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DriveByKiller:
you be animal and Jezebel.

I wish I can tag your photo to this post so than any man who married you will know what to expect from a senseless rebellious drab like you.

Foolish nanny goat when think say she's sensible.

Are you ok all? Is anything wrong with you mentally?

What is wrong in going to Dominion City? Did the man not know about that before he started wooing and eventually married her?

Why are you being rude and silly?...and what’s all these being submissive bla bla bla...so if he husband attends Guru Maharaji or some Faith tabernacle down the road, it automatically means the woman will follow suit??

Why shouldn’t the man attend dominion city?
Give me one reason.

If this woman was my sister, I’d advise her to pull out from that marriage if this will cause her misery. Wtf.

Lastly, you are silly for trying to bully, intimidate and threaten her online. You are a coward for doing that.

davies:
If your mind isn't there my sister just keep attending your Dominion city. Those that worship God, worship him in spirit and truth.
I use to be a minister in RCCG but was brot up in Foursquare, after many years not actually finding the inner quest of worship with my creator at RCCG,
I had to return to my Foursquare Gospel Church & now I find peace, love and fellowship among my brethren

she'll find peace, love and fellowship very soon from a pastor or brother...make una dey advice nonsense...so she can't get peace, love, blablabla from her husband bah.

Ah. Bless heavens say two of us na antichrist. We can’t relate. Follow your kind o.

Hello debby creamy,
i hope this meets you well.
I have gone through your posts and can tell you believe in the bible and its teachings.
You have to understand first that the success or failure of your home rests with you.
Secondly christ is the head of the man while the man is your head.
Thirdly God is not a confusionist.
Fourthly, through wisdom is an house built...
The issue is one of wisdom. Attend services online to boost your spirit then go with him to his church after. This is just my opinion.

Some women will be loyal, obeying and accepting everything without much quarrel until the man marry them, that's when they will start rejecting some of the things they didn't like initially. madam shey all through una courtship you never visit your husband church to know weda you will worship there or not. As far as I'm concerned oooo...woman no get church. how come your husband dey flow in spirit and you don't flow in the same church, abi your husband na unbeliever? or na you just decide to behave like that? Abeg make una go settle una matter by una self. after all no be by force to go church. you fit dey worship your own for radio

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

Your husband is not happy.
Know this and seek peace,except the marriage means nothing to you,because women nowadays nor send

speedyconnect3:


Your hubby is a pastor and you don't support him as mummy GO?

How would people have confidence in him if he can't influence his own wife to attend his church?

Or could it be that you know he is corrupt and it irritates you to see him preach what he doesn't act?


Well, what does a coconut head like me know if not to receive head from Chinenye and Bukola.

Let the man ministry start yeilding result, she will come around as mummy G O.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

I understand that feeling perfectly well.
I attend a small church somewhere on the island not because of its denominational name but because the teachings and spirituality. Its a redeem church and its far from where i stay and the road is nothing to write home about especially this rainy season but I'm always there because of the rare teachings and spiritual gains. I don't think ur husband is being fair if i should go by what u posted. Have u tried inviting him to ur own place of worship? No one is perfect but some people love the big, flashy churches, big name pastors and MOG's etc.. they basically love the idea of religion without the real ingredients. Try telling him why u can't continue worshipping in his church and inviting him over to urs wouldn't be a bad idea. If he is true to himself and not playing church to please the church hierarchy then I am 100% sure he would see what u see. I believe in worshipping together tho. Good luck

speedyconnect3:


Your hubby is a pastor and you don't support him as mummy GO?

How would people have confidence in him if he can't influence his own wife to attend his church?

Or could it be that you know he is corrupt and it irritates you to see him preach what he doesn't act?


Well, what does a coconut head like me know if not to receive head from Chinenye and Bukola.

Na business and madam no gbadu her hubby own business strategies.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

follow ur husband to his church or risk divorce, a friendly advise

If you can not.agree with your husband where to worship, you guys will disagree on every important thing in your lives. Another thing is both of you will soon stop serving God.

Mmm it's a tough challenge, I understand to you really something that ur not used to, but I really feel that u should have been attending his church before marriage and should have easily detected the issue, but never the less, u should have a heart to heart talk with ur husband, if u don't want to follow him to his church u are an adult let him know that , he doesn't have right to stop u from any church u wish to attend, but u should also consider that ur family might break if u take that stance, so I think it's better if u get elderly people to reason with him, let him know that I could still work, u have seen families with different religion entirely talk less of just different churches, if u really want to save ur marriage just let him understand with love and not by force.[/color][color=#000099]

I understand u. I have been to both churches..

Try ur best, worship is a lifestyle.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

Not that I want to blame you here, but why didn't you discuss church with him before marriage, knowing both of you attended different churches? Were you not taught?

debbycreamy:
Thanks to the people that gave matured advice, someone said I can go to dominion city during weekdays service and redeem on Sundays, I think I'll discuss this with him and beg him to accept, nairalanders are cool, funny and few are annoying,

Thanks to everyone

Thank you for your understanding.It shows you are a good wife who is ready learn and be submissive.Truth be told not hurt men more than rebellious wife.Peace reign in your home and may Jezebels out there never see your husband..

If your work place transfers you to another state that doesn't have dominion city, will you leave the job because you want to keep on attending Dominion city?

I feel that you are not attached to Dominion City, you are attached to that specific branch you are attending. It happens, but you must be matured enough to know that change is constant.

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

Your husband is a pastor in a church and u attend another church?? That is totally unacceptable! Your husband is weak! & u are not a good wife! You are disgracing that man! I honestly feel for him.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

God is not the author of confusion.

It doesn't tell well of the marriage if you cannot agree on a church to attend.

Also, there are so many RCCG Parishes... Try to find one that suit you... And let your husband know this.

There is an instruction in RCCG, that members are free to attend the parish where they are most blessed. But if you feel after this you still cannot flow.... Then you have to work on your denominational/Religious mindset, and pray God to help you to be flexible.

What God join together, let no man (including you) put assunder.

You can communicate me for more specific counsel

stonemasonn:
she'll find peace, love and fellowship very soon from a pastor or brother...make una dey advice nonsense...so she can't get peace, love, blablabla from her husband bah.

....and the husband can’t get peace and love from his wife’s church??

Didn’t he see single women at RCCG??
What was he looking for with Dominion city woman?

I’m sure he would’ve attended lots of services with her during the early days.

What happened to finding love at RCCG?? or are the women not worthy to be his wife?

Your write up did not make sense, I don't think you are bible reader if you are you have understand that husband is the head of the family and also summits to your husband. Don't be brainwashed by any christian, follow your husband to his church

JesseJo:


You can see what some men are going through.

May God deliver us from non supportive spouses

I feel for that man. He always struggle to assert his leadership in that church, as unruly members will not hesitate to undermine his authority.
Except the woman does not believe in her husband's calling, she needs join him in attending the same congregation.

deepwater:


You just cool down to embarrass your husband for public and church because say him marry u.

Imagine a pastor wey him wife no dey come him church. Baba has our full support to tidy that choir mistress.

What nonsense is that!

I tell you baba...
Wicked women everywhere,he feeds your children with that Job. He's to do that for life.

That man is not a happy man,I can swear my life.

deepwater:
The bible says women should be submissive to their husband

You all above are submissive to your pastor


Woman wey dey jump from church to church na ashewo




You just cool down to embarrass your husband for public and church because say him marry u abi?

Imagine a pastor wey him wife no dey come him church. Baba has our full support to tidy that choir mistress.

What nonsense is that!

God bless u!
The bold is very shocking!!!
This is the first time I am hearing such!
How will a pastor's wife be attending another church?? I just feel for that man...

ekeneokwologu:
I attend Dc also. I can't leave dominion city church. I think he should follow u to dc and see things for himself. Dominion city church changed my life but financially and spiritually.

my friend if you don't have anything meaningful to say just shut up

debbycreamy:
Thanks to the people that gave matured advice, someone said I can go to dominion city during weekdays service and redeem on Sundays, I think I'll discuss this with him and beg him to accept, nairalanders are cool, funny and few are annoying,

Thanks to everyone

Bible admonishes wives to submit to their husband in all things. We can't obey God partially and want His blessings in full. Your blessings lie in obeying the Lord fully by submitting to your husband in all things. Peace!

Rubbiish:

Your husband is a pastor in a church and u attend another church?? That is totally unacceptable! Your husband is weak!

No sir,she is wicked.
The man is not weak.
See,when a woman knows you are born again and don't see divorce as an option,they treat you like shit because they know you can't drive them,the man is protecting his calling,being a pastor is not easy,people expect them to be blameless.
I was raised a Catholic,now I attend winners with my husband,I had to love the church cos I love my husband.

Your husband is your God first before the almighty.
If you don't want to marry and submit,stay single!!!

This marriage life isn't for everybody.

Religion has always been a problem in this part of the world!

I won't talk about the woman here because if I am to talk about the woman I will ask her to follow her husband's lead by following him to his church wether she likes the church or not but that won't go well with the woman's spiritual well-being .
So here I will talk about the man (husband). Sometimes husband's should try and be flexible and it rigid all the time. Your wife has told you countless time that she feels the fellowship more when she attends a particular church. Why can't the husband one day say ok let me even try this my wife church one day and see for my self what my wife has been talking about. You will be surprised that just this singular decision can change the man's whole life. I have seen husband's that their wives invited for a church program in her church and the man visited and became glued to the church and never went back to his formal church. My advise to men is, MEN learn to be flexible sometimes and not just rigid, rigid all the time

DriveByKiller:
you be animal and Jezebel.

I wish I can tag your photo to this post so than any man who married you will know what to expect from a senseless rebellious drab like you.

Foolish nanny goat when think say she's sensible.

I just had to read this thread with self control cos the way I'm so boiling reading through that trash.
She's a very foolish woman

KosiGee:
You


Are you ok all? Is anything wrong with you mentally?

What is wrong in going to Dominion City? Did the man not know about that before he started wooing and eventually married her?

Why are you being rude and silly?...and what’s all these being submissive bla bla bla...so if he husband attends Guru Maharaji or some Faith tabernacle down the road, it automatically means the woman will follow suit??

Why shouldn’t the man attend dominion city?
Give me one reason.

If this woman was my sister, I’d advise her to pull out from that marriage if this will cause her misery. Wtf.

Lastly, you are silly for trying to bully, intimidate and threaten her online. You are a coward for doing that.

you're a fool and a human debris! You get spiritual and digital ogbanje/abiku combined.

Your husband is your spiritual head! Any woman who rebels against her husband's spiritual authority is worse than a full-blown ashawo.

You be idiot sha....as your toto done scatter for lack of loyalty na so your spirit na slave and orphan for lack of submission

Daughter of perdition!

Now get out.

NewDawn2O21:
I just had to read this thread with self control cos the way I'm so boiling reading through that trash.
She's a very foolish woman

that's why I unleash curses on her.

What a bold ignorant fool.

debbycreamy:


Are u a kid? Or u don't read topics, u just jump and insult someone

you even deserved way more than insults.
You better delete this rubbish cos someone has already threaten to track you and put your pictures here so everyone can see you and take note of you