₦airaland Forum

1. Why is your name not on the house document? You be naija guy, u suppose sharp pass that after you've had an earlier altercation.

2. What did you do to this woman to make her so angry to want you out?

3. Why didn't you get the council decision in writing that while married eviction by either party is voided?

RedChiefPriest:
The only woman I can spend money to bring across the other side of the world over to myself is my mother.
When I travel out, it is in that country I will find my wife.
I will not and never bring a woman over in this era that betraying people is the order of the day.
If you will come then pay for everything.






I'm not talking about messing up and I can't be kicked out of my house except I have a problem with the law not with a woman.

Many tales of men bringing their woman over and she started changing and some even go to the extent of leaving the dude that brought them over to follow another man.
I can't use my money to bring trouble over or bring frustration into my life.


I understand my good man
But evil women are all over,good women are all over,evil men are all over and good men are all over also.
Marrying a citizen can go wrong or right and marrying a Nigerian lady can go either wrong or right also.
No manual on how to live life,we just take risk and hope it turns out right.

Very true, particularly the last statement. You have wisdom bro.

Go slap woman or beat up a woman you go spend years in jail

InvertedHammer:
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Lies!

Our men are intellectually lazy in legal matters. If he knows the system, he should know how to get around it.

He wasn't paying attention and his name was removed from the lease. If his name is on the lease, it could have been a different
ball game.

Do you want to bring a woman over? Do some research and know what you may be getting yourself into and prepare accordingly.
What has love got to do with it? Or better, don't bring any lady over. It is as simple as that. The problem is that when you advise these
men, they think they are being wise until they learn the hard way. Nigeria has millions of young ladies ready for marriage. He should go and bring more over.
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Are you serious?

bunto:
See all the comments above. Totally SMH!
The black man is yet to allow his brain to advance. The police needed to separate the couple before one kills the other and the woman is the more endangered specie as well as her children, so it's the man that must leave the house as he can fend for himself.

However, in Nigeria, we believe the house belongs to the man, so the wife must leave for the man.

Doesn't that say that black people are closer to animals than cerebral humans.

How is it beneficial to your race to protect the strong and expose the weak to danger?

adewumiopeyemi:
Go slap woman or beat up a woman you go spend years in jail

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Slap a man too and you go spend years in jail.

What's your point?

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BigDawsNet:



Welcome to the Western world

Well that's the law...get your ass out bro if you don't wanna spend the night behind the bars...

Most reason guys settle for baby mama shiit here...while they keep their wife back home in Nigeria...

It's a women world here... their decisions matter alot and if you bring the " I'm the man of the house " mentality here...you may likely find yourself in the street even tho you pay the mortgage...

And you will keep paying while you get a restraining order

This is no longer a Law...it contradicts every character of what Justice entails.

It's also against all moral justification

Why should a system wickedly subjugates the man for the woman?

To have a balanced society when it comes to marriage or relationship between man and woman, a law that puts both on the same pedestal should be adopted.

Calitoscassius:
Okay, if you say so.. i will let you wallow in ignorance.

ABEGI . I KNOW U DON'T HAVE PROVE JAREH.
EVEN THE PRIME MINISTER GAT THE RIGHT TO AMEND SOME RULES IN THE ROYAL FAMILY

America is even worse if you are married they will force you to put your wife’s name of the deed and c of o.

If you want to start a business and u are married and you want to start llc they will force you to put ur wife’s names as part own.

Even if she don’t have anything to do with the bizness.

quickly:
America is even worse if you are married they will force you to put your wife’s name of the deed and c of o.

If you want to start a business and u are married and you want to start llc they will force you to put ur wife’s names as part own.

Even if she don’t have anything to do with the bizness.

How will she not have anything to do with the house or business? Do you people even really think about all this before posting?
If your wife is not available to take care of your home and kids, do you think you can be successful doing all of that by yourself?
I just want to understand why y’all are so comfortable dismissing women’s contributions to the family progress

bunto:
Black man's selfishness again!
Everything is about them.
They easily forget that their mother could also be that woman that her husband chases out.
Awon ode!

Black woman's selfishness again!
Everything is about them.
They easily forget that their father could also be that man that his wife chases out.
Awon ode!

You be idiot

goltokka:
Let's not be quick to judge here, the officers are very right, his name is not on the tenancy agreement therefore he has to leave . Why would a man rent a house and not put his name on the tenancy agreement? That's stupid!!!

This is the only post that makes sense on this tbread

Akuruoulo:
ABEGI . I KNOW U DON'T HAVE PROVE JAREH.
EVEN THE PRIME MINISTER GAT THE RIGHT TO AMEND SOME RULES IN THE ROYAL FAMILY

Okay, if you say so..
Tell me one rule the prime minister amended in the royal family?

NwaNimo1:
But the mugu suppose only put his name for the tenancy....... if he was paying the rent

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SHUT UP!!!

Are you in the UK? Do you know the basic domestic law here? Love as much as you like but in the western world never sign a slaveowner document called marriage certificate. It’ll turn you to your wife’s slave!

RedChiefPriest:
The only woman I can spend money to bring across the other side of the world over to myself is my mother.
When I travel out, it is in that country I will find my wife.
I will not and never bring a woman over in this era that betraying people is the order of the day.
If you will come then pay for everything.






I'm not talking about messing up and I can't be kicked out of my house except I have a problem with the law not with a woman.

Many tales of men bringing their woman over and she started changing and some even go to the extent of leaving the dude that brought them over to follow another man.
I can't use my money to bring trouble over or bring frustration into my life.


I understand my good man
But evil women are all over,good women are all over,evil men are all over and good men are all over also.
Marrying a citizen can go wrong or right and marrying a Nigerian lady can go either wrong or right also.
No manual on how to live life,we just take risk and hope it turns out right.

I like how western world is teaching Nigerian men to use their brain!

Nonexisting:
Use women for what they are meant for. Fucck them and go. If you want children, marry a woman and treat her like cock treats mother hen. If you live abroad, on no account should you marry and take your wife with you . Marry her and leave her in your village if possible or rent a self contain for her in a small city. Take your kids with you to school abroad when they are of age. Do this and live long like Methuselah. I move.

Best advise EVER!!!

Learn to live without them, it’s hard but the western world will TEACH you!!!

bunto:
See all the comments above. Totally SMH!
The black man is yet to allow his brain to advance. The police needed to separate the couple before one kills the other and the woman is the more endangered specie as well as her children, so it's the man that must leave the house as he can fend for himself.

However, in Nigeria, we believe the house belongs to the man, so the wife must leave for the man.

Doesn't that say that black people are closer to animals than cerebral humans.

How is it beneficial to your race to protect the strong and expose the weak to danger?

You are crazy. Where in the video did you see violence or anything to suggest the guy is a threat or violent with the woman?
This is pure power play. Women power will last another generation at the most cause women have shown that they are just as bad and autocratic and selfish as men.

Weak mumu men, keep marrying your early grave. Shebi you can’t live without a woman abi?

chinchonglee:
Men are the most stupid set of human beings.

Despite all theses things we see online, weddings are still happening every Saturdays and those same set of men are stilll the one footing the wedding cost, the bride price, the marriage expenses like house rent et al.

I dnt pity men like this. You shuld continue suffering yourselves

Exactly!!!!

And if they run into any problem, health or financial, the woman is goneeeee!

phodoraz:
No gender is holier. I really don't like it when I see sentimental post such as this. It takes two to tango. Just imagine what you are on about. Most times when I see Nigerian men berate Nigerian women, I begin to wonder if they know what they are really doing.
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If you don't value your mother(s) , sister(s), friends or female relatives, do remember you would one day be a father to a girl child. I hope you will be happy when other Nigerian men treat her just as you have suggested.


It's a pity that you have had terrible experience. I hope you heal, find true happiness and peace.

Your perspective! My wife is staying in Nigeria or she can leave. Women have turned gender equality into women power and domination. It will surely come to an end.

phodoraz:
No gender is holier. I really don't like it when I see sentimental post such as this. It takes two to tango. Just imagine what you are on about. Most times when I see Nigerian men berate Nigerian women, I begin to wonder if they know what they are really doing.

If you don't value your mother(s) , sister(s), friends or female relatives, do remember you would one day be a father to a girl child. I hope you will be happy when other Nigerian men treat her just as you have suggested.


It's a pity that you have had terrible experience. I hope you heal, find true happiness and peace.

The marriage contract is now a very terrible one sided contract in favour of women. I hope you have a son!

djsjxjfjdisjdjb:
Lol. if his name is on the contract, they could not have done that. they cannot evict someone who is an owner or co owner of an apartment.

True!!!

bunto:
Black man's selfishness again!
Everything is about them.
They easily forget that their mother could also be that woman that her husband chases out.
Awon ode!

Or your son!

Gamesmart:
Another foolish and low-quality Nigerian.

Where did he think he was? Ajegunle?

Common sense, Nigerians no get.

- If you are not on the lease, the person on the lease can tell you to leave. If you like be in a marriage with her, her mother, Mary (Mother of Jesus) and Fatimah (Daughter of the Prophet) all together, you will still have to get out.
- The fool has no document; he thinks "Demsay" is acceptable to the law in civilised country.
- He thinks being antagonistic to police officers that are legally doing their job and what is expected of them will help him or get him anywhere.

Nigerian, African and Black FOOOOL thinks he is in his shithole country!

Kai! Wetin dey worry this one?

bunto:
Not true!
Even in Lagos, I know someone that was recently asked to save her life and leave the house for her physically abusive hubby.

She had reported him to the domestic abuse department of the ministry of justice.

Remember that we are sentimental people, not logical. Nigerians don't like being on the wrong side of the stronger person. They would rather appeal to the weaker person to take it easy,forgive, pray etc.

We are simply cowards! See how all the men are calling Buhari for everything instead of standing up for themselves and their families. They would all rather blame Buhari as if he is superman. The worst are even these weak educated Nigerians, they are too interested in their personal comfort and enjoyment to sacrifice anything for the greater good. The uneducated/semi educated make far better husbands than the educated. The educated are mostly interested in their personal aggrandizement.

Unmarried woman shut up! Though your point about Buhari is correct. Nigerian men are bloody cowards!!!

hush15:
The solution is very simple... be successful so that you leaving won't be so difficult.

If na me, once I got the reference number that clears me or absolve me of any future legal restraint or future gossip, na to walk away from the woman and ain't looking back.

You be joker! They are legally married!

cococandy:
How will she not have anything to do with the house or business? Do you people even really think about all this before posting?
If your wife is not available to take care of your home and kids, do you think you can be successful doing all of that by yourself?
I just want to understand why y’all are so comfortable dismissing women’s contributions to the family progress

i can get a nanny or help for that abeg

Worse case there are grandmothers

For business me and my friend want to start bizness we are contributing money and ideas wetin concern wife in that. she has no investment watsoever-mental or financial

FashionCookie:
And please, don't cone here to cry and disturb us tomorrow that someone else is fu*king your wife o.

If somebody bleeps my wife it means she was never my wife. By force no dey marriage.

All this Londonite Nigerian guys self.

Pataki thats you or Saga eh ?
Awon big London boyz to men

Just move and sort it out with no arguments. The arguments made madam to call the cops

She no want chop Nigerian style slap

Wittyduchess:
I guess he thought he was in Nigeria where he can throw his wife and kids on the streets for putting too much pepper in the soup as per " head of the house".

That’s why 70% of under 32 year old women are unmarried. It is a ballooning problem that will blow out eventually.

Emmmm na so - smh

blasterman:
i can get a nanny or help for that abeg

Worse case there are grandmothers

For business me and my friend want to start bizness we are contributing money and ideas wetin concern wife in that. she has no investment watsoever-mental or financial

ziondaughter247:
Watch how nairaland omega boys will crawl out of their holes and start blaming the woman and claiming she wants to take the man's properties. She is probably feeding the leech of a man.

See how the man automatically became humble when they found out he has no tenancy agreement or marriage certificate to his name. That means the woman has been paying rent all this while! He wanted to claim that since they were married, the police had no right to remove him out of the house. Leech oshi! See how he changed mouth. The lady was obviously working her ass out while the ingrate was forming 'I am a man' and misbehaving. I love these abroad women, they no they take nonsense. she obviously brought him to the country sef. He thinks he's in Nigeria where the law does not work.

All these men that have nothing to offer except shouting 'I am a man'...mtcheew

Go and see a therapist Madam. Be like say men don give you koboko!

CardiNice:
Most sensible comment here.
Men that go to the western world and fall to situations like this, didn't do their research very well.
Every western constitution has a loophole, find that loophole and no court can take what Is yours in this life.

Recently the white wife of one of my uncles left the marriage in USA and the court didn't allow her take anything, not even the car she drives.
How on earth my uncle was able to do that baffled me but like he said, he had prepared for the situation even before he got married.

I take God beg you, please give me your uncle’s contact.

bunto:
White men developed the washing machine, blender, vacuum cleaner etc to make life easier for their women,the black man has totally refused to develop his communities.
Our people always want to enjoy where they did not show.
Expecting God and white people to solve all their problems.

Yes because black woman’s small sense na born, born, born, born, born which they have used to destroy many men. How many white man has more than 2 or 3 children?