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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by seunny4lif(m): 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
I will be the one to relocate |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Triangles1(m): 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Which kind further mathematics question be this.......Sha may God guide you. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by EtherconnectNG(f): 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Don't be dumb Let her go, visit twice a month. She already agreed to you staying in Lagos... That's a rare woman, most will tell you to relocate immediately. Guy thank God for his blessings and don't spoil it with wrong decisions. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by blazepascal(m): 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by GIANTPLUSHUB: 5:07pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Okay |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Yankee101: 5:09pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Use the extra income she has and fly to lagos every weekend. Shebi you say your weekends are free? And why can't you begin looking for a job in abuja too? A different better, bigger job like she did. You've been doing big man with her money. You better wake up and meet up to her new level b4 abuja boys steal your wife And abuja is far far better than lagos in bringing up a family 4 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by BigBashiru: 5:10pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Tjra: Stay with the N400k job and find extra ways to raise the N1.1m e.g. thru forex, stocks, etc. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by biafranrealson: 5:11pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
You are just ranting ,probably have not tested unemployment and a month without income |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Stick with your Job at HQ Let your wife stick to her new Job in Abuja. The rest will be sorted out and adjusted with time. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by pakirisuitesphc(m): 5:12pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
let your wife go and you will be visiting by air, With this kind of salary, two of you should have plan to save money within 3 to 4 years either to leave the country or start your own company where job will not separate you ever again. 3 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by nkemdi89(f): 5:13pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Let her resume the job first, then see how things goes , besides you are paying rent in lagos meaning you don't have a house, working life is easier in Abuja than lagos , if the job is permanent one in Abuja it's fair you build your own house , there are so many estates in Abuja where you can buy house or land. Don't listen to those telling you that depending on your wife salary is bad , so many men in Abuja are living under the fortune of their wives and you won't even know. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by shegun4sur: 5:16pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Klass99: Gone are the days of final decision. they're partners in progress and should rub mind not give or take orders 2 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by biafranrealson: 5:17pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Sacrificed the relationship , let money flows in . Any wife or kid that wants to misbehave will misbehave .it is when you are not getting money again that you will know the true nature of your wife I left my family 6 years ago to Australia and they are ok , wife is respectful though on phone because she is seeing investment and money . 3 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Unrated900(m): 5:17pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
In your statement you said You don’t want to fly because of the cost You make 600k monthly as you claimed So 35k shouldn’t be your problem. Don’t be stingy. My advise thus. Firstly don’t let your wifey stays in Abuja alone Because those yahoo boys might snatch her Also if she is there,she would be enjoying her life going to bars and club hence loosing focus and concentrations, Also she would end up meeting the lifeless man we have as president Finally the lifeless man might snatch her away from You. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Gjmff: 5:18pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Unrated900(m): 5:19pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Once agajn don’t let your wife goes there alone She will meet another man earning 3m monthly while you earn 600k Those women can’t be trusted at times. 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by tunapawizzy: 5:19pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
ALL I KNOW IS WHATEVER YOU DECIDE TO DO AS A FAMILY, YOUR WIFE HAS TO KEEP THAT JOB. 2 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Karleb(m): 5:22pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
How much is flight from Lagos to Abuja again? Bros, it's better you arrange with your wife and arrange some 300k for your flight to Abuja every weekend or you talk to your boss about the new developments. There is a saying that you miss 100 percent of the shot you don't take. I admire this your family sha. 3 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by tunapawizzy: 5:23pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Juliusmalema: Abi o |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by bigpicture001: 5:25pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
@op, liaten to me very well, havibg financial progress isnt same as havibg oeace of mind..ur wifes wage of about 400k as a supoort to ur household is even more than what 98% of Nigerians earn.if u cherish your famiky and peace of mind.stay where u are and search for lagos based better jobs for her.... This move will shatter your home,God has put u in good condition, and put a test to you using money....i have plenty families whose peace are shattered cuz the couple separated cuz of work.. people who work at CBN. And NNpC, dont think its small firms oo... If i were you, i will put my family first. Again for those idiots who see a woman contributing to family growth as weakness from the man.....poverty ,stroke from stress of trying to meet up if not already rich will kill u all....women are going modern and demanding their rights to alot of things at home...even right not to cook cuz they are tired you all are here stuck in the 70's getting ego drunk and killingburself with strokes..... 3 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Klass99(f): 5:26pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
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Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Daddylaura: 5:26pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Best thing is to relocate and apply for transfer to Abuja raise your family with ur children make ur friends understands how important it is. 1.5m+600k is not a joke in this recent times 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by SUGARCyprian247: 5:28pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
nawao.. This country them they call salary like this. Omo, can someone help me get where I can even pay 1-1.5M to get a job offer + my Good qualifications. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Nwaotu10(m): 5:29pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Op, Please, help me secure a job in your organisation, and my household and I will god you till the end of time. |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by OJURONGBE1(m): 5:31pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
OP, do you work at a Bank? 1 Like |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by HolySpiritFire(f): 5:34pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Op, Let your wife move to Abuja while you retain your job first. The rest you can sort out later. Imagine the nonsense! Unrated900 [s: 2 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Olayetan(m): 5:35pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Hmm I'm coming |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Unrated900(m): 5:37pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Jefferic(m): 5:37pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Bro. I key and tap unto the grace upon your marriage. Not all women will commit 100% into the home like you said. I really envy you. May God continue to bless your home and also give me this kind of your wife. Amen! 2 Likes |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by labisibrass(m): 5:39pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
There's no big deal here. Let her relocate, give a space of like 6 months,by then it would be wise to seek transfer. Be careful not to have any fight with her at this moment because she'd read a different meaning to it. It is well sir! Life is not balanced sha, i see my 7 days in 5 months |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by Livesimple: 5:40pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
Abeg connect somebody that has certificate to that job ur wife is leaving behind not me oo cos i no get certificate Make baba Goddeh guide u Iseeh |
Re: New Job Wahala--- Mature advise from married people needed. by daben1(m): 5:40pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
ecolime:sorry for digressing sir, I've been jobless for over two years now, please can you help me whenever there's vacancy in you company? Please! |
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