Ikwerelastborn:
You may think most women want to get married because of the society or due to biologic clock,yes you may be right to some extent but no entirely .Most women want to get married for the sole benefit that comes with it. Do you know what it means that as a married woman you have no headache as per how bills are paid and no worries of how you're going to pay for food , rent and the rest .
Financial security is top on the least on why women want to marry as I had a little encounter with a female friend of mine who has been looking for a man she even asked me to match make her if I see someone well to do .Well she specifically told me how she plans relocating and working abroad ,earning more pay and by that time she won't be needing a man because according to her she will now be able to fend fully for herself.

The saying that when a man makes money he feels he needs a woman and when a woman makes money she feels she doesn't need a man is largely true ,know this and know peace .

Lalasticlala mynd44 front page

this thing called marriage scares me

LisaAnne:
this thing called marriage scares me

you can always break it off when it gets scary , not all marriages are meant to work.

Ikwerelastborn:

Thats what other guys before you also said till they learnt, you will still grow up to learn, I guess you're still in the university I guess

No mind am..
The guy na small boy..
E go clear for me eye soon...

heniford2:
otu nne gi dia too chineke mop gi oku see me oh which witch u be iwu, zombie idiotic idiot

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Why are you Wailing nah??
I go come continue na eme GI obi ojoo tomorrow morning..
Lol..
Ara gbabuo nne gi..

ABANGWABOI:



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Why are you Wailing nah??
I go come continue na eme GI obi ojoo tomorrow morning..
Lol..
Ara gbabuo nne gi..

onye ibiribe dika gi I di zuzu otutu kill you dia

BuyAndSellStuff:
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You must have comprehension problems because everything you said from your 2nd paragraph is exactly what he said.

Read it again. He said that marriage is a woman's biggest bragging right, I'm telling you that it is not true. For women who have their own money, marriage is not a priority or a bragging right.

And if more married women had their own money, divorce rates would be much higher

Ikwerelastborn:

Your explanation still boils down to the same thing I'm saying

There's a difference.

Not all women want the same things in life. Women with their own money have different needs compared to women with no money.

bepositive11:


Read it again. He said that marriage is a woman's biggest bragging right, I'm telling you that it is not true. For women who have their own money, marriage is not a priority or a bragging right.

And if more married women had their own money, divorce rates would be much higher

Chei, Jesus!

Oga/Madam, the bolded is exactly what he said. Read his ENTIRE comment again but this time, without the stick of weed.

Thanks.

I don't blame the women.

If most men see a lady that will care for all or half of the bills in this economy, won't we marry?

Ikwerelastborn:
You may think most women want to get married because of the society or due to biologic clock,yes you may be right to some extent but no entirely .Most women want to get married for the sole benefit that comes with it. Do you know what it means that as a married woman you have no headache as per how bills are paid and no worries of how you're going to pay for food , rent and the rest .
Financial security is top on the least on why women want to marry as I had a little encounter with a female friend of mine who has been looking for a man she even asked me to match make her if I see someone well to do .Well she specifically told me how she plans relocating and working abroad ,earning more pay and by that time she won't be needing a man because according to her she will now be able to fend fully for herself.

The saying that when a man makes money he feels he needs a woman and when a woman makes money she feels she doesn't need a man is largely true ,know this and know peace .

Lalasticlala mynd44 front page

I am a lady. Pains me to say you are right to a large extent. A lot of poor ladies see marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme

However our boys do this too. This is the same reason why our boys marry foreign women so they have no headache as per how bills are paid and no worries of how you're going to pay for food , rent and the rest . (I cant understand why they cannot upgrade and marry much younger foreign women, I'm all for interracial relationships but why go for the grannies? If you want to eat a frog, eat a very large frog.)

This is a general disease in developing countries.

Ikwerelastborn:
You may think most women want to get married because of the society or due to biologic clock,yes you may be right to some extent but no entirely .Most women want to get married for the sole benefit that comes with it. Do you know what it means that as a married woman you have no headache as per how bills are paid and no worries of how you're going to pay for food , rent and the rest .
Financial security is top on the least on why women want to marry as I had a little encounter with a female friend of mine who has been looking for a man she even asked me to match make her if I see someone well to do .Well she specifically told me how she plans relocating and working abroad ,earning more pay and by that time she won't be needing a man because according to her she will now be able to fend fully for herself.

The saying that when a man makes money he feels he needs a woman and when a woman makes money she feels she doesn't need a man is largely true ,know this and know peace .

Lalasticlala mynd44 front page

Like my ex once told me. The dream of every woman is to live large, hence they see marriage as a gateway in achievement that dream. Naija girls especially are sitting comfortably on this table

NwaAmaikpe:



No.
The main reason most women want to get married is because being married is a woman's greatest bragging right.
A broke widow or an adulterous divorcee has more socio-cultural respect than a successful spinster.

Ever asked yourself why Linda Ikeji is under pressure from her parents to bring a man home or wondered why Tiwa dreams to be wifed despite having a son and bragging on camera about being 'made'?
Ask yourself why Toyin Lawani got married to someone his other wives consider a deadbeat.
Etinosa Idemudia, Uche Ogbodo or Nkechi Blessing?

A woman goes through life with only one constant need; to be wanted.
They also fight one battle all through life, an imaginary competition with other ladies.
This is the reason women give out their phone numbers to strangers; the same reason a woman will spread her legs for any man who can so make her feel desired and worthier than other women.
It also explains why a woman's biggest enemy is a woman.

To women, for a man to want you enough to marry you means he has put you above the other women he has come across.
This alone has solved their basic need of being wanted and helped them win their major battle of competing with other women.

So being married means she won.
It doesn't matter for how long, what matters is that she has once won and this is the same reason women will marry and get divorced just so that it be on record that they had once gotten married; simply because, a husband is a woman's greatest laurel.
Remember Adesuwa Sonia Ighalo bragging just a while ago about being the married one?

That's why women remain in unhappy marriages and would rather die in it than walk away.
The fact that they can still stand with their head high in front of other women is a victory and the satisfaction from it supercedes the pain of hopelessness that makes them wail secretly at home.

I may be wrong, but I look up to Lalasticlala and the other elders to set me right.

You've said it all.... You really hit the nail on the head .
You deserve a bottle of Heineken from me for this comment..... Just that I no get money

Godada:




[s]I agree with you on this however, the points you listed here isn't gender sensitive. Most men and women want this same thing: security. I should congratulate your lady friend because she is indeed a rare breed of lady. But what I didn't get from your conservation concerns child bearing. Does she intend to be in a civil union with the man and climb to the next social status then she can be on her way. How does she intend to be in relationship and still wanna to relocate? Kindly shed light on this issue before I lend my opinions here[/s]

you have brain, but you didn't use it in this comment of yours,

heniford2:
Expo 104 but I still doubt this because my girl is not like that

na so e take dey start, my girl it not like that, my girl is not like that, sometime she go disappoint you and her village people

DaInferno:
...am not marrying a woman who will leave me to take care of everything

wisdom

bepositive11:


There's a difference.

Not all women want the same things in life. Women with their own money have different needs compared to women with no money.

Women with their own money feel they dont need a man which i stated earlier

LisaAnne:
this thing called marriage scares me

Is a man who deserves to say this and not a woman who has nothing to worry about in the marriage

siofra:


Not every girl or woman wants kids. Thanks.

Yes only on social media but real life tells us otherwise

bepositive11:


Read it again. He said that marriage is a woman's biggest bragging right, I'm telling you that it is not true. For women who have their own money, marriage is not a priority or a bragging right.

And if more married women had their own money, divorce rates would be much higher

Nwaimikpe not op said marriage is woman's bragging right,do you have comprehension issues?

BuyAndSellStuff:


Chei, Jesus!

Oga/Madam, the bolded is exactly what he said. Read his ENTIRE comment again but this time, without the stick of weed.

Thanks.

Lol,the dude has comprehension issue , he probably mistakes another comment for the op

Lovelyperson:

Please may I ask why u don't want children?

I don't like children and they don't like me.

Ikwerelastborn:

Is a man who deserves to say this and not a woman who has nothing to worry about in the marriage

Really? Women have nothing to worry about in marriage? Unless she wants to be a full house wife which I don't plan on being

TheSourcerer:
you can always break it off when it gets scary , not all marriages are meant to work.

I'd rather not get married at all than break it off. Hopefully I don't marry the wrong person

LisaAnne:
I'd rather not get married at all than break it off. Hopefully I don't marry the wrong person

you shouldn't get married , or at least be subject to one person for life but then again successful marriages are a Bliss on Earth .Been with someone 'the right person' , makes this journey on this planet easier than walking alone .you thoughts?

NwaAmaikpe:



No.
The main reason most women want to get married is because being married is a woman's greatest bragging right.
A broke widow or an adulterous divorcee has more socio-cultural respect than a successful spinster.

Ever asked yourself why Linda Ikeji is under pressure from her parents to bring a man home or wondered why Tiwa dreams to be wifed despite having a son and bragging on camera about being 'made'?
Ask yourself why Toyin Lawani got married to someone his other wives consider a deadbeat.
Etinosa Idemudia, Uche Ogbodo or Nkechi Blessing?

A woman goes through life with only one constant need; to be wanted.
They also fight one battle all through life, an imaginary competition with other ladies.
This is the reason women give out their phone numbers to strangers; the same reason a woman will spread her legs for any man who can so make her feel desired and worthier than other women.
It also explains why a woman's biggest enemy is a woman.

To women, for a man to want you enough to marry you means he has put you above the other women he has come across.
This alone has solved their basic need of being wanted and helped them win their major battle of competing with other women.

So being married means she won.
It doesn't matter for how long, what matters is that she has once won and this is the same reason women will marry and get divorced just so that it be on record that they had once gotten married; simply because, a husband is a woman's greatest laurel.
Remember Adesuwa Sonia Ighalo bragging just a while ago about being the married one?

That's why women remain in unhappy marriages and would rather die in it than walk away.
The fact that they can still stand with their head high in front of other women is a victory and the satisfaction from it supercedes the pain of hopelessness that makes them wail secretly at home.

I may be wrong, but I look up to Lalasticlala and the other elders to set me right.

spot on

TheSourcerer:
you shouldn't get married , or at least be subject to one person for life but then again successful marriages are a Bliss on Earth .Been with someone 'the right person' , makes this journey on this planet easier than walking alone .you thoughts?

Bro come out straight and collect the damn number, I see u fuckiing her within 1 month of meeting

This i have seen

Ikwerelastborn:

Bro come out straight and collect the damn number, I see u fuckiing her within 1 month of meeting

This i have seen

Ridiculous she is precious and should be approached in that manner , thank you for interfering though

Ikwerelastborn:

Bro come out straight and collect the damn number, I see u fuckiing her within 1 month of meeting

This i have seen

you cannot be redpilled and say something like this na