caniva:
I married my ex-best friend...and we are happily married with 2 sons. My ex was even at our wedding and we both attended her wedding too. She now has a daughter too.

Love can take one to places you can never imagine. at times our destinies are made manifest by people that are temporary actors in our lives.
What i mean is your ex could have been the foundation for your real love and marriage.
I can though if it is genuine love

Elsueno:
Nah....i don't do second hands, only pure maidens.

Even if her papa na dangote it's a flat no

Werey dey disguise

Redest Flag...

Magnoliaa:


Lmaoo. I am beginning to find out that the words or terms are the issues for most people, when it comes to relationship. Not necessarily the acts or emotions.

But when God tells us to keep sex for marriage now, some of you people will be getting mad, because... these are all the things you worry about. Who have they fked before? Who is coming to fk them? Will I compromise my marriage on sex?

Rosy Meurer said the other day that nobody is a tear rubber anymore and people just keep recycling one and another. And I completely agree with her. If you are not a virgin through and through that has never dated, you realise then that EVERY OTHER PERSON IS AN EX TO ANOTHER PERSON? So, if all you need to continually have access to sex is to be an ex, then everybody is fked. Whether of a friend, or of a brother, far and near, if you need to be someone's ex for them to have sex with you, then forget it. You will sleep with your own ex, your ex will sleep with her ex, the ex of your girl will sleep with her. Everybody will sleep with each other if being an ex is the only ticket to having unlimited sex. Whether your babe na your friend's girl, or she's a very distant unknown girl, she has an ex, too, that can always push her buttons. All of your mumu buttons are in someone's hands -- so are you not going to marry or date again, because someone (close) previously had the keys?

I'm saying you or the girl being an "ex" here is not the problem - but her likeness for you, her indiscipline... Or would her attitude have been more acceptable if she wasn't an ex? Fking is the issue, because humans have been fking each other. Boss, gateman, kid, maid, step sister. Humans are naturally not disciplined when it comes to sex, so "exes" are not the epitome of what is wrong with sex. A guy can easily sleep with anybody as with his ex, so this idea of always making exes out to be some kind of downgraded vomits don't sit well with me.

You've fked other people, other people have fked you, and somehow y'all think you've used and discarded the other person, while having an eternal free pass to their genitals and you think the person you'll end up with will be a saint, sparkling, like a diamond? I laugh in Urhobo.

But if you believe you'll marry someone who will be disciplined and faithful to you, then extend same believe and possibility to your exes too.

Emotions are wild and they can fire any where. Except they did something very life-threatening or BAD to your friend, I do not see why you cannot date a friend's ex...

Well, you made some valid point. However you have to look at this from the cultural point of view.

In this part of this world, people are still very sensitive about this issue. Someone, especially a man who dates or gets married to his friend's ex is seen as a pussyman, who takes over his friend's leftover, a lady already 'used and discarded' by his friend. It's a stereotype that is not about to change in the foreseeable future.

Also, imagine a situation where I go visiting with my friend and his wife who was my ex, whenever I look at her, memories of our sexscapades keeps flooding my mind and I'm sure such memories flood her mind as well. It breeds an awkward situation. What if I and the wife throw caution to the wind one of these days when the husband is not around, just to experience that exhilarating sex we used to have in the past?

Such are the kinda awkward situations that people try to avoid, coupled with the fact that our culture believes that once a guys has sex with a lady, and she later becomes his ex, then she's 'used' and discarded as far he's concerned. So, his friend marrying her is seen as some kinda taboo.

Magnoliaa:


You're a guy, abi? So are you including yourself amongst the number of those guys you call snakes? Do you plot about how do shit to your guy's babe?

Absolutely not.. op said friend's ex.

Stephen2324:
Can you date your friend's ex?

GreenArrow1:
Nope!
Okafor's law of congo-dynamics is real!

Depends on why and how they broke up. If he didn’t know her value and treated like trash and I see her value if she got value I cud play my game player. Treat her like an angel and shit. Bt like I said it has to be the very right scenario and experiences else it’s not ideal.

It depends on the type of gal in question also. Some are trustworthy and don’t cheat no matter what or who.

MajorOvakporaye:
I don't know much about relationships but I know that Buhari's supporters are condemned fools!

chineke nna

Lolzzz,
contact me for Where To Buy Pepper And Tomatoes From The North very cheap

I can only give her a rough 'ride' down below the lane. Dating is inappropriate in an ideal situation.

gozzlin:



Well, you made some valid point. However you have to look at this from the cultural point of view.

In this part of this world, people are still very sensitive about this issue. Someone, especially a man who dates or gets married to his friend's ex is seen as a pussyman, who takes over his friend's leftover, a lady already 'used and discarded' by his friend. It's a stereotype that is not about to change in the foreseeable future.

Also, imagine a situation where I go visiting with my friend and his wife who was my ex, whenever I look at her, memories of our sexscapades keeps flooding my mind and I'm sure such memories flood her mind as well. It's breeds an awkward situation. What if I and the wife throw caution to the wind one of these days when the husband is not around, just to experience that exhilarating sex we used to have in the past?

Such are the kinda awkward situations that people try to avoid, coupled with the fact that our culture believes that one a guys has sex with a lady, and she later becomes his ex, then she's 'used' and discarded as far he's concerned. So, his friend marrying her is seen as some kinda taboo.

Abeg. Abeg. Which yeye culture? Yes, I understand what you're saying about the way people see things, but is it in the same cultures that they let a bro marry the wife of his dead brother? What's the difference? People are just hypocritical, because they do very bad things, much more than a person dating their friend's exes.

And the closeness, well, yes. That could be something you can speak for. Because you'll always want to visit your friend and the wife is the ex in that case... Exhilarating sex? Erm, sah, what are the odds of one having had exhilarating and bomb sex with their exes? You falling back into that temptation is you assuming you've (always) had banging sex there. Nigerian girls are bad in bed until it comes to them marrying. That's when you guys will remember that you used to have mind-blowing sex with them and they can come back. Besides, as I said, anybody can tempt you. If you don't follow your deek everywhere, having sex anywhere, then be disciplined when you are around your ex in your friend's house.

Fk what people say; do you -- this, in response to the use and dump line.

Norphiee:
Never,... I remembered, when a situation like this happened,... omoooooo,... this nigga was frustrating my life,.. had to delete his number,.. it’s now later I now realized that, he wan use me play revenge game ,... but before then, I already meuve

according to the caption on your profile pic...date someone that's very close to you like 5&6

Let me think about it

Magnoliaa:
What is wrong with dating a friend's ex? Or even the ex of someone related in any way?

The only things that's wrong, guys too dey kiss and tell

caniva:
I married my ex-best friend...and we are happily married with 2 sons. My ex was even at our wedding and we both attended her wedding too. She now has a daughter too.

bcus ur ex best friend is someone u can understand. correct bruh

dairykidd:

But not her ex guy friend.. nothing like someone with principles. So long as a girl used to be my friend's partner I can't fvck her talk more date her... As girls full country reach. Lots of u guys are snakes. Except u don't know what true friendship is. I guess loyalty died with the 90's. You guys even plot on how to fvck ur friends babe or even hurt him.. No wonder una dey die anyhow ontop yeye matters

Continue wailing in disguise
Continue fooling yourself
Las las na Bleep Bleep them dey do you

neyohh:

Mr simp!

Fem there mugu

Kinzo0917:
Nawa 4 nairaland o. Super eagles match not on front page.if na story about killings, dem go champion am.yeye

we are UAR not super eagle

SportsHD:
No way. But we fit be FWB.

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U see ur life

caniva:
I married my ex-best friend...and we are happily married with 2 sons. My ex was even at our wedding and we both attended her wedding too. She now has a daughter too.

That's your problem.
No be every body get shame...

paulolee:
nope...DTS an insult to bro code..
I no even fit date any bea wey any of my brother or my close gee don lash before bcoz it makes me feel asif am inferior and afterall they are many babes too plenty to go round.
I can only lash my best friend ex, current bea n even serious girlfriend as long as na she carry kpekus come, if my best friend is a real OG, I go play am d tape before d kpanshing session...
because they is no need having baseless misunderstanding over a Hoe

I like ur parole mehn

Until the world power put a strict law regarding sex this world we never be sane again .Sex actually Disgust me. Full time celibate till God show me the right woman

My answer is NO.

Magnoliaa:
What is wrong with dating a friend's ex? Or even the ex of someone related in any way?

It’s just shoking how people use there own hand to narrow there own options…it’s simply being disciplined

gozzlin:
A friend married my ex. She keeps calling me and complaining that her husband does not treat her as well as I used to treat her and that she misses me badly.

I'M HAVING SUCH EXPERIENCE BRO

Chukscc:
My roommate actually did DAT, i broke up with this girl
The next month she is dating my roommate

90% OF GIRL'S WANT TO SLEEP WITH THEIR FRIENDS EX-BOYFRIEND especially if he's wealthy or good in bed .

Godblessaplus1:
I can never eat a leftover of my friend.. Is better I eat and remain for them.. My answer is no and never.. I can't date ND I can't bleeb my friend ex

Moreover all the babe I have ever fall in love with are virgins

yeah yeah I LIKE VIRGINS,GETS RID OF THEM WHEN THEIR EYES BEGAN TO OPEN.

Yes nah I fit date my friend ex as long as de toto never expire!!!!

This shouldn't be a big deal na. There's nothing wrong with it..

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@Magnoliaa
What is wrong with dating a friend's ex? Or even the ex of someone related in any way?


@me
It amounts to eating rejected meat.

No big deal about it. The way we reason in these parts is warped!.

When I stopped seeing my boyfriend then, some 18 months or so passed in between, then I got entangled with his best friend.

We've always been friends from the beginning. We thought we were just still maintaining our friendship ties from way back. Somehow, we caught feelings and started seeing. He got stuck. He later had issues with his girl.

To cut it short, we not only dated but also got married. Years have passed, we're still like Siamese twins. His friend is still close friends with the family. Everybody maintains his lane, we're all good.

Very well, even fvck her sef

FRANKOSKI:

I'M HAVING SUCH EXPERIENCE BRO

Chai.