Hi guys, I met this chic couple of months ago.. Let's say the relationship is mutual and as it were and we're both naive cos she's my first gf and vice versa. I have been pilled (repilled) massively on this thread. Is it nice I exert TRP in me now?
Won't it seems I'm too manly or uncaring to her due to her inexperience in relationship which might make me lose her to guys that care and what have you..?
Pls advice!

Peacesupreme21:
Hi guys, I met this chic couple of months ago.. Let's say the relationship is mutual and as it were and we're both naive cos she's my first gf and vice versa. I have been pilled (repilled) massively on this thread. Is it nice I exert TRP in me now?
Won't it seems I'm too manly or uncaring to her due to her inexperience in relationship which might make me lose her to guys that care and what have you..?
Pls advice!

Baba spin her plate and move on, she's already dominating ur frame. Make ursef ur own mental point of origin.

I'm very sure u are young, focus on your goals and build your value. Women are not running away

It was a good arguments mahn... that' lasted 3days..not a lost cause..an eye opener to everyone..different entitled opinions coming out from everywhere.

Nobody was labelled a troll...even though some offensive words were said to and fro....dignity still intact.. even though I support the later.. .. but bro just do you.

To that old man saying he "SLAP HIS FORE FATHERS BACK TO THE GRAVE* sorry sexuality section....I find that offensive though....but no an OG is the one always been..EGOSTIC.. emotional..and all that bullcrap... hahahaha.

Born2winnx:
It was a good arguments mahn... that' lasted 3days..not a lost cause..an eye opener to everyone..different entitled opinions coming out from everywhere.

Nobody was labelled a troll...even though some offensive words were said to and fro....dignity still intact.. even though I support the later.. .. but bro just do you.

To that old man saying he "SLAP HIS FORE FATHERS BACK TO THE GRAVE* sorry sexuality section.... I find that offensive though.... but no an OG is the one always been..EGOSTIC.. emotional..and all that bullcrap... hahahaha.

You're too soft.

ubunja:
You're too soft.

Hahahaha
No longer stubborn..Arrogant? EGOSTIC... braggadocios.
I ain't got the energy to withstand your puppets bro.... because very soon they be coming for me... hence the ignoring of your mentions.

Omo guys see what will it profit a man to be earning six figures and he can't give a bitch common 2k to bang the pussy at least three times on rotation. Abeg reason am. Any redpill that promotes stinginess should be rejected. I don't care who you are in this community it's trash talk. The truth is any pussycat you bang for free will hardly come back if she doesn't get some form of benefit either monetary or otherwise, no matter how sweet your dick is. In essence, my point is free pussy is just for "pumping and dumping" but IMO if you want to keep them/build a harem they have to be some form of benefit on the table for your ladies. I RISE!!

SOZINN:


I'm beginning to view this assertion from another angle. I've perused some articles and watched some interviews on YouTube about these white people, especially those in the United States. And I've come to the conclusion that you have to belong to one of the three gradations of oppression to be respected by numerous people in the society. The are the three kinds of people who are believed to be subjects to ill treatment customarily.

1. Black people.
2. Homosexuals.
3. Women (*rolls my eyes*)

Victimization, victim hood and the victim mindset have triggered protests which in turn led to talk shows where lies were utilized to make the truth more acrid than it was. There are blacks who still believe that they are being maltreated in some way or another even though we're not in the 19th or 20th century. Criminals are seen as iconic people who were viciously murdered because the whites are still oppressive. At this point every white police officer is conjectured to be racist unless proven otherwise. There are still protests online/offline from blacks who want unmerited pedestalization or adulation, no one cares about their criminal records or their offences. The black community doesn't want to see any video of a soul brother/sister getting arrested or shot. The truth is, more whites die every year due to police brutality but the media doesn't report it because it doesn't get attention or clicks on the internet. But just one black person will generate twice as much recognition, heck might start a protest. The scale is now asymmetrical but there are still people who want to be part of the false injured party, so let them.

For homosexuals, their breakthrough came in neoteric years through Barrack Obama, until then they didn't receive equivalent treatment and discrimination was like expected manna. Things have changed, when you compare the western communities to places like Africa. You could sanguinely affirm that they have achieved a lot but president Trump and his negative comments happened and they felt like they were drawn back into the dark ages which is perspicuous.

As for women, feminists are just living in large towers of deception they built themselves because they were never subjugated by the "evil patriarchy ". All they have done is accuse the patriarchy which (held both genders in equal regard from as early as the 1700s), of androcentrism. They can't inculpate men for being the more productive gender, when only a few of them were interested in making the world a better place throughout history. Well, they are all crazy.

Other people who are believed to be subjects to ill treatment but haven't gained as much support are :

1. Fat people: Rather than put in the work to change their unhealthy lifestyles, they chose to maintain their obesity and asked the society to accept them for who they are. They have their own vacuous campaigns. Oh well, this is the 21st century, nothing should come as a shock to us anymore.

Judging from everything I've enumerated, we can say, no one feels more victimized than the fat, black, gay woman and the straight, white, healthy men are the ones who might be denied freedom of speech in coming years.
So DieRich5, if you want the society to care about you just join one of the movements and push a propaganda. You are black right? Your statement is not entirely true. Or you could add more weight.

The force is strong with this one...you are ascending

DEMZEE:


Baba spin her plate and move on, she's already dominating ur frame. Make ursef ur own mental point of origin.

I'm very sure u are young, focus on your goals and build your value. Women are not running away

I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

Peacesupreme21:
I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

U are obviously operating in a scarcity mindset. Baba there are alot of bitches in the ocean nahh tf!

U are also the same age for bleeps sake spin her plate and move on Jesus!

DEMZEE:


U are obviously operating in a scarcity mindset. Baba there are alot of bitches in the ocean nahh tf!

U are so the same age for bleeps sake spin her plate and move on Jesus!

Thanks brother.

Born2winnx:

Hahahaha
No longer stubborn..Arrogant? EGOSTIC... braggadocios.
I ain't got the energy to withstand your puppets bro.... because very soon they be coming for me... hence the ignoring of your mentions.

i hear you. Just keep that pussy-buying mindset out of this thread.

Peacesupreme21:
sure bitches them plentyyy.
Thanks brother.

U are just rationalizing onetitis for bleeps sake

Better hold on with meeting ladies and work on ur mental health dude, u are still young and women are not running away.

Goan read and internalize redpill philosophy deeply

AlphaAlex:
My brother as I’m reading Sperm wars Your post just confirmed a few things I just read Guys y’all should get sperm wars you won’t regret it. I’m still digesting it . Try visiting



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you might find a few if not most books there for free but in different formats

This link has helped me to get a whole lot of books, do you have anything on audio book as well.
Thanks AlphaAlex

Martinez39s:
He too could have been bold and mentioned your name and that of others if he was really referring to you as he claimed. If one keeps mentioning he is an OG to further his case when it's not related to the issue instead of making his case, normal humans will interpret that as bragging. Anyway, I believe this issue has a lot we can learn from. I think it would be better to close this case today. We can drag this stuff till next week and we gain nothing other than moving round in circles.

Born2winnx, skepticus, waywardpikin, caveadullam, etc. e don do. Las las e no be enemies.

In many cases, narcissism always go with the following signs:

1. Low IQ.

2. Bragging about sex and notch counts. And using it to boast about confidence. Most times, for the men, this is their source of self esteem.

3. Neuroticism: too emotional and flaky to handle logic.

4. Always lambaste people for their shortcomings but when the case is reversed, you become their enemy.

5. Histrionic: always try to create drama around themselves in order to be seen as victims or to win the votes of the masses.

Though, I felt to be a little bit sarcastic, but immediately the warning signs became glaring, I heeded to sheath my online keyboard.

You really tried in deciphering their posts with sound rebuttal, however, narcissism doesn't care about logic. You really did well in making the truth open.

The hordes of "KING OG and the Rich 10k" boss are almost here, we must give them the normal treatment: no reply except otherwise.

Thanks.

Peacesupreme21:
I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

I sometime say "if women never nack you before" you won't truly appreciate their nature and understand the redpill...

Early twenties and she is naive...lol... Did she tell you this or did you conclude by yourself...

Anyways carry on..but know you have alot of blue pill thinking....

The only advice I can give you is be a man, do not take shit because there will shit!, open your eye and do not be afraid to lose her...

Maybe this relationship will redpill you..

Martinez39s:
Ose! Awesome mind reader. Another silly assumption. You are right, high five!

This guy cracks me up everytime

FRANKOSKI:
THE SONG IS MOVE BITCH BY MYSTIKAL

No Its Ludacris - Move Bitch

Lordcassy:


I sometime say "if women never nack you before" you won't truly appreciate their nature and understand the redpill...

Early twenties and she is naive...lol... Did she tell you this or did you conclude by yourself...

Anyways carry on..but know you have alot of blue pill thinking....

The only advice I can give you is be a man, do not take shit because there will shit!, open your eye and do not be afraid to lose her...

Maybe this relationship will redpill you..

Wisdom

Kenogidi:
Omo guys see what will it profit a man to be earning six figures and he can't give a bitch common 2k to bang the pussy at least three times on rotation. Abeg reason am. Any redpill that promotes stinginess should be rejected. I don't care who you are in this community it's trash talk. The truth is any pussycat you bang for free will hardly come back if she doesn't get some form of benefit either monetary or otherwise, no matter how sweet your dick is. In essence, my point is free pussy is just for "pumping and dumping" but IMO if you want to keep them/build a harem they have to be some form of benefit on the table for your ladies. I RISE!!

You know I had the same mindset until a lady insulted me behind my back after giving her urgent 2k.

That was my first redpill experience. A friend warned me not to but I went behind my back and gave the girl the money.

The girl later called me and said she’s coming to my place. She came but a friend asked me to ghost her and not pick her call. I did exactly the same and she later kept pestering me. I later Bleep her silly and dump her asss tho.

No one said you should not give a lady money. But to give her money because you have sex with her is the greatest form simping.

If she need a genuine a help that won’t break your pocket, you should do it.

But if you think you should give a lady money because you have sex with her, you shouldn’t be here on this thread. You should go back to ashawo thread.

The point of redpill is to be getting free sec and becoming selfish with yourself.

If you don’t believe with this philosophy, you should Bleep outta here.

CaveAdullam:

Though, I felt to be a little bit sarcastic, but immediately the warning signs became glaring, I heeded to sheath my online keyboard.

You really tried in deciphering their posts with sound rebuttal, however, narcissism doesn't care about logic. You really did well in making the truth open.

The hordes of "KING OG and the Rich 10k" boss are almost here, we must give them the normal treatment: no reply except otherwise.
Thanks.

Are you the same guy that created this thread... because at the early of this page when you were dropping redpills dosage and the likes of UBUNJA... pansophîst n the rest were throwing more lights on your quotes.. you had to counter them of derailing your thread.. because you saw they were more experienced than you and gaining more attention guess that was JEALOUSy building up at that time.....

After they left... you came to your senses and had to apologise openly when you saw this simps were more inclined to UBUNJA been more experience.and knowledgeable... if you were the same guy bro...I respect you..yes I do ain't easy...I commend your efforts but history never forgets.... by the way am still on page 40



At your bolded


Why you got that entitlement issue.. this nairaland bro...a faceless forum.. everyone got a different opinion of how they view things out there.. because you were the one who created this thread mahn... you can kick anyone out..n close the the door at any time lol.

I came in With a different logical thinking from yours I should be treated like a troll for real



Your the one been narcissist here bro.... thinking this thread revolves around you and anyone who has different view from yours is inferior.


Saw you the other day... when you were telling those niggas who brought a TOPIC OF SELF IMPROVEMENT....On building oneself to get the fûck out of this thread..















Like I said before it was a good arguments..an eye opener... everyone learned one thing or the other.So just hush it.

Here's how I see it last last.... every initial attempt at the pussy should be to get it for free using game but if along the line she makes a demand (which of course you know is her codedly placing a price on the pussy) which you know won't cost you anything in terms of finance and frame (as an alpha) then bro go ahead and meet that demand and destroy that pussy afterwards.
NB: the next 2 or 3-4 subsequent knacks of that same chick should be for free, if you still pay, you Bleep up. Peace!!!

Kenogidi:
Here's how I see it last last.... every initial attempt at the pussy should be to get it for free using game but if along the line she makes a demand (which of course you know is her codedly placing a price on the pussy) which you know won't cost you anything in terms of finance and frame (as an alpha) then bro go ahead and meet that demand and destroy that pussy afterwards.
NB: the next 2 or 3-4 subsequent knacks of that same chick should be for free, if you still pay, you Bleep up. Peace!!!

Sounds fair

UBUNJA... don't think am hyping you bro...i know you read that...smilling and all to yourself..... hahaha
you as a redpiller still got alot to learn from an OG

Sapy442:


This link has helped me to get a whole lot of books, do you have anything on audio book as well.
Thanks AlphaAlex

nah bro but you can try YouTube for audiobooks glad you got all you needed.

Arguments are one of the things that make this forum lively but not everyone can handle the 'heat' of the moment.

@Born2winnx, arguments sometimes can be so engaging but that doesn't mean we should resort to insults. If you're not careful with arguments, you can get caught up emotionally and you'll keep engaging in futile attempts to prove you're right. This is why I avoid using abusive or sarcastic words on people. You don't know who's who. We can be of help to each other in the future.

@waywardpikin, you don't need to stay out of the thread. I guess it was the heat of argument that made GLYCOLYSISS deactivate his account. You have also contributed to this thread one way or the other. It will surely pass.

Not everyone can handle the heat of argument, its either you agree to disagree, remain silent or observe. Always know when to react and when to remain silent. After all, this is an online forum, you're bound to meet different people with different experiences but the best thing to do is still be able to maintain the peaceful nature of the way things are.

No one is above mistake or correction, and you don't need to be annoyed just because someone else doesn't see things the way you see it. Sometimes, you need to analyse things from the other party and try to come to a conclusion. If you find out you're wrong, its fine, move on. If you feel you're right, remain silent or agree to disagree. The worst thing to do is to keep proving yourself. No one cares about it. It's bound to happen. I'm sure if it were a physical argument, it wouldn't have lasted this long. Sometimes the way we read other people's statement might not mean exactly what they had in mind.

To me, I believe arguments are not meant to be won, but to understand each other's perspective and the way we see things. That doesn't mean we should mock each other, I believe that behavior is immature. Anyone can portray who they are online, but we all know deep down who we are offline and that's the most important. No one knows me here and I don't think I have a reputation to protect in this forum, so why prove yourself for anyone.?

We are human and we all have an emotional side but best thing to do is know how to control yourself when you're being emotional. Life happens bro. Please, maintain the peace. One Love.

Skepticus:



And you couldn't mention my post. I've mentioned you now. I hope it makes you feel better. Anyway, you are dating skanks and that is what it is. I have no apologies for saying that and I have no problem with you paying to sleep with them. It's your money and your choice. As a matter of fact, I have no qualms against picking prostitutes. In the red pill, prostitution is generally considered a more "honest" transaction when compared to the parasitic/exploitative crap some men call love relationship etc. If I pay a girl 100k for a blooww job, I know it's stupidity to come brag here, claiming that it's red pill to get a girl to suck my dick when the same girl does it for free and I have also had girls suck me before for free. "We nor dey chop ur kain bobo here!"

Now, let me clear things up for you. Your moniker don't seem to be a very active one here so, I'll understand some of your ignorance. I also know that some truths may practically fly over your head. but nevertheless, I'll correct you (and some brothers who got caught up in your ignorance)

1. Your "I'm a street OG" (or whatever) is the crappy talk of an immature mind who feels intimidated by other men. A lot of us have walked that route before you and have seen it all (on the streets and in the bedroom with women). That we make comments in clear concise language and not in broken, revulsive textspeak English doesn't mean we are nerds who sit behind a computer all day. We are just being humble and comparing notes with other men to understand life and human nature. In fact, I learn everyday from a lot of the comments from other brothers, dropped here and I'm not bigger than being "corrected". No one is a 100% archive of knowledge.

2. No one has anything against you or any other person. I don't know you nor even care to know you, but I'll treat you with dignity and respect as a man if you are deserving of it. As a sensible man, you should treat me the way I deserve.

3. All that talk of not being "stingy" is nonsense. I know being "stingy" and "generous" is relative and has meaning to different guys and in different circumstances. Some amount of money could be spent on the route to getting the pusssy of a woman who has shown the attraction to you and the willingness to get down but I have seen how Nigerian men behave silly when they are around pusssies parting with cash much more than they can ever "loan" or "dash" to men or women in their lives who stands for them. They are not "GENEROUS" just "THIRSTY" SIMPs whose dicks have taken over their sense of reasoning. Women spot this quickly and "bill" them as much as possible. Then, the fool runs everywhere complaining about how Nigerian women love money. Which woman will reject money from a horrny fool? Guys, make una dey use una 6 na?

During my National Youth Service Year many years back, a female corp member who had been giving clear mating signals (during camp) invited me to her lodge. She "discharged" her room mate and we banged silly. When I tried to give her some money (and I was intentionally trying to be generous), babe fired back with annoyance that "Am I a prostitute, you are giving money? I was shocked but quickly replied her that she should use it to buy "refreshment" for the both of us. This is a minority of them as she was being "honest" which is a result of her attraction to me. Some would take it and still look down on you, remembering you only when they need money. Women are no fools.

4. Born2winnx , you engage in a lot of strawman bullshiit arguments which are emotional-laden statements meant to throw people off from noticing your lack of points to defend your position. Waywardpikin who is usually on his turf got caught up in that too. It won't help you much in life when you want to build men of loyalty around you. You dragged pansophist for "dodging" when he was clearly not involved in the arguments and put up a screenshot unrelated to the position you were defending. You called others "misogynist", "stingy" etc exposing yourself the more that this thread might not be for you. The ASHAWO THREAD format doesn't float here. Any dude with cash can "rent" pusssy. No shame about it but it is not the red pill. The red pill is harsh and a lot of new knowledge concerning it, can be quite uncomfortable. Maybe it is the reason for your actions.

There is a lot to be said and your response is welcome, but I'll end it here. Have a great day.

everything u need to know is in dis post and( what I understand)
Paying a hoe(prostitutes) is outside the picture of a blue or red pillers...... paying for sex is never a good idea and dere is alot of young blood here like me, who come here to learn....yes I love learning now I understand alots from this post
#TRP 4 life

Peacesupreme21:
I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

bro u sounding like a lover boy bro
I'm at my early 20s too, if u wanna date her...do and stop thinking about how she will feel, if she don't like ur way Dem move along

Pls don't change for anybody,ur man so act as one bro
Good luck

Born2winnx:
UBUNJA... don't think am hyping you bro...i know you read that...smilling and all to yourself..... hahaha
you as a redpiller still got alot to learn from an OG

oh you call those 3 dry sentences hyping? Smh.

Here's real hyping fyi

Firstorderwizard:
Ubunja hardly misses any romance land thread.
He always have the right response to the wrong comment.
Is some robots behind his moniker?
Is he a blogger?
Is he paid by seun?
Is he a mod?
Where does he source his miseducation topics from? (Which I've learnt from anyway)
Is he young or old?
Is he gay or straight?
Who is Ubunja?

irumole1975:
Who is ubunja sef? the name is more viral than Lala name there days on Nairaland

mmadu4:
please who is he ,and how can i find his post . i was in a group and guys were talking about him and how he has helped them out through his powerful words , one guy even call him GOD , please someone should link me to his post

Do you want more?? There's plenty more where that came from....

Martinez39s:
Another silly assumption about someone you have never met. Anyone can call the themselves OG on the internet and think they are, yet it proves nothing. Why not just go straight to the point and lay your case like an intelligent adult or ignore, instead of making silly assumptions just to berate someone that doesn't agree with you? Will you die if you do such?

You can say you see it as few bucks. After all, in another post, we both established that to go beyond basic sex, bring out her inner slut monster and explore to your satisfaction, you will have to pay much more. Even rich simps see the big money they are wasting as "few bucks to get to their happiness and fantasy".

By the way, read his post again to understand where the guy is coming from. I won't bother to explain.

Not trying to doubt you (you could be telling the truth), but if you are making a case, make it sound. There are many reasons why a girl could text you such; it proves nothing you wrote. Besides, even if all the girls in Africa, America, and Europe are simping for you and you, it still doesn't make paying for sex logical or part of the red pill. So what's your point?

Kudos to you in making her work for it, and living your life the way you. I have no problem with it, live it, it's not a crime or bad thing, but paying for sex will never be logical or part of the red pill.

Please might I ask why paying for sex isn't 'logical'?

Tonnyray:
For the life of me I could never have imagined the Ashewo thread mentality of paying transactionally for sex will actually be brought here and sold packaged as red pill.
Like seriously?

ubunja:

Here's real hyping fyi
Do you want more?? There's plenty more where that came from....

I Don't even know you.

different kingdoms (sections) here on nairaland

That's how them sing my name in the hidden sexuality section..bro..

The reason am getting more lash... it's a king on vacation and I stepped on your land.. with no guards.. cabinets n co


Come over to my world.. you be but a subject.. novice.. to my call.

J2381:
Please might I ask why paying for sex isn't 'logical'?

My answers are scattered throughout the arguments that went on for almost three days. I am no longer dwelling on this issue.