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Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 6:20pm On May 24, 2021
rex444:
The two times she came to Ur place, what did U do? Did U make any advances to show her Ur very much in it? Maybe she waited too long
I did bro, i'm a straight forward guy, i have told her about it, she knows but she could not even stay up to 10 minutes and she start complaining she wants to go home... She is always in a rush to go whenenever she visit me.
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by rex444(m): 6:21pm On May 24, 2021
Well then ...
Kings999:
I did bro, i'm a straight forward guy, i have told her about it, she knows but she could not even stay up to 10 minutes and she start complaining she wants to go home... She is always in a rush to go whenenever she visit me.
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 6:35pm On May 24, 2021
Ginaz:
You don’t really love her from the onset . No loss , oga go your way with your fake love .
What is love?
Well i do not take relationship advise from women, if i be your brother you go fit let girl break my heart...
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Mcslize: 6:41pm On May 24, 2021
Bro, a girl will take you more seriously after both of you had made out.

It was easy for her to move on cuz both of you haven't gotten intimate.

Once a girl has gotten intimate with you, it's hard for her to just leave you even if you tell her to fvck off, she will keep coming back.

They see sex as one big investment from them to a guy. That's why if you like a girl, don't waste time getting intimate. Once both of you get intimate, even if both of you quarrel today and you tell her to fvck off, due to the fact that she has gotten intimate with you, it will be hard for her to just leave you. That's how their minds function. But if both of you have not done anything, forget it, she won't reason you.

Girls get more attached to guys they make out with.

If she likes you, and you like her, second visit make her invest. That sexual investment is quite important to them.

Another thing, make your home a place of comfort. If a lady visits, and your place looks comfy and quite comfortable, she will have a change of mind to stay longer.

A girl once told me, our first meet up should be outside. I said no problem. We met outside, gisted over some drinks and when it was about time for us to leave, I told her to follow me home. She hesitated. But later gave in and said she won't stay long o. Before nkor? I murmured in my mind.

She got to my place and madam spread body for chair dey watch movie o under chilled home atmospheric condition. Person that says she won't stay long ended up staying for hours.

What am I saying? Ladies like comfort. Put that in place and they will have no issue visiting many times in a row.
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 6:43pm On May 24, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Lol i no follow you talk amcheesy
But honestly if i finally make it big in life, i promise myself never to marry a broke ass girl, you can not come and be eating my money, the money you do not know how i made it and how much i suffer to make it..
If i pay your bride price we go share family responsibility together, if i catch her cheating on me, i will send her back to her fathers house...
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 6:52pm On May 24, 2021
Mcslize:
Bro, a girl will take you more seriously after both of you had made out.

It was easy for her to move on cuz both of you haven't gotten intimate.

Once a girl has gotten intimate with you, it's hard for her to just leave you even if you tell her to fvck off she will keep coming back.

They see sex as one big investment from them to a guy. That's why if you like a girl, don't waste time getting intimate. Once both of you get intimate, even if both of you quarrel today and you tell her to fvck off, due to the fact that she has gotten intimate with you, it will be hard for her to just leave you. That's how their minds function. But if both of you have not done anything, forget it, she won't reason you.

Girls get more attached to guys they make out with.

If she likes you, and you like her, second visit make her invest. That sexual investment is quite important to them.
Bro loud am, that is my number 1 rules, but it was not my fault sha, i did the right thing because of the good heart i have, i feel so silly to disturb someone who is taking care of her mom in the hospital to come and visit me and give me s3x, i even told her i want to visit her mom in the hospital but she gave one yeye excuse i did not bother myself sha, but she has taking my patiance for granted, i thought i was doing the right thing, i would have urge her to come and give no fvck of her excuse of her mom being in the hospital... Well i don learn...
Bro no too blame me sha, that is woman life, girl wey go leave go still leave...
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by duality(m): 7:10pm On May 24, 2021
Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....
Live by God's principles and standard for relationship and all these will not happen to you.

Why did you attempt being in a relationship with the lady. Was it Godly and pure without sinful intentions?
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Mcslize: 8:10pm On May 24, 2021
Kings999:
Bro loud am, that is my number 1 rules, but it was not my fault sha, i did the right thing because of the good heart i have, i feel so silly to disturb someone who is taking care of her mom in the hospital to come and visit me and give me s3x, i even told her i want to visit her mom in the hospital but she gave one yeye excuse i did not bother myself sha, but she has taking my patiance for granted, i thought i was doing the right thing, i would have urge her to come and give no fvck of her excuse of her mom being in the hospital... Well i don learn...
Bro no too blame me sha, that is woman life, girl wey go leave go still leave...
You did nothing wrong. The babe na werey. I don't waste my time with such babes. Spread your tentacles. Go out with other babes. Babes many. I don't see any reason why a guy should kill himself for one babe that doesn't place value in a guy.

As a guy, have many babes, your phone will keep ringing. Who are calling? Babes. You won't even have time to notice the misbehaviour of one out of the many.

Girls no dey value good guys o.
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 9:39pm On May 24, 2021
donbachi:
U told her to delete ur number from her phone and Never talk to u anywhere she sees u.


Small pikin na e u be..common to convince a girl to love u,u no fit.u come here dey rant.
Convince a girl t love u"" are u okay? Do u beg someone to forcefully love u?
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody:
Jeckydivah:
You are the woman in that relationship
Abeg how?
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 24, 2021
Juliusmomoh:
Apart from me who else notice the op is mentally unbalance?
Abeg tell me how i take dey mentally unbalance
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 24, 2021
Heathrow44:
Convince a girl t love u"" are u okay? Do u beg someone to forcefully love u?
My brother if you take some relationship advice from this nairaland, you go die early...

The truth is that it is better for a woman to love you more than you love her, lets be honest to ourselves...
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 24, 2021
Kings999:
My brother if you take some relationship advice from this nairaland, you go die early...

The truth is that it is better for a woman to love you more than you love her, lets be honest to ourselves...
That's wat keeps a relationship, Is practically impossible for two people t love each other proportionately, I mean not talking from familial relationship but by two people that fell in love w each other w by the way love doesn't exist among individuals, is just infatuation and lust that gave way to wat mite look like love but it isn't! I don't beg girls t love me, if u like me good for u, if u don't its mutual, ur not d only girl in the world, so we should save each other the waste of time! Don't beg someone to love u, is a pathetic and condescending thing that erodes all sense of self respect to ur being! U deserve t love and be loved rightly;
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 24, 2021
Heathrow44:
That's wat keeps a relationship, Is practically impossible for two people t love each other proportionately, I mean not talking from familial relationship but by two people that fell in love w each other w by the way love doesn't exist among individuals, is just infatuation and lust that gave way to wat mite look like love but it isn't! I don't beg girls t love me, if u like me good for u, if u don't its mutual, ur not d only girl in the world, so we should save each other the waste of time! Don't beg someone to love u, is a pathetic and condescending thing that erodes all sense of self respect to ur being! U deserve t love and be loved rightly;
God go bless you..... cheesy
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by lasisi69: 10:57pm On May 24, 2021
Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....
lol... Thank you indeed
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 11:07pm On May 24, 2021
lasisi69:
lol... Thank you indeed
You are welcome indeedcheesy
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Vision101(m): 1:32am On May 25, 2021
Patience wat? Waste of time ko. Must every meeting result to sex. Ladies where una dey see this type of boys?
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody: 8:49am On May 25, 2021
Vision101:
Patience wat? Waste of time ko. Must every meeting result to sex. Ladies where una dey see this type of boys?
How?

Apart from sex what can a woman contribute in a relationship,
Men are losing big after break up with a woman
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by mkpurumma090(f): 3:55pm On May 25, 2021
Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....
Guys are even the worst...
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Nobody:
mkpurumma090:
Guys are even the worst...
If you give your man peace of mind and treats him well even if he cheat on you, he will never leave you..

But you see you women, even if a guy kill himself for a woman, the woman go still leave him..
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by ceede2: 8:08pm On May 25, 2021
Kings999:
My patience with a girl has turned to waste of time,
I was pitying a girl because of the things she is passing throug, how she is taking care of her sick mom in the hospital..
She has only visited me two times, the first time i invited her, she said she do not have much time to spend with me she left and the second time she visited me unexpectedly and she said she was coming back from there shop, and nothing happened...
She told me oneday she will be staying in the hospital with her mom to take care of her. her mom has been sick for a long time before i even met her...
Lol more than three months i have not seen this girl we have been talking on the phone and be decieving ourselves with "i love you", "i miss you", i was even tired of saying "i miss you" all the time on the phone...
This days i'm surprised she comes online and post pictures of guys on her status. Sometimes she post a single pictures of her in a shoperite, i believe she has been visiting other guys, and be decieving me she is alway in the hospital with her mom. i just kept calm, but she keeps doing it and be posting pictures of guys on her status, oneday i told her something serious and she mistakenly sent me a message she wanted to send to a guy, i know the message was not for me because it was off point of what i was telling her, i asked her she said it was a mistake that the message is not for me.. i got angry and told her if she is tired of me let her go, lol she said she is gone that she do not want problem..
I told her to delete my number from her phone and if she sees me anywhere she should not bother talking to me... well i have not spend any kobo on her and she have not asked me for money, but even if she ask me for money i will not give her..

My advice to guys is to know the difference between patiance and waste of time, you see that girl you are petting and you are claiming to love another guy is pounding her like yam.. Never in your life pity a girl, that same pity you have for her is what she will use to hurt you...

Thank you.....
Apply my rule 7 and thank me later
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Redoil: 7:27am On Jun 14, 2021
Caaz:
Mstcheeee na this kind human being go embarrassed woman for public if he mistakenly sees her with any guy and if by bad luck shes putting on anything he bought for her.

why do you mention me in romance section












Redoil boyfriend!
Re: My Patiance with Her Has Turned To Waste Of Time by Kolena:
Ever8090:
Of all the problems in this country, some people are not bothered both hovering around those bleeding species....
I still don't understand why a guy should be killing himself over a girl at a time like this. Those beings are not worth the stress at all. Invest in yourself. By the way, the word 'love' is used wrongly these days.
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