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Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by showafrica(m): 12:45am On Jun 27, 2021 |
blekko101: The greatest challenge of a man in a modern day is been broke and having Buhari as your president. Nothing else. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Skillsnigeria: 12:48am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by neyyoh: 12:48am On Jun 27, 2021 |
You shouldn't have these problems in Nigeria, there's no direct western influence to allow gynocentric views to grow. However , the Nigerian man takes order's from the white man even though the closest European country about 3k miles away. So whatever happens in the west must happen in Nigeria. This is just the beginning and i can guarantee you that the women are going to throw you guy's under the bus . Bookmark this comment and check in a few years. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by ChiefSosa(m): 12:49am On Jun 27, 2021 |
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Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Fiscus105(m): 12:50am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Ayo2004: (Though many of you which to settle down but, ordinary to feed ur single mouth, .....u no fit) And when you get to age 60, you become "baba n dagbe"(dad that leaves aloof) baba at 70 who sweeps, cooks and watches his clothes. By then to remarry will be tedious and hand of clock won't be able to turn back. Ask ur self why the popular saying goes.....responsible man. The phrase is loaded with meanings. Again go and read about Dino melaye recent post about remarry, I biliv you know he is multi millionaire What about FFK, he keep trying to have woman at home. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by illuminati4life: 12:51am On Jun 27, 2021 |
[b][/b]It is people like you that made peeps see NL like a joke and everything a kindergarten see everyone here... Very soon this forum would be seen as a children's playground... So sad... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Talkisneeded: 12:51am On Jun 27, 2021 |
This matter tire person jawee, but every gender has it disadvantage jawe,stream better song below tho |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by NaBanga: 12:55am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Every day Nigerians remind us all, that they are still close to animals in the jungle. Carry on. 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Ayo2004: 12:59am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Fiscus105:Na u Sabi.. The Dino Melaye and FFK u mentioned are living better lives than many married Nigerian men See as u are insinuating that the benefits of marriage is having someone to sweep and wash your clothes! Omo,una gullible gan I hope u know that there is a possibility that at 70,u might be divorced with children who hate you because your ex turned them against,you lost your job due to depression,sick without funds and you also have to wash and sweep by yourself Sheybi u want to talk scenario Anyways,I am not here to argue with u,If u think marriage is good,go marry,no be by force Let everybody do what he likes 32 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by wwwihy: 1:00am On Jun 27, 2021 |
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Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by rosalieene(f): 1:02am On Jun 27, 2021 |
And in another news, A man just beat his wife to death in Benin this night. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by LikeAking: 1:02am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Simp thread. |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Coldie(m): 1:03am On Jun 27, 2021 |
The only challenges of being a man is lack of money take it from me. A man without money can never be the man he really wants to be, he will just be a shadow of his true self 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Sazzay(m): 1:07am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Wahala for man is just constant most especially for dis Baban Bolla republic 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by TheReposterShow(m): 1:07am On Jun 27, 2021 |
[quote author=Lambarry1 post=103126642]Fck as many of them without adding any strings and you will never have woman palaver. What if you don't want to be a fvck boy |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Mustiboy(m): 1:22am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by yemmie(m): 1:22am On Jun 27, 2021 |
I adore and respect women folks who are real ladies with brains and manners. Feminism /LGBT is a plan orchestrated as far back 1988 for the new millennium - The new World order. Men will be rendered 2nd class and the marriage institution is meant to be destroyed worldwide- the family system will be altered.. 3 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Fiscus105(m): 1:32am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Ayo2004: Neither I'm here to argue with you, I know you are talking base of ur age, ur gragra strength will fade away one day and if its fades? If ffk and dino keep trying to get woman after successful failure in marriage, how much less you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by samuelevans(m): 1:33am On Jun 27, 2021 |
this make me remember a woman, she make troubles wherever she found herself, even at the ATM Queue she loves to slap or embarrassed any man that comes her way, one funny thing, she will let you know she's a married woman that you dare not retaliate and some fools do support her for that, please how can you handle such woman? 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by WoundedLamb: 1:36am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Nice one. Actually, a man with a working class wife does not necessarily have to pay alimony. You pay if your wife does the home keeping while you work. So the fear of alimony does not really keep people from getting married anywhere. But yeah, some men in the western world don't want to get married just like some women don't want to as well. Having said that, the laws against domestic violence are not really gender specific. I don't know much about Nigeria but I believe a man hit by his wife has just as much right to sue her as a woman hit by her husband has to sue him. The question is, would the man's ego let him do that? I doubt this, especially in the African society where men front this super human personality. Even when he does, his fellow men would be the ones to make him feel like an idiot. Sad. The point here is, African men need to know they can't have it all. The subjective society will always try to protect the weaker one (operation Cameroon), and African men go to any length to make it clear their women are not equal with them. The whole idea of men being the superior gender while the women are the submissive ones who are supposed to be respectful only puts women in a position where they're the ones that need protection; the "endangered specifie". But the reality is, you as a man can be hit, abused, etc. by a woman. You just need to come down off your high horse to get as much protection. As for me, if any woman hits or abuses my friend or brother, I'd drag her ass to the grave. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by AOresources: 1:43am On Jun 27, 2021 |
Hmmm.. |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by adekS1(m): 1:46am On Jun 27, 2021 |
This your write up is totally true,l av to write on this soon, maybe can develop mine from where you stop. I recently had an altercation with a married woman after she bash my car,the next thing she started calling me names,l didnt count it, after exchanging few words I discovered she is moving close to me in form of wanting to hit me,straight away l told her look,l won't stop you from hitting me but note this very well. I won't attack u first but if u hit me at least small first l will beat you blue and black,l won't even think you are a woman.because for you to av the effrontery to feel you can hit me that means you are also ready for the consequences of your action.thereafter l notice she stylishly moved bck a bit.. And pls l hate this statement passionately now.dont want ppl to say it near me again..AREN'T YOU A MAN.. That statement is greatly being use to play on men intelligence and emotions and also rob them on their right and privileges 40 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by bepositive11: 2:01am On Jun 27, 2021 |
blekko101: I agree. No one should abuse anyone -- be it emotionally, physically, sexually. Whether male or female If a man gets hit by a woman, he should walk away though. A man can easily kill a woman with one hit because a man is a lot stronger than women physically. The converse is highly unlikely 2 Likes |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by addictiv(m): 2:04am On Jun 27, 2021 |
The truth is people are beginning to see feminists for what they are. I pity women because they are creating a world where men see women as their competitors and equals, men no longer want to care about women, before a man will give up his seat to help a lady but these days very few men will. The problem with wanting to be the same as men is you have to fend for yourself in the cold like a man does. No longer men protecting women, or giving the easy tasks to women. women are now being forced to become accountable for their actions. No longer women getting the easy way out for offences that would see men suffer harder consequences .Before it was men shouldn't hit women, because women were seen as weak and vulnerable now it is no human should hit another human because feminism claims women are as strong as men. Patriarchy protected women while men did all the hard work of building society while women maintained it.. however believe it or not feminism will protect men and force men to do something that they have never done since man existed and that put themselves and their wellbeing first before that of women. Women asked for equality and equality they shall have. 37 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by poshestmina(f): 2:09am On Jun 27, 2021 |
LadyRosa: This is the biggest ,worst , stupidest post I have read in a while! Don't hit a man if you don't want to be beaten black and blue. Sit this one out Nne. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by bepositive11: 2:11am On Jun 27, 2021 |
addictiv: Good points but you have to understand the other side. Most of these feminists are traumatized. Whether growing up seeing their mother get physically abused by men, or them themselves getting physically or sexually abused by men. Naturally, men should protect women but sadly, a lot of men abuse the power that they have over women. Men are physically stronger than women Now, the traumatized woman becomes scared to show her vulnerability. She puts up a strong front so that she won't get taken advantage of. Most of these toxic men are intimidated by women who appear strong, so it works. The sad part though is that healthy men are weakened by a woman's femininity. They want to protect women's vulnerability, but since these traumatized women hide it, they don't get to take advantage of non-toxic men's protection 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by Ogbuabana: 2:22am On Jun 27, 2021 |
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Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by bepositive11: 2:26am On Jun 27, 2021 |
WoundedLamb: I was impressed while reading your comment but your last sentence gave me shivers It's not right for anyone to hit another, but if that should happen to you, it's better for you to be the matured one and walk away. After all, you can easily k*ll someone who's weaker than you. It won't be a fair fight I don't know why some women dare to challenge men stronger than them. I'm pretty sure that they come from dysfunctional families though 1 Like |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by dingbang(m): 2:36am On Jun 27, 2021 |
bepositive11:it is kill or be killed bro. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Challenges Of Being A Man In Our 'modern' Society by addictiv(m): 2:38am On Jun 27, 2021 |
bepositive11: What people forget is with power comes responsibilities, Patriarchy gave men power because men had to go out and build the society, fight wars, invent things, create government and kingdoms and some of them abused it. However the heart of this system was not to subjugate women rather to create a world where women and children could thrive and become better versions of themselves and enjoy the freedoms that they do now. However Women want power not because they want to build society, not because they want to create a better world for men and children, but rather they want power for themselves. But like I said with power comes responsibilities and its the responsibility part that leaves an unsavory taste in the mouth of feminists because they only think about the benefits without preparing to be held accountable for the responsibilities that come with power. So now you have women become the major income earner and head of the house and yet complain about their man that sits at home all day taking care of the homefront. You have women wanting to be given top critical corporate positions and yet want maternity leave that will see them out of duty for months. You see women wanting to head government but want the position to be offered to them on a platter rather than contesting like men do for it. Men have done an excellent job at shielding women from the harsh realities of life and bearing the brunt alone. However time has come for men to let go, and allow women hold the reins and bear the weight and see what's its really like to truly be in charge. It's only then can both genders truly appreciate that we are not the same and that we need each other to play our different roles in order to survive as a species. 33 Likes 6 Shares |
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