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Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Makemoneywithme: 11:23am On May 13, 2021 |
Move to Lagos sharpy, else Ogun state will drain your mentality and soon you will start to think like them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1cCGjZP_IU |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by oyepaulkay(m): 11:27am On May 13, 2021 |
There are areas in Lagos that are not noisy and cool. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 11:28am On May 13, 2021 |
ikay00406: Are you interested? I have for let. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by antiterrorism(m): 11:31am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull:Bro cometo Epe |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by GentlePEACE: 11:33am On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: Don't mind him. There are good selfcon for 200k per annum. I live in a standard mini flat with visitor's toilet and a small dining room for less than 300k per Annum, it's even situated in an Estate on the mainland. 2 bedroom flat sef is like 400k here. Lagos is neat and less noisy if you don't live close to the market. Don't believe everything you read online. I can link you up with my Agent if you wish. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Mobog(m): 11:39am On May 13, 2021 |
Well, there are some part of ogun state that are very cool, maybe ops got is accommodation in a getto area, And ofcourse all state in Nigeria has that. I've been staying in ogun state for more than 15yrs, I don't relate with anybody anyhow, I give myself a standard and perhaps who you're really matters alot, I've friends that we grew up together doing fine and educated ones. I stay in a cool community here in sango ota where there's atleast 10hrs of electricity and comfortable apartment everywhere for you to stay...I got myself a generator n I go to work, nairaland as been killing my boredom n it's really working for me! The question is are you sure you IQ is high for you to manage the environment? You should have meet with somebody who understands the type of person you're before getting the accommodation for you! Maybe you self they do gragra when you arrive! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by cmecproblem(m): 11:57am On May 13, 2021 |
Come to Nairaland or Twitter and have intellectual conversations. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by FalseProphet1(m): 11:57am On May 13, 2021 |
Ishilove:Haaaa he as heard na, this one you're screaming change it upandan e don do na. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by samshoz(m): 12:17pm On May 13, 2021 |
Bro, we have those vices everywhere. Biko, come to Sango, Ogun State. It's close to Lagos but on the outskirts. Housing is considerably very affordable. I like your mindset, but you may need a regular job and be fueling your music passion by the side until you breakthrough and start your career full time, as suggested previously by some smart dudes here. My opinion |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by SeaTrade(m): 12:32pm On May 13, 2021 |
ogbuefi677:obguefi my man I no know say you follow me dey burn cigar ooo 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by papyskinsy: 12:33pm On May 13, 2021 |
Ajiswaggs: Brother I can really relate from your experience.. mehn dis lag na die.. thugss everywhere.. imagine me not been able to buy all this fresh bakery bread.. or holding supermarket nylon.. mehn no even try that one enter my street dem go rush yu.. dey prostrate up and down.. for their mind you be big man.. must everyone eat agege bread? most everyone buy stuff on the street shops.. person no even fit order uber.. that's the worst of all.. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Ajiswaggs(m): 12:40pm On May 13, 2021 |
papyskinsy:I tell you ur bro.... Anytime I go buy something for eatery or go do shopping I dey tell dem to package am inside black nylon, sometimes I dey carry black sak for my pocket go. God knows how this country go be in the next 2 years if it continue like this....Most of them don dey do kidnapping everywhere like this. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by papyskinsy: 12:43pm On May 13, 2021 |
Ajiswaggs: bro e dey do me like say we sabi each other.. because na the exact thing wey i dey do be dat.. I get one big black nylon bag I dey carry in and out of the street.. na watin make the hailing reduce.. lol.. now I just give them change based on my mood make dem no go block person for night.. i come. back from work at night 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Ajiswaggs(m): 12:59pm On May 13, 2021 |
papyskinsy:lolz...i remember one day wey my Gf come visit me, as I dey see her off back to main road, I con tell tell her say na one corner corner road we go follow, naso my girl dey vex say me dey hide something for her, I explain everything to her but she no still believe me....So another day she came to visit again, as we dey Waka go again she con say na straight she go follow say she no go follow me enter corner corner... I agree with her, as we reach one joint like this na so this street boys start to dey hail on loud voice con gather around me to drop something, everyone on street just set eyes on me, I feel embarrassed, I con tell one guy I sabi among say I dey come back say I wan use pos for junction.....and na dis shine shine cloth my babe were that day, everyone just dey look us go, naso I cut corner again b4 I go jam another goons on the way....my babe con dey apologise say she don understand why I no dey follow the road again.... Dem even dey tax her too for there....Those guys don turn another thing. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Mcdubai: 12:59pm On May 13, 2021 |
Guy please come over to magodo/shangisha area very close to marwa garden |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by ofiko123(m): 1:02pm On May 13, 2021 |
Change environment.. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by sylve11: 1:15pm On May 13, 2021 |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by armadeo(m): 1:22pm On May 13, 2021 |
Ishilove: Lol. That toaster with massive teeth I think. Lol. I remember your chronicles. Made me laugh back then 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Zizicomm: 1:28pm On May 13, 2021 |
Funminded: Sorry O no harmful intentions..job at times they limit our faaji hours. Should try visit some places if your new in Ibadan. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Ishilove: 1:29pm On May 13, 2021 |
armadeo:You have a good memory |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 1:40pm On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: I thought they said the Yorubas are educated than other tribes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Labadi69: 1:46pm On May 13, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Continue to dey burn the ciga na. No wonder you look like a man in his 60s when you are in your 40s. Just continue 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by HEAVEN4444: 1:49pm On May 13, 2021 |
muyiserra1:WHere you come from abroad ? USA ? |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by oluwamitomisin: 1:50pm On May 13, 2021 |
you can really gain popularity from this environment though. look deeper for more time before you decide to move again. think about organizing little shows, etc. even you could use such environment to get inspiration for some genre of music. and remember- every naija musician want to relate with ojuelegba/mushin. maybe you're in yours too? then from where you are begin to network with lagos and ibadan. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Galapagous(m): 1:53pm On May 13, 2021 |
Come obasanjo or industrial estate Ota. Steady light less noise plus everybody is an introvert. Kapish 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by GreenDee(f): 2:02pm On May 13, 2021 |
Whobedatte:hahahaha..I thought as much too,wetin concern Bauchi and Kano in dis matter. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Litmus: 2:04pm On May 13, 2021 |
Nigeria is one of the few places in the world if not the only country were wealthy and poor people live in same area and often cheek to jowl as neighbours. Yet some have the temirity to cry, Elites live big or Elite don’t suffer! In subconscious appeal to the West about Nigeria’s supposed class injustices. You’d think we are meant to be the physical manifestation of the communist ideal. I say communist ideal for in reality privilege elites exists in Russia, China and North Korea and even here they do not live in close proximity with the less privilege. Nigeria has many unintentionally great but unrecognised attributes. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by vioment: 2:07pm On May 13, 2021 |
Just first secure all your important documents and things. Then either change or stay there, of you choose to stay there, then cook up one lie as to why you dey there. Eg. I loose everything, I dey try stand up again. Dey ask dem if job dey. If you see person wey get skills or potential, relate more with am. Do mumu way small until you get your footing or feel comfortable. If E no do you, clear . |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by damoobaba: 2:31pm On May 13, 2021 |
Iamdbull: Talk to a reliable agent, he will get u a good apartment in Lagos.U can contact me if you're interested. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by jclassiq(m): 2:33pm On May 13, 2021 |
You could have moved to Ibadan Instead, or even mowe, or agbara, seeing as you want to avoid Lagos at all cost. Those places are at least close to Lagos and you have better chances of breaking into the music industry via collaborations with established artistes, most of whom are resident here in Lagos. Be that as it may, you can make the move as soon as your rent expires in your present location. Only this time you have to do your due diligence before moving so you dont just keep running around the country. |
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by HEAVEN4444: 2:36pm On May 13, 2021 |
papyskinsy:
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