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KiNg0G:
Damn! Jakumo

Just came across this post.

I think this guy should be nominated as the nairaland online simp of all time...feel free to post if you think you seen a post more stupid than this.

ubunja:
This is the summary of everything.

Men come to women for sex. Women come to men for resources (protection, money, etc).

If you can't quite grasp this, see how even a lady effortlessly grasped it.....

LIVINGICON:
Our mind is a microcosm of the universe. This mind is so powerful, more powerful than the physical body. MIND OVER MATTER is a body building slang that lay emphasis on that fact. During work outs, once the mind starts to fail or doubts itself, it most surely manifest in the physical. On some days you could do 4 sets 20 reps bench press, on other days you could do just merely 2 sets 20 reps. It's all in the mind.

That is why as a man, u must be very careful of what you read, listen to and see. U must guide your mind jealously. I have loads of motivational audio messages that i listen to daily to kickstart each day. To get myself pumped up. I hardly listen to news anymore cos they pollute the mind. Those shits drain the mind faster than leeches.


Success or failure it begins from the mind.

Have a wonderful week ahead.

sweet7oyin:
The best way to have power as a guy is to
Improve yourself daily both financially and physically
never deal with girls with low interest.
Deal with girls that like you
Don't go out of your way trying to impress a girl.

Women would always go for someone better
So just become someone better.

SOZINN:
I feels like this disparages all the travails, time and knowledge ploughed into the red pill by men who in some cases sought nothing more than the manumission of their kind. Even with all the freedom promises of feminism, there are still women who repudiate it. It might surprise you to know that there was an anti feminist page that Facebook erased not long ago, because it divulged the acrid verities behind the movement.

That page was created and operated by a woman. Given female nature, it is arduous to surmise that there are women who will not side with feminism. Talk less of initiating platforms to denounce and bring down the movement. Just as there are male anti-red pillers, I even came across a simp group once. The men there teach the tenets of the blue pill and the female members are literally extolled and idolized (you can ask their bank accounts).

If there are female anti feminists, then definitely we should be prepared to suffer some leeches. I think it is not cogent to collate the footprints or reverberations of the sisterhood to the brother hood, given the fact that feminism is more aged than the red pill. It does not mean that our community is not pullulating. We might not have heads in power (politics) yet or high places of predisposition but we are making progress.

Because we are in true partnership for the emancipation of men. And many are adopting these principles either by design or not.

Jimmy17:
Hi, I need advice...I noticed my course mate giving me the green light, before the that we've never had an interaction... following that we became friends...I've visited her place...she's also visited mine but nothing ever happened...so a day ago when we met, she refused to show me a document on her phone saying only her n her parents can see it...when we were speaking today on WhatsApp...the document came up...and I told her when we become close...she will show me...then she said "close to what extent, best friend?Boyfriend? ..and I said boyfriend...then she said we can only be best friends...and I told her that ' I have no interest in being her Best friend...then she asked me what I had interest in being...I told her boyfriend
.then she told me that she likes me but only as a friend.
My question is what do I do now?
What did I do wrong?
And how to prevent such from happening again?
@ubunja

CaveAdullam:
DAY 179, REDPILL 2021

Don't become what a woman want you to become. Don't allow yourself metamorphose into her desires. Allowing her to mould you according to her taste buds and discretion is tantamount to your downfall.

Mould yourself according to your apex value, top priorities and real life purposes.

The only way life can be sweet between you and a woman is when you as a man is happy, then she can be happy also.

If you fail to be happy and channel all sense of purpose towards her direction, you will become waned, and at the end she abandons you for a lively man.

Be careful and always make yourself happy.

False: happy wife, happy life.

True: happy man, happy life, then, happy woman.

Authority: be your sculptor.

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, our enemies are not women but rather our own unwillingness to conform to the standards of the redpill!

Zabiboy:
3/4
Now if you're struggling with controlling your sexual urge, try relating sex to an irritating/Nasty/ event( I remember Martinez call pvssy a dirty black hole or something ) That way, whenever you have that konji, your mind immediately flashes that irritating event that you linked sex to and you become turned off...
See it's gonna be hard but trust me, it works...

...typing

SOZINN:
I am earnestly hoping that hypergamy will suppress/eradicate this nonsense in coming times. Since some men and women are silly enough to give their children the cumber of poverty alleviation. How can someone who claims his exertions stem from rationality bring children into this world without ensuring that the grass is green.

I am of the viewpoint that men who have done so in the past are lamebrains as were their wives. This is not about "love" or whatever hooey feelings you have for each other, this is about the lives of your seeds and their buildout. If latter-day women are not prudent to implement hypergamy where it is terrifically requisite.

The government needs to excogitate a law or program that will impose and effectuate birth control in Nigeria. How many children are on the streets? :'(

MJBOLT:

Raalsalghul:
Not when they are blinded by family pressure and religious sentiments. Had this discussion with two of my colleagues recently: one was quoting bible verses for me, the other felt uncomfortable and left the room.

Most still don't know that the cause of the rampant unemployment being witnessed in Nigeria is because of over-population: a population that has quadrupled itself in the course of 50 years.

Make them continue!

DieRich5:
Family no get money still una born 8 children
The rate of poverty in Nigeria will mk girls turn hoes dats what Dem know how to do
If u wanna marry, no let her family use you take comot from poverty ND still be ungrateful

Kennyking1234:
Mafia manager no book can get more redpilled that... A book writing by an anonymous man of the underworld (mafia) - "V"
Its simple, short and straight to the point.

So far the only book I haven't been able to find the PDF version.

KiNg0G:
At the bolded I disagree bro.
I know the dude must have think he fûcked up... already friendzone and all so he ain't got no shot... that's why he didn't ask what's next he got to do.





Left to me...my opinion he still got a higher chance to taste that pucsy... even turn the game against her within 2seconds...if he gots his game right.



withdrawing himself from her.....will get him fûcked up the more..... trust me the girl is already expecting him to do that....like some guys will do I hate following the crowd.... they both course mate bro.... she gone put the words on some ears...how he rejected my nigga request...so he started behaving this way... That's how they all do bro...think.. it's a weak sign bro...


Jimmy17 to me If you still wanna do this




* Don't you delete her number... don't you dare avoid her bro... infacts she wants you to be a friend....so just be the besty bro for a limited period of time max 2weeks but don't over push it.. relaxed you gon upgrade later... just act cool.. whenever you around her.... behave like that discussion you had never happened.... this here is to cover your mess on that request you made. so as not to be seen as a weakling!.


* Be semi bossy
Bro trust me... you can't start acting all bossy on her right now bro.... you've already lost that chance... it should have been from the start.. so you gon do This gradually...so has not to give a bad impression your attitudes changed when she rejected you..... when I mean semi bossy or mildly...I want you to treat her like a normal guy.... when she chats you... take your time... but reply her...just the way you reply a normal guy....just be normal.. neutral..



*Get yourself a close girl from your department.

You both course mate bro......just imagine her seeing you with another girl almost all the time...in that same department...this week bro...after she turned down your request while your still friends on your spare time..... she be like.....damn this could be me.


* You got up your style my Gee.
You know how many Yahoo boys she de see everyday... rich folks full everywhere bro.especially tertiary institution....I ain't talking bout money here bro...young guys with money but few got activities as stated by an OG ..... you just got to stand out my Gee... be fun....act like you don't care around her.jusst do you.




With all of this my guy.....her brain go reset to default...

sweet7oyin:
The best way to have power as a guy is to
Improve yourself daily both financially and physically
never deal with girls with low interest.
Deal with girls that like you
Don't go out of your way trying to impress a girl.

Women would always go for someone better
So just become someone better.

Calibrator:
What is biologically right about giving birth to more than a man can comfortably cater for?


Is this also one of tenets of Redpill?

Emotionss:
Please ohhh in the name of all that is Right and pure Be proud of who you really are.

If you're a Redpiller be proud of it both online and offline.

If you're a SIMP please be proud of your Simping both online and offline.

Don't come and be forming Redpill online while in Truth you're nothing but a pathological SIMP in reality.

Redpill is not meant for everyone just as Salvation is not meant for everyone.... Those that are meant to be SAVED will be SAVED those meant to perish will certainly perish no matter what...

Raalsalghul:
Lol!

Na Green Pill!

Calibrator:
Because I don't understand how Redpillers will be hammering on how Redpill teaches a man self control and how to make reasonable logical decisions then go ahead to say it is perfectly permissible for a poor man to be spreading his seeds up and down when he can't cater for his offsprings because of one yeye innate biological compulsive disorder

Raalsalghul:
If I'm being honest, I'm tired of hearing the bold especially in the immediate the environment where we find ourselves: world's headquarter of poverty riddled with hyper inflation, serial devaluation, insecurity, potential famine, unemployment amongst a few others.

I'm not saying we should not try due to the aforementioned factors which could also set one back whether male or female as environment is also a big determinant of whether you succeed or not. I'm just saying we should try to narrow it down and include the Nigerian factor in our write ups: something which I feel we've consistently failed to do here (except for maybe Emmaodet). I might be wrong as I've not had the time to peruse through all the write ups.

I don't want to believe it's a one size fits all situation.

Prove this, prove that, high value man this, high value man that. Na this same Nigeria we dey where only about 5% of the population can boast of a thousand dollars in their bank accounts.

Raalsalghul:
Not when they are blinded by family pressure and religious sentiments. Had this discussion with two of my colleagues recently: one was quoting bible verses for me, the other felt uncomfortable and left the room.

Most still don't know that the cause of the rampant unemployment being witnessed in Nigeria is because of over-population: a population that has quadrupled itself in the course of 50 years.

Make them continue!

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] That's why Ubunja has preached for folks to learn Game...It not only makes things simpler...It creates a level playing field where ever you are...At whatever phase your life is at and so on..Some of us here to be honest don't have money and due to circumstances within or beyond them might never have a chance of the good life no matter how hard they try or how they "improve" themselves.But with Game, you get to level up increadibly fast..[/color]

TheDarkGamer:
Warning! You may find this post irrelevant.

Today makes it about a year since I've discovered the Redpill. It has changed my life in so many ways, not only concerning inter gender dynamics. I have a better mindset now, setting goals for myself and imbibing positive values in my life. The books have also increased my knowledge vastly on various topics.

I want to share my story and how I discovered this thread as a source of motivation to others. From my last message, most already know my age. I'm a teenager and I graduated from Secondary school last year. I understand that some people may not want to read this or tag it as a nuisance, it's alright. You can move on from here.

Before I start my narration, I'd like to give you a description of myself so that you can fully comprehend what I'm going to say here. I'm actually not tall in stature, not as short as you might imagine but I'm not of average height. I've come to terms with that because it's hereditary and my parents are not tall. I also have a fit body and people around me generally say I look handsome, so it seems so. The last thing I want to say here is that I'm actually quite intelligent, top 3 in class type. Now, this information may seem unnecessary to you reading this but if there was a way I could narrate this without saying all this, I would. I'm quite an introvert.

Now, I was thinking deeply recently and I discovered that the way our society right now affects not only adults but children and teenagers. Without finding out about the Redpill, my past experiences wouldn't have made any sense. Now, I have some knowledge about things, I'm still learning and I do my best to diplomatically share the red pill to boys around me and my ex-classmates. It's been going great actually. All this wouldn't have been possible without finding this redpill thread, I'm very grateful.

I started Junior Secondary school as a typical nerd. Always reading, hardly talking, and keeping to myself most times. Despite my serious attitude towards academics and my introverted life, I had always been attracted to girls. I even got attracted to one the first day I came to school. Before that, I had zero experiences with girls because primary school was all fun and games. I had kissed once though. Even after liking this particular girl that caught my attention, I didn't let it get to me. She was one of the finest girls in my set but she was not smart. I made her know though, she also developed feelings for me but some natural instinct back then made me act somewhat masculine. I wasn't intimidated by her, called her out if she offended me and I certainly did not put her on a pedestal. She still kept coming though.

I also had an abundance mentality back then ( I don't even understand it but I hated being tied down to a particular girl). Despite getting the interest of my crush, I started becoming aware of another girl. I had back then and it was that the girl must be fair complexioned and smart, height didn't really matter to me. She was fair and very smart but she was kind of "holy" and had good moral values. Now, it might be some evolutionary biology instinct but she was the one I was attracted to more. The first girl could be likened to a typically beautiful and packaged modern-day girl and the other an equally fine, calm, restrained, and intelligent girl for a better understanding of what I'm saying.

At the end of the day, I didn't give both of them any special attention and the whole set knew I wasn't committed to either of them. In the new class of JSS2, the pretty-but-no-brains girl went on to date the most masculine boy in our set at that time. He had muscles, a mustache, was a player, etc at the time (I know what you're probably thinking, yes this was JSS2). However, the church girl would go on liking me until I left the school without really expressing wholehearted interest until SS1.

Nothing really sexual happened in my set until JSS3 when I was the watchman for one of the boys who did shows (secondary school word for sexual activity like runs etc). At that point in time, I hadn't seen anything like it and I was very surprised. They kissed, he sucked her breasts, fingered her and she gave him head. It was mindblowing. Why did I share this? This kind of stuff happens even in primary school, so those of you that have kids, try to find out what's happening. Even till now, my parents do not have any idea of any of my sexual activities, they only see the serious student, reading and writing books part.

Nothing much happened in my Junior Secondary School except that in my JSS2, I fell for my senior. I simped in that one actually. She was double my height but I gave her snacks and love letters. Till today, I don't really know how she felt about me.

Fast forward to Senior Secondary School, I changed schools to another expensive private school, but this one was way worse in terms of freedom. The old school was a Christian school and they made religion a focus of the school's tenets apart from academics. This tamed most students, there were few situations of "shows" between students. But now in my new school, things were a lot different. It was bigger, had more social events, teachers were not strict outside the classroom, etc. I had my old mentality about being good and all and when I arrived, I couldn't deal with the attention and I snapped. I came late in the third term and my new class girls started flocking around me. It got to my head and I didn't even socialize with the boys much and that haunted me till I left the school. I started becoming more interested in girls and had my first shows within a week of arriving. I lost all feelings for the girl and smashed (not sex) four more times until the novelty wore off. Girls began to cool their interest and most boys were jealous and hated me.

A quick word of advice: Please if you have kids in secondary school or you have relatives, make sure that they don't get in the bad books of the top dogs in the class. I mean those boys that usually run the set and have the attention of all the girls, they are tall, strong and they excel in sports. They don't have to socialize with them but just be diplomatic. If they owe you, your stay will be smooth. I'm talking about boarding school. They don't flog nowadays so apart from suspension and expulsion, you can't really make them suffer a good punishment if you report them. They will come for you in subtle but painful ways. Mine was heartbreaking and I almost left the school. They took my shoes before school or assembly in the morning, stole my keys and took things from me, poured toothpaste in my uniform, etc. It was bad.

I also refused to stick to a particular girl this time too. However, this began to go south from here. Interacting with others and watching movies and series that pedestalized females and made them seem like the prize began to have its effect on me. It felt wrong to not date girls after doing shows with them and I had to treat them like angels even if they did wrong. That's why you're not supposed to slap girls or shout at them even if they do the same to you. And you know how it is, the girls are more united than boys and the moment you offend one, the rest are our for you. Boys don't even make matters easy because some will support girls. Please let's try to change this mindset in our children and the people we know.

I cruised my way through SS1. In SS2, my classmates pressured me to date this junior girl that was in SS1 and I almost did. She was what you'll call a hoe. She had done shows with numerous boys, even her seniors. I actually had no problem with it and we began to flow. However, I noticed she was still interested in her classmate who had dated her thrice and dumped her. (You see that red pill theory applying here). I couldn't deal with it and I left her.

Now, this last one is going to be very stupid. I wrote Cambridge IGCSE exams and we had to come back during the summer for a learning extension. We came with mufti and it was fun. But my focus in this part is on two people. The most popular boy in my class and the hottest girl. They were dating at the time. I began to notice the girl and I hadn't talked much to her before that time. However, during one chemistry class, we suddenly began paper chatting and I jokingly indicated interest. She didn't discourage me, so we kept on joking like that and I even got to touch her sometimes (nothing intense). She had a huge backside and that was why I call her the hottest, not too beautiful but a good figure.

That summer, her boyfriend broke up with her. He was my classmate and a good friend. He kept me out of trouble whenever guys wanted to deal with me and I made him laugh and we had a good conversation. We were not close but just there. When we came back to school, I started simping because I had spent my summer holiday chatting with her and thinking about her. In school, we got close and even kissed after some time. However, I noticed that she didn't want to date me. Remember, I'm the shortest boy in the class, so her case would have been understandable if she didn't want to date me. (Hypergamy at its finest, she broke up with her tall, sporty boyfriend and was using the short nerd as her support. I didn't just know this back then.) I noticed that I started focusing on her alone and stopped interacting much with other girls. (Scarcity mindset). I fed her so much attention that I was constantly thinking about her even when I was reading. From the outside, it looked like we were dating but only I and maybe her girlfriends knew what was going on behind the scenes. Till today, I get texts from my juniors and classmates asking how I got her. I thought I could change her and make her love me (Cap'n Save A Hoe) but despite my trials, it never worked.

She started getting interested in her ex and he started talking to her again. It made me feel sad and heartbroken but anytime I tried to stop, I always went back. I actually reduced my reading and became solely focused on her. But one thing I noticed was that anytime I was angry with her or I stopped giving her attention, she started disturbing me and making me feel special. I always asked to do shows with her but she never really got around to doing it with me. This was someone that had done everything except penetrative sex with her boyfriend (anal sex inclusive, most couples in our set did all kinds of crazy stuff. The only reason they didn't have sex was fear of pregnancy and the virgin issue). As time went on, I couldn't leave her even if I tried because I was so invested in her and I just couldn't. She eventually did shows with her boyfriend again and I would go on writing heartbreak poems and listen to Juice Wrld. Whenever other girls wanted to smash or were interested, I turned them down and made a big show of loving her because I expected her to do the same.

My newfound knowledge has made me know that women do not think as logically as men. They are wired to love you based on how you make them feel and no matter what you do, you aren't changing her. I wish I knew that then, I would have been a better person then. I still did well in academics but I stopped writing, became solely focused on searching the net for how to please women, etc. It was getting bad for me. While others were sneaking into girls' hostel and vice versa to do shows, I'd watch as the ex got to do shows with her and she'd act normal like nothing happened. Whenever I raised the topic, she was an expert at deflecting from the point and she wanted it both ways. I have no doubt that if I was taller and more masculine, I'd have her in my pockets, but I wasn't unfortunately. That's why she always went back to her ex for shows and used me for attention. The ex even advised me and told me that I was giving her too much attention, told me to limit it and focus on myself and I'd get here but I didn't seem to understand.

What I've learned here is true, we have to be masculine. Not only for females but for ourselves. I got pushed aside and bullied (not as intense as you might be imagining) because I wasn't masculine enough. I just let things go and gave them more opportunities to continue. I wish I had known about the red pill then.

Lastly, she even smashed her best friend (male) and that's when I saw how stupid I had been. I stopped talking to her but I couldn't gain back my lost year of school. Till today, I have some regrets but I'm better of now than I was before. I was even two years younger than her actually. I completely ghosted her after graduation but after some months, she hit me up on Snapchat and we've been talking. Things have changed and I've stopped pedestalizing her. I don't hate her or women in general. I'm not a misogynist but when you understand that you should hate the game not the player, you'd be more rational. Also, you might think this is nothing compared to what you have been discussing previously but for someone as inexperienced as me, this is a big deal. I lost my time and misplaced my priorities when I was supposed to be looking out for myself. I used to imagine dying for her then. Whenever I remember those days, I feel stupid.

Why did I post this? To give you a perspective of a teenager's view on inter-gender dynamics and to offer some advice. Everything about the red pill is actually true and has occurred at some point in my life, I just didn't acknowledge it. Girls at a young age want someone masculine and older to make them feel more feminine (They date seniors and older boy), they are hypergamous (searching for boys with more status, money, and power), they are emotionally manipulative (I was a victim), you can't save them (It's better you don't try), etc. We should all try to introduce this younger generation to the red pill because the way things are going, it's going to go downhill very soon.

I know this post is extremely long and it might offend some people, but I hope some others will see something to benefit from the post. I couldn't type everything I wanted to but I hope I got something through. This forum is actually a blessing to a lot of people. Men have to watch each other's backs nowadays. Women already have this inborn instinct in them and that's why they have each other's backs. Just like a cartel. We should try to spread the redpill as much as we can, I already do my part and I have saved some simps from ruin. Forgive the length of the post, it actually covers my 2000 words a day writing policy and I've even exceeded it.

Cheers.

Raalsalghul:
I can't argue with this.

Tis just what it is bro...Lemme give you an example of my personal experience...I was high-flying,high achieving and sh**t but then I f**ked it up due to being a bloody f**king simp...I lost my job...My apartment...My sanity...almost my life. In the blue simp world,that was me done....Finished...No matter how you try to swallow the redpill at that point, you get regrets and recriminations...With Red pill You learn your lessons but how do you get back on the horse? How do you get back to the glory days?? How do you navigate the intricacies of the modern society with redpilled lenses I tell you what I did...I used Game...It has placed me in a good place..Far beyond my wildest dreams...In a space of 6 years, I lost everything...But with Game, in a space of 2 and half years I got it all back and more.