Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thong for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.

HRHQueenPhil:


U have a great mind, therefore learn the concept of love, forgiveness trust and understand ur partner..don't enter into marriage if this does not exist cos tests like this will come

rosalieene:
I see no reason why a lady whose wedding plans are already in full motion would pay a visit to her EX especially one of that age.
That was a risky game. OP if you're the man in question, forgive her.

HRHQueenPhil:


forgiveness is a rare virtue and d secret to many lasting relationship, men do worse so it's not becos they are not caught that makes them righteous.. how do u know she is a runs girl.running ur mouth like a boy

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

IbnBattuta1960:

I don't want to believe that you are the monster you are trying to portray.
How can she go to her ex's house? To play ludo? She has no regards for the relationship and as such be disengaged.

uthlaw:
she actually visited her ex,so if he trust her,he should not believe she visited her ex!

HRHQueenPhil:
u are a neon light..the light of the world..learn not to accuse falsely ..u won't experience such IJN amen

Fiscus105:


Inform her fiance that she bored and it's her ex that can wipe out her boredom?

Aunty you are old but reason like kid clown.

You ask urself out of hundreds of females in neighbourhood it's only ex that she can visit to whirl away time?

In the church or mosque she attend among her colegues or co tenant /neighbour no single female to make friend and visit?

If she is ur brother fiancee u will approve it to visit her ex?

You girls should endeavour to reason like adult for once at least to shave all those who tag women with fish brain

Juliearth:




I think since you see me as someone way older than you are, it is possible that I am old enough to be your mother. Since you have the nerve to call someone old enough to be your mother a kid, it means I cannot school or try to change you via this platform. I cannot achieve what your parents, religious leaders and academic teachers could not impart in you all these years at a go

Fiscus105:


I guess u re there the day I was born, for ur information you can't never old enof to be in my age bracket.
I just called you old cos u still reason better than many urchins here on nairaland.

Going back to real issue, change me? How? What a self adulation ! Pls stop raising shoulder .


U can only give what u have , with ur comment u have nothing upstair.

A lady who advices an engaged lady to tell her fiance that she wants to visit her ex bcoz of lonneless. What foolish advise from a retarded fish brain hole!

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

IbnBattuta1960:

Six hundred and seventy-something.
Tueh to such thinking

Belafonte:
I don't understand why Nigerian men in the diaspora think it's a good thing to come marry wives from Nigeria. It is always a foolish thing.

Nigerian women are extremely sexually active, and I can just imagine the body count of a 33 year old Nigerian woman. This kind of woman cannot stay unsexed for more than a few weeks at most.

Stop fooling yourselves. If she's not a virgin don't bother coming to pick a Nigerian wife. If you cannot marry a woman in your immediate environment, you don't deserve to have a wife.

Hopefully, other men learn from this unfortunate episode



You're either trolling or naive. The mature thong for him to do is actually cancel marriage plans and move on. The woman has no business visiting men behind closed doors, least of all her ex boyfriend.

lapazi:


Na cruise I dey o
I was even the 666th like

Tueh

Womanizer:
I'm sure the friend activated Okafor's Law when the babe came to visit him

HRHQueenPhil:


Let's stop jumping into conclusion and not giving the woman a benefit of doubt..many pple are still friends with their ex and can chill at their place without sex..I just feel God saved them from marrying d wrong person

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Any of my ex that comes to visit me in my house will be banged, no exceptions

andronite:
HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August. However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn't sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady's age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn't want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?

HRHQueenPhil:



As far as she said she did not sleep with him, I don't see why u can't trust her..den don't bother entering into relationship becos trust is essential..u can chastise her for going there not breaking d marriage

mu2sa2:
"Amy of..." How many ex's have you accumulated, Mr man? Keep on banging, you hear, until the banging strikes sense into your head.

Juliearth:



Is that what you were able to deduce from my assertion?

LordReed:


No be you bring fight com? I dey on my own jeje, you com bring your mouth.

uthlaw:
what I actually figured out about female gender is that,they must surely support themselves even if it is a killing issue....so I don't and I can't never followed any advice from them!

HRHQueenPhil:


U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery