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post=101513574:
The number one alone don finish d matter for a boy wey get sense.

Say no more!

A305:
Everything you listed up there are as a result of the baby father not taking responsibility (providing) except for number 1, which anyone can hardly control except, she is a homely girl.

Baby mama is the way but, the best out there is surrogacy. You gotta be rich to afford surrogacy, this is why baby mama is cheaper to mitigate than going into a worthless marriage.

If you take good care of your baby mama in way of co-depence; pay her rent, bills, set up a business and threatening to yank all that benefits when you catch her with another man. She would act right and won't spread her legs for all men that comes her way, maybe few men by way of dating, but that's cool anyway provided they aren't f cking in the house you paying rent for.

Mikester:
This post is to those guys out there who believe having a baby mama is more restful, secure and enjoyable than having a wife.

Your fear of marriage and clinging to baby mama hood doesn't guarantee you a less strenuous life as some of you may think.

There are more challenges and difficulties when you have a baby mama which might even lead you to an early grave which I will be highlighting here.

Here are the reasons why I believe having a baby mama is a bad idea...

1. You'll have a whorish woman to deal with

In the case of having kids with a random woman or women, if you don't marry her, she is not exclusive to you. So you may have other baby daddies to compete with which you may not be able to handle.

Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just by means of contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman will never go to the grave in peace.

The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rotteness in your bones.

Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.

As a matter of fact when a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.

2. You might have a scornful child

Growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child to having a well-balanced life. Also considering the high tendency that women fall for bad boys, your co-baby daddies could be drug dealers, scam artists, etc.

Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit their own children will teach your child crime and cause him/her to be scornful and such a child will not be a joy to you, his father.

He/she will tend to despise upright things and cleave to atrocious ones.

He/she will also despise you as well and would hardly listen to your corrections.

3. Your child will be poorly cared for

Besides the irresponsible mother, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kid(s), so whatever you pay for your kid(s) will also be shared with the irresponsible baby daddies kid(s) leaving your kid(s) with less.

4. You will contend with an unapologetic manipulative woman

A whorish woman perpetuate evil but will only rub her hands and clean her mouth and say, "I've done nothing wrong."

That is how she is and that is who she will be to you.

Besides poisoning your child's mind about you, she may also deny you the right to your child(ren) when you fail to meet to her requirements and there's very little you can do about it.

5. You may contract sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

If by chance you sleep with her again, you might end up having health problems gotten from co-baby daddies such as STDs.

6. You might get into trouble

You may have to battle jealous co-baby daddies and might end up in trouble due to a fall out with them.

7. Your life becomes more difficult

You're more likely to have difficulty in various aspects of your life, financially, socially, spiritually and mentally.

8. Your reputation might suffer

Society will deem you irresponsible and you'll be shamefully categorized as one of the grown irresponsible fools around.

On pure thought is it worth it?

Let's not deceive ourselves. Marriage being natural is more restful and enjoyable than having a baby mama.

When you marry the person compatible with you and you are up to the task of being a true family man, you'll have a beautiful home.

Stop looking at those with failed marriages if you're a man driven by bad news and learn how to lead a home properly, then every other thing will fall into place.

Don't know what's on your mind...

Emotionss:
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So you agreed that ALL single mothers are whoring around ?

post=101515115:
Never, we are not the type(s) that stereotypes.
We seldom use the word ALL, EVERY,
You rather see us using most, few, some etc...

So , how that answers your question sir?!

Mikester:
Still waiting for them or did the topic scare them off?

SweetDipBenny:
Tell dat to Davido

seyz91:
while you up there listing some trash points on disadvantage of baby mama, you forget everything in life with his pros and cons

do i need remind you that the list of Cons of Marriage will be longer that those listed up there for baby mama

seyz91:
while you up there listing some trash points on disadvantage of baby mama, you forget everything in life with his pros and cons

do i need remind you that the list of Cons of Marriage will be longer that those listed up there for baby mama

ABANGWABOI:
There is no disadvantage for Baby mama ism..
If it has disadvantages then marriage shouldn't even exist cos it's disadvantages are overwhelming for a man..
This trash you wrote would be supported by Evening newspapers and liabilities mostly..
Absolute trash

Mikester:
If my post is trash, then I wonder what your comment is.

ABANGWABOI:


E pain am..
But na still trash you wrote...
Baby mama is the way forward..

grossintel:
Op, all the things you wrote there is rubbish. If you're filthy rich please settle for baby mama so you can live long!
Especially if you live in the West, because it will definitely end with divorce and your wealth splited in half.

Tremple8v:
I cant think of life without my 2 sons and my wife , its not possible for me to love a woman I know I wasn't the only one sleeping with her . If you love baby mama fine , I understand marriage might not be the answer to your problem, But it's better you find a woman who understands you .

Don't mind them dudes. They aren't afraid to marry, they're just afraid of marrying the wrong person being the big losers they are.

Randy100:
Everything has advantages and disadvantages. There is an Igbo adage that says " adịghị eji maka mgbagbu ahapụ ije ọgụ" which simply means you don't say you won't go to war because people are dying. No be people stab their husband for marriage, do you now say we shouldn't marry again.

You get the point now

Mikester:
Comedian

SerikiFulani:
[s]Advantages of Babymama

1. You can date/have sex with whosoever you want at any given time.
2. You get to eat your babymama's coochie once in a while, infact she can bear you another child in the process.
3.Not much liability...Just your kid...As long as you take care of child support monthly,you're good to go.
4. You get the time to hustle and think clear.....No unnecessary nagging from one scorned woman[/s]

grossintel:
Op, all the things you wrote there is rubbish. If you're filthy rich please settle for baby mama so you can live long!
Especially if you live in the West, because it will definitely end with divorce and your wealth splited in half.

RichAbujaGuy:
Chairman Davido go carry American passport. Baby daddy/mama land.
But jokes aside his kids no dey suffer and his baby mamas are not reckless from what I see in the news and on social media.

RichAbujaGuy:
Chairman Davido go carry American passport. Baby daddy/mama land.
But jokes aside his kids no dey suffer and his baby mamas are not reckless from what I see in the news and on social media.

ABANGWABOI:
You dey mind the Op..
He is a very senseless and idiotic fellow, for em mind, baby mama get disadvantages but Single motherhood no get ...

Make em go tell americans that has been divorce raped in court that. He should tell Jeff, Bill gates, Elon musk, Drogba, Casillas etc

Michelle55:
Where are the team baby mama's? We are waiting for the advantages of having a baby mama, let me grab a seat and wait.