SmartyPants:


Not sure what you watched either. he was clearly hitting at her hands in order to break free. He is at least entitled to proportionate self-defence in law, if not in morality.

What we saw there is a boy doing his best to get free of a woman who is dragging him. We don't know who assaulted the other first, but it is very likely, given the belligerent nature of that woman, that she did.

Further, I am at a total loss as to how you arrived at the conclusion that:

1. She was holding in him in the manner of one saying "you must kill me today"

2. That she is old enough to be his mother

The video does not show the start of the confrontation, nor can we see the faces of the people involved to tell their ages. So you have added in these parts in order to complete your theory, which is directed by the headline you read, and the shouting of the people in the background. Wh btw, merely said, "she's a woman".

Against his backdrop, if you claim that she held onto him in the stubborn manner of one who says"you must kill me today", then you at least agree that she was the one holding on to him.

Now if she is holding on to him because he attacked her, she is entitled to her defense. But if he is resisting her for holding on to him, then he is entitled to his defence. So can you eliably inform us of who initiated the contact? No you cannot. Therefore you have little basis for forming the conclusion that you have.

Yes, she was clearly holding onto him but violently attacking someone who is merely holding on to your shirt is hardly admissible as self defense. Self defense against what? A hold? Would he hit his mother like that if she held on to him? Would you be saying all these if the lady was your mum? Ok, let's not even play the victim, would you be proud of that guy if he was your son?

Sir, even a killer could get away with murder provided you know which part of the law to quote but then we all know what is morally right. There might be actions that led to certain reactions but these reactions aren't always justified by those actions. Assuming he held onto the lady's hands and struggled to pull them off his shirt, we wouldn't be here discussing this cause that would have been an equitable reaction but he was hitting her. And you called that "doing his best to get free"? That's a very cold thing to say and only someone who's desperate to vindicate the man would describe what we just watched as that. You can stick with the law but this, right here, isn't morally right. And I'd be shocked if you don't see that.

As for your question, I said she was holding him in such a manner cause that's what I saw. She wasn't hitting him, was she? And if you had read my response a bit more carefully, you'd see where I wrote "a woman who appears old enough to be his mother". The key word being "appears" which indicates I don't know if she is or not. I never assumed her age nor added anything to the story other than what I saw. I do not know what happened before the lady held on to him (though it's unlikely that would be her first move) but judging from the part I saw in that video, that man was extremely violent and I'm almost certain those close to him would be disappointed.

B

She heard on to his trouser, instead of her to let him go and report to the school authority, she is a woman she is woman, but she still held his trouser tight, what if she gave her punch that makes her unconscious. Las las them go fly omoh boy go Canada to continue schooling, sometimes we gat use our HQ.

omoo for private school na hin you try this shit.. mehn without thoughts of jamb.. etc.. mehn skl go surely rusticate am.. na to go reason another jamb form again..

whatever shit is thrown at you in a private school you should learn to keep calm and endure..

SmartyPants:


I never said anything like "what if the punches didnt land". Are you hallucinating now?

I have pointed out that he was hitting her hands. You said he was punching her body. You also said the punches were too much for a woman.

So I am simply asking you yet again, how come she was able to withstand such heavy blows that would have felled another of her gender? Is she only pretending to be a woman?

You consistently refuse to engage what at this point merely passes for a brain in that head of yours.

Your're not doing me though!

You see I don't like throwing insults while debating or discussing because I try as much to be civil but if I pushed to the wall, I am a master in it. So, pls don't push me.

About the woman not falling, you think all women are that soft?
She may not have the power that matches a man's but she won't give up easily. That's the sense in that action of hers you saw.

Insisting the punches didn't land on her is the most senseless comment I read on this page.

Gdnight bro.

What's this

PenName55:


What if she dies?

You think your peeps will be proud of you. And hail you for being a MAN.

All your ego can't last thirty minutes after the did is done.

The aftermath is gnashing teeth behind bars.
Life calls for wisdom and calmness.

I pray you won't suffer such.

This has nothing to do with ego
What if I die , what if she kills me. Or maybe you think women are incapable of harm. Like women can't kill men.
Maybe they'll give me a medal for getting killed.
And my coffin will be inscribed with "he was such a nice guy that he didn't fight back "
I'll leave you with this
"When diplomacy ends, War begins."- Adolf Hitler

Semaj77:
Not supporting his behaviour but I think he was only trying to get away from her grip , she was holding him down and he was hitting her hand to loosen her grip and get away from her.

Exactly...
Why was she holding on him like that?
Because she is a staff ?, that now gives you the ability to apprehend because he refuses to put on tie..
Overdooo dey worry her and for the kid , I hope all you are trying to do is to let go of yourself from her grab else your gone from the school.

WoundedLamb:


Yes, she was clearly holding onto him but violently attacking someone who is merely holding on to your shirt is hardly admissible as self defense. Self defense against what? A hold? Would he hit his mother like that if she held on to him? Would you be saying all these if the lady was your mum? Ok, let's not even play the victim, would you be proud of that guy if he was your son?

Sir, even a killer could get away with murder provided you know which part of the law to quote but then we all know what is morally right. There might be actions that led to certain reactions but these reactions aren't always justified by those actions. Assuming he held onto the lady's hands and struggled to pull them off his shirt, we wouldn't be here discussing this cause that would have been an equitable reaction but he was hitting her. And you called that "doing his best to get free"? That's a very cold thing to say and only someone who's desperate to vindicate the man would describe what we just watched as that. You can stick with the law but this, right here, isn't morally right. And I'd be shocked if you don't see that.

As for your question, I said she was holding him in such a manner cause that's what I saw. She wasn't hitting him, was she? And if you had read my response a bit more carefully, you'd see where I wrote "a woman who appears old enough to be his mother". The key word being "appears" which indicates I don't know if she is or not. I never assumed her age nor added anything to the story other than what I saw. I do not know what happened before the lady held on to him (though it's unlikely that would be her first move) but judging from the part I saw in that video, that man was extremely violent and I'm almost certain those close to him would be disappointed.

There is nothing wrong about his action , laws don't care about your feelings.

WoundedLamb:


Yes, she was clearly holding onto him but violently attacking someone who is merely holding on to your shirt is hardly admissible as self defense. Self defense against what? A hold? Would he hit his mother like that if she held on to him? Would you be saying all these if the lady was your mum? Ok, let's not even play the victim, would you be proud of that guy if he was your son?

Sir, even a killer could get away with murder provided you know which part of the law to quote but then we all know what is morally right. There might be actions that led to certain reactions but these reactions aren't always justified by those actions. Assuming he held onto the lady's hands and struggled to pull them off his shirt, we wouldn't be here discussing this cause that would have been an equitable reaction but he was hitting her. And you called that "doing his best to get free"? That's a very cold thing to say and only someone who's desperate to vindicate the man would describe what we just watched as that. You can stick with the law but this, right here, isn't morally right. And I'd be shocked if you don't see that.

As for your question, I said she was holding him in such a manner cause that's what I saw. She wasn't hitting him, was she? And if you had read my response a bit more carefully, you'd see where I wrote "a woman who appears old enough to be his mother". The key word being "appears" which indicates I don't know if she is or not. I never assumed her age nor added anything to the story other than what I saw. I do not know what happened before the lady held on to him (though it's unlikely that would be her first move) but judging from the part I saw in that video, that man was extremely violent and I'm almost certain those close to him would be disappointed.

I have never said he was morally right. But who are we to judge morals? I might not react the way he did, but I may not rush to condemn him either.

Was she right to hold on to him? Was he wrong to react violently? Is one wrong more wrong or less so? Even if such standards exist, can we arrive at a conclusion from the video alone?

Anyway, i suppose we can agree to disagree.

PenName55:


You see I don't like throwing insults while debating or discussing because I try as much to be civil but if I pushed to the wall, I am a master in it. So, pls don't push me.

About the woman not falling, you think all women are that soft?
She may not have the power that matches a man's but she won't give up easily. That's the sense in that action of hers you saw.

Insisting the punches didn't land on her is the most senseless comment I read on this page.

Gdnight bro.

Lol. I quite agree, coz you're the only one I've heard it from, which is in keeping with your general pattern of senseless behaviour.

Good luck sha.

RMoneyInTheBank:
...this goes a long way to say an average Nigerian is not thinking right and our ability to see things the way they are is very poor...what I see in that video was a guy hitting the hand of a lady to let go of his cloth.... I wonder why people are changing the narrative.... From most of the comments I saw, it is obvious about 80% of those who commented did not watch the video

They watched the video, but that's just how the society is right now. It's so sad that the boy will be discipline badly. The guy was hitting her hand to break free. She wouldn't be able to stand if he was actually punching her on the face or body. Now, if the case was reversed and it was a male lecturer holding a female student like this and she was hitting his hand to break, the outrage against the lecturer would be overwhelming. And celebrities and everybody would be calling for his head.

It's getting difficult to be boy, man, male these days. The odds are against you and situations involving male vs female are turned against you. The prejudice is surreal.

Some University are just glorified secondary schools with uniform and tie .

Most of these spoilt brat that still come to school with food flask and water bottle .

Afe Babalola University sounds like a secondary school

Gift52:
Afe babalola University male student beats up female lecturer of same institution, seen holding him in this video.

His reason was that the teacher forced him to put on his tie

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3XA8iRs2HbM

notok:

This has nothing to do with ego
What if I die , what if she kills me. Or maybe you think women are incapable of harm. Like women can't kill men.
Maybe they'll give me a medal for getting killed.
And my coffin will be inscribed with "he was such a nice guy that he didn't fight back "
I'll leave you with this
"When diplomacy ends, War begins."- Adolf Hitler

Well, you won.

Happy weekend

You see how a woman can provoke and make you lose your temper. Why did she assault him, a grown man. Is she her mother? There are better ways to deal with a stubborn or arrogant student, if you ask me.

Buzx:


They watched the video, but that's just how the society is right now. It's so sad that the boy will be discipline badly. The guy was hitting her hand to break free. She wouldn't be able to stand if he was actually punching her on the face or body. Now, if the case was reversed and it was a male lecturer holding a female student like this and she was hitting his hand to break, the outrage against the lecturer would be overwhelming.

It's getting difficult to be boy, man, male these days. The odds are against you and situations involving male vs female are turned against you. The prejudice is surreal.

honestly...if the reverse was the case, it would have been tagged " sexual harassment "

ictjobber:
See wetin oyibo TIE cause.. Smh


He wanted to sign a document but she insisted that he must wear his tie before she allows him anywhere near the document.. And the baba insisted that he must sign the document as him don already dress up come.., na so them begin drag.

Na because na woman. If na man, he for no try am.

WoundedLamb:


Yes, she was clearly holding onto him but violently attacking someone who is merely holding on to your shirt is hardly admissible as self defense. Self defense against what? A hold? Would he hit his mother like that if she held on to him? Would you be saying all these if the lady was your mum? Ok, let's not even play the victim, would you be proud of that guy if he was your son?

Sir, even a killer could get away with murder provided you know which part of the law to quote but then we all know what is morally right. There might be actions that led to certain reactions but these reactions aren't always justified by those actions. Assuming he held onto the lady's hands and struggled to pull them off his shirt, we wouldn't be here discussing this cause that would have been an equitable reaction but he was hitting her. And you called that "doing his best to get free"? That's a very cold thing to say and only someone who's desperate to vindicate the man would describe what we just watched as that. You can stick with the law but this, right here, isn't morally right. And I'd be shocked if you don't see that.

As for your question, I said she was holding him in such a manner cause that's what I saw. She wasn't hitting him, was she? And if you had read my response a bit more carefully, you'd see where I wrote "a woman who appears old enough to be his mother". The key word being "appears" which indicates I don't know if she is or not. I never assumed her age nor added anything to the story other than what I saw. I do not know what happened before the lady held on to him (though it's unlikely that would be her first move) but judging from the part I saw in that video, that man was extremely violent and I'm almost certain those close to him would be disappointed.

Quick question: Would your stance be the same if it was male lecturer holding a female student and she was hitting his hands to break free?

Gift52:
Afe babalola University male student beats up female lecturer of same institution, seen holding him in this video.

His reason was that the teacher forced him to put on his tie

Watch video here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3XA8iRs2HbM

Times gone bad

Indication of poor parenting.

Anyway, I trust that the management of the institution will deal with it appropriately.

RMoneyInTheBank:
honestly...if the reverse was the case, it would have been tagged " sexual harassment "

Sad reality.

RMoneyInTheBank:
what is unbelievable ? That a guy was hitting the hand of a lady to let go of his cloth ?.....please watch before you comment next time

Guess it's either you are not ok or do not know the meaning of unbelievable

This is the pity and sorry state of the Private school products,whom the owners and administrator are concern with only school fees.
Teachers who will correct them and mount their excesses in manner becomes a victim of hatred and sack.

I stand to be corrected, this student in question is a product of the private secondary school and much be expelled as a lesson for others like him.

...

This Guy Parent, Uncle or Relations must be connected to the VC or be one of the big wigs in this country

RMoneyInTheBank:
honestly...if the reverse was the case, it would have been tagged " sexual harassment "

Spot on.
Increasingly hopeless society.

SmartyPants:


Not sure what you watched either. he was clearly hitting at her hands in order to break free. He is at least entitled to proportionate self-defence in law, if not in morality.

What we saw there is a boy doing his best to get free of a woman who is dragging him. We don't know who assaulted the other first, but it is very likely, given the belligerent nature of that woman, that she did.

Further, I am at a total loss as to how you arrived at the conclusion that:

1. She was holding in him in the manner of one saying "you must kill me today"

2. That she is old enough to be his mother

The video does not show the start of the confrontation, nor can we see the faces of the people involved to tell their ages. So you have added in these parts in order to complete your theory, which is directed by the headline you read, and the shouting of the people in the background. Wh btw, merely said, "she's a woman".

Against his backdrop, if you claim that she held onto him in the stubborn manner of one who says"you must kill me today", then you at least agree that she was the one holding on to him.

Now if she is holding on to him because he attacked her, she is entitled to her defense. But if he is resisting her for holding on to him, then he is entitled to his defence. So can you eliably inform us of who initiated the contact? No you cannot. Therefore you have little basis for forming the conclusion that you have.

I honestly don't know why some people are so quick to judge.
From the video, the guy did not beat that woman, he was only trying to free himself from the woman. Do you think that if the guy was to beat that woman, she would wait?
And for those that'll argue that the guy beat the woman. Which part of her body was he hitting?
Lastly, it's obvious that those behind the camera ain't a big fan of the woman which in turn could mean that the woman is wrong. Reasons being that a particular voice behind the camera said and I quote "she's a woman ni kinni- yoruba" which translates to "so what if she's a woman" he should go ahead and fight for his freedom her, that is they're are in support of the guy.
And even the fact that nobody attempt to separate them can as well mean he wasn't beating her.

EmperorTolson:

I honestly don't know why some people are so quick to judge.
From the video, the guy did not beat that woman, he was only trying to free himself from the woman. Do you think that if the guy was to beat that woman, she would wait?
And for those that'll argue that the guy beat the woman. Which part of her body was he hitting?
Lastly, it's obvious that those behind the camera ain't a big fan of the woman which in turn could mean that the woman is wrong. Reasons being that a particular voice behind the camera said and I quote "she's a woman ni kinni- yoruba" which translates to "so what if she's a woman" he should go ahead and fight for his freedom her, that is they're are in support of the guy.
And even the fact that nobody attempt to separate them can as well mean he wasn't beating her.

You're observant, my friend.

OMG!

He should immediately be expelled

Send him to police station and let them beat him up there regardless of who his father is.

Nigerians and their emotional gingoism...

I didn't see any beating,all l saw was a woman trying to lock up a guy shirt through his belt or cloth.
The question is shd the guy allow the woman straggle him cos he is not using tie.
All the guy was doing is trying to free himself from the grip of the woman.
And some highly emotional being shouting she is a woman o,she is a woman o.
Because she is a woman she shd be abusing and locking up the shirt of another person.that looks immature of such kind women.

I even see someone who is rough handling someone as she abusing him.if u rough handle
me like that l must lose the grip o.
Even Joseph Japa from the hands of portiphar's wife.

Buzx:


Quick question: Would your stance be the same if it was male lecturer holding a female student and she was hitting his hands to break free?

Like I told the other guy, actions lead to reactions but not all reactions are justified by those actions. Lecturers have no business getting physical with students and if the lady were the one who resorted to that, she wouldn't be right. But then even that wouldn't justify her students hitting her especially if she wasn't hitting him. That guy was extremely violent and it sadens me that you guys aren't seeing that.

Now to answer your question, any female that raised her hands to hit her lecturer just for the mere fact that he held her clothe deserve to be expelled. You can refuse to move, you can hold his hands and try to pull them off, you can scream at him to leave you. But if you start hitting him, that wouldn't be an equitable reaction and you'd amazed at how easy it is to move from the right side to the wrong side. Don't believe you could just anything cause you're on your right, the law isn't that mechanical.

omazus:
Is he still a student?

E don graduate but no certificate.

Two of them are wrong.