chinchonglee:
Men are the most stupid set of human beings.
Despite all theses things we see online, weddings are still happening every Saturdays and those same set of men are stilll the one footing the wedding cost, the bride price, the marriage expenses like house rent et al.
I dnt pity men like this. You shuld continue suffering yourselves

The reason men are getting married is because a man can not live without a touch of a woman.The women on the otherhand can do without us, that is how nature made it.

bunto:
See all the comments above. Totally SMH!
The black man is yet to allow his brain to advance. The police needed to separate the couple before one kills the other and the woman is the more endangered specie as well as her children, so it's the man that must leave the house as he can fend for himself.

However, in Nigeria, we believe the house belongs to the man, so the wife must leave for the man.

Doesn't that say that black people are closer to animals than cerebral humans.

How is it beneficial to your race to protect the strong and expose the weak to danger?

That is not the reason he was asked to leave. He was asked to leave because his wife is the named owner of the house. His name isn't on there. The officer put it clearly that if the owner of the house doesn't want you to be in it, you have to leave. This isn't about gender anything. Its about who owns the house.

If it was the man's name on the property, and he wanted her to leave, they would have asked her to leave. The only way the police won't interfer is if both their names are on the property. Which was what they verified first.

And no one was killing anyone, they were clearly not violent towards each other. And stop your demeaning talk about black people its annoying. This same scenario should apply in Nigeria if the law is actually being enforced correctly as it is in UK. The law is the law weda your male or female. Na the person way get the house go fit evict.

Michelle55:
She will die single and unhappy nau.. Foolish woman!

Lol he'll still have to take care of her even begin on the street else na prison

Sometimes i wonder how the husband of cococandy copes.

deniyor:


Yes you can be evicted on the lease holder’s mood swings if he or she wants. Married or not.
There are pros and cons to all the choices you make as a couple. Married or not, doesn’t give you residency anywhere. It’s whose name is on the papers.

That is not an illegal eviction. They are totally within their rights. If his name is not on the lease, he lives there as long as the lease holder permits. End of story. And I’m not here to debate the state of their relationship or reasons. That’s their wahala.

I didn’t say, you can’t be evicted.

You can only be evicted through a court order. The lease holder can not wake, call the cops and get you kick out, absent a domestic violence or assault, they have to go through the proper legal eviction process.

NEWSREPORT:
This video about Nigerian man living in UK with his wife, but suddenly due to civil matter, his calls the police. Guess what, they are asking the man to leave the house. What's your take on this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBFKjrIVOUg

Nothing new! The man is at fault though. When he started having problems with her he should have made efforts to include his name in the deed and also attempt to start paying the rent.

Chai nawa ooooo. The heart of man is desperately wicked. But we cant conclude yet on what transpired between the duo. We wey dey naija dey pray for better wife the once wey dey Abroad dey pray make devil no enter their wives. In all may we not marry devils.
Abeg you need a job or someone who needs this job help them out

Listening to both stup#d Africans speak makes want to throw up, trying to be more British than they themselves. And you still expect racism to stop when you're already considering yourself to be a low budget human being. The worst yet was listening to an ipob representative on BBC trying hard to speaking British accent with his igbotic tune castigating Britain.

Kingstanding:
. Even if the man bought the house before getting married to her, he will still going to leave the house for the woman. European law favour women too much. Think twice before you take your wife to abroad. Though we still have reliable women but the percentage is very slim.

This is untrue. The only way he is forced to leave is if he is violent towards her and that's if they both own the house. If he owns it she will be adviced to leave while taking the man to jail. Because once he is released he will return back to his house no one can stop him as long as he is the sole owner.

Certain European laws favours women but not all. The owner of the house na the owner, you nor fit pursue am comot because if he sues them he go win.

Wow! These cops are acting nice and all that shii. Even though na trouble they carry come. See as the female cop use sweet voice dey talk deeply annoying things.
Shaa they were gentle with him coz Had it been it was here in Nigeria, as him lie down for bed na so them go bundle am fly am from window.
Then he will lie down on grass naked asking his forefathers for eviction notice.

And you wonder why their population is below replacement levels and they have to import millions of third world immigrants. Feminist and gynocentric societies are doomed to extinction, they may think they are being civilized and modern but by the time they found out they have shot themselves in the foot it would be too late. Not saying women should be mistreated actually women occupied a very special position in pre colonial Africa, but you cannot go against nature like this Westerners are trying to do.

And you better believe they don't do all this throwing out with white couples, this is just another of their strategy of destroying the black family structure. They have done that successfully in the US that %80 of black children are raised out of wedlock and I am sure the statistics in the UK is probably very close to that.

cocolacec:


The reason men are getting married is because a man can not live without a touch of a woman.The women on the otherhand can do without us, that is how nature made it.

Must u marry to get the touch of a woman?

He did not even pay the rent for the apartment. The woman rented the place hence her name in the tenancy agreement.
I'm almost sure he has zero financial contributions to the home. And the woman has been accommodating him since 2018!
His type will not even be humble, going around making trouble and looking for “submission”, typical Naija leeching man!
Husband for mouth!

Sweep him out madam

Before you quote me:
1. Make sure you have watching the video completely, data savers please avoid me!
2. Make sure you understand British English. It was the main mode of communication in the video.

Thank you

BigDawsNet:


Just pray to meet a non Feminist biapolar woman....some of them are so loving and supportive tho

I no want again. Thank you. No be by force

cocolacec:


The reason men are getting married is because a man can not live without a touch of a woman.The women on the otherhand can do without us, that is how nature made it.

Bullest shit I've ever had
Which touch? Taaa! Comon make I see road jare.

Sha kniow say majority of Nigerian women feel entitled and can downgrade you at anytime....Always use your sense with them especially make dem come deh make some change and one prick deh knack dem behind you...dem go downgrade you last last.....Collect pikin from them and eat with them from a distance....no matter how loving or faithful she seem?Person weh wan eat with devilhin spoon must long ooo...


No let anything wehany woman say on this thread make you loose guard oo....

Shora fun obinrin arakunrin oo...

Olowa a wa pe lue ooo.

Amin.

NEWSREPORT:
This video about Nigerian man living in UK with his wife, but suddenly due to civil matter, his calls the police. Guess what, they are asking the man to leave the house. What's your take on this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBFKjrIVOUg

I feel sad for this Nigerian man given his material travail in the United Kingdom with a Nigerian born wife.

The so called wife acted truly unafrican.

She took advantage of the provisions of the law in the United Kingdom to unsettle the husband.

How dare she bring in a police officers to evict her husband just because of British law that protect her.

I can see why Nigerian men do not marry a wife that is brought up abroad and living abroad before marriage but rather they come home to pick a locally groom women in Nigeria.

Such locally groom women or Nigeria based women will not misbehave when they come to United Kingdom.

They will bring their ego down and cooperate with their husband.

deniyor:


Don’t be fooled. There is no violation of rights here, no 50-50. Only a law court can determine if it’s to be shared 50-50. Even at that, this is a tenancy, not outright ownership. So residence is up to the person on the lease. If his name is not on it, his rights of residency is as long as she allows it.

Absent of a pre-nuptials agreement, all properties acquired after marriage are jointly owned on a 50-50 pro-rated bases, it does not matter whose name is in what and if one person is working and the other is not.

And no, the Judge does not decide if it is 50-50, that is the law; the Judge decides who gets what base on their previous earning capacity, who the kids will be with, and in the case of residence the home is usually given to the party that the kids will be with, but the interest of the other party will be protected.

Sometimes the value of the home will be accessed and if given to the person that will be staying with the kid, the other individual will be given their pro-rates share of the value of that home in their settlement agreement.

All properties are subject to the same rule, including rental properties. This is call “Matrimonial Home Rights” in the UK. The law protects the individual whose name is not on the lease and they both have equal rights to the home, only a Judge can decide otherwise...a Police cannot just show up when one partner called and kick the other out absence a domestic violence report.

Read the law below:
https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage-your-rights-to-your-home/

NwaNimo1:
But the mugu suppose only put his name for the tenancy....... if he was paying the rent

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It doesn't matter if he puts only his name
As long as na him wife
Na him go leave

bunto:
Not true!
Even in Lagos, I know someone that was recently asked to save her life and leave the house for her physically abusive hubby.

She had reported him to the domestic abuse department of the ministry of justice.

Remember that we are sentimental people, not logical. Nigerians don't like being on the wrong side of the stronger person. They would rather appeal to the weaker person to take it easy,forgive, pray etc.

We are simply cowards! See how all the men are calling Buhari for everything instead of standing up for themselves and their families. They would all rather blame Buhari as if he is superman. The worst are even these weak educated Nigerians, they are too interested in their personal comfort and enjoyment to sacrifice anything for the greater good. The uneducated/semi educated make far better husbands than the educated. The educated are mostly interested in their personal aggrandizement.

Oga learn to understand context. This isn't a case of domestic violence. Or is it that your mind can't comprehend that a couple can actually disagree without physically harming each other?

I don't understand you guys sometimes. The scenario you said was a abusive one and its was most likely the house is in the mans name. The only advice to be given is for her to leave. If the same happens in UK it will be the same outcome. She will be asked to leave also. Police nor dey evict owner of the house.

This case is totally different. The woman owns the apartment. So she can evict him and the law will back her up. Its the same in Nigeria. If that woman owned the house they would have asked the husband to leave instead. This isn't rocket science

linearity:


I didn’t say, you can’t be evicted.

You can only be evicted through a court order. The lease holder can not wake, call the cops and get you kick out, absent a domestic violence or assault, they have to go through the proper legal eviction process.

Sir, I think you are mixing it up. Not all evictions, for lack of a better word, need to go through the courts. The cops are usually called to enable a smooth process, ensure there is no public breach of peace, or avoid violence in the process.
Let me put it to you in another perspective - if a friend visits you and stays for a month and you want them to leave. If they refuse, will you need to go through the law courts? No, you can get the cops to help you lawfully remove them. In this case, if you remove sentiments from it, the husband has just as much rights as the friend, None.

The wife is the only one on the lease, hence she has all the rights. She can lawfully remove anyone else she doesn’t want in there, including husband, family, children, friends as she so wishes. That’s the law. So what transpired between the husband and wife here is a lawful removal process.
The husband should have made other arrangements when he knew his wife wanted him out. Because he already knew previously. Instead, he went to council to council to get case officers etc.

Why stay where you are not wanted? Especially when you don’t have much rights.

linearity:


Absent of a pre-nuptials agreement, all properties acquired after marriage are jointly owned on a 50-50 pro-rated bases, it does not matter whose name is in what and if one person is working and the other is not.

And no, the Judge does not decide if it is 50-50, that is the law; the Judge decides who gets what base on their previous earning capacity, who the kids will be with, and in the case of residence the home is usually given to the party that the kids will be with, but the interest of the other party will be protected.

Sometimes the value of the home will be accessed and if given to the person that will be staying with the kid, the other individual will be given their pro-rates share of the value of that home in their settlement agreement.

All properties are subject to the same rule, including rental properties. This is call “Matrimonial Home Rights” in the UK. The law protects the individual whose name is not on the lease and they both have equal rights to the home, only a Judge can decide otherwise...a Police cannot just show up when one partner called and kick the other out absence a domestic violence report.

Read the law below:
https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage-your-rights-to-your-home/

Good and in the case the property was gotten before marriage?

phodoraz:


No gender is holier. I really don't like it when I see sentimental post such as this. It takes two to tango. Just imagine what you are on about. Most times when I see Nigerian men berate Nigerian women, I begin to wonder if they know what they are really doing.

If you don't value your mother(s) , sister(s), friends or female relatives, do remember you would one day be a father to a girl child. I hope you will be happy when other Nigerian men treat her just as you have suggested.


It's a pity that you have had terrible experience. I hope you heal, find true happiness and peace.

You see confirmed mumu man with monica "nonexisting" and you have time to reply him. With that mentality you should know he is irredeemable and can only date a depressed person. He is not capable of putting a woman in the house. A wife, lady, woman is a trust. Yes some might not act right that is why you leave. The man in the video is very stupid. Its because he is in the UK and the Police in Europe are kinda cool, try that nonsense in the US and they will ask you a simple question, you want to leave or you want to get thrown out, nonsense and ingredients. Your wife say she know do again change name for lease dey pay her rent say make you bounce, you come dey speak english dey record am, mumu united gang.

Nonexisting:
Use women for what they are meant for. Fucck them and go. If you want children, marry a woman and treat her like cock treats mother hen. If you live abroad, on no account should you marry and take your wife with you. Marry her and leave her in your village if possible or rent a self contain for her in a small city. Take your kids with you to school abroad when they are of age. Do this and live long like Methuselah. I move.

You're funny kid,but it doesn't work like that.

deniyor:


Sir, I think you are mixing it up. Not all evictions, for lack of a better word, need to go through the courts. The cops are usually called to enable a smooth process, ensure there is no public breach of peace, or avoid violence in the process.
Let me put it to you in another perspective - if a friend visits you and stays for a month and you want them to leave. If they refuse, will you need to go through the law courts? No, you can get the cops to help you lawfully remove them. In this case, if you remove sentiments from it, the husband has just as much rights as the friend, None.

The wife is the only one on the lease, hence she has all the rights. She can lawfully remove anyone else she doesn’t want in there, including husband, family, children, friends as she so wishes. That’s the law. So what transpired between the husband and wife here is a lawful removal process.
The husband should have made other arrangements when he knew his wife wanted him out. Because he already knew previously. Instead, he went to council to council to get case officers etc.

Why stay where you are not wanted? Especially when you don’t have much rights.

A friend who came to visit, came to visit...they don’t have any home right in UK law.

And the fact that it is only her name that is on the lease does not mean anything and does not breach the husband’s home rights.

Take some time to read this the link below and other referenced links about UK Matrimonial Home Rights:

https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage-your-rights-to-your-home/

SKYHIGHfx:

Can u imagine

linearity:


Absent of a pre-nuptials agreement, all properties acquired after marriage are jointly owned on a 50-50 pro-rated bases, it does not matter whose name is in what and if one person is working and the other is not.

And no, the Judge does not decide if it is 50-50, that is the law; the Judge decides who gets what base on their previous earning capacity, who the kids will be with, and in the case of residence the home is usually given to the party that the kids will be with, but the interest of the other party will be protected.

Sometimes the value of the home will be accessed and if given to the person that will be staying with the kid, the other individual will be given their pro-rates share of the value of that home in their settlement agreement.

All properties are subject to the same rule, including rental properties. This is call “Matrimonial Home Rights” in the UK. The law protects the individual whose name is not on the lease and they both have equal rights to the home, only a Judge can decide otherwise...a Police cannot just show up when one partner called and kick the other out absence a domestic violence report.

Read the law below:
https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage-your-rights-to-your-home/

Sir, you are correct on what you’ve posted except for one small important thing, the house is not an acquired property here. It does not belong to any of them and so can’t be considered Under the 50-50 rule.
When he is moving out, he can make claims to Specific items as he moves out. If she disputes it, then the courts or ombudsmen will rule on division if necessary but we haven’t gotten there yet in this video.

As the house is not an acquired property here, the residency rights is up to the person who has signed the lease. Married or not.

Now, if they owned the house, things become a bit more complicated. It does not mean he can’t be kicked out but the process of a lot more involved other than the simple process of calling the cops. Did you see where the cops had to prove residency first?
Have you seen the ‘ breakup’ Movie where they both stayed because they were both in the lease?

If they owned, the cops can only move him in case of violence, restraining order or court order.

linearity:


I can tell you that, what those police did is illegal and he can get compensated fir the violation of his right if he sues them.

Absent a domestic violence, a police can’t show up and ask someone to leave their home. It does not matter who owns or renting the house, they are married therefore irrespective of ownership, it is joint property with 50-50 ownership.

If she wants him to leave, she can do that by causing a friction, argument or instigate something and if the guy is so naive or stupid to lay his hands on her, then he gets kick out.

The other way to get him out, is to file an eviction notice with the court and a Judge will hear the case and render a decision and an order.

Without his name on the lease? He was smart not to have hit her irrespective of the level of aggravation however, how there you live in a house without your name on the lease?

One thing though, if I heard clearly, it is a council's house so we don't know how they got the apartment but it might suggest why the woman's name is the only one on the list.

NEWSREPORT:
This video about Nigerian man living in UK with his wife, but suddenly due to civil matter, his calls the police. Guess what, they are asking the man to leave the house. What's your take on this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBFKjrIVOUg

Nobody in this forum knows the matter 100%. But people will ignorantly rant and call the woman names while some men will bring their bossy attitudes to 'obodo oyibo' thinking its Nigeria where women do not have a say. Deal with it, men have upper hand in Africa while in the west, its the women. MY OPINION

phodoraz:


No gender is holier. I really don't like it when I see sentimental post such as this. It takes two to tango. Just imagine what you are on about. Most times when I see Nigerian men berate Nigerian women, I begin to wonder if they know what they are really doing.

If you don't value your mother(s) , sister(s), friends or female relatives, do remember you would one day be a father to a girl child. I hope you will be happy when other Nigerian men treat her just as you have suggested.


It's a pity that you have had terrible experience. I hope you heal, find true happiness and peace.

I love everything you wrote.

linearity:


A friend who came to visit, came to visit...they don’t have any home right in UK law.

And the fact that it is only her name that is on the lease does not mean anything and does not breach the husband’s home rights.

Take some time to read this the link below and other referenced links about UK Matrimonial Home Rights:

https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage-your-rights-to-your-home/

I read it and I think you should read it also. Matrimonial home rights only apply if you or your spouse solely own the home. That’s not the case here.

According to the link , if youR spouse co-owns it with someone else, you don’t have any rights to it. It gets a lot more complicated.

In the story here, the wife and the husband do not OWN the house. It’s a rental. Listen again.

omonnakoda:


There IS NO LAW that requires a man to leave.

I stand to be educated

Please cite the law

If your name isn't on the lease, you can be evicted by lease owner. Why do they ask every adult who's going to be on the property to have their names on the lease?