₦airaland Forum

Hathor5:
Their challenge is how to fight women.

I am not surprised this generation of men has nothing to be proud of.

MNDY:
I have no RIP to waste on any "gentle"man who gets killed by a woman because of leave-am-na-woman. Before it even gets to that, every man should at least be no-nonsense natured. That could even save him.

1EmmyKay:
Let me continue mine from here, because they know this they will misbehave, nag can cheat and even slap a man knowing fully well they are weaker and the man wouldn't dare do them anything because they're woman. But why really!?? Are men spirits? We are humans too blood runs in us hurtful words and painful actions get to us too. This thread reminds me of the case of the Chidinma Lady that killed Atiga the Billionaire Ceo. Am very sure he's aware and seen women as the weaker vessels and thought not to hit a woman even if he first were to be hit. Cos I never did hear in the news he beat his wife or any lady, and that's why he was killed by the weaker vessel, like gosh. He will think the whole slap and beat chidinma giving him at first was sex pre-intimacy, and even if it wasn't he's not going to hit her she's a woman, till the midget went to bring knife and stabbed the idiot. We men necessarily shouldn't hit a woman but we can dare them, rage make them fear us, walk away, make them seen as trash, they will humbly respect and fear us. And not be seen as weaklings and commit evil cause pain underneath.

LadyRosa:
[s]Hmm...

The challenges of being a man in a modern world is the aftermath of precautionary measures the west and other civilized communities has put in place to reduce the brutal roles men played in women's lives in time past. Women have always been at the receiving end of men's egotistical excesses.

" Na woman she be leave am", may also be a reverse psychological to restrain men who on a normal day would never fight their fellow men standing on the street. I have seen men argue at moto parks, swear and curse each other, flex muscles as to what damage they are likely cause to each other, only for them to settle their disputes, go home and beat up their wives, sisters for issues as little as not putting enough meat on their meals.

Funny thing is many Nigeria men will always defend any brutality that will affect their mothers and sisters from their gender, but will want to exercise same thing to other people's female gender. If the thing dey vex you if them beat your mother like thief, why you come won beat another person pikin like thief. Talk about hypocrisy.
Una just won hustle, _4ck, let the woman born, If she no born push am comot carry another, beat them if them talk pass their mouth like the old days?! Na this modern times has really set a good precedence, and in no distant times I see pro women laws sweeping over the entire black continent. That time to do anyhow because say Una get _preek Don pass. These Era olosho dey slaughter billionaires like chicken...that fear e be like say e don dey comot for this generation of women body. After all Agbaya wey expose him big hairy white blockus for small girl hand gats no complain if she set the 'bush' on fire when the _preek 'spit' for her body.

I'm not here to advocate for women who throw the first punch, it's insane to want to fight that kind of battle, but we all know that men usually, more often throw the first punches. You all want a woman who don't nag, who swallow your _bullshiit just so the avoid those punches, you know you just want to get away with being a bully, messing up and expecting the emotional hurt to be swallowed like it's nothing BUT, you can't take half of what you dish if the roles are changed.

Guess what? That time is long gone.
Now women get to _4ck and cheat even better than you do. And you now get to wail and gnash your teeth all over the media. Now you get to open threads lamenting on how we sleep around and why you're gonna opt for being a baby papa as if you still gats to get away with it. Boy, you go Stull hustle bring money for your children and your baby mama go still squeeze some from the money to look good enough to _4ck another man. And if you tlak too much or won get strong head, at your old age when your bones are frail and your _preek looks like the hopeless remains of an overgrilled hotdog, we may get to decide if your children visits you or not.

You guys should stop crying foul, women have been through hell and still trying to manage their lives amidst societal expectations. From being called olosho even if their hustle legit, to being called old hag, then Evening newspapers even to the good ones who's dedicated their lives to their careers, to all manner of demeaning names, yet e no do Una. Make Una rest abeg.

Next complainant please![/s]

Fiscus105:
Neither I'm here to argue with you, I know you are talking base of ur age, ur gragra strength will fade away one day and it fades?

If ffk and dino keep trying to get woman after successful failure in marriage, how much less you.

1EmmyKay:
Let me continue mine from here, because they know this they will misbehave, nag can cheat and even slap a man knowing fully well they are weaker and the man wouldn't dare do them anything because they're woman. But why really!?? Are men spirits? We are humans too blood runs in us hurtful words and painful actions get to us too. This thread reminds me of the case of the Chidinma Lady that killed Atiga the Billionaire Ceo. Am very sure he's aware and seen women as the weaker vessels and thought not to hit a woman even if he first were to be hit. Cos I never did hear in the news he beat his wife or any lady, and that's why he was killed by the weaker vessel, like gosh. He will think the whole slap and beat chidinma giving him at first was sex pre-intimacy, and even if it wasn't he's not going to hit her she's a woman, till the midget went to bring knife and stabbed the idiot. We men necessarily shouldn't hit a woman but we can dare them, rage make them fear us, walk away, make them seen as trash, they will humbly respect and fear us. And not be seen as weaklings and commit evil cause pain underneath.

Hassanmaye:
Lol us that don't want to marry nko? Let me tell you the truth even if I will marry I will do it because of social pressure, but honestly the way things are going I'm jot interested in that institution

LadyRosa:
Hmm...

The challenges of being a man in a modern world is the aftermath of precautionary measures the west and other civilized communities has put in place to reduce the brutal roles men played in women's lives in time past. Women have always been at the receiving end of men's egotistical excesses.

" Na woman she be leave am", may also be a reverse psychological to restrain men who on a normal day would never fight their fellow men standing on the street. I have seen men argue at moto parks, swear and curse each other, flex muscles as to what damage they are likely cause to each other, only for them to settle their disputes, go home and beat up their wives, sisters for issues as little as not putting enough meat on their meals.

Funny thing is many Nigeria men will always defend any brutality that will affect their mothers and sisters from their gender, but will want to exercise same thing to other people's female gender. If the thing dey vex you if them beat your mother like thief, why you come won beat another person pikin like thief. Talk about hypocrisy.
Una just won hustle, _4ck, let the woman born, If she no born push am comot carry another, beat them if them talk pass their mouth like the old days?! Na this modern times has really set a good precedence, and in no distant times I see pro women laws sweeping over the entire black continent. That time to do anyhow because say Una get _preek Don pass. These Era olosho dey slaughter billionaires like chicken...that fear e be like say e don dey comot for this generation of women body. After all Agbaya wey expose him big hairy white blockus for small girl hand gats no complain if she set the 'bush' on fire when the _preek 'spit' for her body.

I'm not here to advocate for women who throw the first punch, it's insane to want to fight that kind of battle, but we all know that men usually, more often throw the first punches. You all want a woman who don't nag, who swallow your _bullshiit just so the avoid those punches, you know you just want to get away with being a bully, messing up and expecting the emotional hurt to be swallowed like it's nothing BUT, you can't take half of what you dish if the roles are changed.

Guess what? That time is long gone.
Now women get to _4ck and cheat even better than you do. And you now get to wail and gnash your teeth all over the media. Now you get to open threads lamenting on how we sleep around and why you're gonna opt for being a baby papa as if you still gats to get away with it. Boy, you go Stull hustle bring money for your children and your baby mama go still squeeze some from the money to look good enough to _4ck another man. And if you tlak too much or won get strong head, at your old age when your bones are frail and your _preek looks like the hopeless remains of an overgrilled hotdog, we may get to decide if your children visits you or not.

You guys should stop crying foul, women have been through hell and still trying to manage their lives amidst societal expectations. From being called olosho even if their hustle legit, to being called old hag, then Evening newspapers even to the good ones who's dedicated their lives to their careers, to all manner of demeaning names, yet e no do Una. Make Una rest abeg.

Next complainant please!

Hassanmaye:
Are you married before

efficiencie:
So sad bro...so sad! Marriage was intended to bring support to both men and women but unfortunately it has been the source of oppression for many. Now many lead more peaceful lives being without a partner and exploring life rather than spending it with someone. Ladies don't know they will be the worse for it. Many men now can do without families. Nowadays some women have become so useless that if you get rich, hire several housekeepers and indulge in self procreation you can go for decades without realizing that you need a woman.
It's so unfortunate!

faceland:
Make enough money and you can slap as many women as you wish. In fact people would help you slap the women. Ask Bishop Oyedepo.

Anyway, I don't subscribe to beating a women with the same force and aggression you would a manly enemy because they are physically weak. Even if you want to use that type of force, know when to stop because it is not a fair fight. However, a good slap here and there to a female animal that deserves it is okay by me. The same way I wouldn't want to see an adult beat up a toddler with all their might.

LadyRosa:
Hmm...

The challenges of being a man in a modern world is the aftermath of precautionary measures the west and other civilized communities has put in place to reduce the brutal roles men played in women's lives in time past. Women have always been at the receiving end of men's egotistical excesses.

" Na woman she be leave am", may also be a reverse psychological to restrain men who on a normal day would never fight their fellow men standing on the street. I have seen men argue at moto parks, swear and curse each other, flex muscles as to what damage they are likely cause to each other, only for them to settle their disputes, go home and beat up their wives, sisters for issues as little as not putting enough meat on their meals.

Funny thing is many Nigeria men will always defend any brutality that will affect their mothers and sisters from their gender, but will want to exercise same thing to other people's female gender. If the thing dey vex you if them beat your mother like thief, why you come won beat another person pikin like thief. Talk about hypocrisy.
Una just won hustle, _4ck, let the woman born, If she no born push am comot carry another, beat them if them talk pass their mouth like the old days?! Na this modern times has really set a good precedence, and in no distant times I see pro women laws sweeping over the entire black continent. That time to do anyhow because say Una get _preek Don pass. These Era olosho dey slaughter billionaires like chicken...that fear e be like say e don dey comot for this generation of women body. After all Agbaya wey expose him big hairy white blockus for small girl hand gats no complain if she set the 'bush' on fire when the _preek 'spit' for her body.

I'm not here to advocate for women who throw the first punch, it's insane to want to fight that kind of battle, but we all know that men usually, more often throw the first punches. You all want a woman who don't nag, who swallow your _bullshiit just so the avoid those punches, you know you just want to get away with being a bully, messing up and expecting the emotional hurt to be swallowed like it's nothing BUT, you can't take half of what you dish if the roles are changed.

Guess what? That time is long gone.
Now women get to _4ck and cheat even better than you do. And you now get to wail and gnash your teeth all over the media. Now you get to open threads lamenting on how we sleep around and why you're gonna opt for being a baby papa as if you still gats to get away with it. Boy, you go Stull hustle bring money for your children and your baby mama go still squeeze some from the money to look good enough to _4ck another man. And if you tlak too much or won get strong head, at your old age when your bones are frail and your _preek looks like the hopeless remains of an overgrilled hotdog, we may get to decide if your children visits you or not.

You guys should stop crying foul, women have been through hell and still trying to manage their lives amidst societal expectations. From being called olosho even if their hustle legit, to being called old hag, then Evening newspapers even to the good ones who's dedicated their lives to their careers, to all manner of demeaning names, yet e no do Una. Make Una rest abeg.

Next complainant please!

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

onadana:
I was.But I lost my dear,loving,quiet and peaceful wife.It has being turbulent finding a replacement thus I decided to stay on my own for my sanity.

Ayo2004:
My guy,don't let any societal pressure kill u o..
Once u make enough money,nobody can force u into marriage,the constant nagging,financial enslavement,dull sex life after childbearing,emotional blackmail e.t.c is not worth your happiness
No let any person make u do wetin u no get mind 4

Ayo2004:
True..my biggest problem is that no matter how guilty the women are,they always play the victim
How many men cope in long-periods relationships like marriage baffles me,even staying with my mother gave me problems

I think I will just make money,travel round the round,eat well,have fun and when I am like 40,choose one baby mama to have a child with

No be me dem go kill with high BP

Hassanmaye:
I will take the bull by the horns, are tiu married before

poshestmina:
It's simple!
Never hit anyone if you don't want it reciprocated.

Domestic violence is bad irrespective of the gender.

I was in a market sometime ago ,this customer (a woman) was shouting and slapped the apprentice boy ,the boy withdrew back ,she charged towards him and slapped him again (the boy was almost in tears,still trying to explain to the woman ),the Oga came ,told him in igbo "Are you not a man ,why you dey zuzuaria" ,madam wanted to rush him again , believe me,the boy gave her brain resetting slaps and punches and none of us onlookers tried to intervene not even the Oga.

She left in shame with mostly women abusing her . Trust market women and their foul mouth .
" Na so you dey beat your husband for house"?
"You for wait fight na", "person like you no fit accommodate inlaws ,tufiakwa" .
She was even bleached so her face became really red .

Women are becoming aggressive and murderous these days.

Defend yourselves.

Your submission is apt, objective and devoid of any form of biase, irrespective of your gender . You just won me over

Fiscus105:
For a young man to settle down, buying neccesity which will make wife comfortable is a problem

I pity young lads who are planning to settle down.


N.b A 32 inch TV last year for 36k, has been skyrocketed to 60k, ditto all households properties.

Ayo2004:
Nope but wetin I don see no fit make me marry...
Nigeria gives me a lot of problems everyday,I won't let a woman add more to it in the name of marriage