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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Romanoff(f): 5:20pm On May 07, 2021
6 weeks with vaginal birth, around 3 months for a cesarean to enable to scar heal properly.

All in all, make sure she's ready and in the right frame of mind.

Cause pregnancy takes its toll and some women have post partum depression or body image issues.

Make her feel sexy so she that she will be the one begging you sef.

Then help out. Child care in the first three months is hectic, lack of sleep, chores, no time for herself, so help out so she's not stressed out. If she's stressed out, she wouldn't even have sex on her mind.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by IYANGBALI: 5:20pm On May 07, 2021
Billyonaire666:


Have you asked your wife how her own bodi dey do her?
her body too dey for road nau grin grin
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Gagare1(m): 5:20pm On May 07, 2021
3 months minimum before the do. You won't like what you will see earlier than that. Browse on lochia.

Also, first three months after birth can be tough for wifey, and you know that a woman's chance of reaching cloud 9 can well be affected by her state of mind. Try to help her out in ways that will reduce her stress, get her mind ready long before her body is ready (2 months from now). Make her take a lot of fruits and water to quicken healing and flushing of her body. Two months from now she will be ready to say you name in all known languages.

Point is, when dealing with a woman who just put to bed, it is wise to put her needs before yours no matter how pressing your needs are. She visited hell and came back.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by sgtponzihater1(m): 5:21pm On May 07, 2021
Why not make her ask for it. When she does then she is ready. Usually 2-3 months.
I found I had to wait for nearly 6-8 months in my own case. Tough time for men.

Congrats on your new baby.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by alizma: 5:21pm On May 07, 2021
Bornsinner7:
grin grin

Immediately sir.. no time to waste as long as your machine is sound and functioning..
Without considering her own part abi?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Blue3k(m): 5:21pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers


Call her doctor
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by OsuIgboIpob: 5:22pm On May 07, 2021
AroleOduduwa2:
Congrats. Your wife will let you know when she’s ready. Don’t rush her and please don’t cheat on her.
Why?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:22pm On May 07, 2021
WinterMinter:
Why do you hate it?

It irritates me mostly when people use it to justify their infidelity.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by OsuIgboIpob: 5:22pm On May 07, 2021
salbis:
3 to 6 months is ideal.
You're not normal...
How old are you?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Missyajoke(f): 5:22pm On May 07, 2021
Give her time at least two months anything more than that is something else
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by favour32(m): 5:23pm On May 07, 2021
Oga after 6 or 8 weeks and it depends on the health of your wife.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by donestk(m): 5:24pm On May 07, 2021
No side chic?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Bmaster(m): 5:24pm On May 07, 2021
loveymom:
I hate the slogan “body no be firewood” undecided
you hating on facts then,
Because true true body no be firewood
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by EMMYMON(m): 5:24pm On May 07, 2021
Oga! she's your wife, talk to her about it. I really know she's also having feeling for .....

Is this your first child?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Easyincome24: 5:25pm On May 07, 2021
Imagine you were present in the labour room where she delivered, you will pity her and be patient for awhile.

It took her 9 months or so to give you a child and you want her to start having s*x after 1month.

The body system of women varies from one another. Some feel like going back to their old sexy ways in no long time while it takes awhile for others to recuperate.

IMO, give her some time. You can be romantic with her, if she clicks you two can blow but if otherwise change the beat.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by nedupel(m): 5:25pm On May 07, 2021
This guy must be an uhrobo or isoko man.
What if belle enter again?
Nnam relax.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Reelmii: 5:25pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers
there is no abnormal delivery, we have virginal delivery and CS, be guided

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by techstack: 5:25pm On May 07, 2021
5 months
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by OsuIgboIpob: 5:26pm On May 07, 2021
InaNla:
AFTER 6 months
By then, him for don get like two fuckmates... You'll understand when you grow up.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Mutemenot(m): 5:26pm On May 07, 2021
Have you lost your ex contact This is the right time to remember them for a revision grin

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Hormorgha88: 5:26pm On May 07, 2021
Back her sharp sharp
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Cousin9999: 5:27pm On May 07, 2021
How about you give this woman's body a break?

I mean, she just pushed a melon out of it. Can she rest? Furthermore, carrying a child, even months after, takes a lot out of the body, physically and mentally. Be happy and thankful if she has a smooth pregnancy. And try to be supportive as she recovers. Be a good husband, and don't act like a teenager that's never had a woman.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by aspabay(m): 5:27pm On May 07, 2021
thorpido:
Did she have a normal delivery or a C/S?

Read before comment.

BTW, CS and virginal birth are normal.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Reelmii: 5:27pm On May 07, 2021
thorpido:
Did she have a normal delivery or a C/S?
is there anything like normal delivery, u people are learned now... na wah oo

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:27pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers
It is your wife's body that determines. When she is ready you both can continue and even make up for the lost 'time'. Female body are different but normally doctors will say 3 months but I had to wait for 6 months because I want her body to really rest well plus the kind sex and style wey I dey like give her make yawa no come gas.... But most importantly her body and health is more important than any konji wey go worry you... Ehhh

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Chisaedhor: 5:27pm On May 07, 2021
madskills:
Idiat, why you no ask the woman involved if she is ready to receive you?

I no blame you
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by InaNla(f): 5:28pm On May 07, 2021
OsuIgboIpob:

By then, him for don get like two fuckmates... You'll understand when you grow up.


Are u in this world only for that?
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 07, 2021
Black man can never be useful , that why they are suffering, they only fvcxk and give birth to another suffer head, look at this one now.

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Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 07, 2021
As soon as that toto heals start firing whick is about 7-8 weeks after childbirth but for now she can only suck you to orgasmic stupor.
Re: HELP: When Should I Start Making Love To My Wife Again After Giving Birth?? by hustla(m): 5:29pm On May 07, 2021
Chisaedhor:
This is exactly 1month 5 days since my wife puts to birth. Mother and baby safe and sound via Normal Delievery

Since then I don zip up shagrin but he get as body dey do me now, as body no be firewood na.

Please is it okay to start making love to her now??

Lala abeg help a brother.

Google is giving me confusing answers


Find side chick na and give ur wife 6 months

You wan kee am ontop all the stress of giving birth

Why you wicked laidis na

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