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Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Mummyfour(f): 11:24pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
caniva:Love can take one to places you can never imagine. at times our destinies are made manifest by people that are temporary actors in our lives. What i mean is your ex could have been the foundation for your real love and marriage. I can though if it is genuine love 1 Like |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by stanliwise(m): 11:25pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Elsueno:Werey dey disguise 1 Like |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by nengiscrib: 11:40pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Redest Flag... |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by gozzlin: 11:45pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Well, you made some valid point. However you have to look at this from the cultural point of view. In this part of this world, people are still very sensitive about this issue. Someone, especially a man who dates or gets married to his friend's ex is seen as a pussyman, who takes over his friend's leftover, a lady already 'used and discarded' by his friend. It's a stereotype that is not about to change in the foreseeable future. Also, imagine a situation where I go visiting with my friend and his wife who was my ex, whenever I look at her, memories of our sexscapades keeps flooding my mind and I'm sure such memories flood her mind as well. It breeds an awkward situation. What if I and the wife throw caution to the wind one of these days when the husband is not around, just to experience that exhilarating sex we used to have in the past? Such are the kinda awkward situations that people try to avoid, coupled with the fact that our culture believes that once a guys has sex with a lady, and she later becomes his ex, then she's 'used' and discarded as far he's concerned. So, his friend marrying her is seen as some kinda taboo. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Absolutely not.. op said friend's ex. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by jaxxy(m): 11:45pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Stephen2324: GreenArrow1: Depends on why and how they broke up. If he didn’t know her value and treated like trash and I see her value if she got value I cud play my game player. Treat her like an angel and shit. Bt like I said it has to be the very right scenario and experiences else it’s not ideal. It depends on the type of gal in question also. Some are trustworthy and don’t cheat no matter what or who. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by AuroraB(f): 11:49pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
MajorOvakporaye:chineke nna |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Chioma99(f): 11:54pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
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Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by StUriah(m): 11:57pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
I can only give her a rough 'ride' down below the lane. Dating is inappropriate in an ideal situation. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:58pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
gozzlin: Abeg. Abeg. Which yeye culture? Yes, I understand what you're saying about the way people see things, but is it in the same cultures that they let a bro marry the wife of his dead brother? What's the difference? People are just hypocritical, because they do very bad things, much more than a person dating their friend's exes. And the closeness, well, yes. That could be something you can speak for. Because you'll always want to visit your friend and the wife is the ex in that case... Exhilarating sex? Erm, sah, what are the odds of one having had exhilarating and bomb sex with their exes? You falling back into that temptation is you assuming you've (always) had banging sex there. Nigerian girls are bad in bed until it comes to them marrying. That's when you guys will remember that you used to have mind-blowing sex with them and they can come back. Besides, as I said, anybody can tempt you. If you don't follow your deek everywhere, having sex anywhere, then be disciplined when you are around your ex in your friend's house. Fk what people say; do you -- this, in response to the use and dump line. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Olibboy: 12:07am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Norphiee:according to the caption on your profile pic...date someone that's very close to you like 5&6 |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Dearlord(m): 12:10am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Let me think about it |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Olibboy: 12:10am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:The only things that's wrong, guys too dey kiss and tell 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Olibboy: 12:13am On Jun 05, 2021 |
caniva:bcus ur ex best friend is someone u can understand. correct bruh |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Unrated900(m): 12:16am On Jun 05, 2021 |
dairykidd: Continue wailing in disguise Continue fooling yourself Las las na Bleep Bleep them dey do you |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Unrated900(m): 12:16am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Olibboy: 12:17am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Kinzo0917:we are UAR not super eagle |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by AJmotel: 1:04am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by OsusTroller: 1:56am On Jun 05, 2021 |
caniva:That's your problem. No be every body get shame... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by vokon2555(m): 2:57am On Jun 05, 2021 |
paulolee:I like ur parole mehn |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Mairice125: 3:30am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Until the world power put a strict law regarding sex this world we never be sane again .Sex actually Disgust me. Full time celibate till God show me the right woman 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by bluefilm: 4:01am On Jun 05, 2021 |
My answer is NO. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by soundn: 4:14am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:It’s just shoking how people use there own hand to narrow there own options…it’s simply being disciplined |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:49am On Jun 05, 2021 |
gozzlin:I'M HAVING SUCH EXPERIENCE BRO |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:55am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Chukscc:90% OF GIRL'S WANT TO SLEEP WITH THEIR FRIENDS EX-BOYFRIEND especially if he's wealthy or good in bed . |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:57am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Godblessaplus1:yeah yeah I LIKE VIRGINS,GETS RID OF THEM WHEN THEIR EYES BEGAN TO OPEN. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by schoolboy500: 5:13am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Yes nah I fit date my friend ex as long as de toto never expire!!!! |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by ikezudon(m): 5:23am On Jun 05, 2021 |
This shouldn't be a big deal na. There's nothing wrong with it.. In other news, check out how to differentiate granite from marble when you go to purchase. https://thearchitect.com.ng/difference-granite-marble/ |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Vision101(m): 5:27am On Jun 05, 2021 |
@Magnoliaa What is wrong with dating a friend's ex? Or even the ex of someone related in any way? @me It amounts to eating rejected meat. |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by placeofallure(f): 5:35am On Jun 05, 2021 |
No big deal about it. The way we reason in these parts is warped!. When I stopped seeing my boyfriend then, some 18 months or so passed in between, then I got entangled with his best friend. We've always been friends from the beginning. We thought we were just still maintaining our friendship ties from way back. Somehow, we caught feelings and started seeing. He got stuck. He later had issues with his girl. To cut it short, we not only dated but also got married. Years have passed, we're still like Siamese twins. His friend is still close friends with the family. Everybody maintains his lane, we're all good. 3 Likes |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by Cutehector(m): 5:39am On Jun 05, 2021 |
Very well, even fvck her sef |
Re: Can You Date Your Friend's Ex? by gozzlin: 6:09am On Jun 05, 2021 |
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