SOZINN:
If this is true then your woman is one of a kind.
What your friend did is commendable by the standards of many women, even men.
His kind is what most of them refer to as "real man".
For her to come out honestly to you is very rare.

As for you, I understand where you are coming from. But you should know that your friend will betray you if the situation involves a female in the future. He'll pick a woman over you anytime, any day. I would like you to do a thorough review of your friendship.
Has he been adding value to you?
Maybe it's time to think about you and what's best for you.

McEphiks:


He can get a room for as low as 1200 cedis I’m thinking of giving him the money.

Originalsly:


If you can afford it without a sweat.... do so. You will be returning him the favour... you will be saving on feeding and extra on bills.... you will still be having your privacy.... and he will not be sending negative energy to you to disturb your destiny.

On putting you out because of babe.... read between the lines... it's code for you have overstayed your welcome .... time to go.

McEphiks:


I understand where you’re coming from. I only intend keeping him for a while and I no longer see him as a friend. But the saying goes “One good turn deserves another”

He once provide shelter and I’m trying to reciprocate.

McEphiks:


Overstayed my welcome in less than a month. I’ll settle for helping with the cash cos i don’t even trust him an inch anymore. I have to call someone to monitor him when I’m off to work.

I’m just trying to keep his head for a while if not for anything but, cos he did same in the past

Originalsly:


Yes... you can be overstaying your welcome after a few days only... it depends.if you're renting a room for him... why the monitoring? Rent for two weeks or whatever and that should be enough time for him to manage himself.

McEphiks:


Not too long to read. My babe actually prefer I give him the money to get an apartment so I’ll do just that since it’ll save me the stress.

And I didn’t do it cos of what tomorrow hold. I just didn’t think it was right to repay evil with evil.

Thanks for your submission

McEphiks:


I just decided to rent a room I haven’t done that. I mean monitoring him in my house cos I leave him at home alone when I go to work.

Originalsly:


Hmmm.... not good.....especially if you don't trust him. He may do things not noticeable now. Let him know your gf would be coming over .... give him some cash... and let him find his way... even if it's to his village.

Volkswagen90:
Op no mind them, u just have a good heart, that's it but unfortunately people will take ur good heart for granted, especially in the world of ours now, well for your friend he will still betray you, just prepare for the worst,

McEphiks:
So I’ll make this short. I was in Ghana working until last year February when I decided to visit my dad. Covid and border closure didn’t allow me return.

March this year I was able to come back. Starting again I was putting up with a friend who in less than a month ask me out cos he was expecting a chick. Lol. Well, I was jobless but my partner was supper supportive. She got a loan at work and I secured an apartment.

Fast forward to about a week ago my friend who sent me out is having accommodation problem. He came begging for me to host him for the time been. Well, I concurred and my babe said “Someone who sent you out cos of a girl and now you’re helping him, you’re a weakling and too soft”

I don’t think I am; I am just choosing not to repay evil with bad. The tables of life turn unexpectedly these days.

Have I done anything bad?

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Coolcalmcollect:

You're a weakling my friend, it's okay to be. But try and train your mind to be mean and selfish. [b]Weak and kind people never usually make it in life, they become doormats for others to step on[b]Now tomorrow, tell your friend your girl is coming over he should move out.

McEphiks:


I’ll tell him wassup later tonight, give him the money and ask him to leave tomorrow morning.

benqo01:
I have learnt one thing in this life...always look at the good side of people because no one is perfect.

You accepting him in your house ah guilty conscience go dey catch am,although this guy might have been of help to you in one way or the other so accepting him in your house isn't a bad idea.E bleeped up real time but you got his back when he needed that OP keep it up.

MummyIMadeIt:


Dont give him cash instead a wired transaction eida via mobile money or odawise is the best.

Dont make that mistake i repeat. Also make your stand clear to him on your decision, if possible watch him park up to leave .

Meanwhile how's the hustle in ghana? What occupation gives there?

McEphiks:


Thanks for your submission.

I work with a financial institution tho I’m being paid on commission but it’s paying the bills.

I also make my Nigerian account available for cash transfer and withdrawal to and from Nigeria or any other African country.

We kicking, God is faithful

paulolee:
only weakling keeps snakes n rats around in his circle because of the fear of tomorrow..
a gee dt sent u out bcoz of a woman isnt a real niggee n u are suppose to stay far from him n u dnt even need ur bea permission to do wats right..
u are scared of d unexpected not knowing dt we face d present n leave tomorrow to tell itself...
tables of life dont turn anymore, the sharp gees don de move chair..

MummyIMadeIt:


I heard the latter hustle pays well there, is that true?
Meanwhile i will like to know about teaching profession chances and the pay there?

derolemode:
I think there's a tale that will give answer to what you've asked and the tale goes thus:
A philanthropic man was on his way back when he saw a scorpion that just fell into a shallow ditch and really needs help so he put forth his hand to rescue the scorpion, in his goodness, the scorpion stinged him so he dropped the scorpion back into the ditch, he then went and carried a stick and used it to rescue the scorpion. when the philanthropic man was asked why he still continued to help the scorpion, he said it's the nature of the scorpion but it is in my nature to help so i must adopt other method to help.

Use your head so that you don't loose your woman also whilst trying to help a traitor and not paying evil for evil.

McEphiks:


The teaching PAY better in Togo

French countries pay better in everything.

Karlifate:

LMAO!

McEphiks:
So I’ll make this short. I was in Ghana working until last year February when I decided to visit my dad. Covid and border closure didn’t allow me return.

March this year I was able to come back. Starting again I was putting up with a friend who in less than a month ask me out cos he was expecting a chick. Lol. Well, I was jobless but my partner was supper supportive. She got a loan at work and I secured an apartment.

Fast forward to about a week ago my friend who sent me out is having accommodation problem. He came begging for me to host him for the time been. Well, I concurred and my babe said “Someone who sent you out cos of a girl and now you’re helping him, you’re a weakling and too soft”

I don’t think I am; I am just choosing not to repay evil with bad. The tables of life turn unexpectedly these days.

Have I done anything bad?

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

McEphiks:


I care less about that. I’m not helping him cos I need a repay. I only help cos he is in need and I’m opportune to be privileged

McEphiks:


I’m laughing in Swahili

So kind people don’t make it in life. Well, I decide to carve my name on heart not on marbles.

Elporo:
Give your friend half of what you plan to, and get rid of your girlfriend. She's no good, if she could talk to you in that manner.

I put money on it, she's fvking some broke punk.