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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Brushstrokes20: 12:53am On Jul 01, 2021

The bitch belongs to the streets, let her go!

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by PrinceOfLagos: 12:57am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:
forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous

You're shameless

Habba

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by LegitLexLuthor(m): 1:12am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

yeah, he must definitely learn how to forgive and let go so he won't get stuck with a hoe who's still hoeing around despite the fact that she's about to get married.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by LegitLexLuthor(m): 1:16am On Jul 01, 2021

Your friend should break up the whole thing asap. There should be consequences for such behaviour, they're too many good women out there to be stuck with a hoe.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Raph3177(m): 1:37am On Jul 01, 2021

[quote author=HRHQueenPhil post=103205425]

U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery grin

;
this is bullshit.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Raph3177(m): 1:41am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

For your own good dump the immature old slag that sees nothing wrong with what she have done, U can’t start marriage in a cheating foundation. Boredom kill her there

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Galaxybar: 1:45am On Jul 01, 2021

Yoighaman:

Please permit me to ask you a question: In which country do you reside?

Obodo Nigeria.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by BigDick70inch(m): 1:46am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

If u say so, all I know is many men cheat as well, let's stop all this pretense

Fool.....
Thought u was a born again.....
Is supporting a cheat and hurting the innocent ones part of what u were made to believe??

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by AfroKnight: 1:46am On Jul 01, 2021

I don laff tire. Men for this thread no get joy. cheesy

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Jonathan39: 1:48am On Jul 01, 2021

Which one is okafors law Again grin

Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Raph3177(m): 1:48am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:
forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous

Stop commenting u disgust me from afar with your initial comment smh foolish slag

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Nobody: 1:48am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

The Ex definitely smashed.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by ajenbo2: 1:48am On Jul 01, 2021

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVB1dAs89x0

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by brightalo1010: 1:50am On Jul 01, 2021

So when people that are getting married are bored they goes to there ex? She's not even shameful to say such a disgusting thing. If na new guy she went visit I for listen to her small but you see ex things the triangle no dey finish they'll find a way to be communicating and mocking you, she will be sending him money and making him happy, Thank God for revealing this secret to the guy now but if he eventually go ahead with the marriage that one na his concern. As for me it is all over.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Netmuch(m): 1:51am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Its unfare go her ex house to do wetin, to register her NIN or wetin? Women wicked o

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Raph3177(m): 1:52am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous.. it's so disgusting .can we stop pretending

I have never come across a girl so dumb and retard like u it’s obvious u are one very low life girl spit how can u be using one line to reply everybody telling u truth jeez what a girl Godforbid say I quote u again u are not worth it Ashawo

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Kayyus09(m): 1:57am On Jul 01, 2021

If he stands his ground to move on, he's justified.

But then, how long will it take him to settle for another lady?

And this shouldn't shock you as a real Nigerian (pretence aside), more than 90% of our ladies engage in such act.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by November24(f): 1:58am On Jul 01, 2021

Ewizard:

Yes, we can.

Can you stop being stupid?

No I doubt.

Apt... E enter well well.
I wanted cursing the bitch

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by LoveThemChubby(m): 2:00am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Typical Nigerian women mindset of wanting to eat their cake and still have it. I guess you didn't read where he said he said he wanted her to change her contact but she refused.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by November24(f): 2:01am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

As far as she said she did not sleep with him, I don't see why u can't trust her..den don't bother entering into relationship becos trust is essential..u can chastise her for going there not breaking d marriage

You are no queen who"re

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Galaxybar: 2:02am On Jul 01, 2021

PlanktonX:

If only you know what the devil has in stock for that guy...at that stage of relationship, a lady is still visiting an Ex.

Every Ex has the power to bind and loose. This is not about a matter of forgiveness but lack of adherence to the principle that guide relationship.

It's like getting born again in the morning and visiting an old Olosho friend in the evening because you are bored.

Flee from all appearance of evil... not evil here, but simply an appearance.

I’m sorry but I don’t quite agree with some things you’ve said. The ex was definitely not an appearance of evil to her so she went there. Was it indiscretional, definitely! But is it enough to end a relationship when there was no confirmation of cheating? No!

The power to bind and lose lies with God first, then your own self. That is why we are individually responsible for our salvation.

An ex is an ex in my dictionary. True, there are one or two I will never be caught with alone, not because of how I feel but because I know they still have a soft spot for me. While there is one I’m still friends with today because we realized this romance thing wasn’t working for us and we ended it and became friends. Life is what you make of it.

I’m not excusing that it was improper to go to his house but you shouldn’t assume there was a sinister reason or intention behind it. Not every relationship between a man and woman, at that age for that matter, must be sexual.

He could simply have let her know exes are a huge no for him and they can move forward peacefully with that. Unless there is a threat to my life and loved ones, I can’t destroy my number I’ve used for over 10 years just because of distrust. That was him taking it too far.

I believe they’re too old for this level of immaturity displayed. If they truly love and respect each other, they can mend this with a honest conversation, get married and build a honest life together. They’re too old to make this an issue. A simple “I don’t like you visiting your ex because it’s a trigger for me” from him and her simply apologizing and reassuring him of her fidelity would have ended this matter. It irritates me to see grown men and women act like teenagers.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Galaxybar: 2:06am On Jul 01, 2021

HajiaNotu:

Thank you for this piece.You took it straight out of my mind..Like if you cant trust your partner to some extent, theres really no point thinking of marriage...Moreover, the lady must have told the guy herself...people just give theirselves migrane where theres no issue at all.

You’re welcome Hajia. I’m inclined to believe this story is manufactured because it’s just ridiculous! Extreme reaction to a very straightforward issue. However the comments I’m reading are shocking and sad. I don’t want to believe the average Nigerian reasons this way. Let me just hold my circle tight if this is what outside looks like. Lol.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by iykololo(m): 2:15am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.
Hahahahahahhaahahahhahaahahahahaha
What should he do?

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by moshino(m): 2:19am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

Leave the girl immediately, she has no respect for him, and no loyalty to him. He should forget the girls in Nigeria, find himself a girl in America where he is, and marry her.

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Clinton207: 2:22am On Jul 01, 2021

Hmmm, this one is strong, men do worse but not all men does so, there are still men out there that respects God,their relationships and honesty.
The case here is,there is every tendency that this lady's visit will continue anytime she is bored.
Bro find another person abeg!

HRHQueenPhil:
forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Nobody: 2:33am On Jul 01, 2021

Galaxybar:

You’re welcome Hajia. I’m inclined to believe this story is manufactured because it’s just ridiculous! Extreme reaction to a very straightforward issue. However the comments I’m reading are shocking and sad. I don’t want to believe the average Nigerian reasons this way. Let me just hold my circle tight if this is what outside looks like. Lol.

It’s obvious you don’t know why most of the comments are from males and why they are against the lady’s action. Most of these male commenters are the “exes” the story is talking about.

I hope you get the point now? grin

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Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by bellotaofeek: 2:46am On Jul 01, 2021

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marria
ge life on a wrong foundation. At The same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

He should walk away. If he didn't want to raise bastards as kids. My view ! angry

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Takeoff8832(m): 2:46am On Jul 01, 2021

“Learn how to forgive”

? Nigga are you for real this is something about cheating if she did shit after all she is engaged she’ll definitely invite her ex to their matrimonial House or Visit him again when she is Bored. Nigga should get another Woman cause she belongs to the street.

HRHQueenPhil:

U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Emekayoung(m): 2:48am On Jul 01, 2021

HRHQueenPhil:

U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Don't be supporting what is wrong. How can the lady visit her Ex boyfriend after being engaged by a man who has made plans to marry her? Is that right? What are you even saying? She is unserious. What tha hell is that? Nobody can tolerate such rubbish,not even you. So stop saying trash. That's a high level of insult to the guy intending to marry her.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Emekayoung(m): 2:51am On Jul 01, 2021

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

Definitely she still can't get over her Ex,so she visited to bang him before the intending guy finally takes her to the alter. Even if my Ex visits me I will definitely bang her very well. It's sure and certain.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Happy2020: 2:58am On Jul 01, 2021

Why bother marrying a useless Nigerian girl that is probably hoeing around. Why? I’m baffled.

Re: His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend's House To Visit After Engagement by Galaxybar: 3:04am On Jul 01, 2021

Carchoice:

It’s obvious you don’t know why most of the comments are from males and why they are against the lady’s action. Most of these male commenters are the “exes” the story is talking about.

I hope you get the point now?

Lol. I still don’t oh. A few anonymous commenters who may not even be up to the legal drinking age are not enough to be the standard to judge the thoughts and actions of everyone. Lots of people hide under anonymity to do and say the most. Catch them outside and they’re probably the opposite of what they represent here.

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