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Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Olusharp(m): 2:39pm On May 13, 2021
dehiero:
Suggest a good place to settle in ogun
Abeokuta, Sango Ota, Atan Ota, Ijoko are part of the few good areas in Ogun..
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Olusharp(m): 2:41pm On May 13, 2021
Blackdeewhy:
Try IBADAN. You have all classes there. And you can get a two bed tiles, running water and serene environment for like 150-200k. Food and transportation is affordable. And people of all class and areas of life live there.
Try IBADAN!
lol ... Which side for IB o..
When agents bill him, he would understand
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by GoldenPRYM: 2:45pm On May 13, 2021
Iamdbull:
But it's too difficult securing apartment in lagos
If you're interested, I'm currently staying at Cooperative Villa, Badore, Lekki-Ajah axis and in need of a room mate to ease the rent burden on myself. It's 200k annually with a 4k monthly utilities bill. So we get to split it in two (100k, 2k). The landlord accepts 6months payment as well. But if you'll be coming in now, you'd be bringing 70k for rent till the end of the year. Then we resume the usual next year. hit me up at 09054156232 if interested.
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by HEAVEN4444: 2:45pm On May 13, 2021
Ajiswaggs:
lolz...i remember one day wey my Gf come visit me, as I dey see her off back to main road, I con tell tell her say na one corner corner road we go follow, naso my girl dey vex say me dey hide something for her, I explain everything to her but she no still believe me....So another day she came to visit again, as we dey Waka go again she con say na straight she go follow say she no go follow me enter corner corner... I agree with her, as we reach one joint like this na so this street boys start to dey hail on loud voice con gather around me to drop something, everyone on street just set eyes on me, I feel embarrassed, I con tell one guy I sabi among say I dey come back say I wan use pos for junction.....and na dis shine shine cloth my babe were that day, everyone just dey look us go, naso I cut corner again b4 I go jam another goons on the way....my babe con dey apologise say she don understand why I no dey follow the road again.... Dem even dey tax her too for there....Those guys don turn another thing.
which area be this ?

Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 2:53pm On May 13, 2021
Olusharp:
Abeokuta, Sango Ota, Atan Ota, Ijoko are part of the few good areas in Ogun..
Any ideas for the rent in abeokuta
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Olusharp(m): 2:58pm On May 13, 2021
dehiero:
Any ideas for the rent in abeokuta
with at least 100k you will get a comfortable apartment, just avoid student environments
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 3:06pm On May 13, 2021
Olusharp:
with at least 100k you will get a comfortable apartment, just avoid student environments
Thanks for the information I was considering mowe as I wanted smt close to Lagos any ideas?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by DONFASZY(m): 3:07pm On May 13, 2021
Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up
relocate closeby lagos n in a gud rich environment or island
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by FunnyDude(m): 3:11pm On May 13, 2021
Guru9ja:
Osogbo is the best for me.
Its quite,steady light ,and its assure promising future for youth like me.
Hi you stay in Osogbohuh
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Olusharp(m): 3:16pm On May 13, 2021
dehiero:
Thanks for the information I was considering mowe as I wanted smt close to Lagos any ideas?
Depending on your kind of person, Mowe is one razz environment o
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 3:21pm On May 13, 2021
Olusharp:
Depending on your kind of person, Mowe is one razz environment o
Razz Biko lemme pm you are u based in ogun?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by wjxavier(m): 3:34pm On May 13, 2021
It’s draining you because you’re expecting something from it. Read that again. OP. @lamdbull

First, you should think the other way around.

You are drain-able because you’re not nourishing your spirit man. That guy is starving, man.

Feed him well with the right stuff (The Word of God)

Feed him till he is robust and strong.

Then you can never be drained. You will be equipped to GIVE all the love, charm and impact that you exist to give -yes, even in a small town for now.

Create time daily to be refreshed by studying the word, praying in tongues and worshiping the Father.

You will be just fine.

If you ignore this, you will always feel drained. Even if you move to another place.

A lizard in Okokomaiko cannot become a crocodile in Alabama.” - Arch-Bishop Benson Idahosa

Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by evictor305: 4:06pm On May 13, 2021
Bros, How will you relocate from Abuja and expect to be psychologically okay? O wrong now!!!!
Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by DAMN99: 4:40pm On May 13, 2021
Same thing has been happening to me here in PH. There was a time i was depress bruh i was like wtf I'm not even rich�. So right now before you call me boss I don call you chairman from afar
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by pak: 5:19pm On May 13, 2021
Ishilove:
It reminds me of my service year. That year was the most miserable year of my short life as, like you I'm an introvert and I couldn't relate with the locals as they were housewives and cocoa farmers who barely spoke English. Other corp members were a bit of a distance from the village where I resided so I was always alone, battling goats and talking aloud to myself. In that village I realized why goats are called 'stubborn', was toasted by almost every walking male, and of course, for the first time discovered it would be very easy to have multiple boyfriends. I however did not choose that kind of dirty life so I endured intense loneliness.

You have to change your environment because you will be miserable. Don't bother looking for who you can relate with, just change your environment. Change it!!! I speak from experience. Change it!!! I cannot speak English too much. CHANGE IT!!!!!!!!
Wasimi ✌️
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Fantazy(m): 6:19pm On May 13, 2021
Omihanifa:
Everyone knows you are talking about ijebu ode grin
At the mention of Chicken and co!
Yeah I know how it feels. That's where I stay
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Parrotpal(m): 6:25pm On May 13, 2021
Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

If the location is Ijebu ode, let connect please.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by NamelessOGBENI(m): 6:45pm On May 13, 2021
Omihanifa:
Everyone knows you are talking about ijebu ode grin
grin grin
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by jaxxy(m): 7:56pm On May 13, 2021
Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up
Change ur source or mode of inspiration not location. Why should u get ur inspiration or intellectual growth majorly from ur immediate environment? Also poor and ghetto like environments have inspired more hits than u know. U might be suffering from low self worth or esteem or poor inspirational abilities so u blame ur immediate environment.

As far as I’m concerned even the barren and desolate desert can inspire a creative person.

Lekki or the island inspire u to hussle if u lack ginger bt u can give what u don’t have it can’t inpire musically if u don’t have inner creativity.

If u have low IQ u can’t improve it and it’s not by interacting with people physically or down ur street or even immediate environment. U need to work on urself and ur source of information and development, u are too dependent on the wrong things.
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Funminded: 9:19pm On May 13, 2021
Zizicomm:
Sorry O no harmful intentions..job at times they limit our faaji hours. Should try visit some places if your new in Ibadan.
Would you like to meet?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by koolaid87: 9:25pm On May 13, 2021
Iamdbull:
I moved from Abuja to a popular local town in ogun, I don't want to mention the name, in order to pursue my music career.

First of all let me explain something, sometimes as human beings to keep the spirit healthy you need people superior to you or people of higher value to draw energy from or to draw inspiration or an environment that excite and brings live to you or make you alive.

Now that's the problem am facing currently, there are no too many well to do young people in my environment, I can decide to stroll from one street to another and like 10 people would have begged me for money, I went to chicken & co ( it's a fast food outlet like kfc or chicken republic) and I was stopped and harassed by police just because I bought food at a fast food joint. They were asking me what I do for a living. What saved me that day was that I was dressed in some faded clothes, i can't dress nicely because everyone will start hailing and begging me for money and as an introvert I hate unnecessary attention, the ones that don't beg for money will try and engage one in some meaningless side talks that will lower your I.Q.

The ones that are okay are Yahoo boys and I can't relate with them. It's really getting depressing, I can't remember when last have had a highly intellectual conversation. Everyone just seems so rigid and unexposed and it's tiring. I am not really sound and exposed myself now imagine people reducing the little I.Q I have. It's so depressing.

Naturally you Will expect me to move from there but the nearest place is Lagos which will have to be on island because I hate noisy environment and you know how expensive that will be. Am so tired and fed up
You dont have money, yet you're complaining.

Go back to Abuja
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Josywhyte: 9:59pm On May 13, 2021
beejay501:
But they go first collect the guy like 7 times
If him no get orientation be that na
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 10:04pm On May 13, 2021
CharisEleos:
What made you settle for Ogun of all places in the first place?

Anyways there are nice and affordable places in Lagos on the mainland that are equally cool like the island. If you're interested you can get a cool selfcon for 400k to 650k. The place is very central and exposed. You'll love it!
Where's that!?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 13, 2021
jieta:
I tell you, the mentality of deltans is second to none.
Is delta state a good state to live?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Nobody: 10:15pm On May 13, 2021
Evolutionlove:
Lagos Is Super Shiiithole. The worstest place to live on Planet Earth most especially If you are POOR.....
Oga, can u say the rsn y? E get y I dey ask?
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Emperor88(m): 10:21pm On May 13, 2021
dehiero:
How is the security in mowe? Am currently searching for a place there for smbdy
Security is really not an issue but nightlife is next to zero...the only thing that should keep you out till 10p.m is traffic or football.
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by dehiero: 4:53am On May 14, 2021
Emperor88:
Security is really not an issue but nightlife is next to zero...the only thing that should keep you out till 10p.m is traffic or football.
what's the price for rent around you can I pm you
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by papyskinsy: 6:58am On May 14, 2021
Ajiswaggs:
lolz...i remember one day wey my Gf come visit me, as I dey see her off back to main road, I con tell tell her say na one corner corner road we go follow, naso my girl dey vex say me dey hide something for her, I explain everything to her but she no still believe me....So another day she came to visit again, as we dey Waka go again she con say na straight she go follow say she no go follow me enter corner corner... I agree with her, as we reach one joint like this na so this street boys start to dey hail on loud voice con gather around me to drop something, everyone on street just set eyes on me, I feel embarrassed, I con tell one guy I sabi among say I dey come back say I wan use pos for junction.....and na dis shine shine cloth my babe were that day, everyone just dey look us go, naso I cut corner again b4 I go jam another goons on the way....my babe con dey apologise say she don understand why I no dey follow the road again.... Dem even dey tax her too for there....Those guys don turn another thing.
Darm mehnn.. that's deep ohh.. same with my strt too yu no fit even Carry woman waka except she's dark and doesn't dress flashy.. if she wan go buy something for street them go tax her.. as if them sabi her befr.. unfortunately for me I gaz pass through that Main Road.. no cutting of corners lol.. the best was is to see bike in front of your house.. cause that street waka no make sense.. dem go dey look you as if na de first woman wey don enter the street befr.
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by duduade(m): 8:04am On May 14, 2021
Location


Ijebu ode
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by duduade(m): 8:05am On May 14, 2021
Omihanifa:
Everyone knows you are talking about ijebu ode grin
Lool

Mind am
Re: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by sageb: 10:30am On May 14, 2021
DAMN99:
Same thing has been happening to me here in PH. There was a time i was depress bruh i was like wtf I'm not even rich�. So right now before you call me boss I don call you chairman from afar
which area in PH made you feel depressed?
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