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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:25pm On Jun 30, 2021
DEMZEE:


Lolzz..

Pseudo masculine hybrid beast women who are career driven are unattractive and useless wen it comes to understanding the masculine journey and masculine problems

That sounds immature and dumb to me honestly, leave NL and get a job and you will see how things unfold really. Nobody cares about male journey other than what skills you have to offer and if you have value., you think a man cares about a man's journey.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by DEMZEE(m): 5:26pm On Jun 30, 2021
Kaybae:
Platonic ko, small time they will start having stupid feelings, "I like how she walks","I like how she laughs" if na married man his wife don enter am bi that.

Exactly!
Men and women can't be platonic friends
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:26pm On Jun 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Rarely do they do so hence the odds of them aiding you compared to the value you give them is insignificant

Wrong
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jun 30, 2021
qtguru:


Wrong



Biology supercedes psychology
Your mindset can't fight evolutionary realities

Facts is Facts

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by DEMZEE(m): 5:29pm On Jun 30, 2021
qtguru:


That sounds immature and dumb to me honestly, leave NL and get a job and you will see how things unfold really. Nobody cares about male journey other than what skills you have to offer and if you have value., you think a man cares about a man's journey.

My point is that if you are in a relationship with a woman never tell ur woman ur problems. Don't b vulnerable to her period!

Now most men are keeping female friends because they want to smash them but they are passing through the friendzone. A man who knows his worth won't give a woman his non sexual qualities hoping to receive sex from the said "friend" woman period!

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:29pm On Jun 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Biology supercedes psychology
Your mindset can't fight evolutionary realities

Facts is Facts

Well sorry but I do not believe that, worked with various women and men and I know this is fallacious. But then again we all have different experiences, so to each their own. But personally I do not believe such
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jun 30, 2021
qtguru:


Well sorry but I do not believe that, worked with various women and men and I know this is fallacious. But then again we all have different experiences, so to each their own. But personally I do not believe such

Do you understand the meaning of platonic friends a lady can be your colleague that doesn't mean she's your bestie

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:32pm On Jun 30, 2021
DEMZEE:


My point is that if you are in a relationship with a woman never tell ur woman ur problems. Don't b vulnerable to her period!

Now most men are keeping female friends because they want to smash them but they are passing through the friendzone. A man who knows his worth won't give a woman his non sexual qualities hoping to receive sex from the said "friend" woman period!

Then what's the point of being in a relationship with a woman if you cannot share your problems, Men and women who have nothing to offer to you will leave you when you are down. I tell my , my problems and if she wants to walk, she is free, I am not losing sleep over anyone. Your doctrines are toxic, alot of women and men are not that malicious as you paint them and those that are, are easy to decipher.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:33pm On Jun 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:


Do you understand the meaning of platonic friends a lady can be your colleague that doesn't mean she's your bestie

I have a female best friend 20 years plus and we don't have sex because there is more to friendship than sex. Your generation has misplaced priorities and too hyper-sexual

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by MeghaneMorgane(f): 5:34pm On Jun 30, 2021
I share the same view with these ladies. I prefer having male friends than female friend. All the people I kept in touch with after my NYSC are all guys, I prefer to work around guys and I thank God that my profession gives me that opportunity. I have only 2 close female friends and the rest of my close friends are guys.

I hate the competition ladies like to have among themselves. I hate the arguments and reading meaning to every single thing. I love being around guys too.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by pocohantas(f): 5:35pm On Jun 30, 2021
Maybe when I was younger it felt cool to have many male friends…calling, texting, checking up on you and taking you for lunch. Generally giving you attention that females can’t give you. There is really nothing special most girls who claim to prefer male friends discuss with them. You don’t even know ManU’s captain. So?

Now I am older, there is really no time for such. I have few friends, male and female. For the guys, I get their male perspective on things or ask them things men should generally have more ideas on. Like the day I was struggling with my laptop (you know say me and computer na enemies), I called a friend and he guided me.

As of today, 30th June, 2021. Any male friend I am still in contact with is a special one to me. I don’t need urgent 2k, I don’t need my phone ringing per second, I don’t need anyone distracting me, I don’t need anyone to help me start gen, I don’t need anyone to drive me to anywhere. I am committed to one man. When you get to that stage as a woman, you will know. If they call you angel for road sef, you go just start to vex.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by DEMZEE(m): 5:37pm On Jun 30, 2021
qtguru:


Then what's the point of being in a relationship with a woman if you cannot share your problems, Men and women who have nothing to offer to you will leave you when you are down. I tell my , my problems and if she wants to walk, she is free, I am not losing sleep over anyone. Your doctrines are toxic, alot of women and men are not that malicious as you paint them and those that are, are easy to decipher.

Women are designed and wired to deserve and respect men who are superior to them in every area of life period!

Women are not built to handle masculine problems and cannot lead men especially in a relationship.
Men lead
Women follow

Telling her ur problems shows weakness and trigger her hypergamy antenna to monkey branch to a more strong man than u.
Once she emasculates herself she will reduce u to the wife role.

Women can't love men they don't respect period!

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by HabaHaba: 5:38pm On Jun 30, 2021
Augla1:
Okada, just stop me here. I no go anywhere again.
Take... Just hold the change. Go go go...

Wehdone bro. Na una dey make us still dey enjoy NL.

I love that creativity!!!

Kip it Up bro

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Todayswind(f): 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
It's life
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by DEMZEE(m): 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I share the same view with these ladies. I prefer having male friends than female friend. All the people I kept in touch with after my NYSC are all guys, I prefer to work around guys and I thank God that my profession gives me that opportunity. I have only 2 close female friends and the rest of my close friends are guys.

I have the competition ladies like to have among themselves. I hate the arguments and reading meaning to every single thing. I love being around guys too.

Ladies are smart, they understand men's nature more than most men sef

Receiving nonsexual qualities from men but never giving said men their pussy....interesting

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I share the same view with these ladies. I prefer having male friends than female friend. All the people I kept in touch with after my NYSC are all guys, I prefer to work around guys and I thank God that my profession gives me that opportunity. I have only 2 close female friends and the rest of my close friends are guys.

I have the competition ladies like to have among themselves. I hate the arguments and reading meaning to every single thing. I love being around guys too.


Guys want sex
Ladies want attention

The reason why they hang out with you is because they want to have sex but they don't know how to go about it, hence they give you free validation , attention and sometimes resources wasting their most precious asset their time without getting pussy

These an evolutionary fact

Biology trumps psychology
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by neyyoh: 5:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
Stop promoting this blog, it's leftist crap.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Jrevelation(m): 5:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
please I need application to spy on my wife phone most especially that Whatsapp ,she is always on that WhatsApp
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
Todayswind:
It's life


No
Women are good at using men and wasting their time without giving them what they want the most PUSSY
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by rosalieene(f): 5:40pm On Jun 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:




Men and women can't be Friends
We are hardwired to want sex from women, any of your male friends are just patiently waiting for sex, the moment you are weak and you slip up they won't waste time


Right now they are giving you free attention, validation, time, energy and probably resources without getting what they really want sex
Lol, everyone can't be pervert-Minded. You ought to know that.
I have some close Male friends I can comfortably pour out my pains to and they would give me the comfort words I need.
The way you place yourself is the way you will be valued. They all know that I am a no nonsense and highly principled person, so they know their limit.
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Ayo2004: 5:41pm On Jun 30, 2021
This happens only in secondary school and year one
Once I enter 200 level,na Toto or nothing grin

Coming back when this thread reaches page 10

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:41pm On Jun 30, 2021
DEMZEE:


Women are designed and wired to deserve and respect men who are superior to them in every area of life period!

Women are not built to handle masculine problems and cannot lead men especially in a relationship.
Men lead
Women follow

Telling her ur problems shows weakness and trigger her hypergamy antenna to monkey branch to a more strong man than u.
Once she emasculates herself she will reduce u to the wife role.

Women can't love men they don't respect period!

Everybody has problems in this world, If I cannot tell my babe or wife my problems then that's a problem. it is not a curse but the most of you cannot move forward with this type of mindset. You need to have that mindset that not all Women are like that and some are reasonable. But it's you people's life. The way the world works we all need people in our lives, it's up to you to determine which friend is worth being in yours.

If I mention what ladies have done for me, you will say I am capping, so no point, I have mentioned owing my career to a lady friend who recommended me for a job to a friend. If i had your mentality I will never move forward in life. I've reported to a lady boss and work with numerous women on projects. Most of you are no where in life to have this kind of mindset. My prayers goes to you all sha
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Ishilove: 5:43pm On Jun 30, 2021
pocohantas:
Maybe when I was younger it felt cool to have many male friends…calling, texting, checking up on you and taking you for lunch. Generally giving you attention that females can’t give you. There is really nothing special most girls who claim to prefer male friends discuss with them. You don’t even know ManU’s captain. So?

Now I am older, there is really no time for such. I have few friends, male and female. For the guys, I get their male perspective on things or ask them things men should generally have more ideas on. Like the day I was struggling with my laptop (you know say me and computer na enemies), I called a friend and he guided me.

As of today, 30th June, 2021. Any male friend I am still in contact with is a special one to me. I don’t need urgent 2k, I don’t need my phone ringing per second, I don’t need anyone distracting me, I don’t need anyone to help me start gen, I don’t need anyone to drive me to anywhere. I am committed to one man. When you get to that stage as a woman, you will know. If they call you angel for road sef, you go just start to vex.
Preach cheesy
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by HabaHaba: 5:44pm On Jun 30, 2021
pansophist:
I've met women that prefer friendship with men than fellow women, but I've never met men that prefer friendship with women than fellow men.

Pure lies!

I am one male that enjoys the friendship of females.
At work my best friend is a married female and we have never done anything romantic ever! In fact, she is a Muslim woman with l kids.

Also, I have 2 other female friends that we enjoy hanging out together without romance, whatsoever.

I do have some gfs that we get romantically entangled, but all in all I enjoy female friendships more.

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by neighbourhud: 5:45pm On Jun 30, 2021
Augla1:
Okada, just stop me here. I no go anywhere again.
Take... Just hold the change. Go go go...
.you don vex cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by theoneJabulani(m): 5:45pm On Jun 30, 2021
Jrevelation:
please I need application to spy on my wife phone most especially that Whatsapp ,she is always on that WhatsApp
I know a walk around but my advice, don't waste your time on opening Pandora's box. Do your best and leave the rest

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 30, 2021
rosalieene:

Lol, everyone can't be pervert-Minded. You ought to know that.
I have some close Male friends I can comfortably pour out my pains to and they would give me the comfort words I need.
The way you place yourself is the way you will be valued. They all know that I am a no nonsense and highly principled person, so they know their limit.


Exactly they are placed in the boundaries you set for them, they are not perverted, they are just being men, we have sexual drives and we want to fvck anything in skirt, what's stopping us is fear of rejection hence they don't approach women directly but indirectly through the friendszone thinking they will get sex once the ladies guard is down


Men's problem ought to be discussed with men not women and vice versa

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by neighbourhud: 5:46pm On Jun 30, 2021
HabaHaba:


Wehdone bro. Na una dey make us still dey enjoy NL.

I love that creativity!!!

Kip it Up bro

Honestly...he made me laff cheesy
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by Nobody: 5:47pm On Jun 30, 2021
HabaHaba:


Pure lies!

I am one male that enjoys the friendship of females.
At work my best friend is a married female and we have never done anything romantic ever! In fact, she is a Muslim woman with l kids.

Also, I have 2 other female friends that we enjoy hanging out together without romance, whatsoever.

I do have some gfs that we get romantically entangled, but all in all I enjoy female friendships more.



Women are not built to understand masculine problems

They just use men for free attention which they value the most
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by DEMZEE(m): 5:49pm On Jun 30, 2021
qtguru:


Everybody has problems in this world, If I cannot tell my babe or wife my problems then that's a problem. it is not a curse but the most of you cannot move forward with this type of mindset. You need to have that mindset that not all Women are like that and some are reasonable. But it's you people's life. The way the world works we all need people in our lives, it's up to you to determine which friend is worth being in yours.

If I mention what ladies have done for me, you will say I am capping, so no point, I have mentioned owing my career to a lady friend who recommended me for a job to a friend. If i had your mentality I will never move forward in life. I've reported to a lady boss and work with numerous women on projects. Most of you are no where in life to have this kind of mindset. My prayers goes to you all sha

So in conclusion women built ur status and world for u lolzzzz

Mister, men and women can't be platonic friends if u are not fvcking her then u are her girlfriend PERIODT!!!

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Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by qtguru(m): 5:50pm On Jun 30, 2021
DEMZEE:


Women are designed and wired to deserve and respect men who are superior to them in every area of life period!

Women are not built to handle masculine problems and cannot lead men especially in a relationship.
Men lead
Women follow

Telling her ur problems shows weakness and trigger her hypergamy antenna to monkey branch to a more strong man than u.
Once she emasculates herself she will reduce u to the wife role.

Women can't love men they don't respect period!

lol Believe what you want o, I just hope you put this much energy to other aspect of life like Career Improvement and Skills Dev. Because newsflash no ones respects a loser, doesn't take RP to know that
Re: 7 Nigerian Women On Platonic Friendships With Men by ikechukwu21(m): 5:50pm On Jun 30, 2021
ZUKKYY:
Loading..... Most of my friends are females. The prefer male friends den female
* see AW

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