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efficiencie:
Why should any sane rich guy marry to have someone to cook, wash etc. He can hire someone to handle all that. As for sex, there are tons and tons of broke ladies willing to be baby mamas for much much less! Companionship is now for sale and due to the overwhelming supply of unmarried and single parents out there companionship may be very cheap...much cheaper than marriage!

NairalandProf:
This is a commendable writeup!

Let me answer you from another angle as a Professor of Nairaland Forum.

Women are not above the law when it comes to assaulting a man. If there is ample evidence that you acted in self-defense, you are not likely to be arrested in such a scenario.

In fact, if a woman is the aggressor and physically attacks you, not only are you legally justified in responding with an appropriate amount of force, but moreover, you can have her arrested, at least in theory.

I say at least in theory because sadly, many police officers might be hesitant to effectuate such an arrest unless of course you have sustained undeniable injuries.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Lol..
I remember when I dey do NYSC for UYO..
One day I dey bus from PH to UYO..
Driver come dey drive nonsense, na em I caution am in a humane way..
Em no reply me but some young ladies started ranting that i should leave the driver to drive as he likes and bla bla bla..
Naso me blast Dem.. Dem blast me.. naso we exchange words till we reach ikot ekpene, almost close to UYO as the journey continued..
We were only 3 men in the bus excluding the driver...
The ladies were all shocked that I didn't stomach their abuse but returned fire for fire.. I cursed their mothers and fathers.. their stinky cunts and whatnots...
Lol..
E shock Dem.. just as the poster said, when you keep mute, it has a way of making you depressed in the long run, abuse of any kind do affect mental health..
And I would never have anyone either male or female abuse me..
Dem think say I go form gentle man corper.. cos I was wearing the crested polo abi na verst.. me no send.. I Sabi speak all three languages, I curse Dem for hausa, igbo, Yoruba, Pidgin and also fluent English language.. plus small Ibibio too..
I got nothing to prove to them cos I no my self worth, i engaged them thoroughly and defeated all of the ladies in the bus in the war of words.. cos my insults was So Vulgar and laced with Enough body shaming, height shaming, skin shaming and sexual organ curses.. lol..
And I use to travel with that company frequently every two weeks to UYO..
Anytime I meet some of them for park or Bus, don't even recognize them.. I no send anybody na Dem go dey hail me.. Corper Corper.. I go say, do i know you?? Dem go say.. you remember that Bus that day..
Dem go laugh come tell me say make I take am easy say my blood too dey hot..
My dear..
E come be say woman slap me..
I go kill am and go to jail with a smiling face.. Wallahi, I go annihilate am..
Nobody has the Monopoly of madness..

pocohantas:
Challenges of being a man in 2021 is that you are encouraged not to fight women. One would think that has in anyway stopped you guys from being one of the most aggressive and loudmouthed black men in the world.

Go and fight them na. Who is stopping you?
No be you and your fellow werey women go fight? I can’t even remember the last time I saw people fight. We are cool over here.

Fiscus105:
And when you get to age 60, you become "baba n dagbe"(dad that leaves aloof) baba at 70 who sweeps, cooks and watches his clothes.

By then to remarry will be tedious and hand of clock won't be able to turn back.

Ask ur self why the popular saying goes.....responsible man. The phrase is loaded with meanings.

Again go and read about Dino melaye recent post about remarry, I biliv you know he is multi millionaire

What about FFK, he keep trying to have woman at home

cooltola:
Challenge of being a woman in today society- if u are not married at certain age, u know how far.
If u are married and you have not given birth, you know how far.
If you have given birth, when are you going to have another child?
If u are successful in Naija , u must be sleeping with someone which is very false
If u talk back or fight back when u are being harassed, then u are considered rude and disrespectful.
It is okay to take a cheating boyfriend or husband because at the end of the day boys will be boys- a woman has to sit down and deal with such men because boys will be boys.
If u born and the father of your kids run away , then u forced to take of your kid on your own.
It is not easy for a woman also . My advise to young women, avoid toxic and irresponsible men so your life will not be miserable. Your life will be better

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

frozen70:
You guys should learn to understand women

They have a complex nature

Only men who care to understand can survive them

efficiencie:
Why should any sane rich guy marry to have someone to cook, wash etc. He can hire someone to handle all that. As for sex, there are tons and tons of broke ladies willing to be baby mamas for much much less! Companionship is now for sale and due to the overwhelming supply of unmarried and single parents out there companionship may be very cheap...much cheaper than marriage!

LadyRosa:
Hmm...

The challenges of being a man in a modern world is the aftermath of precautionary measures the west and other civilized communities has put in place to reduce the brutal roles men played in women's lives in time past. Women have always been at the receiving end of men's egotistical excesses.

" Na woman she be leave am", may also be a reverse psychological to restrain men who on a normal day would never fight their fellow men standing on the street. I have seen men argue at moto parks, swear and curse each other, flex muscles as to what damage they are likely cause to each other, only for them to settle their disputes, go home and beat up their wives, sisters for issues as little as not putting enough meat on their meals.

Funny thing is many Nigeria men will always defend any brutality that will affect their mothers and sisters from their gender, but will want to exercise same thing to other people's female gender. If the thing dey vex you if them beat your mother like thief, why you come won beat another person pikin like thief. Talk about hypocrisy.
Una just won hustle, _4ck, let the woman born, If she no born push am comot carry another, beat them if them talk pass their mouth like the old days?! Na this modern times has really set a good precedence, and in no distant times I see pro women laws sweeping over the entire black continent. That time to do anyhow because say Una get _preek Don pass. These Era olosho dey slaughter billionaires like chicken...that fear e be like say e don dey comot for this generation of women body. After all Agbaya wey expose him big hairy white blockus for small girl hand gats no complain if she set the 'bush' on fire when the _preek 'spit' for her body.

I'm not here to advocate for women who throw the first punch, it's insane to want to fight that kind of battle, but we all know that men usually, more often throw the first punches. You all want a woman who don't nag, who swallow your _bullshiit just so the avoid those punches, you know you just want to get away with being a bully, messing up and expecting the emotional hurt to be swallowed like it's nothing BUT, you can't take half of what you dish if the roles are changed.

Guess what? That time is long gone.
Now women get to _4ck and cheat even better than you do. And you now get to wail and gnash your teeth all over the media. Now you get to open threads lamenting on how we sleep around and why you're gonna opt for being a baby papa as if you still gats to get away with it. Boy, you go Stull hustle bring money for your children and your baby mama go still squeeze some from the money to look good enough to _4ck another man. And if you tlak too much or won get strong head, at your old age when your bones are frail and your _preek looks like the hopeless remains of an overgrilled hotdog, we may get to decide if your children visits you or not.

You guys should stop crying foul, women have been through hell and still trying to manage their lives amidst societal expectations. From being called olosho even if their hustle legit, to being called old hag, then Evening newspapers even to the good ones who's dedicated their lives to their careers, to all manner of demeaning names, yet e no do Una. Make Una rest abeg.

Next complainant please!

Ayo2004:
True..my biggest problem is that no matter how guilty the women are,they always play the victim
How many men cope in long-periods relationships like marriage baffles me,even staying with my mother gave me problems

I think I will just make money,travel round the round,eat well,have fun and when I am like 40,choose one baby mama to have a child with

No be me dem go kill with high BP

Fiscus105:
For a young man to settle down, buying neccesity which will make wife comfortable is a problem

I pity young lads who are planning to settle down.

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

frozen70:
You guys should learn to understand women

They have a complex nature

Only men who care to understand can survive them

dingbang:
I'm just happy nairalanders are realizing the manipulative nature of women as explained by Esther Vilar in her book titled "The manipulated Man".


Men, please, take care of yourselves first. As you work, fend for yourself. That woman you think is the weaker sex that you wish to please will never think twice of pleasing you with her own money.


And if a woman abuses you with words, just let her be. But if she becomes physical, please do well to reset her life existence.

ibedun:
RUBBISH!!!

In the west a huge population of men and women are living peacefully on their own. It is already happening in Nigeria.
Dino and FFK will fail again- some men cannot handle the madness of modern women.

FORWARDEVERLY:
Lol..
I remember when I dey do NYSC for UYO..
One day I dey bus from PH to UYO..
Driver come dey drive nonsense, na em I caution am in a humane way..
Em no reply me but some young ladies started ranting that i should leave the driver to drive as he likes and bla bla bla..
Naso me blast Dem.. Dem blast me.. naso we exchange words till we reach ikot ekpene, almost close to UYO as the journey continued..
We were only 3 men in the bus excluding the driver...
The ladies were all shocked that I didn't stomach their abuse but returned fire for fire.. I cursed their mothers and fathers.. their stinky cunts and whatnots...
Lol..
E shock Dem.. just as the poster said, when you keep mute, it has a way of making you depressed in the long run, abuse of any kind do affect mental health..
And I would never have anyone either male or female abuse me..
Dem think say I go form gentle man corper.. cos I was wearing the crested polo abi na verst.. me no send.. I Sabi speak all three languages, I curse Dem for hausa, igbo, Yoruba, Pidgin and also fluent English language.. plus small Ibibio too..
I got nothing to prove to them cos I no my self worth, i engaged them thoroughly and defeated all of the ladies in the bus in the war of words.. cos my insults was So Vulgar and laced with Enough body shaming, height shaming, skin shaming and sexual organ curses.. lol..
And I use to travel with that company frequently every two weeks to UYO..
Anytime I meet some of them for park or Bus, don't even recognize them.. I no send anybody na Dem go dey hail me.. Corper Corper.. I go say, do i know you?? Dem go say.. you remember that Bus that day..
Dem go laugh come tell me say make I take am easy say my blood too dey hot..
My dear..
E come be say woman slap me..
I go kill am and go to jail with a smiling face.. Wallahi, I go annihilate am..
Nobody has the Monopoly of madness..

Cnach:
Prof u have just said nothing
The arrest is not even the problem but I tell u for free what u would get from people around u will be horrific than spending a day in police cell.
They would bad mouth like say u kill person

stanech:
There are plenty of reasons to hot a woman but we just don't do it.. Women are becoming jerks because they know this.

Divinehealer:
Finally, a page dedicated to cry babies.

Crazychris:
share me the video abeg

buzorcharles:
Most self defence ends up been classified as abuse to woman if no concrete evidence especially video evidence is not presented. That's why some women hates to be filmed so that they can cry abused even after been the oppressor here

Pharaoh4rin:
There's nothing complex about women. They are allowed by gentlemen to have their ways doesn't make them complex. The word "gentleman" is designed to relegate a man to a controlled situation. It's a crap and nonsense.

frozen70:
You guys should learn to understand women

They have a complex nature

Only men who care to understand can survive them

dingbang:
I'm just happy nairalanders are realizing the manipulative nature of women as explained by Esther Vilar in her book titled "The manipulated Man".


Men, please, take care of yourselves first. As you work, fend for yourself. That woman you think is the weaker sex that you wish to please will never think twice of pleasing you with her own money.


And if a woman abuses you with words, just let her be. But if she becomes physical, please do well to reset her life existence.

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

stanech:
There are plenty of reasons to hot a woman but we just don't do it.. Women are becoming jerks because they know this.

Hathor5: