₦airaland Forum

Dabronze:
when you started chatni- up with a girl she woull like to shit-test you so that she can categorize you to eithe you are her needy maga or dominant lover from there she would know how to treat you , if she ask somethin from you and you do it she's would only goin to remmember you whenever she needs something from you.

michaelpop50:
Why you get sense like this? Oya go mama atutupuen chop go collect henessy I go pay.

Agbebakun22:
Don't mind those species, one reply my comment on group chat, before I know she don dm me, imagine someone that I want to sincerely help mentor on how to trade crypto and affiliate marketing free of charge oo, after we don talk that one finish next thing pls can u help me with any amount, a lady I don't even know, haven't met her before, since is on Saturday I told her to give me next week once I made profit from my trade I will help her with some cash but unfortunately I loss some money during trading and I try to tell to give me some time I will give her since I promise to give her before u know she don block me wetin concern me

kelvine:
Simple words full of wisdom.
Learnt something new "shit-test"

lifenija:
entitled bitch, she even block u for ur own money

Agbebakun22:
Don't mind those species, one reply my comment on group chat, before I know she don dm me, imagine someone that I want to sincerely help mentor on how to trade crypto and affiliate marketing free of charge oo, after we don talk that one finish next thing pls can u help me with any amount, a lady I don't even know, haven't met her before, since is on Saturday I told her to give me next week once I made profit from my trade I will help her with some cash but unfortunately I loss some money during trading and I try to tell to give me some time I will give her since I promise to give her before u know she don block me wetin concern me

Dabronze:
shit-test is phsychology mind game women play on men unintentionaly to know what type of man you are

gregyboy:
So you won b give her the money true true, ha na una dey spoil our ladies making them beggers

michaelpop50:
You are a born fool. So if a man approaches a lady with intentions of dating her, it means the man has ulterior motives?

lifenija:
40 yrs old yet no sense.
is it every guy that says hi dat is already talking bout sex.

plz go b watching zee world

wealthyhenry:
Haba. That's too harsh.

michaelpop50:
You are a born fool. So if a man approaches a ady with intentions of dating her, it means the man has ulterior motives?

planetx13:
Typical brainless Nigerian hoe.... So because someone collects your number, he must now take care of all your responsibility... Are you crippled?? Can't you work for your money... Hopeless gender....

CharisEleos:
Ni yin Sir.

Why are all of you getting upset by my comment as if i said something out of place.

You complain that girl's asked for money after chatting. What of you guys who the next thing is to ask her to visit your place for sex? U need a brain surgery

No, lets be truthful to ourselves, is that not what most of you ask for or am I not a girl? If the girl doesn't ask for money, you will ask for sex.

I'm not in any way holding brief for the girls that do such but I'm just telling you guys that you too have hidden agenda and ulterior motives when chyking a girl which makes the two of you. So stop coming here to paint the female folk bad like you are any better.

Most of you who have mentioned me to say one poo or the other, mind you, I'm old enough to birth you if I had a child immediately after my secondary education.
I'm only advising you as my children. So mind yourselves on here. 40 years is not a joke!

Shalom.

CharisEleos:
Ni yin Sir.

Why are all of you getting upset by my comment as if i said something out of place.

You complain that girl's asked for money after chatting. What of you guys who the next thing is to ask her to visit your place for sex?

No, lets be truthful to ourselves, is that not what most of you ask for or am I not a girl? If the girl doesn't ask for money, you will ask for sex.

I'm not in any way holding brief for the girls that do such but I'm just telling you guys that you too have hidden agenda and ulterior motives when chyking a girl which makes the two of you. So stop coming here to paint the female folk bad like you are any better.

Most of you who have mentioned me to say one poo or the other, mind you, I'm old enough to birth you if I had a child immediately after my secondary education.
I'm only advising you as my children. So mind yourselves on here. 40 years is not a joke!

Shalom.

Itzurboi:
you are right, this is simple logic but most guys would disagree... Inasmuch I blame some ladies to always ask for money so early, I would apportion same to the guys too...
It's always a game to both gender's.. Frankly speaking, why ask for her number in the first place if it's not primarily cos of what you saw (boobs, buttock).. And please don't tell me you just like her with no ulterior motive, I be guy too... Wanna ask, did you see through her soul to know she is the best girl you are waiting for? How many best girls you don jam, how many did you guys keep...
That been said, most Guys complaining influence this shit, some are only sad that they don't get to use their line, sweet talk to bed the girl before their bubble burst with billing(s)...
We all should kiss reality, if a girl bring unnecessary billing and you like her, make her see reasons why she shouldn't always start the foundation of anything on request, things would naturally fall in place if everyone stays good.....

AmazingELixir:


Its difficult to blame the female folks entirely for being so demanding these days...just as the lady up there rightly pointed out , the first thing that comes to mind of most guys when they approache the opposite gender is sex.

While one can say females of these days have needs and keeping up with trends require money it also pertinent to note that some of these demands are actually intended to put guys in check.

Bottom line is when you see a beautiful looking and decently dressed damsel on the streets especially those not fortunate enough to be gainfully employed, it then means someone is taking care of her and to enjoy that privilege by usurping the responsibility or sharing it with another ...such person should be prepared to be the man financially.

An easier way is respect yourself and keep to yourself or simply go the way of pay before or after service.

gregyboy:
You said some truth there but lack of some reality in it

How would a lady bill a guy under a week they just meant....

If the guy demand sex within that week she meets him, the lady demands money in return that is a fair game

If the lady so need the money they should be stopping us an collecting our number instead
Seems they are the one more desperate on their selfish intentions than the guy who took time to collect their number


Ladies these days give out their number randomly in, search for a maga they can bill
And they, are cashing out with it....

Only if they give the pussy inreturn of those gift guys wont be here complaining

CharisEleos:
Did they beg you to collect their number and chat them?

AmazingELixir:
Hahahaha, paddy man we're saying thesame...."Tie the rope on the goat to the tree and Tie the rope on the tree to the goat " all have same effect.

Eventually it all boils down to the simple and salient fact that the end game between the interactions of people of opposite gender not related by blood line is Sex, and to get sex something has to offer either affection, companionship, finance or favour....it all depends on what the male is willing to tradeoff and what terms the female is willing to give in.

Op's targeted client was willing to give in if he was willing to tradeoff finance and our brother Op wasn't happy with that transaction.

AmazingELixir:
Hahahaha, paddy man we're saying thesame...."Tie the rope on the goat to the tree and Tie the rope on the tree to the goat " all have same effect.

Eventually it all boils down to the simple and salient fact that the end game between the interactions of people of opposite gender not related by blood line is Sex, and to get sex something has to offer either affection, companionship, finance or favour....it all depends on what the male is willing to tradeoff and what terms the female is willing to give in.

Op's targeted client was willing to give in if he was willing to tradeoff finance and our brother Op wasn't happy with that transaction.

lifenija:
40 yrs old yet no sense.
is it every guy that says hi dat is already talking bout sex.

plz go b watching zee world

candygist:
That's why I just do olosho. If I walk down to Allen at ikeja, I will see olosho for 7K for all night jollyment. Far better than wasting my time and resources chasing a regular girl that will only end up chopping my money and still won't give me pussy at the end of the day....

KingDash:
shii... sucks be you, nigerian chicks are the most cheapest things to fucck bruh.

candygist:
Wait until you visit Tanzania. You will Bleep angels for low fee

candygist:
Wait until you visit Tanzania. You will Bleep angels for low fee

iLegendd:
You can turn the table with few words or behaviors.

1. Don't act too rich — just be naughty, humble, and principled
2. There is something called "Demanding Syndrome" and you can bypass it in few hours.

You met a girl and after a day, do this via chat or a 1-on-1 conversation.

You: Do you know one thing I admire about you?
Her: No, tell me.
You: Are you sure you want to know?
Her: Yes

At this point, you can log out and after some minutes, reply her with...

You: I like how you don't demand for card, say buy me this and that like other girls that act so hungry and demanding.

You: I like how don't belittle yourself by making demands like other girls. I really respect that.

Her: Wow! Thank you. I'm not the demanding type.

Now, switch to pidgin English for fun and humility sake.

You: Anyway, na me go dey demand from you sha. I'll pay back with a kiss and a spank.

Her: Lol (Hahahaha) blah blah blah

You: So, when are you taking me out to lavish on me?

Her: Lol. You're the one to take me out na — blah blah blah.

That's the end.

In the above chat, you've done lots of things in her brain. You've blocked her demanding syndrome, made her know you're fun, confident, and naughty.

When she wants to demand from you, she'll remember those words and won't want to belittle herself. She'll ask another guy.

Even if she manages to demand down the line, it won't be much and if you don't want to comply, you can say, "We've already agreed you'll be the one spending on a brokeass like me."

Just use humor in a way it fits and quench the demand. Humor is powerful, but Nigerian men act too big and when a girl demands, even if they don't have, they look for a way to get and give to her to maintain the impression of being a big boy.

Men should learn to invest their money in businesses and not in relationships. Relationship should only take the remainder, like 1%.

This is why I urge black men to read books so they can be wiser.

As a wise man, there are times you should instinctively know she derseves something and do get it for her if you have. Don't wait for her to request.

Just use your instinct and lead like a boss.