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I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Coolboy009: 6:53am On Jun 03, 2021
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by BigJoe19: 6:56am On Jun 03, 2021
A hoe is always a hoe, she belongs to the street.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Freestainworld(m): 6:57am On Jun 03, 2021
Babe wey take her mouth confess to you, my brother give her a chance in your life, she really likes you.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 6:58am On Jun 03, 2021
BigJoe19:
A hos is always a hoe, she belongs to the street.


rake attract hoe... so he's no different from her..

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by richmond500: 7:00am On Jun 03, 2021
she told u her past by her self? Odogwu u have found favour in her eyes.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by JenniferEkubo(f): 7:00am On Jun 03, 2021
Its just like a drunkard or a drug addict promising to stop, they'd stop but it'd take discipline and time. From 10bottles to 5 to 1bottle and then zero bottles.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Sammy07: 7:01am On Jun 03, 2021
Well, we sin and God forgive us.
If God punishes us with every single sin we make, you won't be alive typing this.

1. Do you love the girl?
2. Do you think both of you have future together?
3. Is a character okay to you?
4. Do you think she will give you peace of mind?

If your answers are positive, then go for her.
But, be ready for any Bleep up that can happen, if shit happens you move on grin if it doesn't you go for wedding grin
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 7:02am On Jun 03, 2021
Coolboy009:
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.


only 3months? Nahwa oh for relationsex nowadays ..you met someone 3months ago without studying the person.. BOOM NAH RELATIONSHEEP DY HOOK YOU..

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Charmingrascal(m): 7:03am On Jun 03, 2021
It's a good thing she told about her past.

If she can assure you that she has genuinely changed then happy married life in advance.



I will also want to tell you that if your are spending heavily on her and your relationship is built on financial lavishness that might be the reason why she thinks she is at her final bus stop, so what happens if you no longer give her money perhaps she would go back to the street.
If she said it out of genuine love for you and not love for your money then you have found yourself a queen.
You are a man observe her and know if she has truly changed.

If she tell you say she change and her sugar daddy still dey call her, she still dey receive many calls from her past sex partners then you should know what to do.

All the best bro.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 7:05am On Jun 03, 2021
Sammy07:
Well, we sin and God forgive us.
If God punishes us with every single sin we make, you won't be alive typing this.

1. Do you love the girl?
2. Do you think both of you have future together?
3. Is a character okay to you?
4. Do you think she will give you peace of mind?


If your answers are positive, then go for her.
But, be ready for any Bleep up that can happen, if shit happens you move on grin if it doesn't you go for wedding grin

nah wentin dy my mind be that..

why do you love her?
or you are just in for the handshake [ SEXING ].

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Quiver: 7:08am On Jun 03, 2021
Just observe her for a short period and if she still behaves like where she came from, I'm sure you'd know what to do
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by richmond500: 7:08am On Jun 03, 2021
fati2001:



rake attract hoe... so he's no different from her..
WTF, rake doesn't attract hoe
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 7:11am On Jun 03, 2021
richmond500:
WTF, rake doesn't attract hoe
rake attract hoe.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by richmond500: 7:14am On Jun 03, 2021
fati2001:


rake attract hoe.
OK, carry ur wahala and go

Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 7:16am On Jun 03, 2021
richmond500:
OK, carry ur wahala and go

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by debbydams(f): 7:18am On Jun 03, 2021
BigJoe19:
A hoe I is always a hoe, she belongs to the street.
people like needs 600 lashes of cains,,

Op the fact the she open up nd tel you her past then she has stopped her way ward life..
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by doggedfighter(f): 7:25am On Jun 03, 2021
fati2001:



rake attract hoe... so he's no different from her..

Nice response, Fati

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Kaymicheal852: 7:26am On Jun 03, 2021
Coolboy009:
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.




If you will follow my advice,I can promise you that you will never regret it



If you really want to settle down , don't rush into anything with her , from my own personal experience and with other people experience I have known ,it's a matter of when,not if she will cheat on you,I'll.advice you to look for a very young girl to marry if you want to settle down



A snake is always a snake,but it will be easier for a bigger ,older snake to swallow you ,more than just a small ,younger one ,that will be easier to tame



A word is enough for the wise


Be careful of women GOD WILL BE WITH YOU

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by phorget(m): 7:26am On Jun 03, 2021
Nah love still dey do this one.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Vulcanheph(m): 7:29am On Jun 03, 2021
First of all as someone has rightly said, a hoe will always be a hoe .
However the girls honesty about her past is the only redeeming trait she has and maybe the only reason why she deserves a chance, but nigga please in the name of God don't get too emotionally attached to her until you're sure that she's ready to change and become loyal to you and you alone.
My advice is to monitor her closely and don't get distracted by your growing feelings for her so that if you notice that she's still belongs to the streets just break it up and move on with your life.

there will always be other fishes in the ocean

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Fasindo: 7:30am On Jun 03, 2021
shocked




The girl must be female version of Buhari.


This is exactly how Buhari told us that we should vote him in 2015 that he a now repentant and reformed democrat and we did voted for him.
Now we are seeing the result.

With that being said in order not to break her heart I will also advice to tell her that before you use to dash any of your past girlfriends money but now u have recently repented from it and no more give any girl money and watch out how he will be one to leave u

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Sammy07: 7:33am On Jun 03, 2021
fati2001:


nah wentin dy my mind be that..

why do you love her?
or you are just in for the handshake [ SEXING ].

Abi...
Make op answer the question.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Obsession4u: 7:34am On Jun 03, 2021
Person weh get head no get cap
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Coolboy009: 7:38am On Jun 03, 2021
Kaymicheal852:




If you will follow my advice,I can promise you that you will never regret it



If you really want to settle down , don't rush into anything with her , from my own personal experience and with other people experience I have known ,it's a matter of when,not if she will cheat on you,I'll.advice you to look for a very young girl to marry if you want to settle down



A snake is always a snake,but it will be easier for a bigger ,older snake to swallow you ,more than just a small ,younger one , that will be easier to tame



A word is enough for the wise


Be careful of women GOD WILL BE WITH YOU
Thanks, I appreciate
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by cobby14(m): 7:38am On Jun 03, 2021
Since she opened up to you, You should give it a try
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Nobody: 7:39am On Jun 03, 2021
Gee no complicate your life. Move on.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Juliusmalema2: 7:51am On Jun 03, 2021
fati2001:


I hate this meme, that guy there looks like a confirmed and annoying mumu.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Coolboy009: 8:00am On Jun 03, 2021
[quote author=Sammy07 post=102320133]

Abi...
Make op answer the question
I love her because she is nice, whenever she comes to my house, she washes all my clothes and cleans the house. She is also a great cook and when am with her she always makes me happy.
Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by fati2001(m): 8:11am On Jun 03, 2021
Juliusmalema2:

I hate this meme, that guy there looks like a confirmed and annoying mumu.

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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by Daddy12daddy: 8:54am On Jun 03, 2021
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Re: I Need Your Advice On This New Girl I Just Met. by GeneralPula: 8:58am On Jun 03, 2021
I’m sure the girl will be fvcking you well, so that’s probably lust & not love.

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