Godada:




I agree with you on this however, the points you listed here isn't gender sensitive. Most men and women want this same thing: security. I should congratulate your lady friend because she is indeed a rare breed of lady. But what I didn't get from your conservation concerns child bearing. Does she intend to be in a civil union with the man and climb to the next social status then she can be on her way. How does she intend to be in relationship and still wanna to relocate? Kindly shed light on this issue before I lend my opinions here

heniford2:
Expo 104 but I still doubt this because my girl is not like that

Ikwerelastborn:

She presented the option of me match making her but she's also in the process of relocating abroad, so whichever comes first

Ikwerelastborn:

Thats what other guys before you also said till they learnt, you will still grow up to learn, I guess you're still in the university I guess

heniford2:
dude am married with a son through with school and a business man so relax oh

Godada:




Ok. She is rather ambitious. She should focus on one. She is doing well

NwaAmaikpe:



No.
The main reason most women want to get married is because being married is a woman's greatest bragging right.

A woman goes through life with only one constant need; to be wanted.
This is the reason women give out their phone numbers to strangers and the same reason a woman will spread her legs for a man who can make her feel desired.

So, for a man to want you enough to marry you means you have some worth.
The same reason women will marry and get divorced just so that it be on record that they had once gotten married; simply because, a husband is a woman's greatest laurel.

NwaAmaikpe:



No.
The main reason most women want to get married is because being married is a woman's greatest bragging right.

Ever asked yourself why Linda Ikeji is under pressure from her parents to bring a man home or wondered why Tiwa dreams to be wifed despite having a son and bragging on camera about being 'made'?
Ask yourself why Toyin Lawani got married to someone his other wives consider a deadbeat.
Etinosa Idemudia, Uche Ogbodo or Nkechi Blessing?

A woman goes through life with only one constant need; to be wanted.
They also fight one battle all through life, an imaginary competition with other ladies.
This is the reason women give out their phone numbers to strangers and the same reason a woman will spread her legs for any man who can so make her feel desired and worthier than other women.

To women, for a man to want you enough to marry you means he has put you above the other women he knows.
This alone has solved their basic need of being wanted and helped them win their major battle of competing with other women.

Being married means she won.
It doesn't matter for how long, what matters is that she has once won and this is the same reason women will marry and get divorced just so that it be on record that they had once gotten married; simply because, a husband is a woman's greatest laurel.

That's why women remain in unhappy marriages and would rather die in it than walk away so that they can still stand with their head high in front of other women.

I may be wrong, but I look up to other elders to set me right.

bepositive11:


Not all women give out their number to strangers and spread their legs any how. It's women with low sense of self worth who do that.

Do you think all married women are happy? Women in marriage often go through really tough times more often than not.

Women earning well with high sense of self worth feel that they don't need a man. If they decide to be with a man, they have very high standards.

On the other hand, a woman who doesn't earn well with low self worth will go for any man with money.

siofra:
As a Nigerian girl I don't know if I want to get married someday but I sure don't want kids.

bepositive11:


Not all women give out their number to strangers and spread their legs any how. It's women with low sense of self worth who do that.

Do you think all married women are happy? Women in marriage often go through really tough times more often than not.

Women earning well with high sense of self worth feel that they don't need a man. If they decide to be with a man, they have very high standards.

On the other hand, a woman who doesn't earn well with low self worth will go for any man with money.

siofra:
As a Nigerian girl I don't know if I want to get married someday but I sure don't want kids.

Lovelyperson:

Please may I ask why u don't want children?

iamyemiakins:
Some women get married and then divorce in no time just to bear the man's (sur)name and carry it for life. Sounds odd uhn?

Different strokes for different folks!

Ikwerelastborn:

Social media talk to sound woke while you're secretly wishing