gregyboy:



Can you imagine!!!

What you are saying babe try this thing with any guy, and give him this excuse

After all my expenses and all i get inreturn his to be giving her benefit of doubt that she didn't cheat on me....

brosom:
Abeg no dey talk like pikin here, u ur self u fit forgive ur wife to be is she sleeps around?

People go juts dey claim maturity, meanwhile they're worst of it.

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

HRHQueenPhil:
she made a mistake but a man dat loves, trust and understand his woman won't tink she went there for fvcking sessions,

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

HRHQueenPhil:


Men cheat all the time, no body even hears it outside , u did not find d woman cheating , yet so upset and breaking everything..it's fine, when u learn the concept of love, forgiveness trust and understand ur partner then broach d subject of marriage again

Uniquekriss:
what are u saying, this is broad day light cheating, please reason well.

Nonexistent:
Your friend did the right thing by canceling the wedding plans. The olosho went to sleep with her exboyfriend. Next thing is to be pregnant for him. I wonder why they are even coming back to marry these oloshos when they can easily marry girls from other countries.

Ororocelemi:

Madam you have been typing rubbish since the post came on, i wish your guy was online to see the type of girl he is dating.
I believe your type bleeps and spend the cash made from it on your guy.
Total Street, Away with your forgiveness biko!

hedocharles:




You are just as foolish as that girl.

Fiscus105:



Okafor law is real and alive, u urself know that.

Did u expect her to confess she slept with her ex?

According to my chart with few of my exes, I think 95% of my exes both married and single, if I want to bang I will re-bang easily, the remaining 5% who are giving me attitude online and it was due to how we parted, if we oppottuned to see physically , in Sha alahu I shall re-bang.

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Galaxybar:


The Nigeria I know there are lots of good girls, desperate girls even that are ready to tattoo “taken” on their foreheads or commit murder to get wifed.

For a man pushing forty, I found it sad that he was ready to call off his engagement because she visited her ex. If you are ready to marry a man or woman, you should have some faith in their character and such things shouldn’t be grounds to break up UNLESS you confirm something sinister did take place.

I simply feel the could have expressed his displeasure with the visit and she could have apologized and noted it as part of the things that trigger him. I honestly feel this story is made up and will not be acknowledging it anymore. It’s too unrealistic.

Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thong for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.

HRHQueenPhil:



As far as she said she did not sleep with him, I don't see why u can't trust her..den don't bother entering into relationship becos trust is essential..u can chastise her for going there not breaking d marriage

lilvicky68:
Maybe she went to do send forth..

HRHQueenPhil:



Unfortunately for u, I would kiss my man all over his head if he tells me d truth about we're he went and let him introduce me to her so I can observe for myself.i won't dare to agree to marry someone I don't love, trust and understand

Gbeng30:




I'm sure she went there to bid him farewell with some Mouth Action and f**k experience

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

MrDoGood:


Are you thinking properly?

HRHQueenPhil:
. Be careful with running into conclusion, no one caught them fuking..may someone not accuse u falsely like this becos u told d truth

Uniquekriss:
there's no justification for anyone who is engaged visiting an ex with whom she must have had sexual intercourse. The tendency to have sex with the person is 98% high especially when the visit took place in the house

na2016:


One of the things I know about life is that it is beyond ranting on social media. AT the right time, when you understand life, certain rubbish you write here, you will withdraw them.