1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

DriveByKiller:
thunder carress your labia Majora there, idiot.

Na your type dey serve pastor 4 meat and give your husband 2.

Isn't your husband your covering and spiritual head? What kind of Bible do you read?

If you're not going to same church with your husband, you're a bloody rebel and an idiot.

What a bedazzled emboldened fool and spiritual olosho you be.

It won't be long before you transfer loyalty and obedience to your church leaders and Christian brothers above your husband.

It's just a matter of time.

You're sentimentally attached to your church and sacrificing your husband's authority and being very selfish.

If the man isn't a tolerant mugu, he should have kicked your wandering Jezebel ass into the curb a long time ago.

Abiku on the loose!

KosiGee:



One day, just one lucky day, you’ll take this online thuggery offline and your you’ll get the right baptism and sermon that will follow then you’ll be redeemed.

Keep wallowing in stupidity. You’ll be delivered when the time comes.

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

DriveByKiller:

Coming from the diseased orifice of Nairaland's bemedaled brainless and spiritually numb simpanzee.

Will you also shut up that septic tank you call mouth.

You be mumu...and I discovered you're a male.

What a waste of male headcount.

Witttyduchess:
me I feel say the pastor of that dominion church is the cause of this cos maybe the man dey dick am and also dey confuse the shameless woman.
See wetin man go pay bride price for come marry this kind thing put for house.
Tufiakwa

kilmot:
The truth is you understand your Bible upside down, it's not in place for him to force you, but my question to you is;

Where is the place of wives be submissive to your husbands?

Or is it that you've not read your Bible to that part?

At this point u disregard your husband and find it ok to bring it to us to help you disrespect your husband.
Wetin be my own.? Meanwhile

Franzinni:
God is not in a building folks ...

He lives in you!

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

Witttyduchess:
me I feel say the pastor of that dominion church is the cause of this cos maybe the man dey dick am and also dey confuse the shameless woman.
See wetin man go pay bride price for come marry this kind thing put for house.
Tufiakwa

Lamanii22:
Tell God to take control of his heart.... It's God that can help you in this case oo... Tell it to God

Well.......I see no reason why God sud be disturbed on this again.......

Didn't God say 2 shall become I(husband and wife).......don't u think bible was referring to being united........

Wife be submissive to yo husband....... What do u think that is

postmann:




Incredibly shocking! Real men have long left the planet.

1MinuteWithTina:
I totally get you.
My husband is one of the pastors in his church but I attend another. I do not 'feel' his church at all and I'm only happy when we shared the grace at the end so I left.
It also created brouhaha at the beginning but I told him I'd rather stay at home. He eventually let me be and I now attend another church.
You need to pray about it.

Beancounter93:
Well, the answer is clear here

(Warning....may not be pleasant)

Go to your husband's church.

1.The bible is very clear in many verses that the husband is the head of the household.And the wife is supposed to follow him in all duties.

As stated in Ephesians 5 vs 22-24



Thus it is clear that as you regard Jesus as your head, so also He has appointed your husband as your head.

It is painful, but as far as I know, the God that is moving in Dominion city is moving in Redeemed. The doctrines are basically similar. One should not necessarily attend a church because 'it is where i feel moved' but one should attend a church to fellowship with God and with other believers of the general household of faith.

Treat this experience as a means of learning humility.

2.Also, one other thing...why didn't you guys discuss this in your courtship period.? You should have thrashed the church and other issues then as well.


3.Finally, you and your husband should sit down and discuss the church matter well well. If at the end of the day he still insists on redemmed, then so be it. But there is a chance he might change church to yours. But before this discussion, pray that God's will be done....and don't force him or manipulate him, and he should also recall too that God has comanded him to love his wife too!

My advise.

Beancounter93:
Well, the answer is clear here

(Warning....may not be pleasant)

Go to your husband's church.

1.The bible is very clear in many verses that the husband is the head of the household.And the wife is supposed to follow him in all duties.


you mean all duties even when his attitude and ways of life is leading him to hell so wifes should just follow like zombies. for me salvation is personal bro and the word of God is a mistery that one need the guide of the holy spirit to understand it.

As stated in Ephesians 5 vs 22-24



Thus it is clear that as you regard Jesus as your head, so also He has appointed your husband as your head.

It is painful, but as far as I know, the God that is moving in Dominion city is moving in Redeemed. The doctrines are basically similar. One should not necessarily attend a church because 'it is where i feel moved' but one should attend a church to fellowship with God and with other believers of the general household of faith.

Treat this experience as a means of learning humility.

2.Also, one other thing...why didn't you guys discuss this in your courtship period.? You should have thrashed the church and other issues then as well.


3.Finally, you and your husband should sit down and discuss the church matter well well. If at the end of the day he still insists on redemmed, then so be it. But there is a chance he might change church to yours. But before this discussion, pray that God's will be done....and don't force him or manipulate him, and he should also recall too that God has comanded him to love his wife too!

My advise.

NewDawn2O21:
Shut up dumb ass

kilmot:
The truth is you understand your Bible upside down, it's not in place for him to force you, but my question to you is;

Where is the place of wives be submissive to your husbands?

Or is it that you've not read your Bible to that part?

At this point u disregard your husband and find it ok to bring it to us to help you disrespect your husband.
Wetin be my own.? Meanwhile

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

November24:


I have mature friends looking for husband they will worship... This one dey shakara

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

debbycreamy:
Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

ruggedtimi:
Talk true Na because for DC, females are allowed to wear trouser to church and RCCG does not allow such. ( personally I don't see anything wrong with a girl wearing trousers to church). I think DC is this modern type of church like house on the rock , salvation ministry , COZA, etc

November24:


I tell you baba...
Wicked women everywhere,he feeds your children with that Job. He's to do that for life.

That man is not a happy man,I can swear my life.

Generalnomercy:


Honestly, the truth is that after attending Dominion city church you can't feel like attending any other church because there is no church like DC because they have passion for excellence.

Secondly, the DC ministers are highly deviplined unlike in redeem that most of the pastors are either fraudsters, native doctors or con men who does not no God at all.

Convince your husband to attend DC for just one month and his life will never be the same.

Finally, as God to direct you and your family clearly.