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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ofiko123(m): 11:30pm On Jun 07, 2021
I doubt it..
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by honourwealth(m): 11:32pm On Jun 07, 2021
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

The write-up is not objective enough to the question arising.

A woman might be a good mother and bad wife as well
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Goldbw122(m): 11:35pm On Jun 07, 2021
Yes I will, she is the best I have ever seen, making a man to prepare for his future.. I just pray I find someone like her in the future to marry...

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by revived: 11:35pm On Jun 07, 2021
Anytime anyway twice on sunday
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by pocohantas(f): 11:36pm On Jun 07, 2021
Dalil8:
Never ever! Pocohantas come read oh. Shebi u dey always dey boast say every man go like marry woman like their mama?

Ur mama good to u no mean say she good to her husband or to other people. Good mother, bad wife.

Nah, don’t get too excited. I have never boasted that every man would marry a woman like their mum because I really do not care. However, it is appealing to see your female-issues started from home.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by frenzzy2(m): 11:37pm On Jun 07, 2021
Not all mothers are mothers truth be told

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by doneback04: 11:37pm On Jun 07, 2021
Yes oooo the only issue my mom had is that if she picked a quarry with someone else or my Dad that night no one will sleep at night. she will talk all through the night, But if is attitude she got 90% of a good one always covering my dad up even if my Dad is Broke no one will know, she will take care of the bills and lastly if my dad do not come back early she will become worry calling every different person she knows that had my dad contact to know if they saw my dad today.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by glingev(m): 11:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
Absolutely, she is one in a million
medropoly:
This q000uestion is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Vyzz: 11:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
cool




There is no woman like my mother
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Dalil8: 11:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
pocohantas:


Nah, don’t get too excited. I have never boasted that every man would marry a woman like their mum because I really do not care. However, it is appealing to see your female-issues started from home.

And ur man hating issues started from your home too i guess

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by pocohantas(f): 11:40pm On Jun 07, 2021
Dalil8:


And ur man hating issues started from your home too i guess

We are not talking about my father here, but for all it is worth, I think my posts makes it clear I maintain a healthy relationship with my father. You’ll be fine. kiss

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Afrikween(f): 11:41pm On Jun 07, 2021
My mum died when I was young, too bad I can’t tell...
I’m not a man sha.... but let me use the foster mum I stayed with...
If I were to be a man I would NEVER MARRY someone like her.
Money freaked, and possessive.doesn’t even mind if you got money from prostitution or even stole it, mannerless and selfish..
I only know how to cook very well, because she taught me... that’s the only good thing I learnt from her..

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by cmecproblem(m): 11:47pm On Jun 07, 2021
Yes and yes and yes. My mother made me who I am today. A woman like her will be an asset.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Oloriebi17(m): 11:47pm On Jun 07, 2021
Walahi no ooooo. Though she is caring ooooo. But her network be lyk GLO

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by obinna58(m): 11:49pm On Jun 07, 2021
Victim card, terror, manipulative, jealousy, lying, shameless, fighter, always late, hardworking lazy, controlling, un pleaseable, not good cook, bad behavior, stingy, troublesome.
Generally to me she's a great mother and I'll appreciate her for the rest of my life.

Good sides
Unsatisfactory hardworking(working only things that won't profit anything), terror care(at least she cares), good listener and advisor.


My Dad is a good man and I wonder how he's still alive despite the kind of woman he lived with.


I ran from my first ever love due to manipulation, emotional blackmail when you don't reach her demands, laziness, useless spending, wanting princess treatment, exploitative.





From comments here we can see where the problem came, mosdii was right

Nigerian girls uselessly important only because of their reproductive nature.
Only very few girls are worth it which which is why you must make money and create options for yourself so you could find one.


Las las marriage is scam.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nicklaus619(m): 11:53pm On Jun 07, 2021
Yes, my mom was a caring and loving woman, she normally give all her money to my dad who also join his own salary every time she's paid salary, it's my dad that manages the whole finance at home, cos mom doesn't no how to say no to people in need, unfortunately she died.


My dad refuses to take another wife and his brothers where on him, bugging him to remarry and stuff, my dad remarrried eventually and that was the worst mistake he's made, the woman he married was manipulative, nag, blackmailing, and disrespectful my dad in the other hand was too gentle for my liking, he will just leave her each time her head catches fire.

Eventually we lost him, the old man was depressed because of the nagging witch.
I can never marry anyone that looks like my step mom not to talk of marrying her type, God forbid.
P.s shes not educated, yet my dad was very educated, they don't have anything in common even, I wonder what attracted him to her in the first place.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by dododawa1: 11:57pm On Jun 07, 2021
Inside life
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by kenny5811(m): 11:58pm On Jun 07, 2021
i cnt marry a woman thats like my mum even if them add N50m i wil not... my mum is a terrible wife... i no hide mouth talk am.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by braine(m): 12:01am On Jun 08, 2021
mightyhaze:
Nope




Don't get me wrong,I love and adore mom. But mom was too docile. People took advantage of she and her family for too long.


I married a very woke lady,ready to give it to you just as you want it. Right now,if I leave home I'm rest assured there's a lioness behind taking effective care of things

I need this kind of assurance in my life right now.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by fyneboi79(m): 12:10am On Jun 08, 2021
Hell no!! I always blame my late father for not divorcing her when it became necessary.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by JimloveTM(m): 12:14am On Jun 08, 2021
Yes, why not
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Belurved1(m): 12:15am On Jun 08, 2021
Yes, but to find a woman like her in this our generation is like a mission impossible. She's too unique.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Lamanii22(f): 12:18am On Jun 08, 2021
ImaIma1:


You can't help sounding like a child and you are calling me one smiley

My parents were not the discussion here. You were the one who listed sterling qualities about your mum. However, none of the qualities matched the topic about being a wife. So read to understand, rather than to attack.

Such a fine reply. . I love the way you wrote it!

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by braine(m): 12:20am On Jun 08, 2021
cmecproblem:
Yes and yes and yes. My mother made me who I am today. A woman like her will be an asset.


A woman can be a great mother but a bad wife.

Ofcoz most of us love our mothers as our mothers. But can we be honest about the other side?

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nobody: 12:20am On Jun 08, 2021
RELAN2446:

Confuse fellow

Don't mind him.

All the guys with balls claiming the f gender just dey burst themselves on this thread

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by braine(m): 12:21am On Jun 08, 2021
kenny5811:
i cnt marry a woman thats like my mum even if them add N50m i wil not... my mum is a terrible wife... i no hide mouth talk am.


I feel you bro.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nobody: 12:21am On Jun 08, 2021
Bola146:
angry kiss 100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I remember all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!
you be lesbian ??
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ediyeJuice(m): 12:23am On Jun 08, 2021
Man,I can relate as well.
Love her big time for who she is.
She's instilled good virtues in her seeds.
Myketuale:
Yes oo
My mum is a very hardworking woman. And God fearing woman
She's earns more than my dad and settle most of the bills in the family, but she has never disrespected my dad or insult him for that.
She's caring, she taught me how to pay tithe,
and the blessing attached to it. she taught me how to be patienve in life.
Many things I can't mention.
To me I pray I marry a woman like my mum.
Anytime, Any day.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ayyash38(m): 12:26am On Jun 08, 2021
Yes
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 12:27am On Jun 08, 2021
Xilsbridalhouse:

She was extremely disrespectful for no reason! I avoid people like her like a plaque.


Best to ignore such people before they drag you into the mud with them.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nobody: 12:28am On Jun 08, 2021
my mum is a nice lady, hardworking etc. But she was so submissive to my dad- even when it's glaring he was making a mistake.She worshipped the ground that man walked on even when he hurt her emotionally.
As a boy-it made me say that I can't marry a woman like her, but now as a man am looking for a lady 95% like her, the other 5% is for variety to avoid the eww factor.

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