JeffreyJunior:
Why abandon them when you could've stopped her friend from joining you guys?

Hey babe, I planned this date for just the two of us. Please tell your friend to excuse us this time, maybe next time she can join us.

I think the situation could've been handled more maturely.

michaelpop50:


You see the bolded? Which kind calabar talk be that na guy?

oke2018:
She might just did that for security purpose as per say na naija we dey .

SeaTrade:
I don't think so,
She has been calling and I haven't been picking up,
She even tried to lie as to why her friend came along but I am not buying it.
It was just a case of her friend being around her as at around the time I was to come and she just couldn't leave her alone at her place or something.
On a good day,I would have excused her but today nah...My mood wouldn't just permit another person I don't know on the same table with me spending my money,No.

SeaTrade:
Body in the context I used it encompasses a whole lot of things like beauty,size,complexion,etc...
Yes I know things will change after child birth definitely,but make I first enjoy am first before then.
Besides,I don't really prioritise having kids.
There is more to women to me than child bearing.

michaelpop50:


Nor go date or marry girl when you nor find sexually attractive oh. You go regret am in less than 3 months.

Marry who you find attractive oh. Trust me, you will still like her even after childbirth.

ChiefSosa:
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michaelpop50:


Chief keef, you done dey try me again? Oya bring that phone come here

ChiefSosa:

Go chop shit.

SeaTrade:
Exactly what I was trying to make her understand.
That kind of marriage na better bondage abeg.
Who peace of mind help?

ChiefSosa:

Aponkye. W'a gimi pa pa.

michaelpop50:


Meeting in a public place is the best security. No need bringing a friend over.

SeaTrade:
So I met this really pretty girl like a week ago,
We've been on a date once,was a very nice experience.
So after much talking and all and seeing each other,I decided to fix another date with her today.
Now why I planned this was because I wanted to have some talks with her and all,
Only for me to get to her place and her friend follow de commot?
Well,I didn't talk much,I was clearly not happy as we went,I'm sure she noticed.
Got to the venue,told them to go in and I'll come later as I wanna talk to someone on phone,luckily they went in and I ditched them and sped off!
She was a nice girl obviously,haven't had her life together yet but she has this very nice aura to be around with.
However I hated what she did even more ,
Not even a cost problem sef,I just don't wanna be hanging out with people I don't know or care about.For what na?
I felt bad though but it had to be done.

CheerfulGiver:
Hehehe

Bro, hand writing on the wall: she doesn't like you. They only do this to a guy they don't like who isn't worth their privacy, especially after the first date was private.

Barbiturate:
Communication is key!

You would have just called her out privately before leaving her house and then tell her you don't want her friend to follow. Insist on her alone. She should accept. If she doesn't then tell her you can't go with them. You need to talk bro. Take charge.

Allowing her to bring her friend and abandoning them at the place, is not nice at all. What if she doesn't have money on her?

SeaTrade:
I no understand what you mean ooo.

EMEKA1MILLION:
You could have told her this date was just for you and her.