or cuts too deep n intentionally or accidentally kills you or even disfigure you?
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Mrscarter(f): 6:35am On Apr 26, 2021
SweetCunt97:
So in ur mind she intentionally made d fire to extend into the bushes ryt? I am sure you shouted at her outside like a kid forgetting that a relationship is all about friendship and partnership. Abi she tell you say d correction her parents gave her no dey enough? Abegi

Still no need to cut him with a knife!
What if she intentionally or accidentally disfigures or kills him.
Relationship is about partnership yes but its obvious she cant control her anger

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Heineken(m): 7:57am On Apr 26, 2021
How can you as a guy allow a girl use knife on you? How una start that kind play? This is totally wrong... My girl can't even shout at me, highest if I'm wrong I'll pet her later and her own anger be say she won't even answer anything you're saying at the moment.. Nawao.

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by seanwilliam(m): 8:58am On Apr 26, 2021
obinna58:
I see two people with anger issues

You have no right to shout at her over wrong doings cos she's a human being, no one is perfect Just correct her with calmness

See nonsense talk for mouth . What if the fired burnt that the whole building ? She was corrected outside so what ? And she went inside and purposely left the food to burn , and u expect me to draw her nearer and kiss her forehead?


Omo im so ashamed I share same gender with you .

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by seanwilliam(m): 9:05am On Apr 26, 2021
Heineken:
How can you as a guy allow a girl use knife on you? How una start that kind play? This is totally wrong... My girl can't even shout at me, highest if I'm wrong I'll pet her later and her own anger be say she won't even answer anything you're saying at the moment.. Nawao.



My girlfriend was calling me animal and pet name ( imagine calling me cow) I broke up with her. She was apologizing through her mama. Her mama was like her she was just joking ni, I told the woman that I’ve warned her countless numbers of time that make she no Dey call me nonsense name ( cow, ode, all this ye ye name).
Although I love the girl so much and she fine die, but I’ve learnt that if I Fail to correct her on little things , it will metamorphosed into bigger thing I won’t be able to tolerate .

I don’t take shit from women and I don’t give shit to women .


Why on earth will u be using knife on me cos I correct you ?

I swear , that’s the end of the relationship..

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Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Heineken(m): 9:12am On Apr 26, 2021
seanwilliam:



My girlfriend was calling me animal and pet name ( imagine calling me cow) I broke up with her. She was apologizing through her mama. Her mama was like her she was just joking ni, I told the woman that I’ve warned her countless numbers of time that make she no Dey call me nonsense name ( cow, ode, all this ye ye name).
Although I love the girl so much and she fine die, but I’ve learnt that if I Fail to correct her on little things , it will metamorphosed into bigger thing I won’t be able to tolerate .

I don’t take shit from women and I don’t give shit to women .


Why on earth will u be using knife on me cos I correct you ?

I swear , that’s the end of the relationship..
lol boss seriously it's somehow to me too o. Knife ke. That means when they marry sef the girl go fit dey slap am inside house. That's if she never start already.. Wetin person no go fit take when hyn rich, na from when hyn poor hyn dey stop am na.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Realtosin: 9:42am On Apr 26, 2021
I'm an OAP with a radio station in Ekiti state and I run a program which is tagged AFM live STORIES. The program receives stories like this for the aged and experienced to advise the concerned..... However, if the concerned is far away, I can record and send to the person in question via WhatsApp. I think I'm permitted to air this story for people to advise you.. Thanks
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by MrSly(m): 9:47am On Apr 26, 2021
GIDIBANKZ:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday to my Co-Nairalanders, I Need your advise on how to tackle this My relationship issue if to End it or Continue with it

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8months now and the relationship was going smoothly until she started showing me her real colour which I didn't really see to be anything because I think for relationship to move forward you have to tolerate each other, but the one that pains me most is each time I talk to her about issues she will get angry when she knows she is wrong and she will want me to apologize to her for her wrong which I keep complaining about. I will call her privately and she will still want me to apologize to her.
So today after church we decided to do some home cleaning and she brought out some trash to burn outside ...while burning them the fire extended to a near by bush and the fire was allover the place, I quickly came outside to put off the fire and I was angry & I shouted at her that why will she burn trash in the afternoon when she is aware that its not Good. She took I as offense and went inside. so I went into the room to continue with what I was doing, after like 30mins I discover that the food she was cooking was already burning. And I was because I shouted at her dats why she took I as offense?? So I got angry and told her that since she doesn't want to stop this her character that she will go and meet DOS that will tolerate her. She got up and went straight to the room to carry her bag that she was going, I stop her not to go any where and she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go. I thought she was joking and I told her to drop my things before leaving my house bcose I wouldn't look for her again. She den use her bag to hit me and even use the knife on me and blood started coming from that spot. I got angry and took my ATM from her and throw her things out of my House. So she started using words on me that am a woman beater.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

MIND YOU, I AIN'T PERFECT

My fellow frnds please advise me on what to do in this relationship thank you

Lala pls do the need full, pls help me push the Post to front desk/page

Thank you all as you advise me on what to do
You saw problem you arent comfortable with but still want people to validate your decision before you act. okay keep waiting.
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by SweetCunt97(f): 9:59am On Apr 26, 2021
DMCY:


Lol, and that justifies her attitude for intentionally getting the food burnt? For using using sharp objects on the OP?

A quick question to you jhare, what would you advice your son to do in this situation please?

Your answer will be highly appreciated

Don’t be unfortunate to trash talk me BC I Dey bite o
They not compatible so he should simply leave her. Trash talk you? Why na
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by obinna58(m): 10:19am On Apr 26, 2021
seanwilliam:


See nonsense talk for mouth . What if the fired burnt that the whole building ? She was corrected outside so what ? And she went inside and purposely left the food to burn , and u expect me to draw her nearer and kiss her forehead?


Omo im so ashamed I share same gender with you .
Yes exactly, draw her near and kiss her forehead
Re: Relationship Crisis With My Girlfriend by Heineken(m): 10:20am On Apr 26, 2021
obinna58:

Yes exactly, draw her near and kiss her forehead
bro please are you serious or kidding?

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