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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by ogelekpomgam(m): 10:50pm On Jun 02, 2021
iLegendd:
A man is successful if he has handled these three things below

1. Women: He is an alpha who can handle women (in and outside the bedroom) without being a pushover or a simp and at the same time, without being controlling and abusive.

2. Money: He has a skill or skills that make him money while he sleeps.

3. Management: He knows how to mange the money he made by investing and spending wisely.

Bonus: His mind and health are healthy.

Tips:

1. No matter how successful you think you are as a man, if you ignore knowing how to handle a woman like a real man and put all your hopes on "money," a woman will run you down one day and that success or money you think you have will disappear. This skill is EXTREMELY important.

2. Okay, let's assume you can handle women, but if you don't have skills that will make you money while you sleep and when you're awake, you'll labor for the rest of your life. Is that the kind of life you want as a man? No.

3. Now, let's assume you can handle women and can make money, but you don't know how to invest or spend wisely, what will happen to you? You'll lose all.

Finally, you've got the three things above handled, but bad health is weighing you down. Will you be at peace? No. Mental health is important too.

Peace of mind = success. What brings peace of mind to a man? Handling the things I listed above.

If Buhari has brought peace of mind to Nigerians, he is a successful president, else, he is a failure.

The best way to weigh success is with peace of mind, not material things.

In this regard, I can confidently say, "Nigeria is not a successful nation, but Singapore, a small country Nigeria is richer than, is a successful nation."

I miss Singapore — I can't wait to go back.

This is my yardstick to defining success. PEACE OF MIND.


You are damn good!.simple. angry

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by gaftsoil(m): 10:53pm On Jun 02, 2021
Just make money
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by SchoolGate: 10:55pm On Jun 02, 2021
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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by cmt1(m): 10:58pm On Jun 02, 2021
iLegendd:
A man is successful if he has handled these three things below

1. Women: He is an alpha who can handle women (in and outside the bedroom) without being a pushover or a simp and at the same time, without being controlling and abusive.

2. Money: He has a skill or skills that make him money while he sleeps.

3. Management: He knows how to mange the money he made by investing and spending wisely.

Bonus: His mind and health are healthy.

Tips:

1. No matter how successful you think you are as a man, if you ignore knowing how to handle a woman like a real man and put all your hopes on "money," a woman will run you down one day and that success or money you think you have will disappear. This skill is EXTREMELY important.

2. Okay, let's assume you can handle women, but if you don't have skills that will make you money while you sleep and when you're awake, you'll labor for the rest of your life. Is that the kind of life you want as a man? No.

3. Now, let's assume you can handle women and can make money, but you don't know how to invest or spend wisely, what will happen to you? You'll lose all.

Finally, you've got the three things above handled, but bad health is weighing you down. Will you be at peace? No. Mental health is important too.

Peace of mind = success. What brings peace of mind to a man? Handling the things I listed above.

If Buhari has brought peace of mind to Nigerians, he is a successful president, else, he is a failure.

The best way to weigh success is with peace of mind, not material things.

In this regard, I can confidently say, "Nigeria is not a successful nation, but Singapore, a small country Nigeria is richer than, is a successful nation."

I miss Singapore — I can't wait to go back.

This is my yardstick to defining success. PEACE OF MIND.



Wow! I hope many people will get to read this.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by tosan245(m): 10:59pm On Jun 02, 2021
Success is relative.
Let me place two Scenarios.
Alinko Dangote finally Opens a Refinery in Nigeria and a group of Armed Robbers robbed a Bank and carted away with a lot of Cash.
Which of the example given above would you say is Successful?

Success is simply the act of achieveing Set Goal(s) and achieving it/them.
The Reason why a lot of folks loss focus is because the Society has set a blueprint of the definition of Success.
Success is simply the definition we give it. Focus on yours.
Enehdebby:
Can we actually say that a poor Man is successful and what do you mean when you say that someone is successful in life?

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Ekeseges(f): 10:59pm On Jun 02, 2021
When you have God by your side
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Voiceofthestree: 11:03pm On Jun 02, 2021
praiseneo:
Money doesn’t make you successful
Just pray for peace of mind
If you have that
You have everything

Meanwhile My name is Praise
I’m 28 cheesy
Fair in complexion wink
Little bit cute cool
Average height
Little chubby grin
From Anambra state wink
I speak English and Yoruba well cheesy
I’m a musicologist wink
I’m single embarassed
Finally….
I AM THOROUGHLY SEARCHING grin

Praise shey you don carry your local work reach here. Becareful ooo Edo no be Lagos ooo

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by etrange: 11:05pm On Jun 02, 2021
ecomalchemist:
When a man smells of the American dollar, Pound sterling, Chinese Yuan and Japanese yen.


That's the only language Nigerian women understand - Money.

Just have money....If money grew on trees, women would marry successful MONKEY'S.

Think I'm lying ? What is Regina Daniels doing with Ned Nwoko....is that not a father / daughter relationship ?


My brother hustle oh, e get why.

Money is the only universal language !

Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

You've left the question to start attacking the female gender. You guys are incorrigible.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by praiseneo(m): 11:07pm On Jun 02, 2021
lugo99:
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I'll like to know u bby
I be guy lol
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by praiseneo(m): 11:10pm On Jun 02, 2021
Chidimercy:
Drop your number

I’m a male
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by BeBest: 11:11pm On Jun 02, 2021
A successful man to me is a man that is
1. Spiritually balanced (bows down to something supernatural or higher than himself)
2. Mental balanced (not moved by the cheapest champions opinions)
3. Physically Healthy (health is wealth)
4. Financially independent (money works for him while he sleeps)
5. Relationally balanced (which includes marital, family, friends, enemies, neighbors, colleagues) etc
6. Living a Purpose driven life (life with vision and always on a mission)

Others ones na jara

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by yemobrown(m): 11:15pm On Jun 02, 2021
A successful man is that person whose offspring brings joy that gladdens his or her heart.

For instance, a man who completed his education and got a good job and married with kids cannot be called a successful man yet, until, his children breaks-even (becomes educated, making a living , married with kids and good health) while he's still alive.

Abraham was a successful person because of his grandson (Jacob)

Abraham's was blessed by God and he was called "Father of all nations", which manifested in the time of Jacob.

Until you see your offspring flourish legitimately, only then you can be called a successful man.

No matter how rich and famous you are, once there's a "clause " in the life of your children, you're not a successful man.

Read the Bible to know the successful people.

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by bolabadmus38: 11:16pm On Jun 02, 2021
It depends on what people see in someone which might not be real....Very subjectve...it's based on people's judgement about some ody.e.g doing well in a choosing career like sports,leading a profession,Government carrying out over 80% of electoral promises.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by WeRblessed(f): 11:18pm On Jun 02, 2021
If you are able to put roof over your head, food on your table, clothes on your back, have a job that provides your daily bread, not in huge debts, care for your family and give to the poor, then you are successful.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by shegzhkn: 11:20pm On Jun 02, 2021
ogelekpomgam:

You are damn good!.simple. angry
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by shegzhkn: 11:21pm On Jun 02, 2021
iLegendd:
A man is successful if he has handled these three things below

1. Women: He is an alpha who can handle women (in and outside the bedroom) without being a pushover or a simp and at the same time, without being controlling and abusive.

2. Money: He has a skill or skills that make him money while he sleeps.

3. Management: He knows how to mange the money he made by investing and spending wisely.

Bonus: His mind and health are healthy.

Tips:

1. No matter how successful you think you are as a man, if you ignore knowing how to handle a woman like a real man and put all your hopes on "money," a woman will run you down one day and that success or money you think you have will disappear. This skill is EXTREMELY important.

2. Okay, let's assume you can handle women, but if you don't have skills that will make you money while you sleep and when you're awake, you'll labor for the rest of your life. Is that the kind of life you want as a man? No.

3. Now, let's assume you can handle women and can make money, but you don't know how to invest or spend wisely, what will happen to you? You'll lose all.

Finally, you've got the three things above handled, but bad health is weighing you down. Will you be at peace? No. Mental health is important too.

Peace of mind = success. What brings peace of mind to a man? Handling the things I listed above.

If Buhari has brought peace of mind to Nigerians, he is a successful president, else, he is a failure.

The best way to weigh success is with peace of mind, not material things.

In this regard, I can confidently say, "Nigeria is not a successful nation, but Singapore, a small country Nigeria is richer than, is a successful nation."

I miss Singapore — I can't wait to go back.

This is my yardstick to defining success. PEACE OF MIND.



How is Nigeria richer than Singapore ??
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Kellie069(m): 11:24pm On Jun 02, 2021
See eh, having money is the new basis of everything! Just have money

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by haardhekunle: 11:26pm On Jun 02, 2021
For me, success is a journey.. Being successful depends on your view, some people thinks if they have money or good wife or own many companies is a success, but what about the poor people.. Being successful is just like being comfortable.. You have access to everything you want st the right time, peace of mind, good health( if we say money means you are successful what if the person doesn't have good health)... If you think it is to satisfy your wife in bed and financially is a success, some women are not contented.. no matter what you do for them, they will still cheat.. So, success is journey and being successful in life depends on the person in question.. more so a poor man maybe successful that a wealthy man...
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by uthlaw: 11:26pm On Jun 02, 2021
BigSarah:
When he has the woman of his dreams..
Without a woman a man is incomplete, women complete men.
#UnpopularOpinion
Women are successful when, they make decisions without depending or seeking the approval of a man!

Understand deeply.
why the billionaires are divorcing there wives,they want to live long!
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 02, 2021
BF69BF:
As a man, have money o.


Shoti ye e? Thank you.

As A Woman nkor.?

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Wikiforum(m): 11:31pm On Jun 02, 2021
BF69BF:
As a man, have money o.


Shoti ye e? Thank you.
as a woman marry rich man, always appearing cheap
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by abbatoir(m): 11:33pm On Jun 02, 2021
Ekeseges:
When you have God by your side

... Then you have everything









You are successfully beyond human imagination
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Lonelypacifist6: 11:38pm On Jun 02, 2021
XXXXTENTACION:
what amount of money
5k
100k
5 million ?
2 billion ?
when does it end ??
It ends When you're able to meet Your need no matter how big.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jun 02, 2021
BigSarah:
When he has the woman of his dreams..
Without a woman a man is incomplete, women complete men.
#UnpopularOpinion
Women are successful when, they make decisions without depending or seeking the approval of a man!

Understand deeply.

This is diarrhea of the brian undecided
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by LyfeJennings(m): 11:44pm On Jun 02, 2021
Enehdebby:
Can we actually say that a poor Man is successful and what do you mean when you say that someone is successful in life?

Yes but it depends on how contented he is
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by Trustedpronet: 11:45pm On Jun 02, 2021
When I get positive result on project I really have strong passion on.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by LyfeJennings(m): 11:45pm On Jun 02, 2021
Success is relative
When I was younger
Success was all about money
But as of this very moment
E pass money o

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by crafteck(m): 12:04am On Jun 03, 2021
I am successful if i can better lives of people around me, whether im rich or not

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by lookingfly: 12:17am On Jun 03, 2021
Enehdebby:
Can we actually say that a poor Man is successful and what do you mean when you say that someone is successful in life?
this one just weighing wether the guy is successful or not before marrying him. Better marry and stop weighing the dude.
Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by iLegendd(m): 12:20am On Jun 03, 2021
shegzhkn:


How is Nigeria richer than Singapore ??

I don't want to type a long epistle or argue, but let me see how short I can make it.

1. I have lived there for years, so I'm speaking from experience.
2. Saying Nigeria is richer does not mean they are poor — in fact, I feel they are 100 times richer than Nigeria in being organized, smart, and managing human resources.

Before I continue, let me point out 5 things

1. All the years I spent, light never blinked.
2. Internet is free (if you subscribe your cable TV) and the speed is immeasurable. 1 GB file downloads in 2 minutes or less with the network I was using.
3. The entire country in tiled and clean.
4. I have never seen an accident or roberry scene before in Singapore.
5. Living there will make you not to even desire going to Heaven because it's Heaven on Earth.

Now, let me tell you why I said Nigeria is richer.

Population, Nigeria is WAY more.
Natural resources, Nigeria is WAY more.
Number of billionaires, Nigeria is WAY more.
Number of everything, Nigeria is WAY more.
Money? Nigeria has WAY more.

Now, this is the interesting part. They have WAY more brain and wisdom than Nigeria.

This brain and wisdom is the reason they are ahead of us. They are even the country that refines our crude for us and "sell" it back to us.

While I was living there, two Nigerian men I met at the club visited me and we became friends.

What brought them to Singapore? Crude. They came by sea to rebuy our product because we don't have a working refineries. So, Singapore makes billions from Nigerian government.

Not only Nigeria, but some other countries. 40% or more of the buildings in the country are underground and most of them are industries that manufacture things. Some are owned by Chinese, Malaysian, etc.

Also, Singapore is a "fine and tax" nation. Any little offence you commit, you get fined and any little thing you buy, you pay tax.

Even abortion, you pay tax — a Nigerian girl I know ran to Malaysia to do abortion at a cheaper rate to evade tax. Meet a hooker, you pay tax. Go to club, you pay gate fee and pay tax, etc.

The only thing they don't tax is the air you breathe. One day, they'll surely tax it.

At Dubai's airport, enroute Singapore, I thought I had seen the best, but when I got to Singapore's airport, I marveled. SG is ahead.

So, saying Nigeria is richer does not in anyway mean Singapore is poor — I was only referring to population and natural resources, not human resources, wisdom, productivity, and financial management.

Singapore is the cleanest, finest, and most expensive country in the world. Oh, I forgot to say, it's only in Singapore, Denmark, and 5 other countries you can have a solid peace of mind.

It's so safe to the point that the late Prime Minister, Lee Kuan Yew's house was opposite my Church and there was no single security man there. When he goes out, it's only 1 car or 2 max and 1 bike.

Based on what I said earlier, peace of mind is key. Singapore gives it to you for free, but to live in that country, you must make sure your account balance is solid, else, deportation. In fact, you won't even be allowed to come in if you don't have money and a purpose.

If you do drugs, death penalty. It's an organized multicultural nation with billionaires from all parts of the world going there to invest. It's a rest, invest, and have fun nation.

Singapore's survival is based on people's money, not natural resources, unlike Nigeria that is rich in natural resources. (This is why I said Nigeria is richer, but Singapore is 100 million times ahead in infrastructure, technology, security, peace of mind, and every other things).

It's a country (an Island) everyone deserves to visit just to see how Heaven looks like.

Now, I rest my case. Nigeria is richer, but Singapore is stronger, wiser, smarter, and better. I can roam the entire Singapore from 11:59 PM to 5 AM in the morning and nothing will happen to me, even as a black man. Try that in Nigeria as a black, white, or Asian man and see what will happen to you.

Being rich does not mean a man is successful — peace of mind is the definition of success.

In summary, Nigeria is richer, but Singapore is successful. If not for the criminals we have called politicians, you would've seen how rich Nigeria is.

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by 99thEnemy(m): 12:22am On Jun 03, 2021
XXXXTENTACION:
what amount of money
5k
100k
5 million ?
2 billion ?
when does it end ??

It doesn't end... it's just like Abacha loot grin

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Re: When Is A Man Said To Be Successful by davillian(m): 12:35am On Jun 03, 2021
To Nigerian girls
When he has a car grin

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