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aomine:
AOMINE IN DA HOUSE OK I FEEL YOU GEE AND I KNOW THERE IS A CONUMDRUM BETWEEN BEING RICH AND SEXUALLY ATTRACTING GIRLS OK LET ME ASK YOU ONE QUESTION NICKI MINAJ,KIM KHARDASHIAN ARE RICH BUT THATS NOT THE FIRST THING GUYS NOTICE ITS THIER BIG CURVY IKEBE ABI THEY ARE NOT LIKE ADELE or phrah whinfrey who guys wanna gold dig only my point is even with all the money dangote,mark zukerberg,bill gates have THEY CANNOT COMMAND SEXUAL ATTRACTION BECAUSE MEN DONT KNOW HOW TO SEXUALIZE THEMSELVES UBUNJA WHEREVER YOU ARE PLEASE COME AND SHED LIGHT ON THIS WOMEN ARE SEXUALIZING THEMSELVES TO THE EXTREME AND TEASING MEN BUT MEN LET THEMSELVES GO BALD HEAD ,BIG BELLY ,FAT, UNGROOMED BEARDS A HOT RICH GUY WONT HAVE TO PAY AS MUCH AS A ANY HOW LOOKING RICH GUY

for the longest time I've been working on a group of writeups called UBUNJA's MISEDUCARE, that's exactly about grooming, style and Skincare. While Miseducations are mindset-focused, The Miseducare series deals with the external - Hygiene, bodybuilding, cleanliness, teeth etc.

There's a lot of stuff to put out that includes the traditional Miseducations and this new type of content, But when I start reposting I'll include a donation link so anyone who has found value and freedom through my work and feels like showing appreciation can do so.
Peace.

Peaceyw:
I have returned…returned from purgatory that is. Hi! I will try and keep this brief, but when you reach 50, you have enough failure and success to write a book when it comes to dealing with women and freedom. So, to sorta quote Norman Vincent Peale please allow me to talk about my favorite subject for a moment, me. I stumbled on MGTOW after a bad break up with, oops I’m pregnant baby two and a half years ago.

There is a reason they call it birth control because someone is controlling the birth.

I had withered from Alpha stud to Beta loser in six years. After the breakup I searched and searched to find answers about why this had happened to me yet again. A never ending life cycle of Alpha to Beta with every serious woman I have ever been with. I hate to admit that, but it’s true. In between the serious relations~~~s I functioned as a MGTOW, doing what I wanted, when I wanted. Hunt, fish, drink, travel, smoke cigars, and bagged as many women as I could…I digress.

I read everything I could get my hands on. You name it and I have probably read it, I started with the Rational Male, Alpha 2.0, The way of men, The 48 Laws of Power, The Game, Meditations, Thirty Seven, Enjoy the decline, etc…etc…I learned something from everything I read and the bottom line of everything I read was that I had violated my inner instinct. I knew deep down that every time I let a woman take me into her frame I was screwed and constantly on the defense. You do not win in the defense. I only won when I did as I pleased, when I pleased.

Like dogs they smell fear, and with that they will rip your throat open if you ever let your guard down. It is sad that it is that way and that it took me so long to figure this out. I hope my intro to follow will help any young man who is dumb enough to believe that he has found the one and somehow his situation will be different. It won’t, at least not with a western woman.

For the first year I was bitter as hell. Then I finally realized I am only hurting myself and that is when I went on the quest for knowledge. The Holy Grail of what it is men should be doing with their lives. We have been programmed since birth that you must marry, settle down, have kids, work until right before death, grow old together, blah, blah, blah. Reprogramming yourself is not an easy task, plus all your asshole married buddies or specifically women around you will tell you that you are being selfish. You are not. You are living your life on your terms.

I got back in the gym, ate healthy, read, reconnected with friends, traveled, and basically became a man again. As I reflected on my life, it is painfully obvious that the times in my life when I was the happiest and most productive was when I was MGTOW and not in a relationship.

My quick run down:

Two careers all of my life. Spent twenty years in the Reserves and retired after a couple combat tours. The rest was spent in LE, with most of my career spent on full time SWAT, undercover, and Executive Protection. Loved both of my careers. For an ADD asshole like myself I could have not chosen two better places to hang my hat. Thank God they did not have Ritalin when I was a kid or any other drugs they force feed to our poor boys today, or I probably would have been bound to a cubicle for 30 years and then died because I wanted to. Do what you want! Don’t ever let a woman tell you that you can’t do it. Never! That includes your Mom.

This I think is a Twain quote somewhere, but I have never looked back and regretted the things I did do, only the ones I did not do, which luckily are very few.

I married twice and each time I walked down the aisle my inner voice, my instinct screamed NO! Yet I still did it because that is what you are supposed to do. I won’t bore you with all the BS from the first marriage, only to say that it went just as they all go. After 12 years with her she was fat as a house and mean as a snake. I always stayed in shape so it was an embarrassment to be hit on by hot women and have this fat troll at my side. I stayed because we had a daughter. She is the light of my life and will soon be a Naval Aviator and third generation military officer. Success!!

It’s not easy raising kids, be the best Dad you can be and when they are with you focus 100% of your energy on them. Do not introduce them to your harem of women. Dad and Dad only when they are with you. I got raped in the courts and paid 18 years of child support. Once you have a child with a woman you are locked in with her forever. Don’t forget that. Second marriage was a “Im going to war” bride. A colossal mistake! I dated her around 7 months and then had to go to Iraq. She said she would not wait if I did not marry her. WTF!! Are you kidding me??

Yep, I was dumb enough to do it even though I knew it would end in disaster and yes it did end in disaster when I came home. So finally I wised up…ya. I started dating younger women knowing that that must be the answer or at least thinking hot, young tail was the answer. Nope. I got hooked up with a ten that should have been on the cover of Victoria’s secret. The trailer park version of Victorias secret, but still VS.

Her past was very checkered and she already had three kids, but when you think with your little head nothing else matters. Long story short she kept pushing me for marriage and I said I was never getting married again. So? What’s a girl to do? Get pregnant by jove! I know what you are thinking. Is this guy really this stupid? Yes, yes he is. I let her move in because that is the right thing to do and what a man does. I was paying for her cell phone, car payment, housing, raising her kids, and all of her expenses. I bought a new truck because I had driven my other truck for ten years and that was when the fight was on. She said instead of buying a new truck “we” need to get her $40,000 student loan paid off.(I wish I was making this up)Anyway, I said no and that in my life no one had ever paid a bill for me and as a matter of principle I was not paying off her student loan. Two days later she took the baby and left me.

It gets better.

I had to file a court injunction to see my daughter. Luckily the judge gave me a 50/50 split. She wanted the standard 4 days a month because she felt she would get less money if I had more time with my daughter. Luckily for her the courts are so stacked against men that even though I have my daughter 50% of the time I still pay full child support because her mother is “indigent”. Why work when men and the government pay for all of your s~~~? So I have been raising a baby by myself for over two years now while she runs around looking for her next victim. It’s funny that even with four kids by three different men she is hot enough to be pursued by men with money. Hypergamy and Solipsism at it’s finest! She will repeat this cycle until she has a new house, new car, and her student loan paid off without ever working. Bitter taste of the Red Pill my friends? Yep.

So here we are full circle. Started MGTOW and at 50 back to MGTOW. I silently read these forums the last few months. I want to thank everyone who has contributed. It has helped me immensely and brought me back to manhood of which I shall never deviate. I am not locked in a bunker waiting for the end and hate all women. I just finally have come to terms with what instinctively I always knew.

I will never surrender again. Life is only on my terms. If I am lucky I will have another thirty or forty years to polish my soul. If you are a young man and made it this far in my insane diatribe, PLEASE do what most can’t, and that is learn from others mistakes. If you are an old bastard like me, it is never to late to be what you might have been…

It's never to late to be what you might have been...


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What do you advice us sir, concerning marriage then?

Jeremani:
Omo this part off me. That guy wicked sha.

I swear....the dragging no be here...the guy teeth be like tiger naaaa

neyohh:
For patriarchy to work , society need certain criteria.

Religious beliefs that support pariachy

Wealth, to sustain the masculine provider image

Fear and punishment

Rejection of western ideals.

How exactly will patriarchy work in a state like Nigeria, where southerners are literally begging for western ideals and poverty is rife through out the country?

Baba Nigeria will forever b patriarchal unless we don't have Islam and the north again.

Again sef gynocentrism works wen there's wealth in the land not wen there's extreme poverty in the land especially in Nigeria currently. U people are just something else is it that u want it to happen by force ni think!!!!!!

WTF!!!!!

DEMZEE:
Baba Nigeria will forever b patriarchal unless we don't have Islam and the north again.

Again sef gynocentrism works wen there's wealth in the land not wen there's extreme poverty in the land especially in Nigeria currently. U people are just something else is it that u want it to happen by force ni think!!!!!!

WTF!!!!!

Wealth in the hands of liberals cause's gynocentrism not just wealth by itself.

This is what I see , the North will barely hold, the south won't.

Just my observation from the current trends.

neyohh:
Wealth in the hands of liberals cause's gynocentrism not just wealth by itself.

This is what I see , the North will barely hold, the south won't.

Just my observation from the current trends.

The south will hold cos the Yoruba and igbo cultures are patriarchal

DEMZEE:
The south will hold cos the Yoruba and igbo cultures are patriarchal

Until you observe how the new generation of Yorubas and Igbo men think.

neyohh:
Until you observe how the new generation of Yorubas and Igbo men think.

Is it all of them that are educated??

neyohh:
For patriarchy to work , society need certain criteria.

Religious beliefs that support pariachy

Wealth, to sustain the masculine provider image

Fear and punishment

Rejection of western ideals.

How exactly will patriarchy work in a state like Nigeria, where southerners are literally begging for western ideals and poverty is rife through out the country?

Gynocentrism and secularism policies doesn't create wealth due to its Egalitarianistic-Equalism dogma,any society can create wealth for it's citizens UAE is Patriachal and they are booming in real estate and tourism,USA is liberal and they are booming in internet technology, China which is Communist creates wealth via advanced technology, as long as there is a strong Capitalistic system that encourages individuals to be creative and innovative risk takers and problem solvers, they would create wealth regardless of the system ,most of the greatest inventions and advancement of civilizations happened in Patriachal systems in the 19th and 20th century, when western societies became wealthy they then started to tolerate then finally accept Feminism and Egalitarianism as it's dominant ideology same way Arabic countries accepted Islam as their dominant ideology when prophet Mohammed conquered the Arabian peninsula

Nigeria's problem stems from many low IQ individuals in poliltcal positions and corrupt incompetent govt , even the citizens are not saint themselves, most are brainwashed ideologues via religion who can't engage in critical thinking and deductive reasoning most lack the ability to balance Machiavellianism (social skill/cunning) and intelligence (logic) , they are low IQ, high cunning individuals who are good at swindling e.g yahoo boys, corrupt politicians, corrupt company workers stealing from their company

The western part of Nigeria has significant illiteracy rate,even some educated westerners can't apply what they studies, these not just a western problem but a Nigerian problem , Patriachy can't solve our problem, only using Capitalistic models to create wealth and govt encouraging citizens to take up the initiative by them providing platforms via loans, grants, partnership with entrepreneurial organization , these alone can at least to a great degree improve the cost of living for everyday Nigerians

Hypergamy at best. Men getting dumped for earning less, but y’all men save these females even when they don’t even have a job. Women don’t love like you have been raised to believe, they love opportunistically.

heartofcity12:
Hypergamy at best. Men getting dumped for making a honest living, but y’all men save these females even when they don’t even have a job. Women don’t love like you have been raised to believe, they love opportunistically.

She no get small sense na....

luminouz:
I swear....the dragging no be here...the guy teeth be like tiger naaaa

Hehehe...

Don't blame the nigga....


I bet he was just trying to blow her mind...


And give her some good time to have her coming back for more...

DEMZEE:
Is it all of them that are educated??

It's not just about the education, it's the tone and direction set by the elites and educated.

As rural urban migration continues, with social media influence, you'd see the spread of leftist ideals even in parts of Nigeria you wouldn't have expected.

We aren't going to wake up to it, it'll happen slowly, and if you look well at today's society, it's easy to tell where we are headed.

I'd like for others to contribute, so that the discussions can be balanced.

Anyone who feels like continuing the discussions should use real life examples specific to Nigeria.

ubunja:
for the longest time I've been working on a group of writeups called UBUNJA's MISEDUCARE, that's exactly about grooming, style and Skincare. While Miseducations are mindset-focused, The Miseducare series deals with the external - Hygiene, bodybuilding, cleanliness, teeth etc.

There's a lot of stuff to put out that includes the traditional Miseducations and this new type of content, But when I start reposting I'll include a donation link so anyone who has found value and freedom through my work and feels like showing appreciation can do so.
Peace.

Now this is what am talking about. When you are good at something never do it for free. Appreciation shows how people like what you're doing and value it and want to help the movements it motivate you to keep dropping more contents for newbie and intermediate in the game.

neyohh:
It's not just about the education, it's the tone and direction set by the elites and educated.

As rural urban migration continues, with social media influence, you'd see the spread of leftist ideals even in parts of Nigeria you wouldn't have expected.

We aren't going to wake up to it, it'll happen slowly, and if you look well at today's society, it's easy to tell where we are headed.

I'd like for others to contribute, so that the discussion can be balanced.

Anyone who feels like continuing the discussion should use real life examples specific to Nigeria.

Leftist ideologies like LGBTQ, Abortion, liberal marital laws, alimony don't create wealth at all, how can all these abominations enter Nigeria, remember the two pillars of Patriachy tradition and religion are still very active as the dominant ideology in Nigeria is religion (Christianity, Islam,others) how can atheism, and secularism spread, sure youths are open to social media but not every one is indoctrinated with liberal policies, some are , some are not among the youth base, our elders dominate the politics and affect our laws and Culture, even among youths people are cultured and illiteracy exist especially in North, poverty is still prevalent in the land , who the hell has time for gynocentric laws

Imagine telling an illiterate poor Divorced man to pay alimony when he can't even eat

Let's be realistic, Islam is a dominant ideology among westerners too, gynocentrism can't overwhelm Nigeria




Note: liberalism or secularism has nothing to do with wealth only good government and Capitalism , look at UAE and Qatar

neyohh:
It's not just about the education, it's the tone and direction set by the elites and educated.

As rural urban migration continues, with social media influence, you'd see the spread of leftist ideals even in parts of Nigeria you wouldn't have expected.

We aren't going to wake up to it, it'll happen slowly, and if you look well at today's society, it's easy to tell where we are headed.

I'd like for others to contribute, so that the discussion can be balanced.

Anyone who feels like continuing the discussion should use real life examples specific to Nigeria.

The number of people who are educated in southern Nigeria is not up to half of the number of uneducated people in southern Nigeria. So how can gynocentrism work in southern Nigeria

DEMZEE:
The south will hold cos the Yoruba and igbo cultures are patriarchal

Yes their cultures is patriarchal but 85% igbos are not practising it.
for yoruba's i'll say 68% are practising it. Think bro only we northerners think and believe in patriarch no matter how educated hausa lady is she can't come claiming or defending feminist or fighting for equality they will disown her i believe we should all learn more.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

Don't blame the nigga....


I bet he was just trying to blow her mind...


And give her some good time to have her coming back for more...

I guessed so but he almost cut off her clit na

ikillbrokegirls:
Yes their cultures is patriarchal but 85% igbos are not practising it.
for yoruba's i'll say 68% are practising it. Think bro only we northerners think and believe in patriarch no matter how educated hausa lady is she can't come claiming or defending feminist or fighting for equality they will disown her i believe we should all learn more.

Same also in igbo and Yoruba places, they wud look at her like a fool and a mad woman. Don't allow some few feminist idiots to make u believe wat isn't there. Nigeria is fully patriarchal until our marriage and family laws should say otherwise

Hassanmaye:
What do you advice us sir, concerning marriage then?

Guy no be my post ooo, I copy am from website, i stated it there na. Go through this thread wella and decide what you want. Me I won't advice you about marriage since I am not married.

DEMZEE:
Same also in igbo and Yoruba places, they wud look at her like a fool and a mad woman. Don't allow some few feminist idiots to make u believe wat isn't there. Nigeria is fully patriarchal until our marriage and family laws should say otherwise

An igbo friend of mine did traditional wedding early this year he spent almost half of his life savings I asked him what is his next move now he said COURT wedding i was like WTF he said his wife families initiated it The person am talking about is not graduate but a high cert owner and the woman is a graduate. Second question goes like how did your dad & mom did theirs he said through traditional. i said why can't you do it that way he said it doesn't make sense world is following western law now i told him you are finished believe me.

Sometimes I get a little bit of nostalgia...


I rewatch old movies and listen to old songs from the 90's and early 2000's...


I don't know why I do that but I do notice that when I rewatch old movies that I watched as a kid, I get to see things that I was unaware of the first time I watched the movie due to lack of experience and knowledge....


I am currently rewatching the Grey's anatomy series...


And my eyes have reached the back of my head...




What can I say...




The truth has been out there this whole time and I missed it...

ikillbrokegirls:
An igbo friend of mine did traditional wedding early this year he spent almost half of his life savings I asked him what is his next move now he said COURT wedding i was like WTF he said his wife families initiated it The person am talking about is not graduate but a high cert owner and the woman is a graduate. Second question goes like how did your dad & mom did theirs he said through traditional. i said why can't you do it that way he said it doesn't make sense world is following western law now i told him you are finished believe me.

That's his yawa

pansophist:
By telling her exactly what she is to you. You do not want to lead a woman on against her wish, its a sin of the conscience, and gives room for a potential revenge (if she is vengeful), because you've stolen her irrecoverable precious asset, which is, her time, something comparable to someone stealing your fortune.

The point of my comment you quoted is on the basis of being tactful. That is, if they do not ask, then you do not have to tell. Same way a woman do not ask if you consent to her skillfully extorting your resources, is same way you don't ask if she consent to supplying you sex. It is the responsibility of the value holder to protect their asset, not the beneficiary. But if they ask, then you must be honest and say it as it is. Makes you sleep better at night.

Thanks man

Hey y'all...

Have you watched the Army of the Dead movie yet? I enjoyed the theatrics but the storyline helped highlight some fuqin gynocentric bullshit.

Have you ever noticed that most American movies always vilify their men? The men are portrayed as dead beat dads, useless husbands, fuqed up sissies and such? The women are made to look strong, independent and badass kickers? The kids are made to look headstrong and very deaf to correction? Then, these men go around apologizing even for shiit they never did and at the end, the stupid ass kids and wives end up as heroes? I have seen this trend in so many movies and I wonder what these movies are trying to portray into the minds of the general public(that's the whole world).
The men are always the bad ones, the women(despite being obviously fuqed up in the movies) end up getting the credit and the kids are never sorry for all the shiit they put their parents through. Power Book One is one major fuqup for me. I can count many others. Ain't American men becoming endangered species due to this femcentric/gynocentric Hollywood BS?

In contrast, Chinese, Indian, Korean and Philippine movies show their men as the pillars of the house,who protected and raised their kids and above all TRAINED them to be better men and women. Infact, the peaceful and family-friendly lifestyle of these movies showed just how much value they place on their men and his role in the house.

Now to the movie: Batista(the actor) did well, he saved so many people after the outbreak but had to kill his infected wife in front of his daughter. This same daughter suddenly decided to go save her two friends(no combat training or such at all) despite her own father's refusal. She got in, ran off without any thought to the safety of everyone...got her friends killed and ultimately her own dad and somehow she still became the heroine of the movie? The whole shhit sucks ass and swallows.

What infuriated me most was when an infected Batista told her ' i'm so so proud of you' and apologised again for some BS. I don't get it...Is it a crime to chastise your own children if they go wrong? What moral is the story giving everyone for fuq sakes?? I noticed this trend in American movies and I wonder how families fare over there.

luminouz:
Hey y'all...

Have you watched the Army of the Dead movie yet? I enjoyed the theatrics but the storyline helped highlight some fuqin gynocentric bullshit.

Have you ever noticed that most American movies always vilify their men? The men are portrayed as dead beat dads, useless husbands, fuqed up sissies and such? The women are made to look strong, independent and badass kickers? The kids are made to look headstrong and very deaf to correction? Then, these men go around apologizing even for shiit they never did and at the end, the stupid ass kids and wives end up as heroes? I have seen this trend in so many movies and I wonder what these movies are trying to portray into the minds of the general public(that's the whole world).
The men are always the bad ones, the women(despite being obviously fuqed up in the movies) end up getting the credit and the kids are never sorry for all the shiit they put their parents through. Power Book One is one major fuqup for me. I can count many others. Ain't American men becoming endangered species due to this femcentric/gynocentric Hollywood BS?

In contrast, Chinese, Indian, Korean and Philippine movies show their men as the pillars of the house,who protected and raised their kids and above all TRAINED them to be better men and women. Infact, the peaceful and family-friendly lifestyle of these movies showed just how much value they place on their men and his role in the house.

Now to the movie: Batista(the actor) did well, he saved so many people after the outbreak but had to kill his infected wife in front of his daughter. This same daughter suddenly decided to go save her two friends(no combat training or such at all) despite her own father's refusal. She got in, ran off without any thought to the safety of everyone...got her friends killed and ultimately her own dad and somehow she still became the heroine of the movie? The whole shhit sucks ass and swallows.

What infuriated me most was when an infected Batista told her ' i'm so so proud of you' and apologised again for some BS. I don't get it...Is it a crime to chastise your own children if they go wrong? What moral is the story giving everyone for fuq sakes?? I noticed this trend in American movies and I wonder how families fare over there.

I just finished watching the movie with my bro a while ago. We were both complaining of the same thing, Hollywood movies this days are promoting feminism and all sort of shits to people.

Degrezhaa:
I just finished watching the movie with my bro a while ago. We were both complaining of the same thing, Hollywood movies this days are promoting feminism and all sort of shits to people.

I was stunned that a good movie plot like that could be ruined with that feminazi bullcrap...

So what's the moral of the story for a family now? NOTHING!!!

luminouz:
Hey y'all...

Have you watched the Army of the Dead movie yet? I enjoyed the theatrics but the storyline helped highlight some fuqin gynocentric bullshit.

Have you ever noticed that most American movies always vilify their men? The men are portrayed as dead beat dads, useless husbands, fuqed up sissies and such? The women are made to look strong, independent and badass kickers? The kids are made to look headstrong and very deaf to correction? Then, these men go around apologizing even for shiit they never did and at the end, the stupid ass kids and wives end up as heroes? I have seen this trend in so many movies and I wonder what these movies are trying to portray into the minds of the general public(that's the whole world).
The men are always the bad ones, the women(despite being obviously fuqed up in the movies) end up getting the credit and the kids are never sorry for all the shiit they put their parents through. Power Book One is one major fuqup for me. I can count many others. Ain't American men becoming endangered species due to this femcentric/gynocentric Hollywood BS?

In contrast, Chinese, Indian, Korean and Philippine movies show their men as the pillars of the house,who protected and raised their kids and above all TRAINED them to be better men and women. Infact, the peaceful and family-friendly lifestyle of these movies showed just how much value they place on their men and his role in the house.

Now to the movie: Batista(the actor) did well, he saved so many people after the outbreak but had to kill his infected wife in front of his daughter. This same daughter suddenly decided to go save her two friends(no combat training or such at all) despite her own father's refusal. She got in, ran off without any thought to the safety of everyone...got her friends killed and ultimately her own dad and somehow she still became the heroine of the movie? The whole shhit sucks ass and swallows.

What infuriated me most was when an infected Batista told her ' i'm so so proud of you' and apologised again for some BS. I don't get it...Is it a crime to chastise your own children if they go wrong? What moral is the story giving everyone for fuq sakes?? [/b][b][/b]I noticed this trend in American movies and I wonder how families fare over there[b].

The Family line/bond here is broken, forget all the agenda they try to push through nollywood and SM. So many broken homes with broken kids.

And to remind you, it’s not only nollywood right now, the gaming industry too is pushing that line slowly. Example is The last of us part 2.

Drenimarcus:
The Family line/bond here is broken, forget all the agenda they try to push through nollywood and SM. So many broken homes with broken kids.

And to remind you, it’s not only nollywood right now, the gaming industry too is pushing that line slowly. Example is The last of us part 2.

drenimarcus so you dey here, lol. Abeg dey update your thread make i dey get small joy

ikillbrokegirls:
Now this is what am talking about. When you are good at something never do it for free. Appreciation shows how people like what you're doing and value it and want to help the movements it motivate you to keep dropping more contents for newbie and intermediate in the game.

I'm becoming more and more reluctant to share what I know free, especially since some of what I write about people can't find in the books they're buying. At the end nothing will be free. It's inevitable. But one step at a time.