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Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by bilulu(m): 1:55pm On May 09, 2021
SerikiFulani:
Advantages of Babymama

1. You can date/have sex with whosoever you want at any given time.
2. You get to eat your babymama's coochie once in a while, infact she can bear you another child in the process.
3.Not much liability...Just your kid...As long as you take care of child support monthly,you're good to go.
4. You get the time to hustle and think clear.....No unnecessary nagging from one scorned woman
what i see here is just selfishness, self centeredness and running from commitment and being responsible. imagine just to Bleep around. I want to ask, is any of ur sister a baby mama to any guy yet?
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by BluntCrazeMan: 2:22pm On May 09, 2021
eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.
Nice Contributions..
So, when a baby-mama dies first before the baby-daddy, where would she be buried? And then, which family would take custody of the kids?
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Cc....
Airforce1 (Airforce01)...
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by meobizy(m): 2:55pm On May 09, 2021
...only? You will also die one day. Since we’re now viewing the situation from the worst case then including the possibility makes absolute sense.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Corroro: 3:06pm On May 09, 2021
the comments on this thread sha grin
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Fiscus105(m):
stano2:
So u want a girl that is not married to you, to remain faithful and loyal to you.

Because her body is firewood shey
there are some people you don't need to comment on their posts, their posts are enough to show how myopic and satanic they are,

because he is giving woman money in which she is not married to him. While he is free to do whatever he wants the woman should be like zombie.


the day we start thinking that,..... the pin I want to use to pierce my friend, let me use on myself first to know how painful it's d day will start experience peace in society
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 4:17pm On May 09, 2021
bilulu:
how was ur dad able to cater for ur mum abi u be baby mama product?
Are you saying women are handicapped?
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Nobody: 4:37pm On May 09, 2021
AuroraB:
Na why I say make you no ask me kweshuns shocked grin
A little discomfort is good for your humanity. Just manage the tip.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by AuroraB(f): 4:38pm On May 09, 2021
trailblazar:
A little discomfort is good for your humanity. Just manage the tip.
Whatever undecided
Was a joke all along now you dropping 'tips' cool
Lewl grin grin grin
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by ofiko123(m): 5:02pm On May 09, 2021
The Era of baby Mama's in Nigeria has ended...
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Nobody: 5:17pm On May 09, 2021
AuroraB:
Whatever undecided
Was a joke all along now you dropping 'tips' cool
Lewl grin grin grin
So you are one of the sharp tools in the shed. I will like to pause here since you get the thrust of the tips I dropped. Hv a nice day.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Alexaonfleek: 5:22pm On May 09, 2021
stano2:
So u want a girl that is not married to you, to remain faithful and loyal to you.

Because her body is firewood shey
some people sef will just open mouth waaaaa and say rubbish
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by djon78(m): 5:58pm On May 09, 2021
crafteck:
Bill Gates believed ops, hes regretting in billion wats now
You see divorce
It's a very very bad thing
It's e even better
One never married
Than to marry and divorce

When I watched late Myles Munroe video on YouTube
It became clearer
He said that divorce is so bad that better you never married

Even God said he hated divorce in the Bible
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by CXLVII: 6:05pm On May 09, 2021
The more Baby mama`s the country is making, the bleaker the future of the country.

The product of such relationship is mostly disasters.

99.9% of the adverse effect will tell on the child.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by BerrykissAkah: 9:27pm On May 09, 2021
Chai grin

Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Masterdazhem: 12:53am On May 10, 2021
Mikester:
1. You'll have a whorish woman to deal with

In the case of having kids with a random woman or women, if you don't marry her, she is not exclusive to you. So you may have other baby daddies to compete with which you may not be able to handle.

Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just by means of contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman will never go to the grave in peace.

The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rotteness in your bones.

Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.

As a matter of fact when a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 10, 2021
eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.
Most single mothers are not whores but many babymamas are. A woman that is financially stable and responsible who is running out of time to have children can have her child and raise that child herself in some dignity.

The reality of women using children to trap a man into marriage is that the relationship should not have been in existence in the first place. So they both suffer from abject promiscuity damaging the children and their morals.

A person that sees a child as currency is not a good mate and should never have been impregnated in the first place because a child ties you to a person longer than a marriage.

This new trying to bring foreign culture of having born throway like it is nothing will not bode well for the fabric of our country.

Nigerian women need to stop using their body parts as currency and concentrate on being the providers they keep spreading their legs for. Everything else will come.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by OLABOY8495(m): 7:45pm On May 10, 2021
eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.
God Will Bless U Big Time
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Jeon(f): 11:11pm On May 10, 2021
Mikester:
This post is to those guys out there who believe having a baby mama is more restful, secure and enjoyable than having a wife.

Your fear of marriage and clinging to baby mama hood doesn't guarantee you a less strenuous life as some of you may think.

There are more challenges and difficulties when you have a baby mama which might even lead you to an early grave which I will be highlighting here.

Here are the reasons why I believe having a baby mama is a bad idea...

1. You'll have a whorish woman to deal with

In the case of having kids with a random woman or women, if you don't marry her, she is not exclusive to you. So you may have other baby daddies to compete with which you may not be able to handle.

Do you know that a man is reduced to nothing just by means of contending with a whorish woman? A man with a whorish woman will never go to the grave in peace.

The ways of such a woman will make you sick and she will be like rotteness in your bones.

Moreover trying to persuade her to stick with you only will yield no fruit as she will only refuse.

As a matter of fact when a man tries to tame a whorish woman, there will be no rest.

2. You might have a scornful child

Growing up in such a household could be detrimental to your child to having a well-balanced life. Also considering the high tendency that women fall for bad boys, your co-baby daddies could be drug dealers, scam artists, etc.

Exposing your child to these men when they come to visit their own children will teach your child crime and cause him/her to be scornful and such a child will not be a joy to you, his father.

He/she will tend to despise upright things and cleave to atrocious ones.

He/she will also despise you as well and would hardly listen to your corrections.

3. Your child will be poorly cared for

Besides the irresponsible mother, such men are likely to be less responsible with child support for their kid(s), so whatever you pay for your kid(s) will also be shared with the irresponsible baby daddies kid(s) leaving your kid(s) with less.

4. You will contend with an unapologetic manipulative woman

A whorish woman perpetuate evil but will only rub her hands and clean her mouth and say, "I've done nothing wrong."

That is how she is and that is who she will be to you.

Besides poisoning your child's mind about you, she may also deny you the right to your child(ren) when you fail to meet to her requirements and there's very little you can do about it.

5. You may contract sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

If by chance you sleep with her again, you might end up having health problems gotten from co-baby daddies such as STDs.

6. You might get into trouble

You may have to battle jealous co-baby daddies and might end up in trouble due to a fall out with them.

7. Your life becomes more difficult

You're more likely to have difficulty in various aspects of your life, financially, socially, spiritually and mentally.

8. Your reputation might suffer

Society will deem you irresponsible and you'll be shamefully categorized as one of the grown irresponsible fools around.

On pure thought is it worth it?

Let's not deceive ourselves. Marriage being natural is more restful and enjoyable than having a baby mama.

When you marry the person compatible with you and you are up to the task of being a true family man, you'll have a beautiful home.

Stop looking at those with failed marriages if you're a man driven by bad news and learn how to lead a home properly, then every other thing will fall into place.

Don't know what's on your mind...
Lollittaa my baby will be my baby mama.





Sometimes I laugh out loud when I see this comment " baby mama is the way ".

Worst part of it is that this statement is coming from the dead broke nigga'z who have not plan their foundation properly. More like those who can't carter for themselves { e.g can't afford the 3square of meal }.

Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by stanliwise(m): 11:30pm On May 10, 2021
crafteck:
Bill Gates believed ops, hes regretting in billion wats now
You get sense so? And who told you he is regretting? You dey reason as your level. Bill gate no dey your level and he doesn’t reason like you
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Nobody: 11:42pm On May 10, 2021
Jeon:
Lollittaa my baby will be my baby mama.





Sometimes I laugh out loud when I see this comment " baby mama is the way ".

Worst part of it is that this statement is coming from the dead broke nigga'z who have not plan their foundation properly. More like those who can't carter for themselves { e.g can't afford the 3square of meal }.
I can't be your baby mama. I'm not a lesbian. Go away angry
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by crafteck(m): 1:10am On May 11, 2021
stanliwise:
You get sense so? And who told you he is regretting? You dey reason as your level. Bill gate no dey your level and he doesn’t reason like you
Assistant Bill Gates wey get sense... grin
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by stanliwise(m): 1:23am On May 11, 2021
crafteck:
Assistant Bill Gates wey get sense... grin
Poor man with small sense
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Mikester(op): 6:23am On May 11, 2021
Jeon:
Lollittaa my baby will be my baby mama.





Sometimes I laugh out loud when I see this comment " baby mama is the way ".

Worst part of it is that this statement is coming from the dead broke nigga'z who have not plan their foundation properly. More like those who can't carter for themselves { e.g can't afford the 3square of meal }.
Best to ignore them. Telling them the truth will only make them hate you cause they despise it. They will learn when they finally have one then others will beware based on their story.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by Jeon(f): 6:48am On May 11, 2021
Lollittaa:
I can't be your baby mama. I'm not a lesbian. Go away angry
Lollittaa my baby don't do this to me.
Re: The Disadvantages Of Having A Baby Mama. by zanshi: 1:13am On May 14, 2021
The idea of companionship at this stage is strange to Nigerian men, you denied them companionship and female attention from their teenage years up until their 20's told them they aren't good enough because they don't have money. Now they have the money they actually do what they want.

You would be stunned by the amount of men who are ready to settle for these kinds of arrangements.
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