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udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

Don't panic bro, it's the pregnancy, that stuff do mess up women badly...

My cool aunt always turn wild when she's pregnant.... It's the pregnancy bro

udoji2021:
That was my plan but the pregnancy is just 5months. Thinking of how to endure it for long is what will actually kill me. She can be violent sometimes and start hitting me. Infact, i think she is possesed by something recently cos her actions are NOT normal

the pregnancy is the cause....

udoji2021:
Don't be quick to judge Sir, Let me ask you.

Can you fold your hands and recieve beatings from your wife?

Can you allow your wife to send u out the room in the night?

Can you allow your to sleeping while u go to the farm, cook, wash her cloths and all?

I did all this and more for peace to reign.

ezugegere:
My brother, the reason all those are happening is because she is pregnant. Get that. When some women are pregnant, they behave crazily. What you need patient. She will come back to her former self

Like she's the first to get pregnant.

We understand the cravings. Even at that, the guy is poor.

What about the laziness? So lazy, she couldn't even cook or wash cloth at just 5 month into the pregnancy. What will now happen by the 7th, 8th 9th month?

What about the violent part? Abeg, pity this poor dude.

abeniagbon:
Guy Say POVERTY FIRE

POVERTY FIRE

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

@first of all you don't need any advice..POVERTY IS A DISEASE EVEN LOVE CAN'T CURE...OGBENI DOUBLE YOUR HUSTLE

She was not like this until she got pregnant. So wait, if after delivery she is still acting like this than there is a problem. Pregnancy can change a woman, telling you by experience

You impregnated your wife, you still expected her to go and be farming for you. Lazy somebody, please don't kill her

PCSI:
Please run away and never come back.

You are coming online for advice.

Nkita

Must you advertise your stupidity?

udoji2021:
Don't be quick to judge Sir, Let me ask you.

Can you fold your hands and recieve beatings from your wife?



Can you allow your wife to send u out the room in the night?


Can you allow your to sleeping while u go to the farm, cook, wash her cloths and all?





I did all this and more for peace to reign.

all what you're saying is meaningless... I know some people who does all those you mentioned up there and even more when their wife is pregnant and you said it yourself that she wasn't like this when you first married. stop listening to people and find how you can manage your home till she delivers,then you can carry out the decision you longed for....

udoji2021:
Thank you

which thank you. You must marry her. No running away. Don't you know that marriage these days required you to be financially stable. Unlike in those days when they use farming to feed the family. Oga things have changed. You have to face reality. Don't run away like a coward. Stand like a man and fix your marriage.

Double your hustle, don't indulge in bad things to please your woman.
Good luck.

maasoap:
Like she's the first to get pregnant.

We understand the cravings. Even at that, the guy is poor.

What about the laziness? So lazy, she couldn't even cook or wash cloth at just 5 month into the pregnancy. What will now happen by the 7th, 8th 9th month?

What about the violent part? Abeg, pity this poor dude.

Thank you for this, many people are ignoring the her violent part completely.

If all this is because of pregnancy, I will be dead by the time the pregnancy is 7-9months.

udoji2021:
POVERTY FIRE

After she don give birth double your hustle, maybe make you come to Lagos come work or probably after you farm product get those good to Lagos and sell to make extra money

udoji2021:
Thank you.

I'm a devoted NKST member but since I was not able to pay her bride price and invite the church elders, they even cut my name from the church for a period of 2yrs, I can not even sit for holy Communion talkless of them helping me.


Family members are out of my equation cos they seems tired with me and I'm in the village where it is very hard to contact NGOs in such issue. my best bet here is farming which I'm taking it seriously and I believe I will be better by next year.

my problem is not really financial, I just want my wife to understand me

alright Bro
you are good to Go

just learn some Principles of spiritual warfare
( authors and materials abound online and offline)

someone that loves you unconditionally as you eloquently put it can't just start "hating " just like that

something out of the ordinary might be likely involved

i would recommend DR DK OLUKOYA SERMONS ON YOUTUBE FOR YOU.

download as many as possible and deal with the enemy comemsuratly

SweetCunt97:
Rubbish. Na una dey tolerate d nonsense naw. Mtcheeeew

Imagine that! Some heartless vigilantes would shoot at you first or beat you blue black before asking questions

On behalf of the MGTOW community, we ignore this thread. We reserve our comments. A lesson to men that will fall for the gimmicks of those creatures called WOMEN.

Once again if you want to live life to the fullest leave these things called women, a word is enough for the brainy

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

op, your wife is a good wife, women normally behaves crazily when they are pregnant as a result of pregnancy hormone, believe me, after childbirth, she will changed for good, most of the things she's doing now, she isn't aware of them, my wife is equally pregnant, I wash her cloths, clean the house sometimes, I no longer use a perfumed soap, I no longer use body sprays, infact, immediately she perceives the odour of anything perfume, she vomits, but in all this, I am still patient with her because I know once she puts to bed, everything ends, I can go on and on for you, one day I had to go out in the middle of the night to look for ice block for peace to reign, sometimes I get her what she requested for only for her to tell me later that she lost her appetite, be patient, that is what makes you a man, don't get angry at her, she needs you now more than ever.

PCSI:
Please run away and never come back.

You are coming online for advice.

Nkita

If that is how people run away when there is problem in marriage, there will be no married people left. Don't forget all these started after she got pregnant, it could be the Pregnancy

Shes not your wife
Shes your concubine

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

Oga you disappoint me, I swear. Don't you know pregnant women act up? That she chased you out in the middle of the night to get bananas for her should let you know. They crave weird things in that state. It's called Pica. They act weird too. Man up and stand by her as she's stood by you. I'm a guy btw.

U no get money but you sabi fvck.

Like the popular saying goes: If you cannot feed three mouths apart from yourself daily, forget about marriage.

You ve not seen anything, let her out to bed first, additional responsibilities loading

INCREDIBLE007:
alright Bro
you are good to Go

just learn some Principles of spiritual warfare
( authors and materials abound online and offline)

someone that loves you unconditionally as you eloquently put it can't just start "hating " just like that

something out of the ordinary might be likely involved

i would recommend DR DK OLUKOYA SERMONS ON YOUTUBE FOR YOU.

download as many as possible and deal with the enemy comemsuratly

I earlier pointed out that I'm hearing impaired, I can make use of YouTube videos effectively.

Thanks for your concern anyway

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

things went north or south? I thought south is the expression for things going bad? You are a funny human being i swear. look at the rubbish you brought online...

You sef change, let the looser be humbled
Shey na this kind hard country man still they worry about women changes, abi you no one say women get more than a million characters

Lights up my kpoli in peace

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

you be real idiot!

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

. CHANGE HER !

Farming is good, but I can only advice you to go into petty trading, with that you can make quick profit and be useful to your family. No need crying and wining. Take up the responsibility, life is not fair to anyone. Arise and face life.

Strong men seeks for solution, Weak men quit...

Pregnancy made her that way. From your story, you're a very lazy person. When you were in trouble she stood for you, now that she's pregnant you should stand for her. Young man, you married a wife and not a house maid. Secondly, lack of money can do anything to anyone. I'd advice you work harder, take more business risks and see what happens to you in the future. Your story will turn around for the better. If you run away you're a failure and a grave mistake for YOUR WIFE. This means that you've proved her family right that you were a wrong choice for her. Don't make her regret for choosing you among others as her life partner (Come, i'm sure you don't know what that means). You better wake up to reality and face your problems. Who are you leaving your responsibilities for when you run away? Your wife; your responsibility. No sane person would ask you to run away if what you say in your story is true. You want to run from your crush #LifeTimeWife
Think again!

Freestainworld:
op, your wife is a good wife, women normally behaves crazily when they are pregnant as a result of pregnancy hormone, believe me, after childbirth, she will changed for good, most of the things she's doing now, she isn't aware of them, my wife is equally pregnant, I wash her cloths, clean the house sometimes, I no longer use a perfumed soap, I no longer use body sprays, infact, immediately she perceives the odour of anything perfume, she vomits, but in all this, I am still patient with her because I know once she puts to bed, everything ends, I can go on and on for you, one day I had to go out in the middle of the night to look for ice block for peace to reign, sometimes I get her what she requested for only for her to tell me later that she lost her appetite, be patient, that is what makes you a man, don't get angry at her, she needs you now more than ever.

Noted sir.

may God bless our mat

udoji2021:
I get the point now.

As a lady, what do suggest i should do? Cos no human can be able to endure this kind of situation for good nine months

She is pregnant na!

When my once Sweet lovely friend came to squat with me in the hostel back in school days...oh boy! I almost left the hostel for her! Her nagging no be here and she frustrated me so much because she was pregnant! I’m sure her hubby must have gone through x50 of what she put me through. So calm down!

Lomprico2:
you be real idiot!

Thank y

AfriNotesNEWS:
My brother her behavior is normal with few women when pregnant..

I will advise you to stop paying attention on her recent behavior and don't stop loving her..

You will learn to be more silent to her action and wise at accepting responsibilities that comes with marriage. Children


Don't run away from your house and don't hate her..don't instigate ur sister to hate her

Is funny her family is not in support of ur union..

Las las

U did not state where she came from

If she is from Benue or Kogi... My dear is normal things with them and her family may have reason for not supporting her to marriage at this time

Be patient, love her stand by her

Work hard
.
If you are into farming strive to increase ur seedings and farming..


Also go to buy and selling of agro crops


When she put to bed.. if she is from Benue or Kogi.. don't give her to chance.. get her pregnant as soon as possible.. or ex.. she may be the one to run out from ur home as soon as she put to bed and believe that her body is strong..


Sorry and be patient.

do u even think before u typed the bolded? Get her pregnant amidst poverty ??

udoji2021:
Life is sweet generally but can be cruel to others.

I was once a happy guy with a bright future but marriage is practically killing me. It all started when I become sick and was admitted in a hospital. my aged mother was the person staying with me and was responsible for my everything. inside the ward, another patient was with this very beautiful girl that was very hard working, my condition was critical that my mother will have to bath me sometimes, this girl now started helping my mother and to a point, my mother will leave her to be taking care of me and go home.

I become close to her, but i use to think that she just pity my condition and wanted to help so I did not think of having any relationship with her. I was later discharge and went home but since we exchange our contacts earlier, we use to talk often. I asked her one day to visit me which she agreed. To my surprise, this girl brought some provision for me and slept over in my house. she continue visiting till one day, I told her that if i was strong and capable, I would have loved to date her. she confessed instantly that she was really interested in me and did not care about my condition. According to her, she was born in a poor family and can handle the pressure of been broke, that she will be the happiest person if I love her back the way she loves me. I was moved with her words and to cut the story short, we started dating.

Her parents were highly against the relationship initially but when they become tired of us, they allow us to do our thing but never involve them if something happened. fast to December last year, we got married. I was not even able to pay 1h to her parents. she just pack her things and join me in my house. we were the happiest couple on Earth till things started going north.

First, we agreed to do many things in the farm against hunger next year, we started with melon farm, then groundnut and yams. we were still on this and I must confess that she is hard working but pregnancy came and this girl started misbehaving, she will not follow me to the farm again and will not even cook for me. I dare not complain cos she will insult me seriously. sometimes, I will tell my sister to cook but this girl will not eat it because the food is bad.

One night, she sent me out of the room in the night that I must get bananas for her to eat. I suffered that night till I got it from one woman on credit cos I was not having money on me. last month, she was sick and visited one private clinic, I was to give her 10k for her treatment but did not have the money so I told her to give me 4days to look for it, there was no insult I did not receive that night. I have to sell my yam seeds and pay. infact, I'm tired of this life presently cos i use to think that she will help me but the reverse is the case now.

Please I need advice on the way forward, I want to run away from home but she is pregnant, her people refused to help us too cos they warned her before.

pls advice me

Are you Hausa or Fulani?