So I met this really pretty girl like a week ago,
We've been on a date once,was a very nice experience.
So after much talking and all and seeing each other,I decided to fix another date with her today.
Now why I planned this was because I wanted to have some talks with her and all,
Only for me to get to her place and her friend follow de commot?
Well,I didn't talk much,I was clearly not happy as we went,I'm sure she noticed.
Got to the venue,told them to go in and I'll come later as I wanna talk to someone on phone,luckily they went in and I ditched them and sped off!
She was a nice girl obviously,haven't had her life together yet but she has this very nice aura to be around with.
However I hated what she did even more ,
Not even a cost problem sef,I just don't wanna be hanging out with people I don't know or care about.For what na?
I felt bad though but it had to be done.

But gbenusi no be atenu now...

How come you're vexed? �

The future is female guy

OmejeGuy:
But gbenusi no be atenu now...

How come you're vexed? �

The future is female guy

I no understand what you mean ooo.

Hehehe

Bro, hand writing on the wall: she doesn't like you. They only do this to a guy they don't like who isn't worth their privacy, especially after the first date was private.

CheerfulGiver:
Hehehe

Bro, hand writing on the wall: she doesn't like you. They only do this to a guy they don't like who isn't worth their privacy, especially after the first date was private.

I don't think so,
She has been calling and I haven't been picking up,
She even tried to lie as to why her friend came along but I am not buying it.
It was just a case of her friend being around her as at around the time I was to come and she just couldn't leave her alone at her place or something.
On a good day,I would have excused her but today nah...My mood wouldn't just permit another person I don't know on the same table with me spending my money,No.

Lmao

SeaTrade:
I don't think so,
She has been calling and I haven't been picking up,
She even tried to lie as to why her friend came along but I am not buying it.
It was just a case of her friend being around her as at around the time I was to come and she just couldn't leave her alone at her place or something.
On a good day,I would have excused her but today nah...My mood wouldn't just permit another person I don't know on the same table with me spending my money,No.

Bro, if you can say this you really don't know women. If a woman wants privacy with you, no body hinders her. The excuse she's giving you, she would have been giving to her friend, explaining why she can't come.

CheerfulGiver:
Bro, if you can say this you really don't know women. If a woman wants privacy with you, no body hinders her. The excuse she's giving you, she would have been giving to her friend, explaining why she can't come.

I'm sorry but your logic is really senseless,
Especially after telling you that her friend has been at her place as at when I called.
Sometimes women like to flaunt the person they are talking to,especially when that person is "flauntable" but it end up bursting in her face.

Communication is key!

You would have just called her out privately before leaving her house and then tell her you don't want her friend to follow. Insist on her alone. She should accept. If she doesn't then tell her you can't go with them. You need to talk bro. Take charge.

Allowing her to bring her friend and abandoning them at the place, is not nice at all. What if she doesn't have money on her?

SeaTrade:
I'm sorry but your logic is really senseless,
Especially after telling you that her friend has been at her place as at when I called.
Sometimes women like to flaunt the person they are talking to,especially when that person is "flauntable" but it end up bursting in her face.

my brother wi yo kipquet... They already told you what the deal is She does not like you simple

SeaTrade:
I'm sorry but your logic is really senseless,
Especially after telling you that her friend has been at her place as at when I called.
Sometimes women like to flaunt the person they are talking to,especially when that person is "flauntable" but it end up bursting in her face.

Mumu calling someone senseless. Irony

I don't know why ladies do this shit!! The annoying part of it is that they will not tell you before hand.
This exact scenario happened to me last week. I offered to take her out, when I reached her place, she then told me we are going out with her friend. Can you imagine?
We went out with the friend sha, it was really disappointing, CAN'T DO THE OP STYLE EVER, that's not a gentleman's way ooooo, Lols
Lest I forget, no date ever again with her, can't be involved in that nonsense again. Once beaten, twice shy!!

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

SeaTrade:
So I met this really pretty girl like a week ago,
We've been on a date once,was a very nice experience.
So after much talking and all and seeing each other,I decided to fix another date with her today.
Now why I planned this was because I wanted to have some talks with her and all,
Only for me to get to her place and her friend follow de commot?
Well,I didn't talk much,I was clearly not happy as we went,I'm sure she noticed.
Got to the venue,told them to go in and I'll come later as I wanna talk to someone on phone,luckily they went in and I ditched them and sped off!
She was a nice girl obviously,haven't had her life together yet but she has this very nice aura to be around with.
However I hated what she did even more ,
Not even a cost problem sef,I just don't wanna be hanging out with people I don't know or care about.For what na?
I felt bad though but it had to be done.

Logobenz ma nigga! No dulling!





It truly had to be done.

Raalsalghul:



Logobenz ma nigga! No dulling!





It truly had to be done.

Baba no time for nonsense again,
Person dey old pass some certain things.

SeaTrade:
Baba no time for nonsense again,
Person dey old pass some certain things.

True that, but just like some folks said up there, it's possible she's not into you.

The incessant calls don't mean anything as she might have seen something in you for her own gain apart from romance of course.

You never know with these people.

Why abandon them when you could've stopped her friend from joining you guys?

Hey babe, I planned this date for just the two of us. Please tell your friend to excuse us this time, maybe next time she can join us.

I think the situation could've been handled more maturely.

SeaTrade:
Baba no time for nonsense again,
Person dey old pass some certain things.

Logo so you still not married after all these years? How about pretending to be a struggling man and see who genuinely likes you.

AutoChick4U:
Logo so you still not married after all these years? How about pretending to be a struggling man and see who genuinely likes you.

Finding a woman is hard.
You might find character, brains,career without the body,
Or
You find the body without character ,brains and career.
I don't want to settle for less hence pretending to be someone I am not will greatly reduce my chances of getting the kind of woman I want.
Well,the good thing is I am patient enough...

Raalsalghul:


True that, but just like some folks said up there, it's possible she's not into you.

The incessant calls don't mean anything as she might have seen something in you for her own gain apart from romance of course.

You never know with these people.

True,
Exactly my fear.
Comfort by association I guess.
Ain't gonna happen sha if that's what she thinks of me.
Nah...

Some Nigerian girls and tagging along on a date sef!

CheerfulGiver:
Bro, if you can say this you really don't know women. If a woman wants privacy with you, no body hinders her. The excuse she's giving you, she would have been giving to her friend, explaining why she can't come.

Gbam!

SeaTrade:
I'm sorry but your logic is really senseless,
Especially after telling you that her friend has been at her place as at when I called.
Sometimes women like to flaunt the person they are talking to,especially when that person is "flauntable" but it end up bursting in her face.

He made a very good point.
Most Nigerian girls are easy to predict and also difficult to understand at the same time.

SeaTrade:
So I met this really pretty girl like a week ago,
We've been on a date once,was a very nice experience.
So after much talking and all and seeing each other,I decided to fix another date with her today.
Now why I planned this was because I wanted to have some talks with her and all,
Only for me to get to her place and her friend follow de commot?
Well,I didn't talk much,I was clearly not happy as we went,I'm sure she noticed.
Got to the venue,told them to go in and I'll come later as I wanna talk to someone on phone,luckily they went in and I ditched them and sped off!
She was a nice girl obviously,haven't had her life together yet but she has this very nice aura to be around with.
However I hated what she did even more ,
Not even a cost problem sef,I just don't wanna be hanging out with people I don't know or care about.For what na?
I felt bad though but it had to be done.

Correct guy you have done well.Kudos

SeaTrade:
So I met this really pretty girl like a week ago,
We've been on a date once,was a very nice experience.
So after much talking and all and seeing each other,I decided to fix another date with her today.
Now why I planned this was because I wanted to have some talks with her and all,
Only for me to get to her place and her friend follow de commot?
Well,I didn't talk much,I was clearly not happy as we went,I'm sure she noticed.
Got to the venue,told them to go in and I'll come later as I wanna talk to someone on phone,luckily they went in and I ditched them and sped off!
She was a nice girl obviously,haven't had her life together yet but she has this very nice aura to be around with.
However I hated what she did even more ,
Not even a cost problem sef,I just don't wanna be hanging out with people I don't know or care about.For what na?
I felt bad though but it had to be done.

OP welcome to the Community of Men.

I don't know, but I have discovered that girls who do this are usually of a certain age group. I wouldn't want to specify an age as there are definitely exceptions on both sides of that age-group divide.

However, more mature ladies (NOTE: Not just maturity in age, but in mentality as well), hardly invite their friend(s) to tag along with them on a date.

If they're not interested in you, they'd simply not accept to go out with you... and even if they chose to accept based on courtesy, they will come alone.

crackhaus:
I don't know, but I have discovered that girls who do this are usually of a certain age group. I wouldn't want to specify an age as there are definitely exceptions on both sides of that age-group divide.

However, more mature ladies (NOTE: Not just maturity in age, but in mentality as well), hardly invite their friend(s) to tag along with them on a date.

If they're not interested in you, they'd simply not accept to go out with you... and even if they chose to accept based on courtesy, they will come alone.

You got it right in the second paragraph,
The only mistake I made was going after someone who hasn't got her life together yet.These are the people with such behaviours.
You needed to hear the kind of cheap conversations they were having as we went,
Asoebi 18k this,guy's with money that,bags and shoes bla bla bla....I was so disappointed in myself and has lost a lot of interest already sef.
Someone who is 26yrs old is no baby.
But also,I can't go for someone more responsible and have her life together now because these set of people would want commitment which i don't have to give at this time for some vital reasons.
So I went for this one because I should have something else to be tapping by the side to relieve some stress and frankly,this was the talk I wanted to have with her on the date so she shouldn't expect any sort of commitment whatsoever, we could be casual friends and all...
But she messed it all up by doing things I don't like.

She might just did that for security purpose as per say na naija we dey .

SeaTrade:
Finding a woman is hard.
You might find character, brains,career without the body,
Or
You find the body without character ,brains and career.
I don't want to settle for less hence pretending to be someone I am not will greatly reduce my chances of getting the kind of woman I want.
Well,the good thing is I am patient enough...

Body that may get anyhow after childbirth? U focising on what's not important

AutoChick4U:
Body that may get anyhow after childbirth? U focising on what's not important

Body in the context I used it encompasses a whole lot of things like beauty,size,complexion,etc...
Yes I know things will change after child birth definitely,but make I first enjoy am first before then.
Besides,I don't really prioritise having kids.
There is more to women to me than child bearing.

SeaTrade:
Body in the context I used it encompasses a whole lot of things like beauty,size,complexion,etc...
Yes I know things will change after child birth definitely,but make I first enjoy am first before then.
Besides,I don't really prioritise having kids.
There is more to women to me than child bearing.

Thats good. Good luck

When next you invite a girl on a date and she comes with someone, right in present of them, just stand up and walk away without saying a word to her. Or tell her you were expecting only her and walk away.

All ladies that have taken their friends along to a date without the man's consent, such relationship never saw the light of the day.

A lady bringing her friend to a date means she doesn't rate you.

SeaTrade:
I don't think so,
She has been calling and I haven't been picking up,
She even tried to lie as to why her friend came along but I am not buying it.
It was just a case of her friend being around her as at around the time I was to come and she just couldn't leave her alone at her place or something.
On a good day,I would have excused her but today nah...My mood wouldn't just permit another person I don't know on the same table with me spending my money,No.

That girl doesn't like you. You just couldn't read her body language during the first date. She doesn't like you. Stop making excuses for her, saying things like, she just couldn't leave her friend alone. Nor dey talk that kind talk oh. Na your emotion dey work for there so.

Jacobx007:
I don't know why ladies do this shit!! The annoying part of it is that they will not tell you before hand.
This exact scenario happened to me last week. I offered to take her out, when I reached her place, she then told me we are going out with her friend. Can you imagine?
We went out with the friend sha, it was really disappointing, CAN'T DO THE OP STYLE EVER, that's not a gentleman's way ooooo, Lols
Lest I forget, no date ever again with her, can't be involved in that nonsense again. Once beaten, twice shy!!

Gentleman na mugu. She never liked you so why spend your money on her even when you see the red flag? Next time, once babe tells you that her friend is coming with her on a date, right there just tell her that the date is between the both of you.

If she try to explain why her friend will follow her, just tell her, no problem and walk away.