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baralatie:
I am seeing the need for DNA test

How did you find out the exact date she slept with the other men?

Mikester:
[color=navy] With all the numerous threads of the red pill on this forum, the accompanying experiences shared here and you being a nairalander with your story similar to those others posted here, I must admit to you that this your tale is simply to be condemned as a fake story.

Don't nurse any hopes of trying to convince me otherwise. Good day. [/color]

BareFacedLies:
So you knew that she cheats on everyone she dates and you still went ahead and fùcked her without a condom?

dacblogger:
You guys were having issues and she cheated on you...
If you marry her, anytime you guys have issue,she will run out nd cheat.

Jackyz:
Mosdii over to you

Gisbourne44:
Hello guys.. good morning.. I met this girl in a cab, I got her contact but it took us about 3 weeks before we met and discussed. I liked her and Wanted to date her. I asked her out and she replied she was in a relationship. I said okay. She went on to further tell me that it shouldn’t matter to me that 95% of ladies are in relationships. Which is something I kinda understood too as well. Two weeks later she said she had broken up with her boyfriend. I said okay. I asked her out she said she just came out of one an not really ready to enter another. I left it at that. But after about a week we both just settled into been in a relationship because she would call and get angry that what kind of boyfriend am I that can’t call his girlfriend in the morning etc... that was how things were and we were until about two months after our dating she told me she was pregnant. I told her to keep the pregnancy(cos personally I won’t have sex without protection if I don’t have intentions to marry the person).

I told my mum about it and she was like I should prepare and do her introduction. I was preparing towards that when I found out that she cheated on me with a married man the same period she got pregnant (from calculation of the pregnancy) we slept together on the 31st of April, she slept with the said married man on the 8th and 10th of May with and without condom respectively.(the worst part was I found out myself, she didn’t tell me out of remorse)

That realization was what cancelled all plans I had for her. While we were together I give her 35k monthly because she wasn’t working(she had lost her jobs some weeks before we started seeing each other) she begged and begged that I should forgive her that it would not happen again. But to be honest I only saw tears and no remorse. Because I didn’t want her to do anything stupid that would be on me(I had gone to see her mother and we discussed before I found out she cheated) I even told the mum she cheated. I still went ahead and Moved her to my place but for The first three months the relationship wasn’t good at all. She was always crying and saying she is sorry. I most times tell her it’s okay so nothing happens to the baby not because it’s actually okay. Cos till date if I see the type of car the person she cheated with drives. I get angry as well. I wasn’t doing so badly. At least I had a car my dad gave to me to use in Abuja after he retired to his house in Lagos. Now sha she has given birth to a boy and dna confirms its mine.

Three months to the time she was to give birth

Doctors kinda adviced me that her condition wasn’t good and that she was thinking too much that I should forget any issues we have and pretend so everything goes fine when it’s time for labour. So I changed at that point for the sake of the pregnancy and her health.

But now that everything is clear. Would it be adviseable to go on and marry her?

The trust is actually not there

Cos most times she goes out I always feel she is going to see someone or she would give out her number. I always want her to be indoor. But it’s not healthy and that’s not how it’s supposed to be. I intend to train her in school for the fact that she is my baby’s mother. So that in the event that anything happens to me (unforeseen circumstances) she should be able to stand and carry on with the training of the baby)

My parents don’t even want me and her staying together (but I fear for her choices in men) let her not go and date one yahoo boy that’s would end up using my son for ritual. That’s my fear ��‍♂️��‍♂️

Her mother has told her there is only a 5% chance the relationship would work out.

Then based on her past(she has actually cheated on everyone she has dated) reasons been that most of them were stingy and she had needs. That’s why I gave her 35k monthly so she stays faithful to me. But she still cheated on me as well for money ( she kissed and had sex with the married man)

I didn’t know married men now kiss girls they meet on cash and carry basis. When she cheated, we had issues two days before she cheated(the first one) but we were talking but not much.

I’m just confused. What should I do about her pls

Can I still marry her if she says she won’t cheat again

Even if I want to marry her now it would be after I’ve observed her properly and with what has happened so far, it could take me about 2 years to decided. But that thought of me thinking how proud the man would be seein me somewhere with a chick he banged raw makes me sad

insidelife22:
Bros shey be the Toto don short ni ?
na person dey Bleep am before e reach ur turn,
after you e go be another person turn.
cheat on her with a married woman period.
stop disturbing my June 12 prophet,I mean provest or is it prorest
I don't even know what am typing again.
just comot for here Mr Simpson.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Gisbourne44:
Hello guys.. good morning.. I met this girl in a cab, I got her contact but it took us about 3 weeks before we met and discussed. I liked her and Wanted to date her. I asked her out and she replied she was in a relationship. I said okay. She went on to further tell me that it shouldn’t matter to me that 95% of ladies are in relationships. Which is something I kinda understood too as well. Two weeks later she said she had broken up with her boyfriend. I said okay. I asked her out she said she just came out of one an not really ready to enter another. I left it at that. But after about a week we both just settled into been in a relationship because she would call and get angry that what kind of boyfriend am I that can’t call his girlfriend in the morning etc... that was how things were and we were until about two months after our dating she told me she was pregnant. I told her to keep the pregnancy(cos personally I won’t have sex without protection if I don’t have intentions to marry the person).

I told my mum about it and she was like I should prepare and do her introduction. I was preparing towards that when I found out that she cheated on me with a married man the same period she got pregnant (from calculation of the pregnancy) we slept together on the 31st of April, she slept with the said married man on the 8th and 10th of May with and without condom respectively.(the worst part was I found out myself, she didn’t tell me out of remorse)

That realization was what cancelled all plans I had for her. While we were together I give her 35k monthly because she wasn’t working(she had lost her jobs some weeks before we started seeing each other) she begged and begged that I should forgive her that it would not happen again. But to be honest I only saw tears and no remorse. Because I didn’t want her to do anything stupid that would be on me(I had gone to see her mother and we discussed before I found out she cheated) I even told the mum she cheated. I still went ahead and Moved her to my place but for The first three months the relationship wasn’t good at all. She was always crying and saying she is sorry. I most times tell her it’s okay so nothing happens to the baby not because it’s actually okay. Cos till date if I see the type of car the person she cheated with drives. I get angry as well. I wasn’t doing so badly. At least I had a car my dad gave to me to use in Abuja after he retired to his house in Lagos. Now sha she has given birth to a boy and dna confirms its mine.

Three months to the time she was to give birth

Doctors kinda adviced me that her condition wasn’t good and that she was thinking too much that I should forget any issues we have and pretend so everything goes fine when it’s time for labour. So I changed at that point for the sake of the pregnancy and her health.

But now that everything is clear. Would it be adviseable to go on and marry her?

The trust is actually not there

Cos most times she goes out I always feel she is going to see someone or she would give out her number. I always want her to be indoor. But it’s not healthy and that’s not how it’s supposed to be. I intend to train her in school for the fact that she is my baby’s mother. So that in the event that anything happens to me (unforeseen circumstances) she should be able to stand and carry on with the training of the baby)

My parents don’t even want me and her staying together (but I fear for her choices in men) let her not go and date one yahoo boy that’s would end up using my son for ritual. That’s my fear ��‍♂️��‍♂️

Her mother has told her there is only a 5% chance the relationship would work out.

Then based on her past(she has actually cheated on everyone she has dated) reasons been that most of them were stingy and she had needs. That’s why I gave her 35k monthly so she stays faithful to me. But she still cheated on me as well for money ( she kissed and had sex with the married man)

I didn’t know married men now kiss girls they meet on cash and carry basis. When she cheated, we had issues two days before she cheated(the first one) but we were talking but not much.

I’m just confused. What should I do about her pls

Can I still marry her if she says she won’t cheat again

Even if I want to marry her now it would be after I’ve observed her properly and with what has happened so far, it could take me about 2 years to decided. But that thought of me thinking how proud the man would be seein me somewhere with a chick he banged raw makes me sad

CheedyJ:
Never knew April had 31 days, we learn new things everyday sha

Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.

Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.

Gisbourne44:
She even confessed to you

Not like you found out

The guy probably was trying to blackmail her

I pity u!!!
I know yo type hardly learn......
So......u r on trying to seek validation on how to wife a cheat abi

Even after letting u know she cheated in all her previous relationship..........and even yours wasn't an exception shey??

U lack self esteem!!!!

Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.

PlayMaker14:
Like I always say; "E better make person born THIEF than to born MUMU"


You sound so childish and inexperience.

A lady who cheated on you with a married man and you're here contemplating whether to take her back if she convincingly tells you that she won't cheat on you again?

That cheating machine who's the mother of your baby might just be the one that would facilitate your leap to death if you don't chase her away.

Imagine the nonsense.... You're paying a community pussy 35k monthly because you want her to remain faithful to you?

Op, between you, Tony Umez and Mr. Ibu, I nor know who Mumu pass, but one thing I know is that you're just paving your way to the great beyond if you settle down with that hoe.

Kelvin30286063:
Move on bro. People make mistakes. Just take your mind off it and move on.

Some years ago, my girlfriend (now my wife) and I had a misunderstanding. She was staying with me briefly at the time cuz she had accommodation issue. After that misunderstanding, she said she needed the money I owe her. I had to call someone I shouldn't have called (my mom) to send money to me cuz it looked like the relationship was over.
My mom came over, give me the money I requested and asked that I follow her home cuz we need to talk about my life. Lol
On getting home, I was worried about her (my girlfriend) staying alone in the house and all that.

So I called her several times to know how she's doing and try to settle the differences but she didn't answer the phone.
She later picked up the call at night and told me she had gone to Ibadan. I was like oh cool, her grandpa is at IB. We settled our differences and she came back 3 days later.

6 months later, she confessed to me that she didn't go to her grandparent's place that night, she went to her ex place.
I was devastated and felt betrayed. But guess what, I forgave her. We are happily married today and she's never been found wanting ever since.
If I had concluded so quickly and not forgive, I won't be married to this beautiful woman and have this cute little angel as mine!

What I'm trying to say is, people make mistakes! It happens, the only unforgivable mistake is a repeated one.

ABANGWABOI:
Tap your wife's phone and put camera in your home and see..
Kid, Dem dey fuckkk your wife steady and na doggy..

Ayo2004:
Mumu,dey there dey talk beautiful woman!
U better install CCTV in your house to see what happens whenever u go out
Na mumu simps full this Nairaland

Gisbourne44:
She even confessed to you

Not like you found out

The guy probably was trying to blackmail her