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Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:56am On May 09, 2021
Someone posted the Prayer-Point below on Facebook, and a lot of women were shouting “Amen ooo”:

“God abeg, put my husband in a position where I will secretly withdraw ₦1m+ from his account & he won't notice”
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Honestly speaking, some prayers don't deserve an “Amen”, no matter how it is disguised.
Some people may think that the poster was joking, and maybe join in the “Amen” bandwagon jokingly, not knowing that she just prayed to become an in-house thief.
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See, if you want God to make your husband very very very rich, then ask God directly to make your husband very very very rich. And God will make your husband very very very rich, to the extent that he would be constantly dropping that type of huge sums for you for no reason at-all, and he would always say: “Oohh, It’s nothing my dear, just keep it”.
(I mean, must it be that you must take it “secretly”, before you know that God has answered your prayers??)
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Then, if you want God to make you to become an unnoticed In-House Thief, then ask God directly to make you an unnoticed In-House Thief, or ask HIM to make all your In-house thefts to always successfully go unnoticed.
In that case, God will understand, and HE will grant you your heart's desires.
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Let me make it very clear.
If your interest is actually in “Secretly Stealing” your husband's money, and you're praying that all your thefts would go unnoticed; then, even when the money is no more there in abundance, since the stealing behaviour had already entered deep into your blood, you will still go and steal the little shishiii wey remain.
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In fact, this question below is for such ladies who say this kind of prayer, (or those who reply “Amen” to such prayers), I would like to hear from you..
What exactly would you do if you discover that your son is praying such prayers too??
(Yes.. His parents' money is also his money, because the bulk of the money will eventually be spent on him - so he has the right to be secretly stealing the money too.... Isn't it??)

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:56am On May 09, 2021
Honestly,, this type of mentality baffles me badly..
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I have a scenario at hand:

A man called his kids to the parlour one early morning and knelt them down for up to thirty minutes.
He continued interrogating them to know who took away N23k from the money inside the water-proof bag that was hidden inside the old box that was kept under the pile of files inside the wardrobe..
None of them knew what he was talking about. But he was seriously suspecting the second son.
The wife was there all the while, looking on and keeping mute.
She doesn't know whether to continue keeping mute and watch with such guilt grinding deeply in her, or to set the kids free by confessing her actions, and thereby getting blamed and thoroughly cautioned in front of the kids - ohh and also having the kids register in their little minds that their mother is also a thief, whereas she had been cautioning them and punishing them all these while for stealing little things.
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She kept mute after-all., and the husband later left for work that day with such a bad mood.
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It was later that night that the wife wanted to know why the money was so important to him to the extent of punishing the kids that way.
And the husband told her straight away that if she was the one having the money, she should give it back to him, because that money was meant for the office procurement purposes, and it was just withdrawn the previous day and given to him.
The wife after some moments of silence, reluctantly apologised, and added that:
“I never knew you would notice it”.
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That line became another wahalla that night.
The man asked her to explain.
Like, for how long had this been going on?
Ooh Boy.!!
It Had Been Going On Since The Time They Got Married.!!
Aaahhahahhaahhahaaa.
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy
Upon all the money he had been dashing her??
That was how silent malice entered between Husband-and-Wife ooo..
Things never became as it used to be again.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by MarketDispatch: 6:03am On May 09, 2021
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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 6:13am On May 09, 2021
It's for one reason, if they ask the husband, he won't give. But if you take it without informing him, most of them don't even know money was taken from them.

Makes me wonder why they just don't give their wife the money. Money that she will still go an steal from your wallet.

If you wife has a need and it's a genuine need, give her money.

You no gree give your girlfriend, you no wan give your wife.

Who you wan come give?

I'm not in support of theft in any form but give your wife money.

I know a wife who has borrowed money from almost all loan apps to the point that one loan app sent messages to all her contacts cause she couldn't meet up with payment.

Her husband is doing well, I am not aware of any house project they are doing so it makes me wonder why he doesn't give his wife money and he won't let her work.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by MadelnNigeria: 6:21am On May 09, 2021
Imagine catching her while stealing from your pocket. You'll just laugh. All married women do it either they are working class or housewives.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:35am On May 09, 2021
Romanoff:
It's for one reason, if they ask the husband, he won't give. But if you take it without informing him, most of them don't even know money was taken from them.

Makes me wonder why they just don't give their wife the money. Money that she will still go an steal from your wallet.

If you wife has a need and it's a genuine need, give her money.

You no gree give your girlfriend, you no wan give your wife.

Who you wan come give?

I'm not in support of theft in any form but give your wife money.

I know a wife who has borrowed money from almost all loan apps to the point that one loan app sent messages to all her contacts cause she couldn't meet up with payment.

Her husband is doing well, I am not aware of any house project they are doing so it makes me wonder why he doesn't give his wife money and he won't let her work.
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See my dear..
For the wife that habitually steals from her husband, even if her husband constantly gives her money even when she didn't demand for it, she will still steal from him. To her: “the money belongs to her too”.. So, why stealing it then? Even with all the money he had been giving her.

And again, even if the husband doesn't notice the theft most times, should that be a reason for the wife to form the habit??
What if he dared to notice it one day and started asking??
In fact, what if he tightened himself as a result of the serial thefts, so that it would be that “only the money he gives out becomes the money that left him”, what would be the result.?
(The wife would then start seeing him as a stingy man, upon the fact that he continued dropping money for her constantly... She still needed to be collecting the petty-pitty stolen money from her husband's wallet for her to confirm that her husband is Not stingy??)

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:37am On May 09, 2021
MadelnNigeria:
Imagine catching her while stealing from your pocket. You'll just laugh. All married women do it either they are working class or housewives.
What do they enjoy in that stealing in particular??
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Don't they enjoy the one their husbands give them any longer??
Now, the stolen money is reigning??
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What exactly is this world turning into??

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 6:42am On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
(@Bolded Statements)
See my dear..
For the wife that habitually steals from her husband, even if her husband constantly gives her money even when she didn't demand for it, she will still steal from him. To her: “the money belongs to her too”.. So, why stealing it then? Even with all the money he had been giving her.

And again, even if the husband doesn't notice the theft most times, should that be a reason for the wife to form the habit??
What if he dared to notice it one day and started asking??
In fact, what if he tightened himself as a result of the serial thefts, so that it would be that “only the money he gives out becomes the money that left him”, what would be the result.?
(The wife would then start seeing him as a stingy man, upon the fact that he continued dropping money for her constantly... She still needed to be collecting the petty-pitty stolen money from her husband's wallet for her to confirm that her husband is Not stingy??)

Me I feel women who steal from their husbands do so cause their husbands are stingy towards them. Some of these women either don't have jobs or have business that's just bringing in little to nothing. They will take care of themselves, send money to their families and in most cases, augment the feeding allowance money they are given.

All in all sha, na bad economy cause am. Cause a wife that's gainfully employed won't have need to steal from her husband.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 6:54am On May 09, 2021
Romanoff:


Me I feel women who steal from their husbands do so cause their husbands are stingy towards them. Some of these women either don't have jobs or have business that's just bringing in little to nothing. They will take care of themselves, send money to their families and in most cases, augment the feeding allowance money they are given.

All in all sha, na bad economy cause am. Cause a wife that's gainfully employed won't have need to steal from her husband.

Well.
Let's assume to pardon those who have stingy husbands.
What about those whose husbands are not stingy?
Like, she has a boutique opened for her by her husband, and she continued to receive “supports” from him - at least, you know how “supports” feel like naa..
And still, she continues to steal at every little opportunity.
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And again, for the sake of setting Moral Standards for the kids, and also for the sake of having the Moral Standing to correct kids if they steal, a Wife (now turned Mother) should definitely desist from such behaviour, and resist it forever. (And that is, even if her husband is stingy - she should try and resist that urge to steal from his wallet, if she really hoped to teach her children that: “picking something that is not yours is not good” )
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Meanwhile, you're a good role-model.
Keep it up.
(I don't know how I got to notice this shaa oo, so if you ask me, I no fit explain oo).

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 7:01am On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Well.
Let's assume to pardon those who have stingy husbands.
What about those whose husbands are not stingy?
Like, she has a boutique opened for her by her husband, and she continued to receive “supports” from him - at least, you know how “supports” feel like naa..
And still, she continues to steal at every little opportunity.
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And again, for the sake of setting Moral Standards for the kids, and also for the sake of having the Moral Standing to correct kids if they steal, a Wife (now turned Mother) should definitely desist from such behaviour, and resist it forever. (And that is, even if her husband is stingy - she should try and resist that urge to steal from his wallet, if she really hoped to teach her children that: “picking something that is not yours is not good” )
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Meanwhile, you're a good role-model.
Keep it up.
(I don't know how I got to notice this shaa oo, so if you ask me, I no fit explain oo).

Lol. If a woman has a decent paying job and a thriving business and still steals from her husband, especially if he supports her, na inborn thief she be.

End of story.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 7:05am On May 09, 2021
Romanoff:


Lol. If a woman has a decent paying job and a thriving business and still steals from her husband, especially if he supports her, na inborn thief she be.

End of story.
That's Simple And Short.!!
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by moradeke42109: 11:11am On May 09, 2021
Imagine catching her while stealing from your pocket. You'll just laugh. All married women do it either they are working class or housewives.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 1:44pm On May 09, 2021
Lalasticlala,
Seun
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 1:46pm On May 09, 2021
Taking ones belongings without their consent or knowledge is stealing. That you're their spouse doesn't justify it at all. Stealing is stealing. Period!

If I happen to get married tomorrow, I can never do such by His grace.

I wonder how some people are comfortable going into their hubby's wardrobe and "fabbing" (according to one of them) some of his money. It's preposterous. You're no different from the theif who breaks into people's houses and steal their stuff.

Men and Women, please stop it!

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 2:01pm On May 09, 2021
CharisEleos:
Taking ones belongings without their consent or knowledge is stealing. That you're their spouse doesn't justify it at all. Stealing is stealing. Period!

If I happen to get married tomorrow, I can never do such by His grace.

I wonder how some people comfortable going into their hubby's wardrobe and "fabbing" (according to one of them) some of his money. It's preposterous. You're no different from the theif who break into people's houses and steal their stuff.

Men and Women, please stop it!
Thanks for your contribution.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Nobody: 2:03pm On May 09, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
Thanks for your contribution.

You're welcome.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by merieam16(f): 6:37pm On May 09, 2021
We own the money together so its fun stealing or taking it

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by RightToReject(m): 6:48pm On May 09, 2021
A wife can be said to waste, not steal, her husband's money, provided that she carried the act personally and directly. They aren't one on mouth alone.
Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Bola146(f): 6:56pm On May 09, 2021
A lazy woman will always do that. Ifa man can do his own financial part to his wife and kids, I don't think it's good idea stealing from her husband. It's a curse

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:45pm On May 09, 2021
merieam16:
We own the money together so its fun stealing or taking it
So, wives really have fun stealing from their husbands’ money??
How would these same wives feel if their Husbands start having this same “Fun” with their money?

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 11:47pm On May 09, 2021
Bola146:
A lazy woman will always do that. Ifa man can do his own financial part to his wife and kids, I don't think it's good idea stealing from her husband. It's a curse
My dear,, it baffles me.
Like, how can such a lady correct any of her kids that was caught stealing?
Won't she feel guilty that maybe the kid learnt this from her?

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by WorldRichest: 7:29am On May 10, 2021
Let me ask my wide if she has been stealing "our" money.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by WorldRichest: 7:31am On May 10, 2021
Romanoff:
It's for one reason, if they ask the husband, he won't give. But if you take it without informing him, most of them don't even know money was taken from them.

Makes me wonder why they just don't give their wife the money. Money that she will still go an steal from your wallet.

If you wife has a need and it's a genuine need, give her money.

You no gree give your girlfriend, you no wan give your wife.

Who you wan come give?

I'm not in support of theft in any form but give your wife money.

I know a wife who has borrowed money from almost all loan apps to the point that one loan app sent messages to all her contacts cause she couldn't meet up with payment.

Her husband is doing well, I am not aware of any house project they are doing so it makes me wonder why he doesn't give his wife money and he won't let her work.

So the wives are cursed never to make their own money once they are born with pussssy

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Romanoff(f): 8:29am On May 10, 2021
WorldRichest:


So the wives are cursed never to make their own money once they are born with pussssy

What about the ones whose husband don't want them to work.

Or the ones who had to leave their jobs and relocate with their husband. And we know how hard jobs are hard to come by these days.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by tk4rd: 8:32am On May 10, 2021
“It’s Our Money... ...It's Our Money”
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That's what the husbands always get as the silly excuse for such behaviours.
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“Our Money” key You There!!

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by BluntCrazeMan: 8:50am On May 10, 2021
WorldRichest:
Let me ask my wide wife if she has been stealing "our" money.
She will never admit, until you catch her red-handed.
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If you ask her, the response you will get from her will be:
“Is your money missing?? Why are you asking me this kind of nonsense question?”.
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My brother, na there you go even regret bringing up the question to her.
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But in reality, the possibility that she had been stealing from your wallet, and that she even did it recently, is very high.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by damialarbah: 9:12am On May 10, 2021
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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by design108: 9:13am On May 10, 2021
grin grin

Tis probably cos that's the one person she knows won't get her arrested for doing it.

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Re: Why Do Wives Like Secretly “Stealing” From Their Husband? by Guyman02: 9:13am On May 10, 2021
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