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My relationship of four years with my girl is at the edge of collapsing. I posted earlier how she has been non chalant about us. I just paid for an accommodation for us to settle down because I was staying in a single room before. She told me tonight to give her space.... what does she mean .......I have beg her that she should just remember where we began but all to no avail. Should I still chat or call her.... through she told me to give her breathing space.

I'm not cool with you begging a Liability to allow you bear her burdens!
Don't call her again, let her go if she wants to go!
Distance reveals either two things: it either shows you how you really missed that person, or how your life will be better without him/her. Let her go, bro, because you deserve peace of mind.

You didn't earlier post about her nonchalance, bro. BE honest. You posted about her refusing to borrow you money.


BTW, I blame both of you who don't think it's right to get married first before living in the same house and copulating.



Well, I suggest you diverse your income.

Then respect her decision and give her space na
After all you not even married to her yet living together like couples

Try your own possible best to let her come back, but if she is still adamant, forget her and if she comes back later don't take her back. That is a big sign that she is up to something else she is hiding. Watch and prayer, 4 years relationship is enough for her to have think well not mumu excuse she is saying now

SmellySperm:
Then respect her decision and give her space na
After all you not even married to her yet living together like couples

we have not been living together

Bola146:

Bola146, my best friend on nairaland, how are you doing? I hope you are doing amazingly well? As for me, I am fine! Please take good care of yourself, okay! And always be the best you can be.

Beg someone's daughter to be your live in lover? You no well. You are not ready for marriage and you want to block her path. Please give her space like she told you.

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